Curious Minds ~ 2002 September
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    Barbara St. Aubrey
    August 31, 2002 - 07:23 pm
    Whheee did you have a good one? It may not have cooled off yet but it is definatly getting dark earlier - I've been feeding the deer all summer and I've noticed by 9:00 it is pitch dark where it was still light at 9:00 not too long ago.

    Well who wants to go first - I had some great times, mostly with family but I'll let you start us off.

    I can even remember a summer when I was 5 and both my family and my aunt and uncle and cousins went for a whole month into a rented cabin in the mountains - the fathers went back to work each Monday and came back up the mountain Friday nights. Great memeories of that summer - mostly remember the first Blackberry ice cream we ever had and hiking all singing 'The Bear Went Over the Mountain,' and my mother and my aunt being silly making hats after supper with the paper plates and tying pickles and other food onto the hat/plates.

    Swimming has always been part of my summer and this year no exception but more later - you share your bits for us.




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    The Curious Mind

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    Welcome - Thoughts of sand, surf, barbecues and vacations
    are still on the minds of everyone.
    Please share with us your memory of this Summer's Vacation
    or a Summer Vacation Memory from your Childhood.

    Articles to review

    Saving Vacation Memories
    Turning Memories Into Memoirs
    Vacation Memories Quilt or Pillow

    Your suggestions are welcome.
    Discussion Leader: Barbara St. Aubrey

    Lorrie
    September 1, 2002 - 08:24 am
    Because I grew up in a city surrounded by lakes, I always loved the summers----there were so many really great beaches. In those days the water was clean and pure, even for fishing, and as children, most of us spent hours of fun in the water.

    I love your picture, Barbara! I've always loved the pleasure of sailing--my husband and I had talked about going on a "barefoot cruise" some time, but alas, we never did. It would have been fun!

    Lorrie

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 1, 2002 - 09:03 am
    Hi, Barb and Lorrie. Well, this past summer I got out of the house once in June, again on my birthday early in July and once again yesterday, whoopee! I spent most of the time finishing writing a novel and started what I think will end up a novella. I'm a little bogged down right now and have to get in my word processor and get unbogged.

    I was alone every summer when I was growing up. My routine was the same every day. I got up, washed the breakfast dishes, then went out and sat in the sun and read books. I remember one summer I read all of George Bernard Shaw's plays.

    In the afternoon when it was too hot in the sun, I went into the screened porch attached to the garage and listened to the Red Sox or what was then the Boston Braves ballgames on the radio and drew pictures. At five fifteen or so I went in the house and started cooking dinner for my aunt and uncle so most of it would be ready by the time they got home from work. While it was cooking, I played the piano and sang. Sometimes I got so involved with music that I burned the potatoes.

    Summers were always quiet for me, a time of rest. By August I was itching to get back to school.

    Mal

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    September 1, 2002 - 09:41 am
    Great to hear from you Lorrie and Marlyn - missed you both - we have not been reading the same books this summer.

    Lorrie you too with sailing - I had a sailboat but it took two to sail it and so I sold it. I keep thinking I will get a small Laser but so far other things seem more important. Did you sail on a Lake or off the coast somewhere?

    Marlyn I Remember reading in summer - all that slow uninterupted time with no threat of homework - lovely - and yes, it took a shaded spot didn't it - that sun would bounce off a page and just blind you. Did you ever use your summer reads for book reports during the school year Marlyn?

    Well with the nudging of my daughter to get us started, the last four years we have been all meeting at the coast for a few days - now last year we met in South Carolina and stayed at her house while we played in the nearby mountains and rivers - it was a great time especially floating down the Green River - but on the Beach at Aransas is my favorite - My daughter drives with her two boys back to Texas each summer and we start off by meeting on the Coast, my son and his family of three boys - Gary, my daughter's husband flies in and spends a week with us as well.

    This summer the eldest, Chris is 13, the twins are 12 and then my daughter's eldest is also 12 although, a November birthday, versus the twin's April birthday and the youngest, who is bright and strong and thinks he is, in fact always thought he was, as able as the rest is 8. Well they alternate playing in the sand, building towers and castles with moats with going out on rafts and large tubes or just jumping in the waves. I just love jumping those waves. It was so much fun and on top of it what was really memorable, unscheduled and unplanned, each of them came one by one and spent time with me in the water where they even shared some of their feelings and fears and, and, and.

    There were night walks along the seawall and visits to our now determined favorite restaurants as well as swimming in the pool at the hotel. Singing and more singing in the car as we piled in two cars and drove to the restaurants. One night there was late night game of miniature golf - closed the place down at mid-night. We had a wonderful time.

    I got terribly sunburned - here I was so proud of myself finding 45 SPF and it was like a come-on rather than a deterrent. Evidently it is all in the brand regardless if it says waterproof or has a high SPF - there is one brand, alligator or something, that actually works. I hadn't been that sunburned in years and years - I bet at least 30 years even though I go to the coast every year.

    The drive takes me just under 4 hours and two years ago I brought Harry Potter Book IV to play back and forth in the car and was completely enthralled. This year I had my newest course on tapes - the history and understanding the Sonata form of music - again completely enthralled. I love long car trips - I like to drive - I feel free from responsibility as well as being alone in a car and listening to what grabs me is my idea of a great time especially since I am usually on my way to something fun, like visiting my family. I love seeing the fields of cotton on the way and the sun beating down and the small towns that are almost empty in the heat and always hawks circling on the thermals. I just love it!

    MaryZ
    September 1, 2002 - 10:19 am
    Our family gets together near Gulf Shores, AL (the Fort Morgan area). It's a lovely quiet beach - and the area where we stay is well away from the congested (restaurant/souvenir/amusement park) area. Our immediate bunch consists of two grandparents (us), four daughters, 2 (of 3 - one doesn't like the beach) SILs, 6 grands (2 girls, 4 boys, ages 19-13). We live in Tennessee, South Carolina, and Kentucky. We usually ask an assortment of friends to join us - this year from TN, TX, and DE.

    We don't have "plans" - we just hang out at the beach. The girls and kids usually get into town for souvenir and other shopping excursions. John's sister and BIL came one year and wanted to know how we "did" meals. I told her that "food just happens" - and that's pretty much it. We rarely eat at a restaurant. Somebody goes out every day for shrimp and blue crabs (if available), and whatever groceries are on the list. We keep a money pot that everybody contributes to for that purpose. A couple of the girls usually fix a big country breakfast every day (bacon, sausage, eggs, biscuits, gravy, fruit, etc.) and the other meals are more flexible - except for always having boiled shrimp and crabs to pick out at the table.

    We've been going to this area for over 20 years, finding larger and larger houses as our family grew. For the last several years, we've rented both sides of a duplex. This really works well - give us two kitchens & refrigerators, laundries, etc.. All the kids stay on one side and they can spread out with their games and TV programs, etc. The adults (?) on the other side have their games, books, conversation, etc. And all meals are on the "adult" side.

    It's a long drive - 8 hours for us - but it's the closest salt water for the TN/KY group, so we continue to go. John and I travel as much as possible, but, other than brief Thanksgiving and Xmas weekends, this is our only whole-family get-together.

    Mary

    ALF
    September 1, 2002 - 03:07 pm
    The weather was absolutely breathtaking. We golfed in Santee, SC, attended Sunday AM sunrise service in Calabash, No. Carolina and visited friends for 4 days in Ocean City. Their beautiful home sits right on the Bay (Chesapeake.) We crabbed and ate out wonderful dinners. (Seafood of course.) We went to Assatequea Islands, boated and bummed around. My greatest delight was when we arrived in NY State at my daughters camp. 7 of the grandkids, ages 13 to 3 years old were all there. We water skied. Let me correct that--- they water skied and wake boarded. We spent the days on beautiful Scroon Lake kayakking and canoeing. The evenngs were spent talking together and playing games after dinner and our nightly marshmellow roast. the month before we flew to New Mexico to visit my son and his wife and three children. What wonderful memories all of the children gave me and they are not even aware of it. It was one of the nicest and the most beautiful summers I've spent in many years.

    kiwi lady
    September 1, 2002 - 04:01 pm
    When I was a child we never had one family vacation - we were too poor owing to the fact I had a father who spent all his large salary on himself (gambling etc) however we were really fortunate to live on the East Coast surrounded by wonderful beaches- about 6 or 7 within walking distance. Our summer holidays were spent on the beach. We swam, skated on the beachside rink, studied all the rock pools, played baseball and generally had a good time. My mother let me take all my four brothers and sisters to the beach on my own when I was only 14, I would not have trusted my children with little ones at 14! None of them came to any harm as I really was a responsible child.

    We did not have fancy picnics, usually fresh bread, tomatos and an apple each and a huge flagon of very sweet orange cordial (YUK) We had no means of keeping it cool so it was always almost hot! Another outing was to walk down the metal road we lived on, about 2 miles, with a picnic lunch to a swimming hole we named the Rhonda Cronda. (No idea why we called it by this name) All the neighbourhood kids would go in a large party. Sometimes our goat Angela and our two cats would walk all the way with us! The cats would often go into bramble bushes and get caught by their fur. I got very scratched releasing them!

    I think we had very happy summer vacations, especially since we ran wild and had no adult supervision! However we never ever got into trouble so I guess we were all good kids.

    Carolyn

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    September 2, 2002 - 12:00 pm
    Sounds like several of us had great summers - the beach and summer is a mix isn't it - although I remember going to Girl Scout camp when I was in the eigth grade and I loved sleeping in a tent in the woods somehow the forests seem like a place to be in autumn and winter, maybe even spring but summer and the beach or some old swimming hole on a creek or lake is not only refreshing but filled with adventure.

    Hehehe Carolyn I love the name you had for the swimming hole near your home - And yes, isn't it true the responsibilities we were given with younger brothers and sisters that parents today would consider irresponsible on a parents part to endanger the younger ones into the care of a 13 to 15 year old.

    Alf I don't know how crafty you are but with the great summer you have had you just must memorialize it in one of the quilts like in the link above - or write about it, creating a small series of stories and either save it or give it as a gift printed up and bound for your family.

    Perkie glad to meet you - two weeks in the southwest when all the cactis is blooming - quite a show isn't it - have you ever been to Santa Fe when the lilacs are blooming? What a show - they are all over the place - one of my most favorite Indian culture museums is in Flagstaff oh yes, and that museum outside Riudoso with all the pottery - ah you are visiting one of my favorite areas of the country - If I thought I could make a living there I would move in a New York minute.

    zwyram Alabama hmmm - where on the coast exactly do you stay - My daughter is concerned about having the time next year to make the trip here and she was thinking of a place half way where we could meet - coming down from Saluda NC near Hendersonville and we coming east from Austin and Collage Station it seemed Alabama was a good possibility but we know nothing about the Alabama coast - e-mail me would you please with a bit of information and how early you have to reserve a place to stay - you are from my neck of the woods having lived for years in Lexington Ky. before moving here to Austin in '66.

    We never thought of bringing friends along but your post gave me an idea especially now that the boys are approaching their teen years but before they can drive and be inexperienced drivers in a town that is not their own hometown.

    Just sharing all of this and I am back on the beach with the pounding surf and the hot, hot sun. Even going swimming has changed - when I was young from the time we were in the 6th grade we went swimming alone with our friends and my sister 2 years younger even tagged along.

    Seems to me we did much more alone, going to the store for the daily milk, going to the saturday matinee at noon after chores, going to the children's Mass on Sunday, walking a pretty good distance to school alone, trick or treating without parents, only in our area we tricked on Halloween and begged for treats on Thanksgiving morn - all things that children today do not get to do. But then as Carolyn says the family vacations were few and far between -

    I do remember that every summer there was at least one trip to the amusment park loaded with a basket of sandwiches, tomatoes from the garden, fruit - and mom always had her thurmos of coffee. I can actually remember the times we went to a resturant, they were so few - but walking home together after a long Sunday walk with parents, aunts and uncles, cousins and grandparents there was usually an ice cream cone for a treat.

    ringway
    September 2, 2002 - 12:08 pm
    Alf - lets start writing a book. What diverse summer memories. If everybody adds theirs, it would be a wonderful book.

    Faithr
    September 2, 2002 - 04:25 pm
    Now I was born right in the vacation heaven for those who could get up there in the 20's and 30's -Lake Tahoe Ca. I was actually born in Reno but we lived at Tahoe City. There was a one room school house until 1936 when we got our new school with 4 rooms and an auditorium.This was all 12 grades. No kindergarden.

    My summers were filled with swimming, tree climbing, hiking,laying in the hammocks in the camp reading and snoozing after a really good long swim. We lived over in my grandfathers camp a lot of the time when I was really small. Some times we went out for the worst of the winter and come back up in the spring. In 1935 we began staying in year round.

    Our father taught us to swim before we could walk so we would be safe around the lake. We were very good about obeying the rules we had about where we could go to swim, when and with whom. But things could go wrong in the summer time when all the "city children" came up to the Lake. Many of them that had their own homes and cabins around the lake also had their own beaches and we didnt see too much of those people down on the piers around Tahoe City, but there were many many familys camping in the Forestry Camps and these kids were all over the place and did not obey rules as well as we natives. They were not as acquainted with the water. Still, fortunatly it was so cold most of them learned quickly not to just jump in any old place and time. By the time they were aclimated enough to stand the water they had their two week vacation over with. I always felt sort of smug that I got to stay at Tahoe all the time.

    We local children not only had parents and other adults to teach us about the water we had lessons from school by volunteer Red Cross Instructors most years. So we were safe as long as we obeyed the rules and I dont remember anyone having an accident in the water the years I lived up there except some summer boaters would have spills and get stuck on the lake every year.

    We were allowed to start swimming when the snow was melted off the lake shore at least two hundred yards. Meaning up by my front yard, when the snow was melted we could beg mom to let us go swimming and we usually could. Some years this was as early as March but often it was the end of May. Never the same while I lived there. It took a week to get use to the water again then it was in and out all day long. My most warm and secure times are connected with my grandparents and the campfires in the evening after dinner and chores. We would sing and the grown ups would tell stories. All of us would be sleepy about an hour after dark from swimming and played outdoors in the sunshine till we were worn out.Sleeping outdoors was our big adventure.

    In the winter in our house we would crowd around the stove while the snow piled up outside, and remember our summer and I for one couldn't wait for the next summer to start. Faith

    kiwi lady
    September 2, 2002 - 08:12 pm
    Before you all think I have been deprived of holidays. My late husband and I had many happy holidays in our boats in our beautiful Hauraki Gulf. There are so many islands and so many lovely bays you could spend a year just tootling about the Gulf without staying more than a few days in each Bay. The silence at night, the stars so close you could touch them, the dolphins playing around the boat, eating the bountiful harvest of sea food these are memories I will carry in my heart forever.

    Carolyn

    pedln
    September 2, 2002 - 08:41 pm
    I grew up in SE Wisconsin, on the shores of Lake Michigan. When summer came we would always listen to the noon weather report because they also gave the water temperature. It had to be at least 68 degrees before my mother would let me go in, and I wasn't allowed to go without an adult until I was about 12 or 13. Which is kind of funny really, because from age 9 on, my mother would put me on a bus by myself and I would visit an aunt & uncle who lived in a very small town in central Wisconsin. My best friend there was the minister's daughter and we would leave home in the morning on her bike and the only time our folks saw us was at meal time.

    This summer was quite different for me because for the first time in a long time, I didn't go anywhere, just stayed put. One of my daughters came with her children for a week, and later some other visitors. It was pleasant, just different. I swim laps at our local pool -- early bird swim 5 - 7 am. And it is so neat to watch the sun come up while you're swimming. Today was the last day; now they will put a bubble up over it until next summer.

    ALF
    September 3, 2002 - 04:45 am
    Oh Helen I wish that I had the time and the stamina to do that. My eldest daughter has long asked me to write down my thoughts. It is an invasion and an invitation that I do NOT wish to open myself up to.

    It's funny as much as I claim to hate the snow and the cold my fondest memories as a child are the ones involved in winter activities: freezing, digging thru upper NY State snowbanks and sleigh riding.

    Bill H
    September 3, 2002 - 11:09 am
    Hey, this is going to be a great discussion. I’ve enjoyed reading the posts. I’m reminded of when I was in grade school and we had to recite what we did during our school vacation. I don’t think any in my class had a vacation. It was the Thirties, it was depression time and there was little money to be spent on vacations, when so much else was needed.

    In the early Fifties and Sixties, my wife and I would always vacation in Miami Beach, Florida. JoAnn just loved the ocean swimming, the lounge chairs around the pool and, of course, all the attention the hotel would give their guest.

    We would drive round trip, in those days, we both enjoyed driving. I wouldn’t do that now. Not with the challenge driving of today.

    Our vacation would start the moment we got in the car and we were in no hurry. We would allow ample time for driving and sight seeing along the way. I still remember passing the road side stands in Georgia with watermelon, corn on the cob and, of course tomatoes. Just two lane highways then, no intestates except for the Pennsylvania Turnpike. The watermelons sold for 25-cents!

    We would drive no later than four or five o’clock, stop at motel with a pool. Then we would get ready for a nice dinner at nearby place the motel manager would recommend

    I can still smell the shrimp boats, when our road brought us close to the ocean.

    The drive home was still part of our vacation.

    Bill H

    Faithr
    September 3, 2002 - 11:26 am
    Bill H. your vacation memories are similar to mine in the 50's when the children were small and we had mini vacations every six weeks or so by driving to some nearby interesting site. Since we live in the California Gold Country we had hundreds of 3 day or even just weekend vacations. Once a year we would go on a 6 day trip down south to the San Diago Zoo or up north to Tahoe. And the driving was a big part of the leisure as we took our time, made many stops and often used our own camping equiment to do meals in good spots then sleep in Motels. Very different now days with all the highspeed cars and highways.

    We all remember our trip to Death Valley the best. We took a small trailer behind a passenger car. It was April and all the flowers were in bloom in the desert. I had never seen so many cacti in bloom before. The pictures were spectacular. We used a 33mm slide camera from Germany that took great slides. We went to Death Valley Scott's castle and it was like a dream to go into this palacial home out of a dry and empty desert. It had bright colors and lots of gold and red persian rugs. We were ask to take off our shoes and wear covers over them. It was wonderful and the docent told so many wonderful stories. Then we went to an oasis to camp and got the trailer stuck. My son went over a sandunn and came back with a tow truck who had been camping on the other side. We just about burst laughing, the truck driver and my husband got the trailer out and we promised to come see them at their garage by Tahoe south shore. Then we went on with our desert trip, parking carefully after this. Faith

    Bill H
    September 3, 2002 - 02:27 pm
    Faith, There were times when I wished I lived in Calfornia. So many interesting places within driving distance.

    Bill H

    annafair
    September 3, 2002 - 07:10 pm
    The summer of 2002 was not memorable except it was HOT < HUMID and DRY for about six weeks and I hibernated in an air conditioned house. It was so exhausting just to do anything even reading. I felt like sloth!

    We lived in the city and summer was always neat for us. When we were little mother would pack a picnic lunch and we would hike to a nearby park and spend most of the day.. When we were back home mother would turn the hose on fine and put a laundry tub in the back yard and we played in that until it was time to clean up and dress before our father came home from work. Evenings were spent on the front porch ,shaded by moon vines and we would swing on the porch swing or play hide and seek with the children in the neighborhood. We also played a game I cant remember the name of.. we would sit on the wide porch steps and one child would take a rock and hide it in thier hands and there was something they recited and we had to guess which hand held the rock ,.,if we guessed right then we were it!

    By the time I was six I spent part of my summers with my mothers sister and her husband. Wherever they went for a vacation I went with them , My duty was to keep ajournal of the trip. In a spiral bound notebook I entered the time we entered each town ..anything special we might see. The names of the restaurants where we ate and what we ate. The hotels we stayed in and the tourist places we visited...Merrimac Caverns in MO..Wisconsin Dells, zoos, museums, Boys Town in NEbraska, Yellowstone Park , the Badlands of S D. so many places over the years..and it was a great education for me. Since I was an only girl and had two younger brothers at home this is a very cherished memory. My older brothers took the train and visited relatives in other parts of the country and when I was home I walked each morning about 3 miles to the local library and checked out three books which I read that day and returned the next day for more. It was a wonderful lazy time ...

    When we moved here to Va we started taking the children to Nags Head each year and did so for 20 years only stopping when my husband died. We rented the same place each year and it slept 15 so each child was allowed to invite a guest .later their fiances and then wives and husbands were part of our visit ...we always woke up about an hour before dawn and walked to the shore to watch the sun come up. We played all sorts of board games, and there was a jigsaw puzzle set up when we arrived and we worked on that until it was complete. We read , we took in all the local places of interest, played minature golf and bowled ..eventually the children also drove the littel cars around a track...About ten at night we would all go down the shore again with flashlights to watch the sand crabs scurry in our light ..It was the best 20 years of our lives. We all do different things now since the families have children and they do special things with them ...and frankly I am back to my old childhood habits .. a lazy summer, staying cool and reading or doing crossword puzzles and of course coming here...AND I have wonderful memories and no regrets...anna

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    September 4, 2002 - 09:19 am
    How much fun this is to hear of so many childhood memories of summer! Carolyn I think most of us remember how rare a vacation was in the 1930s and in the 40s the war effort, no gas, rations etc. took any opportunity for vacations and so for most of us I think our vacation memories really do start after we married. In my mind I remember each vacation even more than each individual Christmas - how about you?

    Ah yes, Bill when the highway was a place of dreams and not a death threat. I guess we could still take those back roads but we get caught up in getting there quickly now don't we - and of course all the nice motels and restaurants are on the major highways.

    It all reminds me of the difference between a theme park and the old fashioned amusement parks where we knew the guys at the various game booths were hustling us but that was all part of the carnival of life. Now everything is trying to put on a face of Disney world and maybe that is the problem - under the soft belly of life is the hustler and if he has no place to show off his hustle he will make a place. The place he makes may not be to our liking. And so we have road rage and a few other kinds of rage. Sorry didn't mean to pull a downer here but I too can remember with nostalgia the long rides to and from and across the miles when road rage wasn't part of the experience.

    Faith! My teeth are chattering just reading your post - swimming after the snow melted - oh my - how did you warm up - that water must have been so cold - oh oh oh - only a child - but what great memories - campfires and sleeping under the stars - and having such great memories of your grandfather - lovely. I've never visited Death Valley but I remember when it was 'the thing to do' - remember that advertisement for 20 Mule team Borax with the old prospector in Death Valley. I love how your family laughed off the experience of being caught in the sand - seems like those reactions are what helps train us when we as adults how to react when we are caught in some of life's difficulties.

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    September 4, 2002 - 09:21 am
    pedlin I wonder if we were just all so innocent to the dangers or if there were actually less dangers - because like you I too remember doing so much more alone so much earlier than children of today - that sense of freedom was great wasn't it - I never felt scared and just assumed I could do all those things - your description of swimming with the sunrise really was inspiring - I never thought of creating that kind of morning experience but you have given me some food for thought.

    Helen your idea for a book sounds delicious - with Alf having little time I bet you could do it anyhow - just take Alf's posts and build on them hehehe - she is sharing just not with the intention of creating a book that you would love to see happen. Was at a reading the other night and this women shared the funniest short very short story about being hired at Walgreens to straighten shelves during the Christmas season - she was actually given a ruler and certain products were 1 inch and other's 2 inches and still others 3 inches from the edge of the shelf - she was evidently not only praised for her efforts, but was asked if she wanted the job full time and of course the managers name Mr. Peevee was used over and over - the upshot - here she is a collage graduate straightening shelves, a job that no one wants or lasted in more than a week and MR. Peevee attempted to send her a bonus check of $100 that she had no clue since it never reached her - last year just for fun reading the long list of unclaimed checks held by the Texas Treasury there was her name and 20 years later she gets her check for straightening shelves for Mr. Peeve.

    I know a long story just to say that it was a lesson for me to realize how much fun it can be to make a short story out of our experiences.

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    September 4, 2002 - 09:22 am
    Anna oh those journals - do you still have them - what a treasure - cleaning out and found a bunch of letters from my children when they were at camp - and your journal writing reminded me of the pleasures of rereading the fresh look we had when we first experience something as a child just as the exuberance of my children is all there in their simple letters home from camp.

    You really bring it all home with your description of front porch life - we really have become so dependent on personal climate control that it has changed our way of relating to the world around us - now what is happening in the Congo seems more important then moon vines.

    Your remind me of how tradition just happens and how it brings satisfaction and comfort to our lives - every year going to the same place - not a different place but the same place - wonderful - like an old quilt we can wrap ourselves in when our thoughts are a jumble we can think on those summer vacations that are hard to distinguish one from the other because the were all of a weave like a patchwork quilt.

    I am filled with nostalgia today - been realizing so many deeper things about what was important - I saved so many of the special clothes my children wore - I realized for the first time the special clothes were because I had the financial ability to shop for the kind of clothes that Mama would look at in store windows and then go home and with a bit of struggle reproduce on her old Singer sewing machine. Mama would add bits of embroidery to trim the collar of jumper straps or beautifully knitting a doll blanket to match some sweater design she saw in the display window of what for us was an upscale shop or department store.

    We seldom went in to the store and when we did we were instructed to whisper and not touch anything. Mom would have a wonderful way of finding an excuse why she couldn't buy what she was looking at - but as I grew older I could see she was looking at the lining and how it was constructed so she could make it when she got home.

    Well I learned to appreciate these fine things and of course wanted them for my precious children. Too bad I didn't see the wonder of creating as the lesson and only saw the desire for the item being examined. And so these saved children's things are really a memorial to my mother and her desire to create from the best but not a testament to her ingenuity.

    This seems off the subject but I am remembering all the halter tops for summer and the durdle skirts when we were older as well as the Easter coats and white linen pleated skirts with embroderied straps and our dolls being dreesed in new handmade clothes under the tree since there was little for more than one other toy and all the knitted sweaters and hats and mittens and sox - oh my how did she do it all and still teach us to swim and urge us to practice the piano that she played quite well, make picnics and preserve the tomato's and make apple sauce and peach sauce and peach and plum jam and have garden and wash with a scrub board - oh my.

    kiwi lady
    September 5, 2002 - 03:02 pm
    Barbara- You are right its a gift to teach our children to create whether it be by cooking, knitting, painting, or dressmaking! There is a movement amongst the thirty somethings to regain these skills. They have to pay for classes as their parents were "spared" this teaching by their parents who thought they were doing the right thing by providing ready made everything!

    Carolyn

    tooki
    September 6, 2002 - 09:37 pm
    The memories discussed struck a responsive chord in my memories: swimming, picnics, wandering alone, reading. But my thoughts are filled with a recent short day trip to the Columbia River gorge to see She Who Watches, an 8 foot by 6 foot combination petroglyph and pictograph, carved in rock and painted with red ochre. We had to hike up a basalt outcroping facing upriver, the sun was hot, and the wind blew hard. There were other pictographs, but She was in a class by herself. Not much is known about what, if anything, she means. Maybe she is just a watcher, but one wants her to mean something. We couldn't help but tease that maybe she was a message to someone all those years ago, saying, "I was here; where were you?"

    Lorrie
    September 6, 2002 - 10:08 pm
    Tooke! What a fascinating trip that was! That is an interesting description of She Who Watches. 8ft. by 6ft? Was she a little on the wide side? I like the way you talk about that trip.

    Lorrie

    tooki
    September 7, 2002 - 06:52 am
    "She" is an 8 by 6 foot face composed of spirals and circles overlooking the Columbia River at a large turn in the river, carved into the basalt rock. Think sorta Northwest Totem pole stuff. But much more mysterious, charming, and meaningful. I didn't mean to butt into the wonderful summer memories with this account. But, this little day trip will be one of my lasting late summer memories. Both weatherwise and age-wise! My childhood summers were spent on a poverty stricken farm in Michigan, near Saginaw Bay, early home of the Saginaw Tribe of the Chippawa Nation. We took our Saturday baths in the Bay, as did the rest of poor Indians and whites who lived around the Bay. I went bare foot all summer which ruined me for wearing shoes the rest of my life. Wonderful memories.

    MaryZ
    September 7, 2002 - 06:56 am
    Tooki - is there a web site where there might be a picture of She Who Watches? We'd love to see her.
    Mary

    pedln
    September 7, 2002 - 08:40 pm
    Tooki, That is fascinating -- so large a petroglyph. One can't help but wonder, how did she get there, who put her there?

    Mary, Google offers up quite a few pages. The site below has a good picture, and also speculates about the future of petroglyphs.

    http://seattlepi.nwsource.com/getaways/060399/petr03.html

    That's what I like about these discussions. One thing leads to another and you find you're wanting to know more and more. Now, I wonder if anyone has written a book about "she" or tried to tell her story in print.

    betty gregory
    September 7, 2002 - 10:16 pm
    Barbara, your memories of and tribute to your mother was so touching and all your details of her creativity and energy and love remind me of just those things in my mother. Out of necessity, my mother sewed most of my clothes, too, and my younger sister's. Incredible memories. Coming home from a mid-summer week of Glen Rose Camp (a Methodist church camp, central Texas, paid for by someone in my grandmother's Sunday school class), I found 3 new dresses sewn that week by Mother....in fall colors, ready for school in the fall. In high school in the 60s (still before kids thought they had to wear brand names), beyond regular school clothes, there were special dresses, all sewn on Mother's manual Singer sewing machine. One of red velvet, real velvet, with long puffy sleeves. One incredible long white dress with tiny embroidered red rose buds.

    The most treasured memory, though, were clothes Mother made for a small baby doll at Christmas when I was in 2nd grade. Gathered sleeves, tiny collars, sashes, real button holes, a red velvet coat with a tiny mink collar (made from a ancient scrap piece mailed to Mother by her mother for the coat). Ric-rac, lace, tiny buttons, gathered skirts, puffed gathered sleeves. She had worked sewing these tiny clothes for a 10 inch doll for many months at night after work.....I was young enough not to put 2 and 2 together when Mother sewed behind a closed door "on Christmas things" for months. The Christmas box they came in was huge, stuffed with tiny little clothes. Pardon me for using this "vacation" discussion, but I just had to respond to Barbara's memories of her mother's amazing energy and sewing creativity....they reminded me so much of my mother.

    The unique joy of vacations in my childhood was that my father became a happy person. Leaving at 4 in the morning with 5 children squeezed into a car without air-conditioning, to drive from Texas to Florida each summer for one week, my father came alive and made each trip wonderful. It was his family in Florida we were going to visit, but more importantly, he loved everything about traveling by car. We had virtually no money to spend along the way...we took sandwiches, apples and cookies. We did eat breakfast in roadside restaurants, though, which felt like high luxury. Probably because of those long, happy car trips, I love to travel by car, even by myself. In June of 1997, I drove from the coast of Oregon to Dallas, Texas, to be with my brother and his family as he faced serious brain surgery. The surgery was successful and the trip both ways turned out to be one of my favorite trips, ever. Leaving a motel before sunrise, driving along and watching the world wake up, stopping somewhere to get my thermos filled with coffee.....ah, there's nothing better.

    Betty

    tooki
    September 9, 2002 - 09:09 pm
    You can find a picture of She Who Watches at http://www.spokaneoutdoors.com/horseth.htm

    Remember, she is 8 feet by 6 feet. I hope you admire her as much as I do.

    MaryZ
    September 10, 2002 - 05:47 am
    Wonderful picture - and what an incredible size! Thanks
    Mary

    losalbern
    September 10, 2002 - 03:35 pm
    Otherwise I might think that this is an all female gab session. As far as vacations are concerned, we have yet to take ours this year. Time slips by and all the good ideas seem to melt away. There is, however, one possibility that continues to nag at me and with a little bit of luck, we might be able to carry it off. Last year, I participated in a book discussion about the making of the railroads from Omaha to Sacramento. Faith, I believe you participated in that one too. (I forget the name of the book which shows you my state of mind!). But I really was fascinated by the tremendous effort it took to make a rail line through the Sierras and I would like to take that trip during daylight hours just to see it. I haven't worked out details but it would seem to me that step one is to, by some mode of transportation, get to Sacramento and buy some round trip tickets to, say, Reno for an overnite or so and then and back to Sacramento. Ok, that might be dullsville to some of you, but when you consider the number of times Amtrack has plowed off the track this summer, this could be quite adventuresome! Any suggestions? Losalbern

    Faithr
    September 10, 2002 - 04:19 pm
    Well Loselbern you would enjoy that trip. You can look down those steep canyons and just wonder at the skill it took for those Chinese laborors to do that work, and the tunnels. Small portions of the track have been updated and regraded etc. but mainly it is the same roadbed as the original we read about in The Greatest******whatever. you see I forgot the rest of the title too. hahahah. And if you wanted to fly back Reno to Sacramento is a really nice short trip and only about 40 minutes take off to landing. You just climb to the altitude theu level out and in just a minute you begin the decent. It goes so fast you hardly have time to see the layout of the mountains. Faith

    losalbern
    September 11, 2002 - 03:05 pm
    Hey Faith, a fine couple of book reviewers (or discussioners or whatever) we are! Neither one can come up with the title just one year later! But that was a fun study with a fun leader, Ginnie. The trip does seem intriguing and if it materializes, I'll give a rundown. Now, if I can just remain glued together for a while... Losalbern

    Faithr
    September 11, 2002 - 03:08 pm
    Well I would use Crazy Glue wouldnt you?LOL...faith

    Bill H
    September 12, 2002 - 03:16 pm
    Losalbern, I'm still here, lurking and reading all these fascinating posts. I loved the links to She Who Watches.

    Tooki, would that climb up the out cropping be difficult for seniors? I wouldn't want to be blown of it by the brisk wind you describe.

    Perki, I remember, on school vacation, running free from dawn to dusk also, when I was the age you mentioned, except, of course, for lunch and dinner--we wouldn't miss out on that ) Our parents never thought about us being in any danger, and we didn't either We didn't have little leagues or computer games. Us kids made our own good times playing cowboys and Indians. We didn't even think about playing cops and robbers. We used toy cap guns and pretended we were all straight shooters. Oh, the fun we would have making believe we were ridding horses by skipping along and smacking our own butt to go faster, hahahaha. And when we were old enough to ride two wheeled bikes, oh, well, we all thought we reached the best of times!! And, you know what, maybe we did

    And the best part of all this it was out doors in the summer sun.

    Bill H.

    losalbern
    September 12, 2002 - 04:47 pm
    Bill, your message about cap pistols and make believe horses brought back many memories. Store toys were rare in the '30's and it was taken for granted that we kids made many of our own toys out of whatever was handy. If a kid found a blown out innertube iin the trash, it was immediately cut up into inch wide circles of rubber that became the ammunition for a crude "rubber gun" cut from one end of an orange crate discarded behind Safeway. An old roller skate could be parted in two and each end nailed to a 3 foot 2x4 with another Safeway orange crate nailed onto one end and presto, a homemade scooter! It was a "given" that bent nails were straightened out for the "steenth" time to be used once again. Ever make a slingshot? Once a kid found the appropriate fork of a branch it was a snap to fasten two innertube bands to it and hey man, you were in business. If you could find a yardstick that wasn't too busy and nailed a short crosspiece at one end, then started a small wheel, any wheel ( it seemed like every kid had a wagon wheel somewhere)and then pushed behind the wheel with the crosspiece a kid soon learned to push that wheel all over the neighborhood. That was fun! It was all good clean fun. And very cost effective! Hey if a girl found a piece of chalk or even a chunk of a broken clay pot, it was no time until she had a game of HopScotch drawn on a sidewalk with half the neighborhood competing. A smashed down tin can made an excellant "lagger". You are so right Bill, we kids didn't have computer games but we really didn't need them. Losalbern

    Annie3
    September 12, 2002 - 05:16 pm
    The above posts bring so many memories. My brothers and I made many of those orange crate scooters. And our chalk usually came from broken statues that somebody or another had won at a carnival at one time. On a recent shopping trip with my grandchild we bought a dump truck for the sandbox and he wanted to know, what does it do, where do the batteries go. Childhood imagination is such a wondrous thing, I hope the kids don't lose that. A couple days ago a circus came to town in a big shiny silver train and the elephants got out and walked down the street to the arena where the circus is. I remember as a child we used to walk to the edge of town and help wash the elephants and my brothers would help set up the tents, all for a free pass to the circus. Some games we played as children were, Starlight starbright, Alley Alley Over, Stone School, and Hide and Go Seek and many, many games of marbles.

    Lorrie
    September 12, 2002 - 05:30 pm
    What memories!! You speak of those beloved childhood games, and I don't believe I ever hear children playing them any more. Whatever happened to King of the Hill, Sardine, Hide and Seek, and Red light, green light? Are all children squatting down in front of a TV with a bag of potato chips and a Coke? I miss the memories of twilight evenings with the voices of kids playing these games echoing down the years.

    Lorrie

    kiwi lady
    September 12, 2002 - 05:32 pm
    Marbles are back in school. Brooke 5 was given by a big girl one large "aggat" a beautiful shiny black marble. She carried it in her pocket for days. Looked at it rubbed it rolled it round the floor and eventually it was won from her in a game at school. She wept bitterly and the same girl brought her another marble the next day. It is a great school - caring for others and a zero tolerance for bullying.

    Brookes father is very artistic so there are lots of materials in the home provided to make things. She makes necklaces from leather and beads, she draws and paints for hours. They all make all the birthday cards needed by hand. Its up to parents to stimulate the kids imaginations. Brooke makes tents with chairs and sheets and buses and trains with a line of dining room chairs. Parents don't have to rely on computer games and battery operated toys even today for the kids to have fun. Brooke has a large electric jeep which she hardly ever uses. Brooke even paints on large sheets of newsprint (blank) to make gift wrap- when tied with colorful ribbon looks great.

    Carolyn

    annafair
    September 12, 2002 - 06:43 pm
    You have really pushed my memory buttons...We had a small compost heap in our back yard that served as a MOUNTAIN .. and we played cowboys and Indians and I loved my inner tube GUN...and every summer evening was spent out doors playing all the games mentioned. The houses were close so our games would range over the front yards of several homes. Each home had a generous front porch with the adults swinging gently or rocking hoping to stir the hot air.

    We felt very secure because all these adults were watching out for us. When it became too dark to play hide and seek we gathered on someones front porch and played all sorts of word games. SOmetimes we told ghost stories..One person would start and another would add to it ..I can remember being scared ..and spooked by the stories. It was great. If there was just a few of us we shared our dreams and hopes and gossiped a bit.

    Marbles, Jacks, jump rope ( kept us from gaining weight too) walking the dog with yo-yos etc ...there was always someone who could play a harmonica or a uke///later accordians ..When I was a teen ager there were about 12 of us who each Saturday or Friday night met at someones home for dancing to records ...it was the happiest time. I have pictures from those days.. the picnics we had , the visits to the museums and parks. The zoo.. and the neat thing most of it was free. Public transportation was cheap and frequent and boys did not feel that had to have a car ..and when they did they realized it was a privelege. No one I knew had a parent who bought them a car. They saved and bought a used one and treated it like it was a jewel ..which it was.

    I take senior classes at the local U and today was my writing class my assignment for next week is to write a story about my past for my children or grandchildren. I was already thinking of what we are discussing here ..and I am glad you have stirred my memory and I thank you for it...

    Did any of you ladies ever make paper families from Sears, MW or Penny catalogues. I cant believe it one of my girlfriends and I did this even when we were sixteen. Using our dining table we laid out the "home" of our characters and kept the family members in individual envelopes. We didnt make outfits for the family but cut out the whole figures from the catalogues and if a character needed a new dress or the home needed a new fixture ...we hurriedly cut out what we needed.

    I wonder if my grandchildren will have that rich past . Each one lives in a home that looks like a TOYS R US and still they are not as happy or as satisfied as my friends and I were so many years ago.

    anna

    kiwi lady
    September 12, 2002 - 06:51 pm
    I and my daughter in her turn loved paper dolls. They would come in a book form with lots of different outfits to cut out. The books were very inexpensive and often were used as stocking fillers. Brooke has a similar thing but its made of a magnetic substance to stick on the frig or other metal surface. Hers is a Barbie set. They are very expensive however in comparison to our old paper dolls.

    Even though this discussion has digressed a little its not really off topic as all these play things were used in our vacations when we could not or did not go on holiday! Its fun!

    Carolyn

    kiwi lady
    September 12, 2002 - 06:53 pm
    PS we called jacks Knucklebones!

    Hula hoops were very popular too when I was a child. We hula hooped for hours - very good exercise too!

    Carolyn

    Faithr
    September 13, 2002 - 10:25 am
    How very nostalgic this makes me. I too was a Jacks addict and would have been a marbles addict too but my brothers chased me away. We had the sling shots and rubber guns, the orange crate scooters and little apple box racers that went down hill at a good clip. We had lots of hills around Tahoe but only one or two good paved ones to use the racers on. Of course building a tree house took all summer and taught us how to scrounge for material. Those apple boxes with wheels turned into wheelbarrows by adding a rope tow line and that helped a lot getting material to the right tree.

    We had one game I only tried once. The boys had a big rubber tire off a truck and they got at the top of the hill, one kid would sit in the tire and brace feet and hands then the other kids would roll it down hill and run beside it to keep it from falling over. I went down once. That cured me. I felt bruised for several days. Faith

    kiwi lady
    September 13, 2002 - 11:24 am
    The boxes with wheels we called trolleys! Another language difference!

    Carolyn

    losalbern
    September 13, 2002 - 12:26 pm
    Carolyn, regarding the fascination of marbles, last Christmas our eldest daughter, hard pressed for something different for "dear old Dad" gave me a bag of beautiful marbles which at this moment rests in a dish on our coffee table. Our great Grandson, about 2-ish really enjoys playing with them. I showed him another fun thing from my childhood by putting a marble on the rim of a pie tin and then making it go faster and faster by slightly tipping the tin itself. And hey, didn't our sailing of pie tins to each other as kids make somebody wealthy by selling a new generation the same concept in plastic? I wouldn't trade my do-it-yourself childhood for anything in the current generation with all its $95 dollar scooters and other expensive toys. And look what our paper cup and taut string telephones has led to! Losalbern

    Faithr
    September 13, 2002 - 01:50 pm
    And the homemade dolls, rag dolls, sock dolls, carved wooden dolls et . My brother at age 12 or so was learning how to carve from our grandfather and he had worked for the money to buy some balsa wood. They carved little soldiers and painted them. Other things too but I remember the lille soldiers and they were so cute I wanted them for myself. One day my brother was carving sitting on a bench at the table in granddads camp, and a yellowjacket stung him on the back, without thinking he swiped at it with his right hand and cut a inch or so cut in his back, not to deep thank providence. We joked about that ...my big brother said It is not funny! faith

    Bill H
    September 13, 2002 - 02:10 pm
    Losalbern, the "rubber gun" brought back memories of the rubber gum band gun. I think it was on the same principal only we used it for a rifle. Our mothers took a very dim view of those. All those other toys you mentioned brought back fond memories.

    And since we are talking about what we did on vacation, I'll tell you what happened on one Christmas vacation. The tree was always decorated and placed in the parlor Christmas Eve and when I went to bed I thought it was finished. When I came downstairs next morning, I opened the parlor door and, oh, my gosh, there under the tree was a Lionel Train going round and round the tree on the railroad tracks. I was stunned never did I expect such wonderful present. It wasn't the best you could buy, but to me it was.

    Annie, how great a time you must've had washing the elephants. I wonder if there is still a place in our country where kids can still do that.

    Lorrie, how true, but now I don't hear the kids playing anything at all in the evenings anymore. What do they do? Surely they don't all watch TV or be on the computer.

    Carolyn, as well as marbles, there was one other game we played. Remember the Baseball card that used to come with chewing gum. Well, we would collect those cards and then play spin match with them. One kid would hold the card down by the side of his knee and spin the card to the ground There would be a picture of a ball player on the front of the card and a story on the back of the card. He'd do this with four or five cards and, after they were on the ground, another kid would spin four or five cards in a like manner and what ever cards he would match he would keep, but those of his cards that didn't match any on the ground they other kid would keep. I wish I had kept all those cards. Those cards are worth a small fortune. And we just spun them away.

    Losalbern, I wouldn't try my childhood do it yourself either. But we used tin cans and taught string for our phones Oh lord, you folks got my mind spinning with all kinds of memories.

    Anna, I think all these posts just made your writing class assignment a snap.Bill H

    kiwi lady
    September 13, 2002 - 02:33 pm
    There was a game we played similar to hopscotch where instead of throwing a stone onto the square we kicked an empty shoe polish tin. Does anyone remember that game. Also four square a ball game sanctioned in school where you have four squares and bounced the ball in and out of the squares. If you missed the ball you were out or if you hit the ball outside the square. Also bullrush which I believe is in again. Brooke (5) got a thick lip in a collision and I believe the school is going to outlaw it for the infants deparment!

    Another game which was collecting the tiny blue butterflies in jars. It was a competition to collect the most. It was fun and good maths practice for littlies. We spent hours chasing those butterflies! Some of the more dangerous pursuits were digging tunnels (shudder) Playing superman by leaping off the garden shed roof (more shudders)

    Another educational game we played was to empty out our Grandmothers huge button box. We put them in sets, counted them and weighed them on the kitchen scales pretending they were sweets and we had a sweet shop. (candy shop) My grandchildren like counting buttons too. My grandmother had buttons from the early part of the century too and they were so pretty she had a number of ornate buckles in the box too. It was a wonderful wet day holiday occupation. What patience Granny had! We would also invade the kitchen and make trays of toffee and fudge and toffee apples. Sometimes we did this while our parents were at work. We were only quite young and I shudder now at the accidents that could have happened with the boiling toffee! We also baked cakes and cookies. Mum used to be always yelling she had no sugar or flour when we were home on holidays. (We used the lot!)

    Another occupation was to polish the tiles and we would put rags on our feet and skate up and down to remove the polish. We often did this when Mum was at work.

    Carolyn

    Lorrie
    September 13, 2002 - 04:09 pm
    We didn't have money for expensive doll furniture, so my grandmother would cut a rectangular hole in an oatmeal box. then line it inside, and when you laid it on its side it made a wonderful little rocking cradle. We would also make dolls from clothespins. And yes, we would furnish room after room with pages from "Monkey" Ward's or Sears!

    Lorrie

    losalbern
    September 13, 2002 - 04:20 pm
    Carolyn, you jogged my memory one more time. Borrowed a large button from Mom's sewing basket, then ran a string through two holes of the button and tied the ends into a loop. With the button in the middle of the loop and either end held by each thumb, a couple of quick twists to get the string wound up and then by repeatedly pulling the thumbs apart, presto, a whirling, humming little button engine! Oh my! It was even more fun to get the button flying round and round and then stick out your tongue and let the speedy button touch it as it spun. Bill, your spinning of cards made me think of how we adolescents played "spin the bottle". What fun, and educational too! Just out of idle curiousity , how many folks reading this would admit playing spin the bottle? Losalbern

    kiwi lady
    September 13, 2002 - 04:21 pm
    Lorrie that post reminds me of the time when we had just bought our rural acreage and were very poor. We made a dolls house from two orange crates for my daughter. Rod made a front door latch from stiff leather! We put old carpet in it and I bought inexpensive plastic furniture. It was one of the most used Christmas Presents she ever had. We painted the house sides white and the roof red! My daughter still remembers it!

    Carolyn

    kiwi lady
    September 13, 2002 - 04:31 pm
    yes we did that too with the buttons! Remember the uses for an empty cotton reel. Nails on the top for French knitting. Little coils to be made into tea cosys or egg covers! I had many a fun filled hour French knitting! Also matchsticks a piece of candle and a rubber band made a sort of tractor with the cotton reel. I wish I could remember how to exactly make the little French knitting machine was there four or six nails on the reel? Brooke would love to do it I am sure.

    Carolyn

    Faithr
    September 13, 2002 - 06:19 pm
    Oh goodnes sthese memories are something. I was acquainted with all these things except foursquare. That is a new one. We use to make our hopscotch with a stick and draw it in the hard dirt. Then use tabbacco bags filled with pebbles or sand for a taw. Never had to worry about cleaning up the hopscotch. That trick with the button and the string reminded me of playing cats cradle to quiet down in the evening and also we had those little spools with nails that made daisy's (we called them that) and when sewn together they made doll blankets and other stuff for our dolls. Now days I see that lots of the childrens inventions of home made toys are marketed and Toys R Us is filled with stuff children made themselves in the 30's and I will assume long before that.

    You can buy those daisy knitter sets too made of plastic and filled with various colors of yarn. No wonder we have an epidemic of obese children. I dont remember going in the house unless I had too all vacation time from school. Winters I was more eager to stayindoors as I was not that fond of snowball fights, building igloos, make ice sKating rinks by smoothing then watering the snow so it would freeze overnight...next day big rink ready to use and you couldn't fall in any water either. And of course we had sleds and toboggans and if one home didnt have any the children would share with those who did. Very neighborly. Faith

    pedln
    September 13, 2002 - 07:33 pm
    Those spools with the nails were so much fun. We'd take them to school and drive the teachers nuts until finally they had to ban them. I remember a group of us girls, 5th or 6th grade, told our teacher we would much rather have lived in the "olden days" so we could knit and sew and cook all day.

    One thing my kids did, and my grandkids do today, is make God's eyes -- where you wrap colored yarn around two crossed popsickle sticks.

    Did any of you ever trade and collect playing cards? We'd start with the jokers or if lucky, an incomplete deck from our parents (all the grownups played bridge or pinnocle--that was their entertainment) and then trade them around. Getting sets of two was best and if you got "Blue Boy" & "Pink Lady" you were really lucky. When I ask people nowadays about trading, no one has ever heard of it.

    kiwi lady
    September 13, 2002 - 09:10 pm
    The only thing we traded when I was a girl were stickers. Sets of brightly colored pictures which came in sheets and you broke them off one by one and traded them. Most popular with the girls were angels and fairies which had glitter sprinkled on the pictures. Nowdays there are those terrible computer game cards which cause so much trouble at school they have banned them! Baseball cards are not known here its not a popular game in NZ.

    Carolyn

    annafair
    September 13, 2002 - 10:27 pm
    Bill you are so right ..I havent put it to paper yet but it is certainly in my mind. The truly sad thing to me is when I suggest doing any of the many things we did as children and enjoyed my own children disdain the idea as being "cheap" I wish I had the money my children have "wasted" on toys for my grandchildren. I absolutely refuse to give them toys. I bought a wonderful book for my one of my grandsons birthday and both he and his sister loved it.

    I find it surprising this daughter and her husband who are well educated seem to think the computer activities are better than a good book. I wonder if my grandchildren will reject the accumalation of things when they are parents.

    I keep boxes of "stuff" for my grandchildren to use when they visit. Since they are sort of divided into age groups 9-8-6 and 3-3-2 it iis easy to find things that to amuse them. I keep my boxes full of old cards , crayons, magic markers, tablets of colored construction paper, paper scissors,tape, and we make bubble stuff with water and soap as I did when I was a child. I can remember buying corncob pipes at the dime store and rubbing them over the wet soap and blowing bubbles.

    Oh the Lionel train ...I too remember awaking on Christmas morning to find one running around the track. Each Christmas we added parts to that set. More track and little houses, switching gates etc ...and the other thing we did as children and I did with mine was WE DECORATED the tree as a family Now my children do all the decorating and the ornaments they buy are so costly the children arent allowed to put them on the tree. I still decorate my tree with small wreaths made from colored plastic tubes strung on long chenille sticks like pipe cleaners. Many of my ornaments are home made ..and my children made them. Christmas trees have now become just another decorating thing. It has to match , it has to be elegant and children are never allowed to put an ornament on.

    By the way Bill I intend to write my assignment and give copies to my grandchildren. Perhaps just perhaps the children will ask ( I can dream cant I?) Mom can we do some of the things Nana did when she was little?

    You have all stirred my memories but it also makes me sad to know what we had and in my case what my children had has not been passed down to my grandchildren. No one wants things that are home made any more. And while my grandchildren do a lot of things everything is organized to death so I see little joy in what they do.

    I think I will just have a good cry...anna

    kiwi lady
    September 13, 2002 - 10:41 pm
    Annafair- that post is so sad. Thank goodness my kids still let their children play mud pies, make cards and wrapping paper, lots of art materials at hand. I also have lots of these things. Yes they do make a mess but a house should be a home foremost. Grandchildren in our family are severely restricted on computer time. I let Brooke have one hour with Barbie.com when she visits me and that is that! Kids still love board games. They love adults to play them with them! Its not what you give the kids its the time you spent with them they remember. Making toys etc makes for resourceful children.

    Carolyn

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    September 14, 2002 - 06:57 am
    What absolute fun it was reading all of your posts - I just knew if I got out of the way wonders would spill forth - sounds to me like making our own fun with homemade things to play with was more satisfying than all the 'things' we receive - in fact the joy of creating our own play world was really more fun than any organized vacation that was supposed to be the end-all in the realm of play and fun.

    I have to add a few of my own memories - back to lead soldiers - my cousin had a set where he melted the lead and poured it in a mold and made his own soldiers - I remember best having lead farm animals along with the farmer and his wife. Every time we went up to town I got to go into the 5&10 and choose a lead animal or figure. We set all this out in the dirt building fenses with twigs and tiny pebbles made paths. Sometimes we even found moss that we placed here and there.

    Which reminds me of playing store - we would find all these different weeds that reminded us of various vegtables and fruits and we made mud pies to look like a loaves of bread and again we made a miniture store with stones holding larger twigs that served as counters.

    Oh yes and cutting pictures of ladies out of magazines pasting them on cardboard and then making paper dresses, learning to include a tab so the dress would stay on our homemade paper doll - I remember one year my mother had a thing for a certain muffin that came in a box with a cellophane window. That became a store front and we cut pictures of all sorts of things out of magazines to decorate our store front.

    On hot summer days I remember taking sticks that we twirled the ends of in the melting tar that bubbled down to the side of the road. Eventually we got some tar on ourselves or our clothes which made my mother so angry with us and out came the turpentine to clean us up. Secretly I think we thought it was pretty exciting to be cleaned up with turpentine - we could brag to the other kids how much it burned our skin. But the worst was getting it in our hair. I had long blond braids and the tar usually had to be cut out with mama scolding me during the entire process. I don't know why we played with that tar - there was no plan - it was just something we did.

    Remember bean bags - no one makes or throws bean bags any longer - we used to play something where you hid the bean bag and every one looked for it while you called out hot or cold based on how close or not they were to the bean bag.

    And you are all so right - evenings just before and after dark were magical - all the games and with windows opened even if no one was on the front porch the adults could hear everything that was going on. How many times did your mother call out 'don't let the screen door slam!'

    Remember putting paper over a comb and humming, and holding a piece of grass taut between our two hands and blowing, and smoking punks to keep the masquitoes away and making a kite out of newspaper and string using some old rags for the tail, collecting bottle caps and attaching them to a hat or a shirt with the sleaves removed so that it was like a vest - oh yes and collecting tin foil in a big ball or collecting and winding string into a big ball, calling to the other kids from a distance with a special yell, actually knocking and asking if so and so could come out and play -- gosh we could go on and on.

    I get more excited in my head with the memories of all that doing and having fun than any memory of a vacation - views, or museums, or car trips with a stay at a motel with a pool - they all pale is comparison to making one childhood plaything and playing with it till it broke or another idea took hold. Summer was a great developer of ingenuity and most all Dad's had a place to tinker even if only a corner of the kitchen table with his tools etc. stored in a big wooden chest while moms had her sewing boxes. and the button box, usually an old cake tin - how many times my sister or I dropped the button box and we would be hours picking up hundred and hundreds of buttons of every size, shape and color imaginable. Oh one more - remember glue - we made it with flour and water and a used matchstick from the bottom of the holder near the stove as our application brush.

    Reading these posts was as good as any vacation - a vacation of the mind with our memories --

    Lorrie
    September 14, 2002 - 07:52 am
    This journey into nostalgia has been a real pleasure for so many of our posters, and you said it all, Barbara, in your post # 58:

    "Reading these posts was as good as any vacation - a vacation of the mind with our memories --"

    However, it is now the 15th coming up, and tomorrow our topic will change, as is customary in this discussion, for another two weeks. We are going to be discussing the merits or disadvantages of children's beauty pageants. Some of you may remember the JonBenet Ramsey murder case, which really brought public attention to the vast business of beauty pageants and all they entail.

    Lorrie

    Please come and join us--everyone is welcome to join in! And thank you, Barbara for a most enjoyable discussion!




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    Many of us who saw video footage of JonBenet Ramsey in the wake of her murder felt troubled. The little girl's untimely death uncovered a seamy world of children's beauty contests, where tots who should have been home watching 'Sesame Street' were under spotlights, primping and pouting like tiny Demi Moores. Granted, it's nothing new for six year olds to put on their mothers' pearls and lipgloss and belt out a show tune in front of the mirror - and some would argue that the pageants build self-confidence among girls. But their formalization into high-stakes events, and the precocious sexiness of the mini beauty queens, raised uncomfortable questions about how our culture constructs female identity.

    Yet, if the Ramsey pageant world is anything to go by, interplay between girls and popular culture begins far earlier than adolescence. Looking at girls aged six to ten, examining their absorption of popular culture, should then yield important data about our cultural production of femininity. Taken from a book review by Sarah Coleman, San Francisco Bay Guardian

    But more importantly, how do you feel about these Children's Beauty Pageants, or even adult ones?



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    Mary W
    September 14, 2002 - 10:08 am
    This is the second time I have come to this group on its last day. The first was a discussion of gardening to which I have been devoted most of my life. And now this one.

    Since I am consideably older than many of you my memories ar both similar and different from yours. The activities we shared are dolls, paper dolls (for which we made additional outfits from that colored paper used in school for crafts and which could be bought at Woolwotrhs), paper ladies that were cut from those huge pattern books found in the fabric departments of stores--Vogue-Butterick-Simplicity etc.,jacks marbles, outdoor games but above all BOOKS. Summer was my time for reading new books and re-reading old favorites.

    When I wa very young- three to six or seven years old My mother, younger sister and I would take a magical trin trip to Atlanta, Georgia to visit my grandparents.Trains, in those days were truly a glorious way to travel. Because there were three of us my mother would get a drawingroom (this was many years before the depression). Shortly after we left te cavernous and bustling Union Station the conductors would go through the cars anc tightly close all the windows. These were coal burning engines that generated an abundance of soot.We would then enter a long tunnel that my sister and thought was really spooky. After the tunnel the windows were reopened (not only before deisels but air conditioning as well). Pretty warm sometimes. As a special treat my mother would order dinner from an unbelievable menu and have it sent to our room. The waiter would have set up the table when he took our order and later appeared with a tray of gigantic proportiona. We never figured oit how he got it through the door but he did. He set this gorgeous meal for us on a linen table cloth with linen napkins and real silverware plus a beautiful flower in a lovely vase. We felt like pampered queens. This was only the beginning of a long and wonderful summer.

    Once we arrived we dressed as Red Cross Nurse with white towels pinned around our heads, we played School, we made doll houses on the ground of rocks covered with the thick, velvety moss that grew so luxuriantly on those ancient trees, My grand mother tought me to knit on red, white, and blue needles she had used knitting for the troops during the not long over war. my grandfather taught me to fish. There was a little stream way back in ther yard-ice cold- down all the way from the mountains-but he had to bait my hook. I dont remember if I ever caught anything.The last two weeks of vacation my Dad came down to join us and we all traveled back home together. Dad had always planned some side trip going back-usually something or some place historically important. What summes they were!

    My grand-childrenhave been qute spoiled with toys and other possessins. I do not recall their ever collecting anything. They think buttons are things the cleaner sews back on.

    I can only remember a very few obese kids frrom my youth. we moved about much more. There was no TV and not even radio until was nearly a teenager.

    Ther are so many other things I remembe fro an era totally foriegn to that of today or rven yesteday. I'm sorry that I found you so late. Perhaps I can be a part of another discussion.

    Mary W

    Marilyne
    September 14, 2002 - 11:34 am
    Mary W - I very much enjoyed reading your remembrances. Like you, I have also been meaning to post in this discussion, but have put it off, and now it's too late. I'll be looking forward to reading more about you in the future, and "meeting" you in other SN discussions.

    Lorrie
    September 14, 2002 - 12:30 pm
    Mary W. and Marilyne:

    Have you ever visited the page called "Remember When?" It is a discussion of nostalgic memories by older posters, and it might be of interest to you. I enjoyed reading about your memories, Mary W.

    REMEMBER WHEN

    Lorrie

    Bill H
    September 14, 2002 - 01:04 pm
    Before we leave, I just want to say don't forget the fun we boys had flying kites, and making model airplanes. Those sort of toys could be bought so cheaply. And the amusement park we had so much fun going to--not the Disney Lands. Our amusements park was called Kennywood Park Right before summer school vacation our grade school would sell amusement ride tickets oh so cheaply. I used to wait all year for the school picnic at Kenywood Park. My parents would pack a picnic basket with all kinds of goodies. We would leave early so we could get an indoor picnic table Our transportation to Kennywood Park was by trolley car and I loved that ride too.

    Bill H

    losalbern
    September 14, 2002 - 01:17 pm
    Barbara, thank you for letting this discourse follow its own direction. It certainly found a willing audience and participation. Bill, your mention about playing cowboy with a pretend horse started us off onto a wonderful tangent. How great to think about those fun moments as kids once again. Gosh, the time went by so quickly, we didn't even get around to mention how much we enjoyed "Big Little Books" , (or was it "Little Big Books?) that sold for a dime at Kresges or Woolworths. And now, one last mention about one more enchantment from my youth. We took an empty evaporated milk tin can and smashed it with the heel of our shoes until it curled around and clamped itself to our shoe(s) so that we could make a noisey racket as we ran down the sidewalk , imitating the sound of a horse's hoofbeats. This was probably a 'boy' thing but some girls who didn't mind a little noise may have tried it too! Ok, Lorrie, I am ready to give up my childhood memories and move back into the real world! Thanks, Barbara for the walk down memory lane. Losalbern

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    September 14, 2002 - 05:31 pm
    Lorrie we will look forward to the new topic that starts tomorrow - Thanks though for adding your two cents to what became a posting of memories from our childhood - I guess we all think we had the best childhood as compared to today's children. I've even worried about what memories my own children had of their childhood since many things had changed by the time they were born in the 1950s. But then reading about Mary's train trip just made me aware there is always something special that stays with us from childhood that seems so magical.

    Sometimes I think my memories are more fun than what is going on today and them I get scared thinking I am allowing myself to go into 'old' becoming non-relevant - which is the demise of our vitality.

    Well for me there has been nothing 'non-relevant' about this week as I am getting a new PC and a DSL that will hook up both my beloved Mac and this new PC - my son just left having been here all day first moving furniture around and then hooking this all up. At least it gave me an excuse to make an apple pie.

    Lorrie
    September 14, 2002 - 10:43 pm
    Thank you, All, for your heartfelt childhood memories that you share with us so eloquently!

    But it is now time to move on to another subject, and, in accordance with the new heading above, I would like to ask you this:

    Do you feel that children's beauty pageants build up self-confidence in the participants?

    And do you feel that this is what they want to do, that it's simply another game of "dressing-up" like adults?

    There is an amusing satire in both of the last two links I supplied in the heading---I think you might enjoy reading them.

    Lorrie

    kiwi lady
    September 15, 2002 - 01:21 am
    I have donned my crash helmet before I start my comment. Many of you may not like what I have to say. Firstly the beauty pageant for children is not part of our culture. The only pageant that goes on here is in the Filipino community.

    Most young mothers I have spoken to after the Jon-Benet Ramsay murder said they would never entertain either entering their child in a pageant nor would they dress their child like a miniature sex symbol.

    I personally think the pageants are sickening and the mothers of the contestants are frustrated wanna be beauty Queens living a fantasy through their children.

    I have very strong views on this subject and my daughter who is a very modern very caring mother has even decided to boycott a particular childrens store who she and her friends feel make clothes which make 5 year old children look like minature hookers.

    Carolyn

    jane
    September 15, 2002 - 05:52 am
    Carolyn: Do you have two crash helmets? I don't really think they'll be necessary, though. I think you'll find a lot of people here will agree with you. I think the whole Ramsey thing is so "sick" as to be beyond belief. I think that "mother" was indeed trying to relive her life through that poor child. It reminds me of the stories of the infamous "stage mothers" of child stars.

    I also agree with you on the clothing designers...those who are making and marketing thong underwear for 10-11 year olds and hooker clothes. I also dislike the druggie fashions of Calvin Klein..where the models look like burned out drug users. Gee...what a fashion statement. BAH!

    Lorrie
    September 15, 2002 - 08:03 am
    Carolyn, I believe you won't be the only one wearing a crash helmet. Hahaha

    There's one thing I have noticed in our young children these days. They all seem to mature so rapidly----one day a little girl is playing with her dolls, and the next, it seems, she is on a runway modeling costumes. Where has the innocence gone? Where are those carefree years of skipping rope, playing jacks, jumping hop-scotch, and playing "mama" to countless baby-dolls?

    Let's give them back their childhood!

    Lorrie

    Ann Alden
    September 15, 2002 - 11:21 am
    As I said to Lorrie earlier, I lived in Marietta, GA when this horrific murder happened and that is where JonBenet is buried with her older half-sister who was also mugged and murdered in Chicago a few years before this.

    I am not surprised to hear that no one likes this behavior on the mothers' parts, letting their children prance around in adult clothes, on a stage, just to win, win, win.

    Now, the stores have similar clothing for all the girls. Have you seen a prom night recently with the badly designed dresses in gross colors, dark shimmering taffetas with sequins everywhere? And, all too tight and really in bad taste. I asked my husband where were their mothers when these girls chose the dress?

    One thing, I have also noticed is that the dance schools around town are having little three year olds wear the same tights and tu,tus with lots of netting and sequins, that the older girls wear. Hair in adult styles. My 5yr old granddaughter when she was in the annual dance show here in Columbus was dressed not much better than JonBenet. But they are saying it gives girls confidence to learn to move with no awkwardness. I just wish they would start a little later. What has happened to childhood? Those sunny days of summer spent wandering the woods, play Scatter every evening 'til dark, going to the local train station, where we staged robberies of the train on the big old baggege wagon, playing (boys and girls) cowboys and indians??? Spending hot afternoons playing dolls and redesigning our doll houses. Simpler times,eh?

    kiwi lady
    September 15, 2002 - 01:45 pm
    Another thought on the beauty pageants is that is sexualises children to my mind playing right into the hands of paedofiles.

    Carolyn

    Diane Church
    September 15, 2002 - 02:54 pm
    I dibsie (good grief - how do you spell that?)the crash helmet concession around here!

    I wonder if there will be anyone at all to take the other side?

    The memories we share of innocent childhoods are so precious and I cannot imagine what in the world these poor kids will have to treasure about their childhoods. These "beauty" pagents are all about greed, profiting from the less attractive aspects of human nature. Who is supporting them and why?

    pedln
    September 15, 2002 - 04:09 pm
    Perkie, I'm with you and all the others who are against beauty contests for any age. They serve no purpose, except to make money for the promoters.

    What do you think about the "young" cheerleaders. Cheerleading is a part of high school, and I guess, Junior High. But now you see it creeping into elementary school, and summer cheerleading programs for 7 to 11 year olds. I think it's just another example of how our society is pushing little girls into becoming big girls.

    betty gregory
    September 15, 2002 - 05:27 pm
    on all beauty contests....

    ditto, ditto, ditto, ditto, ditto

    Betty

    kiwi lady
    September 15, 2002 - 06:45 pm
    Do you not have student loans in the USA? Anyone can get a student loan here. If your parents are poor you qualify for a small living allowance too. If you are prepared to work like a dog and go without it is possible to pay the loans off after graduation. Many Graduates go overseas and earn overseas currency like the Sterling to pay back their loans quickly. The banks here too have special deals for students such as lower overdraft interest rates for when they are caught short waiting for their allowances etc. The students do graduate with big debts but most think it is worth it. Not many parents in my country have the means to pay for their childrens tertiary education. Most children do not go away to Varsity in Auckland where we have one third of the entire population living here there are a choice of Tertiary Institutes including two very good Varsitys. Kids can save money by living at home and driving to classes

    Carolyn

    kiwi lady
    September 15, 2002 - 06:49 pm
    PS The Govt does fund part of the University budgets here! It was once all free except for books and exam fees but sadly we are now part of the great user pays system! All the present politicians of course got their degrees free!

    Carolyn

    kiwi lady
    September 15, 2002 - 06:55 pm
    Just a thought. Is this push for little girls to become women far too soon, part of the problem we seem to be now seeing in poor mothering. I mean where the mothers are too busy with how they look and leading almost non stop social lives and not being able to do the nurturing job. Does a little girls mothering of her dollies assist with nurturing her babies later on?

    Carolyn

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    September 15, 2002 - 11:08 pm
    Like it or not looks in both men and women make a difference in their opportunities and salaries - I see it all around me everyday - competition based on looks seems sleazy and yet it is reality - the difference is we do not walk a catwalk.

    Be honest if you have several sales people to choose from we go for the one who presents themselves in the most pleasing way and is nice looking - no, not necessarily the best looking but we choose to work with who ever is nicer, more comfortable or trusting looking than anyone else. We even choose elected officials based on how well they present themselves on TV! The better looking guy wins hands down every time.

    As to children having an innocent childhood - there were only a very few years when that was a norm - now children are not safe wondering the neighborhood on their own - they are taught how to protect themselves from all sorts of sexual abuse starting as early as ages 4 and 5 - In the past - up to the 1930s more children worked then didn't. Not exactly a life we would like to imagine of children picking the flowers - and families living and sleeping in smaller homes there was less innocents -

    I think there is something about children and competition that bothers most of us - I remember this conversation years ago in relation to little league versus sand lot baseball and cheer leaders - and the amount of hoopla for a young football player. I've been to many a recital and found that parents are just as competitive when it comes to their child making music - I am shocked to hear that in order to get into a 'good' collage students have to start cramming for your SAT exams as early as the 7th grade in order to secure an exceptionally high score that most students now take their SAT in their 11th grade and them repeat them in the 12th grade allowing them a second shot at higher scores.

    I am also remembering back in the 1930s moms entering baby contests was even more the norm then those parents entering their toddlers in beauty pageants. During various parades and community celebrations girls were dressed in costumes and judged - it was a given they were really looking for the cutest little girl not the most original costume.

    And then the clothes chosen in order to make a splash and be noticed does not sit well with most of us - again, I look at women in business and we see very few dark business suits any longer - no, not sparkles and glitter but taste in fashion is very different as women wear colorful jewelry during the day now and dresses made of cloth that in the past were considered cloth used for evening wear - the old rules of when to wear white or gloves or closed toe shoes have all gone by the boards. Cloths for many now is all about being noticed.

    Most of us wish that women’s liberation included freedom from being ogled at or having so much attention paid to our face and bodies rather then what we can do and what we are capable of creating, learning, teaching etc. Some of us are bothered by those women who keep the torch burning for the old ways alive, ways that measure women engaged in traditional women's activities. But then we all keep some of that alive when we gossip about whose pie is better and the reason for a church supper being more about a competition over the best dish based on whose casserole is empty and whose is not empty.

    And so to me I think when we talk about childhood innocents we are in a fantasy and when we shiver over childhood competition we are not being real as nearly every aspect of children's lives are now a competitive event and when we abhor the current dress code that appears to be over-kill we need to look at how most career women are dressing and what we see on TV everyday. (we don't gossip over the fence any longer instead we watch more TV than we speak to our neighbors or family and friends. TV is establishing our norm)

    With all that logic - I am not comfortable seeing the video of JonBenet playacting in a sexy way - but please lets not keep the focus on the girls clothes, behavior as the cause of pedaphiles acting out - girls are not the red flag - please remember all sexual abuse is about power - power over another - power over another less powerful than you that you can control because of their lack of power - men are titillated and stimulated by different looks, clothes etc. just because a man is titillated by a child does not mean he must act on his feelings - it takes someone into needing power over another or who wants to be satisfied and a less powerful one will do just what they are told or their innocents allows him to do what he wants.
    NO GIRL REGARDLESS HOW SHE DRESSES MAKES A MAN ACT OUT HIS SKEWED BEHAVIOR.
    Pedaphiles who act on their feelings will do so regardless if the child is in jeans, nightcloths, a cute dress or an old rag of a dress.

    kiwi lady
    September 15, 2002 - 11:58 pm
    Barbara I think we are being naive when we say Paedofiles should not act on their bad thoughts but the truth is that Paedofiles are amongst the most dangerous and least able to be rehabilitated out of all the types of sex offenders and this from the mouth of one of our imprisoned paedofiles in a sex offenders unit in one of our jails. This was reinforced by the therapists in the unit. When we dress our children inappropriately and display them often in activities such as child beauty pageants we could run the risk of the child being stalked. Maybe this is what happened to Jon Benet we will never know.I am sure these type of pageants attract paedofiles. I still say it is inappropriate for young children to wear makeup and be dressed like minature women. I myself have seen many nine year olds with bleached hair skimpy tops and miniscule skirts - topped with high heels mincing downtown. I am glad my granddaughters are being given a chance to be innocent little girls and the parents of their particular friends think the same as my daughter. Brooke is beautifully innocent but still has been warned about things she should be careful of.

    My daughter is giving Brooke a wonderful self image and is determined she will be brought up to withstand peer pressure because of good self esteem. She has already coped with being called fat. She is not fat she is well built, She inherited these genes from her father. She has the most beautiful face and hair. The kindergarten teacher told Nicky she had done a beautiful job when Brooke turned round to the child who made the taunt and said " you must be a very unhappy little girl to be so mean" It stopped the child in her tracks.

    Carolyn

    jane
    September 16, 2002 - 06:12 am
    Yes, Carolyn, there are student loans in the USA and many have them. Many of the rest also do that other thing...WORK--- while also going to college. I don't know anybody who had to enter a Beauty Contest for a college education. It seems to me that the money and time put into "gowns" and all that other "stuff" for a contest would be better spent in a bank account to pay for college expenses, if that's the excuse the woman is making for entering. From the way some of them have answered questions, I'm told, it sounds as if they're not...uh..."college material..." "I want to bring peace to the world."

    I think these women are more likely to be looking for careers as models (though at ages 20-24 they may indeed be past their "prime") or "starlets" or "actresses" or that sort of thing.

    Barbara: People can learn to dress appropriately and to be well-groomed, etc. without having to participate in Beauty Contests. Also, students have been taking the SAT and ACT in their junior years of high school for at least 45 years that I know of. That's when it's expected one will take it...Spring (usually April) of the junior year in high school. Bright students often take it in the 7th grade to be able to be eligible for some "camps" for bright kids...Duke Univ. has one...there are "space camps" etc. It is difficult to find the truly bright kids since their junior high grades may not be good indicators and it's hard to find any other sort of "national" score that is fair to all the kids.

    Sasha 5113
    September 16, 2002 - 07:38 am
    May I join you? One thing all children need, we know, is validation. (Picture the photos of third world orphans and ask what wonders a few hugs would do.) That's what the precocious living room dancers and twirlers are looking for, they in their way and the shy children in their different way.

    I remember the four year old daughter of a friend whispering to a playmate about a child just coming into the yard, "doesn't she look tacky. Those clothes ... ." At the time, I thought I was just hearing her mother echoed in her attitudes, but now I've followed that child into adulthood, and I see willfulness and selfishness and where they've gotten her so far. That mother would have jumped at the chance to shove the daughter into a pageant, but for knowing that her upscale friends would have thought it "tacky." The truth is that our society, via TV, tells little girls, as it told their mothers, "play with a Barbie doll and eat all the french fries you want."

    (And where are the fathers during these obscene little shows? Can we legislate all parents to be as intelligent as Brooke's?)

    Coyote
    September 16, 2002 - 07:56 am
    I see most of the problem as being this modern idea that parents should be involved in everything kids do. BS! Kids need to play - alone and with other kids. If little girls want to dress up, great. Give them some old pretty clothes, costume jewelry, make-up, then a good bath when they are done. When boys want to play ball, get them a ball, mitt, whatever, and make sure they get to a park or other space to play, then LEAVE THEM ALONE. There is enough time after the start of puberty to be learning all the advanced skills and rules to play games more professionally for kids who want to participate in high school and college sports. My son wanted to be in Little League because he wanted a uniform.

    Maybe lots of kids want to PRETEND to be big leaguers or fashion models or whatever. That doesn't mean they need to actually be in an adult run competition. As far as 4-H, my kids competed showing our cows in FFA (which starts in high school.) I wouldn't have minded 4-H too much, though, because the demonstrations they are taught to give and the requirement for well stated reasons in judging contests can certainly help English, logical thinking, courage to raise a hand or get up in front of class, etc. This part of it is probably a great experience (kind of like Toastmasters helps a lot of adults develop these skills.)

    Ann Alden
    September 16, 2002 - 07:56 am
    Just a little history here on JonBenet. The reason that she is buried in Marietta is because that is where her family's plot is. She is the daughter of a second family. Her dad was divorced and married JonBenet's mother later. He lived and worked in the Marietta for Lockheed-Martin Co. For awhile, you could see the visitors to the grave. Many thought it was so sad.

    Recently I heard on TV that the police in Boulder are rethinking their thoughts on the case and now are relooking at JonBenet's brother who was 9 at the time of the murder. I have always thought that he might have committed the crime but his parents made sure that no one looked too hard him. They both were interviewed together and then separately, and had separate lawyers.

    As to why JonBenet's mother and father insisted on putting her before the public, I do think that her mother, a former winner in the Miss Kentucky or West Virginia contest, was trying to exploit this little girl. And, maybe the brother became jealous.

    Yes, Barbara, we do lean toward the better dressed or better looking sales person to wait on us. We all like a good looking person. I can remember my mother, a beautiful woman herself, saying that she did like to look at the beautiful people. We,sometimes, get ideas on style from the well dressed and beautifully coifed.

    And, in the USofA, we do have grants for the needy students that in many cases need not be repaid or they are given ten years to repay a governbment loan.There is a site on the net where you can find many grants that don't have to be repaid.

    I want to tell you of my granddaughter who educating herself on what was availble and how to get it, she found that if a student attended a community college and got on the dean's list frequently, that applying for a scholarship became much easier. After two years at her local college, and being on the dean's list, she was able to get a partial scholarship to Colgate University. She also researched grants and was able to put herself through college this way. She had many part time jobs, working in the small town of Hamilton,NY, where Colgate is located. She worked at an old job plus waitressing in her hometown during breaks. And, she will be paying back those grants for at least ten years, as teaching doesn't pay that well. But she has her degree!!

    Lorrie
    September 16, 2002 - 08:00 am
    I do believe Benjamin has a point here. What's wrong with allowing little girls to have their "pretend" dreams? To let them imagine that, for a brief time, they are little princesses, complete with magic new clothes and a crown, besides! Is that so bad for a child?

    Lorrie

    Ann Alden
    September 16, 2002 - 08:03 am
    Lorrie, we were posting at the same time. I spend too much time on spelling correctly plus changing the way I put things.

    Lorrie
    September 16, 2002 - 08:11 am
    Ann, why are you shouting? There's no need---I'm wearing my hearing aids. Hahahaha

    Lorrie

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 16, 2002 - 08:45 am
    I call this the Shirley Temple Syndrome, and before Shirley Temple there were Mary Pickford and Clara Bow. There's always been a Shirley Temple around for kids to emulate. Today it appears to be Barbie, Britney Spear, JLo and Christina Aguilera, and my, my, how they dress -- even Barbie.

    Shirley Temple didn't get in trouble. Why? Because her mother kept a very tight rein on her. There's something very wrong with Jon Benet's family, it seems obvious to me.

    Little boys want to be astronauts and billionaires. Little girls today want to be princesses with a $200,000 a year job. Let them dream, I say. The only time they can really do that is in childhood, right?

    Mal

    Ann Alden
    September 16, 2002 - 08:51 am
    I'm shouting?? Sorry, I certainly didn't mean to do that, Lorrie. You sound better. Hope your adjustment with the O2 is going better.

    I have gone on a search to find the latest news about JonBenet Ramsey's brother Burke. It seems that that accusation was a false one headlined in the STAR. They have since retracted it while the Ramsey's are suing the paper for defamation of character. So, I stand corrected. But, didn't I hear that the case was still open and that they had a partial palm print from the scene that hadn't been identified? Well, maybe that was false,too.

    By the way, I love the URL's, Lorrie. Especially,the Barbie Dolls on the beach. What a hoot!

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    September 16, 2002 - 09:27 am
    Dear Carolyn being a paedofile does not mean the person acts on their inclination - some do and some do not - a paedofile only means someone is attracted by children - I know the whole issue of paedofilia sounds scary but there are many with all sorts of inappropriate sexual attractions that don't act on them - it is the newspaper describing the person with the word that explains the criminal behavior, as right the newspaper should, but now unfortunately the public has concluded all peadofiles are dangerous - some paedofiles never act, nor get on the internet, or are socially dangerous - those who do, are no different than a rapist - not every man who is attracted to a women becomes a rapist - those who do act, regardless paedofile or rapist are not acting out of sex - they are using sex to act out their power or anger - and Carolyn as scary as it seems to know there are unseen peadofiles among us damaging children remember, the numbers are tiny as compared to the children damaged by sex from within their own families.

    The average number of girls - there are no reliable numbers for boys - but for girls the number of women sexually abused as children is at least 2 out of every 10 with some having numbers that suggest the number of girls could be as high as 4 out of every 10. So when you are in a room filled with women realize 2 out of every 10 of those women were probably sexually abused. Now when we break that down further we learn that less the 1/3% of one out of the ten are abused by strangers or neighbors that we usually label paedofiles. One and two-thirds of the 10 are abused by a family member.

    Carolyn a little girl should be able to run through her house or yard stark naked and a male should be more concerned for her welfare than his own sexuality. We have learned that what a child wears does not affect the criminal behavior of those into power using sexuality as their tool.

    Also considering how a child is dressed is trying to bring the reasoning back to it being the child's fault or the person's fault who dressed the child - it is not their fault that someone decided to act on their titillation just as it is not the victim's fault because someone could not contain their anger and used force, often a gun, during an explosion their of rage that they had not learned to control.

    We all have instincts that could damage another - as we have learned even the instinct to gossip if carried out can create havoc for another - becoming a functioning adult means learning to control our instincts. Sexual instincts prompted by seeing a child is something we control - the child is not a consenting partner. When you think on it, sex with a child is not 'good' sex - it is simply a way to satisfy an urge so that the risk of rejection is eliminated because a child can easily be convinced or overwhelmed with force.

    No victim is the cause of the crime and yet in the case of sexual crime we are still trying to blame women and girls, letting the criminal off the hook in the public eye. This puts less pressure on research as to why sexual criminals act or what men can do to reduce, if not eliminate their paedofile-rapist behavior as well as stop those who rape adults. If modesty in dress was the key we would not have had any sex crimes before the 1920s.

    Think on the movie Gosforth Park - Men took advantage of the household help, not dressed to entice. The men, rather than risk being rejected by the women who are their equals, sought out the girls of the house who were trying to hang onto their jobs. Young women were easily convinced this was positive attention or the young women were easily overwhelmed with force if that is what it took. This is an example of power mis-used by man to satisfy their sexual needs.

    As to the beauty pagent the worst that can be said is the girls are being taught to please but then look at it - we want all children to be pleasing and obey an adult --

    kiwi lady
    September 16, 2002 - 10:38 am
    I think you missed my point Barbara -I was saying that in an ideal world all the things you talked about would be possible but unfortunately its not an ideal world and with all the stuff on the net its even worse than when my kids were little. The amount of violent kiddy porn available is staggering and some of this stuff is being peddled by YOUNG BOYS. We have seen several cases lately of sexual assault in the school yard. Older children on very young girls. I used to think like you but not any more I would rather protect my grandchildren than rely on people not acting on their fantasies.

    Carolyn

    Faithr
    September 16, 2002 - 11:28 am
    There have always been some form of Beauty Pagents for children, I remember when my first baby in 1942 was born there was a newspaper asking for babys pictures for a contest. I ignored it even though I knew my baby was the most beautiful little girl in the world. I detest beauty pagents for another reason which is : it is ugly the men, corporations, business', profit from exploitation of these children and of grown women even when they choose to enter. Also it contributes more to the awful cultural trend for women to look more and more like children. Immature bodies with hair and makup of adults seem to be some sort of ideal of American men.Look at the skinny flawless faced models with big crazed eyes on the runways. Except for the breasts which are to be very mature to interest the men. Women, not just ardent feminists, should all fight against such surreal projections of mens fantasies. Fr

    kiwi lady
    September 16, 2002 - 12:04 pm
    An item from our morning news.

    Helen Clarke our Prime Minister stated she is disappointed we are sending a representative to Miss World in Nigeria where women have little status and where they are stoning single mothers to death! Helen I know is NOT in favor of beauty contests.

    Carolyn

    losalbern
    September 16, 2002 - 12:37 pm
    Kids need to be just kids growing up as kids.. Not adulterated imitations of some adults whose view of human qualities is limited to over emphasis on appearance. What little I have witnessed of child beauty pageants makes me feel that there is very little good in them. Losalbern

    jane
    September 16, 2002 - 12:46 pm
    Lorrie: You asked: I do believe Benjamin has a point here. What's wrong with allowing little girls to have their "pretend" dreams? To let them imagine that, for a brief time, they are little princesses, complete with magic new clothes and a crown, besides! Is that so bad for a child?

    I agree 100%. Children can dream and pretend and dress up anyway they want...so long as it's at home and with other kids and not in some "pageant" where the little dresses cost hundreds of dollars and the little girls are dressed up like call girls. I'm all for children dreaming and having "houses" made out of blankets over card tables and tents in the backyard and playhouses made out of big refrigerator boxes and kids doing their own imagining and making their own rules. I'm against adults deciding all these things for them...what they wear, how they walk, how their makeup is applied, how sexy their behavior is, etc.

    There's an article in today's paper about a website where preteen girls "model" in skimpy clothes (bikinis and halter tops). It's become a "free speech" vs "fix for pedophiles" legal debate. People pay $20.00 a month to view these kids.

    There was an earlier report of parents who put up pictures of their own children and charge for their "clients" who can then email and say what they want the children to wear. Sounds to me like parents who should be called pimps, but I know I'm a real prude about stuff like this and children.

    Diane Church
    September 16, 2002 - 01:14 pm
    No, Jane, you're not a prude at all! As I read your post I thought of a number of things that so-called "adults" have taken over which change innocent child's play into something greedy and manipulative. Think of Little League with parents screaming and threatening the kids and umpires versus a bunch of kids playing ball in an empty lot...kids dressing up in grandma's attic with too-big clothes on a rainy day versus tightly controlled, serious and no-fun-at-all pageants..kids banging away, having a ball, on the piano versus solemn, frightening "concerts". What in the world IS it that makes adults want to take the fun out of things?

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 16, 2002 - 02:22 pm
    I wonder how many of us are involved in Little League games and other activities of young children today? I'm wondering whether we have actual basis for statements about such things or if we are influenced by newspapers, radio, TV, "The Media"?

    I was given dancing lessons before I was 7 years old when I had polio in 1935. We wore tutus and tights just like the big girls and felt very happy about it and with the costumes we wore in recitals. It was FUN! It was EXCITING! We had a GOOD TIME!

    Pedophilia is a disease. It's been around forever. Look back in history. Pornography has been around for thousands of years. Look at the bas reliefs on buildings built in Ancient India, just as an example.

    There's something more here than what we see on the surface. Why don't we step back and try to consider what it is?

    "There's nothing new under the sun." Look at the archives of the Story of Civilization discussion.

    fMal

    kiwi lady
    September 16, 2002 - 04:10 pm
    I'm not talking about kids in tutus I am talking about nine year olds going downtown dressed like hookers. I dragged my daughter home from the mall once when she was staying the night with a friend. She was only 13 and had been forbidden to go to the mall at night. I found her in the other girls skimpy clothes and plastered in makeup. In those days 13 yr olds in NZ did not wear makeup or dress like adults. Today she thanks me for being a caring mum. Some parents or grandparents may think its ok I don't. My oldest daughter also has thanked me for being a strict Mum. She also does not care "what everyone else does". How many times have we heard the words "But everyone else is allowed or everyone else is doing it"

    Carolyn

    jane
    September 16, 2002 - 04:17 pm
    I too took dancing lessons and was in recitals, but I can guarantee you that the dancing and the costumes were NOT of the sort we're talking about here that JonBenet Ramsey and her other "pageant" types were involved in.

    And yes, I've been personally to games here for elementary and junior-high school students where parents have verbally berated their children. Yes, I've heard it with my own ears and seen the look on the little kid's face. Do parents really think the kid wanted to strike out or to miss a tackle? Yes, we had a mother who had to be arrested because she became so out of line at a high school basketball game here in this little town. She was charged with assault because of her mouth and her constant verbal assault on the coaches and the bench. Quite a nice role model, huh?

    pedln
    September 16, 2002 - 05:19 pm
    Did any of you watch TV last night. I was treated to a wonderful show on our local PBS channel --"Almost a Woman," which I think was autobiographical -- pre Vietnam War, about a young Puerto Rican girl. In the show, the mother meets her daughter after school and expresses shock and rage that she would change to a mini skirt, put her hair up, and put on makeup. Her daughter was not goint to look like a "cheap American."

    Immediately following that I tuned into the middle of a Law and Order rerun. A female police officer was berating her young daughters about wearing makeup behnd her back. "Anyone can wear lipstick. There is nothing special about it. You are special," she said.

    It struck me while watching that both shows were timely, in view of our discussion here.

    betty gregory
    September 16, 2002 - 05:35 pm
    A huge difference between child beauty pageants and all the other examples at hand.....dancing lessons, recitals, little league baseball, music lessons and recitals.....is that the second group is about LEARNING skills in sports or arts, becoming athletes, dancers, musicians. Being in a beauty pageant, young or young adult, is about LOOKING a certain way.

    How women look and how we prepare little girls to care about how they look is still in sharp contrast to what men do and how we prepare little boys to care about what interesting, useful activities they will fill their lives with.

    Parading women or little girls back and forth on a stage, so that they may be judged how they look in clothes, or nearly out of them in swimsuits, is just a symptom of how we value women.

    One area of promise that I watch closely is the field of women's sports. The audience at large is caring less and less about how well a face is made up with make-up or whether every hair is in place. There is a growing pride in proof of strength, coordination, team work. In an exciting basketball game of professional women, the audience seems to lose old standards of what women should BE as they watch good ATHLETES, forgetting for the moment whether they are men or women.

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    I cannot forget the article I read a while back that called women "female impersonators." With help from billion dollar cosmetic and fashion industries AND from our culture's vision how important LOOKS are for a woman, women impersonate an image of "woman." I think of all the hours and money I've given up for foundation, powder, eye shadow, eye pencil, mascara, blush, lipstick, face creams, mascara-remover, hot rollers, moose, hairspray, hose, hair color (not anymore), etc., etc.

    There is something wrong with those little girl beauty pageants....there are no decent women who look like that.....so, who are the little girls trying to impersonate??? I know what today's women in television jobs, law firms, schools, flower shops, restaurants look like in the latest, new fabric, cool clothes....those little girls have hairstyles from another decade, backcombed and sprayed stiff. They look like they've entered a contest in a rodeo tavern for country-western "sexy sluts." Some of the parents should be arrested for child abuse.

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    Carolyn, Barbara is squarely on target as she explains that there is NO connection between assault and what a girl/women wears. My plain, beloved grandmother was raped when she was 82 years old. What she was wearing didn't matter.

    Assaults on children and on women are only about brutal power. Little girls and women can learn to dress for their own comfort and pleasure without fear of bringing on assault. They can also learn about cruel realities and how to defend themselves against potential attack by following the guidelines published by the agencies who teach them. If any agency lists something about clothing, it is still subscribing to old myths.

    I want to copy 2 paragraphs from Barbara's post......

    "No victim is the cause of the crime and yet in the case of sexual crime we are still trying to blame women and girls, letting the criminal off the hook in the public eye. This puts less pressure on research as to why sexual criminals act or what men can do to reduce, if not eliminate their paedofile-rapist behavior as well as stop those who rape adults. If modesty in dress was the key we would not have had any sex crimes before the 1920s.

    "Think on the movie Gosforth Park - Men took advantage of the household help, not dressed to entice. The men, rather than risk being rejected by the women who are their equals, sought out the girls of the house who were trying to hang onto their jobs. Young women were easily convinced this was positive attention or the young women were easily overwhelmed with force if that is what it took. This is an example of power mis-used by man to satisfy their sexual needs." (Barbara St. Aubrey)

    Betty

    Faithr
    September 16, 2002 - 06:52 pm
    Betty I agree with you there is a vast difference in these little girl pagents and the other examples such as dancing lessons, cheerleaders or even taking lessons as a young preteen in how to care for yourself and dress now that highschool is looming. Between 8th grade and highschool we had classes for young girls in the summer and it was not to teach modeling etc. or entering beauty pagents, it was to help the girls establish self=esteem and values re: dress and makeup. My daughter and her friends love it and learned a lot about acne and skin care, and nutrition, exercise, etc along with other more contraversial things.

    When you said those little pagent babies looked like some other era or some kind of burlesque of western queens it struck home. And then I thought that the parents must have really terrible taste and do not understand at all what beauty is. Nor do the handlers or the sponsers. I wonder who they are pandering too. Just a thought. Faith

    Lorrie
    September 16, 2002 - 07:44 pm
    Well!!! I must say it's surprising to see how vehement some of you are on this subject. However, I do believe it's entirely understandable given the times we live in.

    Whoever said that there is too much interference today with our children's games and activities is correct, IMHO. Wasn't there a case of a father attacking a hockey coach physically recently? I am appalled at some of the behaviour of parents that I have seen and despair at the kind of role model we are setting for them. I can remember how often I heard my parents tell me those worn old lines, "It's not the winning that counts so much---it's how you played the game." But, truly, in those days winning wasn't considered the "must" that it is now.

    Lorrie

    Sasha 5113
    September 16, 2002 - 08:33 pm
    We're in real trouble here, as a society. My 14 year old friend Matthew reports that harassment of girls at his middle school is EXPECTED: the guys who don't join in get beaten up. Matthew is afraid to go to school. The girls think their parents are "out of it," and some of them are disappointed if they aren't fondled during every class change. Parents who raise their sons on the "boys will be boys" model may actually BE guilty of child abuse, no?

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 16, 2002 - 09:12 pm
    I'm going to speak from a different perspective now. I was an entertainer. I was on the stage at a very early age (14), dressed in low cut dresses, hair lacquered and sprayed, with plenty of makeup on so I could be seen from the back row as I performed. Later I worked in lounges and clubs, singing and playing the piano. When I was not working I dressed for the role I was playing. I was a walking advertisement for myself and the place where I worked. "Look! There's Marilyn McKay. Let's go see her tonight."

    Entertainers do not dress the way people in supermarkets dress, nor do they behave the same way. The whole idea is to entice people with your act so they'll come back and spend more money in the club and buy your records. That business is no different today from when I was an active participant in it.

    Part of my job was to sit at tables with people who invited me to have a drink. There's something about sitting with an entertainer and talking to her or him that adds to prestige when people go home and talk about it. It also brings people back to the place where the entertainer works.

    Sometimes I sat with groups and pretended to drink. Sometimes I sat with couples and did the same. More often than not, I sat with single men, especially in the hotels where I worked. They were traveling businessmen who stayed at the hotels, and the hotel management wanted to keep their money there instead of spending it at the club down the street.

    Many times I was propositioned by men, a couple times by women, but I had learned how to say no sweetly in a way that would ensure that the customer would come back. Never, ever, not once was I touched by anyone, nor was I frightened by threatening behavior because there wasn't any.

    I concluded right then and there that being dressed in a more or less provocative way, even flirting a little, would not get me raped. It's not the clothes. It's not the earrings. It's not the makeup. Frankly, I think we should stop worrying so much about how kids dress. They all dress the same, don't they? When everyone looks the same, nobody stands out because it's all so darned familiar. It's not clothes, lipstick, mascara and eye shadow that cause trouble for girls.

    Mal

    jane
    September 17, 2002 - 05:04 am
    Mal,in today's world do you think it would be safe to allow a 14 year old girl to do what you did? Do you think she'd be safe from "touching"? I'm wondering if what was safe for you some 40-50 or whatever years ago would be safe today?

    Also, apparently you and I see a 6 yr old in a "beauty pageant" differently. Do you think a 6 year old in a beauty contest is, then, an entertainer who's expected to "sell her image" ---but to whom and why? JonBenet, to the best of my recollection, was not a paid entertainer. Did I miss that somewhere?

    Coyote
    September 17, 2002 - 06:35 am
    Of course, it has never been the girl or woman's fault when she is taken advantage of or raped, but men and boys still see what they see and feel what they feel. When my son, a very tall boy, was a freshman in high school, a teacher told me this story about him.

    There was a very young girl in the school who always dressed like a "French street walker" and did the swing the hips walk, etc. When she passed Rick in the hall doing her thing, he spoke to her in a friendly voice and said, "If it isn't for sale, don't put it on the counter."

    I think that crude but sensible advice should be given to every young girl. As a woman dairy farmer back in the thirties told her daughters, "Remeber, the heifers come in heat every 21 days but the bulls are always in heat."

    So outnumbered by females on this discussion, I will stick up for the fact that even though I believe every boy and man must learn and use respect and self control, girls and women can help by not advertising so blatently what isn't intended to be available. I don't care for beauty pagents, especially for youngsters. Let the talented children get paid for entertaining if THEY enjoy it, but let it be for their skill and talent rather than the sexual enticement. OK, maybe I'm some sort of weirdo, but I would still rather listen to the voice of Kate Smith than Madonna.

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 17, 2002 - 06:44 am
    Jane, when I was 14 years old I was up on a stage a good long way from anybody in the audience, not in a club. I was a whole lot older than that when I worked in clubs. I said nothing at all about kids' beauty pageants. I think beauty pageants are silly, frankly.

    Mal

    jane
    September 17, 2002 - 07:11 am
    Ok, Mal, I misunderstood. I thought you were saying you were a 14 yr old entertaining in clubs and sitting at tables with single men, etc.

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 17, 2002 - 07:14 am
    When I was performing as a kid on the stage, there was always plenty of adult supervision around. In clubs where I worked when I was older there were security people keeping an eye on what was going on in the club. There always are. Hotels and clubs can't afford to let negative things happen to their workers, entertainers, or the people who patronize these places. The only time I was aware of one was when a couple in their late 50's got a little too amorous and a security man came in and politely asked them to leave. The memory of that couple makes me laugh a little.

    Oh, yes. I know young women who work as entertainers in music groups today. When I've asked them how things are going, they've told me there is the occasional kook, but that person isn't allowed to stay in the club very long. There is always somebody hired to keep "law and order" in those places. Keep in mind the fact that clubs are businesses, and businesses can't afford bad reputations.

    I don't know anything about children's beauty pageants. Are they as restricted as the Miss America and Miss World pageants are? The young women in those practically have to ask permission to breathe.

    Mal

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 17, 2002 - 07:51 am
    Jane, the last real "gig" I played was when I was 61 years old, though I did have a job at a party in New York four or five years ago. I'd still be doing it if my hands weren't so messed up with arthritis. It's a fun way to pick up some change. I loved working as an entertainer. It was wonderful fun.

    I might add here that when I was a young entertainer, I was an honor student in high school, studied music at the New England Conservatory of Music, went to and graduated from college, majoring in music, and had three radio shows of my own while I was going to school.

    Mal

    Lorrie
    September 17, 2002 - 08:11 am
    "Remeber, the heifers come in heat every 21 days but the bulls are always in heat."

    Oh, Ben, I am still guffawing over that expression! And that does call for a guffaw!

    Seriously, though, you have a reasonable point of view, and valued especially coming from a male source. I'm sure many men would agree with you in that respect, but of course according to the law these days, a victim's clothing, appearance, or even speech has no bearing on the crime itself.

    Lorrie

    Ann Alden
    September 17, 2002 - 10:35 am
    Someone here has said that we are denigrating our women by letting them be in beauty pagaents??

    My main complaint is that the older girls and women who are models or in beauty contests need to have a course in self esteem. I always wondered for example, why women, who are half unclothed, let themselves be put on the covers of magazines? And, then you hear that they are putting themselves through college with the money earned. I like the comment the boy made: If it ain't for sale, don't put it on the counter!

    Coyote
    September 17, 2002 - 10:39 am
    Of course, the one who commits a crime is the one responsible, but why leave the keys in the car and the motor running? I just wanted my three daughters to know how men react sexually to what they see much more than women.

    betty gregory
    September 17, 2002 - 10:55 am
    We're on 2 separate subjects here. Rape and similar assault has nothing to do with sex and sexual need. Brutal assault of someone less powerful is about power.

    The other subject is how women dress, what messages are given from their behaviors, generational ideas on how girls should dress, what turns boys on, whether a few girls look slutty.

    Betty

    Faithr
    September 17, 2002 - 11:07 am
    I think childrens beauty pagents are venal not silly. faith

    keniwah
    September 17, 2002 - 05:42 pm
    Personally I think that blaming an attacked woman who was dressed in a manner that displayed her attractiveness is very similar to blaming the person who is well-dressed as being responsible for being mugged. Also, I guess the person who drives a Caddy should also be held partially responsible if his car is stolen? Of course, then there's the kid who gets good marks in school .... surely he must be responsible if he's bullied by other kids. Where does it end? Everybody's guilty except the perpetrator.

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    September 17, 2002 - 10:41 pm
    Rah Rah keniwah - and I'd say it is a pretty sorry guy who feels the need to jump in a car that is not his just because the owner left the keys in the ignition and the moter running - I guess if this same guy saw a hundred dollar bill poking out of a women's shoulder purse he would look around to see who was watching, then make the easy pick stuffing the hundred in his pocket - or any number of crimes that seem easy and have a come-on mystic about them - the kind of thinking that says, 'it serves the victim right for making it soooo easy.' And kids sure are easy...

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    September 17, 2002 - 11:19 pm
    Just hit me what is being suggested here - shoot I thought we were far beyond this archaic thinking when we are suggesting that girls and women by the way they dress and act are the ones responsible for what guys do with their raging hormone - Bull or heifer’s sexual cycle or not it is up to him to control his sexual impulses or any other impulse that by acting upon it would take advantage of someone else. Sorry if this is hurting someone's feelings but it is the guy that interprets a girls flirty ways as selling something - he is the one interpreting her actions as an advertisement for sex rather than the girl just being flirty and proud of her body. How about the guys that strut around showing how big and strong and well developed their body is and how well they play a sport - They want everyone within their arena to notice them as 'the' man on campus with overtones of advertising he is only available to the best looking girl on campus - he is selling his stuff and we think that is OK but if a girl does it she is acting the Lorali - we want girls to be non-sexual and we in the 21st century are still blaming girls making them responsible for the behavior of men and justifying this misplaced responsiblity because he is always on and she isn’t therefore she should be responsible for him!?!

    Gads and them we wonder why women are so easily trained to be co-dependent and why they accept the responsiblity for all that goes wrong within the family dynamics.

    betty gregory
    September 18, 2002 - 01:26 am
    Exactly, Barbara.

    Furthermore, if you think about it, this is also an insult to men. The whole blame-the-woman-victim is also an insult to men. It means that men are not in control of their bodies, cannot control their sexual behavior. Is the average guy ready to say that a scantily dressed woman or a flirty woman causes him to assault her? That he cannot stop himself? That is the other end of the equation. She CAUSES something, and he CANNOT CONTROL HIMSELF. No, neither side makes sense.

    Betty

    jane
    September 18, 2002 - 04:50 am
    What is the best way to get out the word about Child Beauty Contests? Is the sort of publicity that's come about because of the death of JonBenet?

    There's now all that brouhaha about the adult contest in the Carolinas---one of the former boyfriends of the winner of the Miss NC or SC (I forget which...you can tell it was important to me! ;0)) let the Miss America people know he had photos of her topless.

    So, then the charade of the TWO winners, etc. I wonder if those folks now what a joke they've become to lots of us?

    Sasha 5113
    September 18, 2002 - 04:59 am
    "She CAUSES something, and he CANNOT CONTROL HIMSELF. No, neither side makes sense."

    Didn't Adam blame Eve and the serpent for his own weakness?

    Coyote
    September 18, 2002 - 06:16 am
    I think some of you ladies may have missed my point. I know about self control and who is at fault in any crime as well as anyone. But when I say why leave the keys in the car, my point is that it is foolish to blatantly set yourself up to be the chosen target of the criminal. I can't help but wonder about child beauty pagents making some little girls chosen targets, so I am very glad none of my girls or granddaughters were into such things. Would you deliberately walk down a city street with a hundred dollar bill hanging out of your purse?

    Ann Alden
    September 18, 2002 - 07:00 am
    Pure common sense, Benjamin!

    This seems a really touchy subject when discussed by the two sexes. Each one has their own story.

    Barbara is so right when she reminds us that rape is not about sex but about power.

    Being aware of where you are, whats around you and keeping an eye on the possibilities. Who said here that her 83 yr old aunt was raped? How sad! Was she at home, minding her own business? or out alone, maybe, shopping?

    My point is that one thing I think is important is to teach our famale population never to go anywhere alone. And, I mean anywhere! But, I understand, that won't stop the kidnapping of children from their bedrooms which seems prolific at this time.

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 18, 2002 - 07:53 am
    I think a big part of what we're discussing when we talk about beauty pageants is exploitation. Parents who put their child in a beauty pageant do it not for the child, but for their own selfish and probably twisted psychological reasons. They are exploiting their children. Young women who go into beauty pageants have the misguided idea that they could become famous. According to one of America's Get Rich Quick myths is the idea that if you're famous, you get rich. These women do not appear to realize that they're being exploited by the people who run the pageants who sell tickets and make money because of them, or that they're being exploited by hungry media.

    Ann, I think it's a little extreme to say women should never go anywhere alone. I go everywhere alone; have walked all around New York City and other cities in the U.S. alone, was in Paris, London, Zurich and other European cities alone, have flown across this country alone more than once, etc., etc. There's as much risk (maybe more) crossing the street in a city and taking the chance of being hit by a car as there is that some lunatic will grab you when you go to the supermarket, really. I'll take my chances.

    Funny, the one and only time I was ever grabbed by a man was when I got up to the top of some stairs in a restaurant, and my male escort was right behind me.

    Mal

    annafair
    September 18, 2002 - 08:14 am
    I knew this topic would be one that would invite everyone to have their say...and while I havent had time ( I have company 4 adults and a wee toddler) to read all I would say I am in agreement with most of you.

    I have always found beauty constests abhorent. I understand the Miss America offers young women a chance to obtain a scholarship and for those with talent a venue to display it and hope to be noticed by someone who will help them find success.

    But even then I it seems demeaning to me to have to do a beauty contest to obtain a scholarship or help in getting ahead in thier field of expertise.

    AND this business of dressing young girls ( and I say girls because the clothes for boys do not seem to fall into the same category) as harlots is not new. When my 50 year old daughter was 12 and going to a church camp I went to Sears to buy her a bathing suit. ALL OF THE BATHING SUITS for 12 year old and less were bikinis..When I told the sales clerk how I felt she said all of the girls want them. I finally ended up making her a bathing suit. Thank goodness I could sew.

    IN my opinion and in my mind all the girls did not want them and I dont believe the mothers did either...but unless you could sew you had to buy what was there. And it continues today...thank goodness my daughter and my daughters in law are sensible about dressing their children but especially my granddaughters in appropiate attire.

    Again when my oldest was about 12 some mothers of daughters the same age from my church and I had heated debates about how to dress our daughters. The sleezy clothes were out there but since I could and did sew my daughter was dressed in clothes that were appropiate for 12 year olds. Most of the mothers felt I was hopelessly old fashioned and dressed their daughters in tight short skirts and very inappropiate attire. I hate to say it but five of those girls ended up getting pregnant by the time they were 16..it was so sad for all of us ..dressing like a hooker makes a girl vulnerable to the male thinking she must be a hooker ..none of these girls were in themselves bad but it draws attention to them they are not able to understand or cope with.

    We had a 6-6 system in Nashville where we lived at the time..and when my daughter entered the 7th grade she wanted to go to the school dance and I wouldnt allow it ..She was not mature enough for the kind of socialization she would encounter ..and I hate to say it but there is a segment of the male population who feels they should be the one to deflower the female..they may not do with actual rape but with sweet words that confuse the girls.

    THANK God my mother told me from the time I was just a little girl that there are worse things in life than never marrying and it was the law we couldnt get married until we were at least 21. Education was the goal ...and my brothers were told what I told my sons...I dont want you to come home and tell me you have made some girl pregnant ..YOU WONT HAVE TO MARRY HER BUT YOU WILL SUPPORT THAT CHILD UNTIL THE CHILD IS 18 and YOU WILL DO IT NOT YOUR FATHER OR I>>. So unless you are prepared to do that keep your zipper zipped.. I also told them any inheritance they might have had if we died before they were 18 would go to the child.

    SOme one asked if we dont have student loans here in America and we do ...and people with money can qualify ..all they have to do is show they cant afford to put a child through college because their bills are too high..I know some families who bought expensive cars, boats and other high ticket items on credit and it was true they couldnt afford to put the child through college. Instead they burdened the child with a loan ...Please I dont mean a child shouldnt help pay for their college fees. My children worked and saved for that and had jobs while in college to offset the expenses and we drove the same car for 17 years to help them .

    But you cant start when a child is 16 you have to start when they are 6 days. I simply do not understand the parents who think it is cute to enter a child in a beauty contest. AND I dont think it gives them self confidence but just the opposite. ANXIETY in huge amounts..they want to please Mother and they want to be the ones that win. It also teaches them that being "CUTE" is the way to attract attention. It is the saddest thing and worst thing you can do to your child.

    And they are robbed of the very thing they deserve the most a real childhood.

    And I dont wear a helmut ...I just speak my piece and let the chips fall where they may...off to a petting zoo and childrens museum...anna

    Faithr
    September 18, 2002 - 08:51 am
    To the people who think no female should go anywhere alone, or should be careful to not dress enticingly, I say... balony...next you will be saying we should be veiled and covered from head to toe in a huge sheet so that the males who look at us will not lose all control and go crazy.

    But the subject is: Child Beauty Pagents. The thing people do to a 4 or 5 year old when they dress them like barbie dolls (or hookers) and send them out to win for mommy is truly child abuse. I do not think those beauty pagent babies will ever recover from the type of competition it was...How they look! And how they look is totally unatural and they will never attain their mental picture of what they should ideally be...therefore it may be that they never will be satisfied women. This is indeed, child abuse. Faith

    Coyote
    September 18, 2002 - 09:00 am
    FAITHR - I certainly agree with your second paragraph. I was little and talented (musically) in the thirties when child stars were all getting so much attention. My mother was a great mother in so many ways, but she loved music and the stage, so didn't realize how much I resented being dressed up like a young Mozart to play one of his pieces for a recital when I was about six. Curls in my hair, a frilly blouse, long white socks and shiny black pumps just meant looking like a stupid sissy to me. I played my piece - a little fast, then hurried backstage where I puked out my anxiety about the whole thing. I remember that incident when I see those little girls all prissed up competing for a crown. I still say, some of these things may be OK if and when the kids really enjoy them, but I doubt if that is the case very often.

    Faithr
    September 18, 2002 - 09:06 am
    Ben I know you were more than anxious about that experience I believe the little girls are affected forever by their experiences and not in any healthy way either. I can get awfully indignant about what people do to children especially when the dignity of the child is totally ignored. This isnt fair and children know what is fair and what isn't.fr

    Marilyne
    September 18, 2002 - 09:35 am
    There is little we can do to change the styles that now prevail for our grandchildren. Those are the clothes that are for sale in the stores, and that's what the girls want to wear. I agree with whoever said, (back a few posts), that they are all dressed exactly alike, so no one really shows up anyway. Let's face it - we will probably never see the return of sensible plaid dresses, saddle shoes and knee socks for young girls! They do say that the pendulum will swing back to more conservative dress and behavior, but probably not while we are still around to witness it .

    When I was young, I wanted to dress like all the other girls too, and looking back at pictures of us - we DID all look the same! (Remember the strapless tulle prom dresses?) When my oldest daughter was in high school, micro-mini skirts were in style. I wasn't crazy about them, but all of the girls were wearing them and I couldn't see any reason for not allowing her to wear them also. (I do remember lecturing her on being very careful when she sat down!) She managed to grow up just fine, in spite of her short skirts, and is now married and has four children.

    She also attended co-ed social dance classes, when she was in the 7th and 8th grade, as did my son, and also my youngest daughter in the years following. They all loved the classes, had lots of fun, learned to dance, and nothing bad ever happened to any of them. It was a good positive experience.

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 18, 2002 - 09:43 am

    What Ben said made me think about child prodigies. What about Charlotte Church, whom many seniors think is so wonderful? The last time I saw her on TV she looked anything but innocent. Has she been suffering from child abuse, too, or should we forgive her parents because she sings classical music from time to time? There are others, and have been as long as I've been around, anyway. Yehudi Menuhin was one, for example. Gloria Jean. Remember her? Who was that Canadian child soprano when I was a kid? Oh, yes, Deanna Durbin. What about Judy Garland? What about Beverly Sills? She sang the Rinso White radio commercial when she was just a little girl. If I'm not mistaken, Ella Fitzgerald recorded A Tisket A Tasket when she was in her early teens.

    I just did a search of children's and adult beauty pageants and found out that Halle Berry got her start in beauty pageants. It's show business, and show business has been around for a long time. Should we go after all of it as far as kids and young women are concerned?

    Mal

    kiwi lady
    September 18, 2002 - 10:47 am
    How many of those child stars grew up and had a happy life? I suspect from the statistics not many. They had an unnatural childhood. Shirley Temple Black was one of the few who did make a go of it in adult life.

    Carolyn

    Coyote
    September 18, 2002 - 01:22 pm
    I read an autobiography of Shirley Temple Black a few years ago. She stressed all the way through that she enjoyed acting, dancing and the movies. I believe that showed up quite well. She just couldn't have possibly looked so happy or performed so well if she didn't want to be there. Oh, she had days she wasn't too happy and probably several times a day she was tired or something, but she liked to do what she did most of the time. Another young star who really liked what he did was Ron Howard. He was as happy as any young cowboy growing up working on a ranch. It was a life he liked and wanted to stay with as he grew up.

    I don't like to mix pre-puberty kids with teen-agers when talking about child actors/performers. Even though the older kids can still be exploited, I feel they have a lot more to say about what they do or don't do. In many societies, older kids are treated as the young adults they really are, so are expected to work and otherwise take on adult responsibilities.

    Bill H
    September 18, 2002 - 02:17 pm
    Carolyn, echoed my view on the subject. I feel this is to much stress and strain for these children. Forgive me ladies for saying this, but when I see pictures of these youngsters all made up with rouge, lipstick, eye make up, etc. I think of the down town street walkers. I apologize if anyone finds what I just said offense.

    As Lorrie said, "give them back their childhood." In the previous discussion most of us shared our happy childhood memories of the days when we had so much fun We only have it for a brief time. What are these kids going to say: Oh, my parents made me dress up like an adult? Those kids look horrible made up like that. But, hey listen, that would fine for Halloween )

    Bill H

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 18, 2002 - 02:37 pm

    I'm curious to know how one recognizes a downtown streetwalker today by her clothes unless one sees a woman actually approach a man on the street or go to his car and tell him her services are available. I'm sure that in my lifetime I've passed by hookers in the various places I've been, but to tell you the truth I wouldn't have been able to tell you I saw one if I did.

    Are we talking about stereotypes here? Are we upset about the clothes kids wear because of the kind of outfit like hotpants and midriff tops and boots to the knee, along with dyed hair and eye shadow which were not worn in our day? These kids are emulating their heroes just the way I did way back when. In my time, all the girls wanted to be sweater girls like Lana Turner, so we went out and bought uplift bras, falsies if necessary, and sweaters that revealed all of our curves, real or otherwise. Everybody was tut-tutting because we jitterbugged, were thrown over the shoulders of our boyfriend dancing partners, sometimes revealing our panties. In the eyes of our elders we were just as outrageous as kids are today. Even moreso when Elvis came along and we were Rockin' and Rollin'. And, hey, you should have heard the fuss the people who raised me made when I bought my first pair of blue jeans in an Army Navy store in 1946. What about Zoot Suits? Remember those?

    Ben is right when he says pre-puberty kids should not be lumped in with teenagers, but I'll say that people like Judy Garland and others I mentioned started working on their careers when they were small children, practicing their singing and dancing routines, on the stage in a smalltime way, entering talent contests, and so forth. Remember Major Bowes? They didn't become movie stars overnight. And it's absolutely true, a lot of these kids really enjoy what they're doing.

    Though I don't like beauty pageants because of the exploitation factor, I think what happened to JonBenet was an isolated case. I'll stick my neck out and say I don't think her death had anything to do with any beauty contest she was in.

    Mal

    losalbern
    September 18, 2002 - 02:42 pm
    I have never been terribly alarmed by current faddish dress amongst teenagers. In fact the recent young male cool mode in baggy, baggy shorts struck me as being pretty funny. And the same can be said about the girls with the exposed belly button. Is that supposed to be sexy? How? Navels certainly are common enough. Not much mystery there. We know those kids are vying for attention and trying to shock their elders in to thinking they are making cool adult decisions. But think back just a little. My generation had their uniform-of-the-day too; the gals with their Sloppy Joe sweaters, pleated long skirts, bobby socks and slightly scuffed saddle shoes! Hey they were near replicas of each other but we guys loved 'em that way. I cant remember what the guys wore except perhaps corduroys. We had outgrown blue jeans by that time. And we wouldn't be caught dead in our big brother's shorts that would look baggy on us. Every generation tries desperately to make its own fashion statement so I try not to take too much offense about the current youth. But little girl beauty pageants ? Not in the best interests of these misguided and exploited children. Losalbern

    Faithr
    September 18, 2002 - 04:52 pm
    I hope I will not give the impression that I am against young girls wearing fashionable clothing and having modish haircuts and modern makeup suitable to their day, as I did in mine and my daughters in their time. I have been through very short skirts to above the knee in world war 11, then in 47 the new look down to the ankles and then back up to the panty line in the late 60's, and much up and down since then, and none of that had any untoward affect on me or my family. There is a vast difference between teen agers and the subject of this discussion which is the Child Beauty Pagents which start with 4 year olds and I believe go to only about 7 when they get too old for that particular genre.

    And it also has little or nothing to do with Actress' Actors or Entertainers at all. The beauty pagents are simply exploitive of the child for profit by the sponsers and advertisers. The mommys who enter their children are worse than exploiting the child for money as they get some kind of vicarious thrill from all the attention as if it is "theirs". fr

    howzat
    September 18, 2002 - 11:28 pm
    I have never been to see a child beauty pagent. I don't know anyone who has ever been to one. I don't know any children that have ever participated in such a pagent, or any parents who have groomed their child for or entered their child in such a pagent. The only experience I have is the few snippets of film shown on television of the Ramsey child who was murdered. From those few scenes that I saw, I didn't like what I saw.

    HOWZAT

    betty gregory
    September 19, 2002 - 03:00 am
    Tongue engaged in cheek. Sasha, I guess Adam wasn't up to date in his social research reading; I guess he didn't realize that he had to take responsibility for his own behavior.

    --------------------------------

    This is a little frustrating because several separate issues are lumped together. A woman walking alone at night is more vulnerable to being mugged and her money stolen. She is very slightly more at risk for being raped, keeping in mind that most sexual assaults happen at home within the family or with boyfriends and husbands. The stranger rapist is highly publicized, but very rare.

    Being alone outside is the draw, not what clothes are being worn. The men posting here and most men would find sexy or skimpy clothes to be a turn-on. The men posting here and most men are not rapists. Men who hold a knife or gun on a woman or who slam a rock on her head as part of a rape or who pin her down with his hands and knees as she is screaming and crying....this whole scene is about brutal power. It is not about being sexually arroused.

    After many decades and thousands of hours of interviews with rapists, we now know that rape is angry, brutal, controlling power over a woman. A woman cannot set herself up for this by wearing certain clothes or acting certain ways. This is not a scene of "sex" as you and I think of sexual sex. It is an attack, an assault. Someone is usually screaming and fighting for her life.

    -----------------------------------------

    Someone asked about my 82 year old grandmother. She was asleep in the middle of the night.

    Betty

    Ann Alden
    September 19, 2002 - 05:15 am
    Oh, Sasha, I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother. Poor lady!! She certainly wasn't asking for it, was she? Oh, dear, dear dear!

    I stand by my post about women being careful. And one way that they can protect themselves is by being totally aware of their surroundings and by trying not take chances by going places alone. In the world we live in today, this act of violence happens to women who are alone either on the street or in their homes. After all, rape, for the most part,is not a group experience.

    For instance: We have a serial rapist on our university campus. He has never broken a window or jimmyed a door. The girls were alone, in one way or the other. They were coming home from the lab or library where they were studying. One had just gotten off the university shuttle bus at 10pm, and was walking to her apartment just a step away. One was walking home alone and was grabbed and raped in the alley right next to her apartment. Yes, he found a few unlocked doors and windows and accosted two girls in their homes.

    In my little village,we had a lady who inadvertently left her downstairs bathroom window open and awoke to having man climbing on her and raping her. The detective on the case made a presentation to our club about this and how to better protect yourself.

    We have all wandered the streets of a new place, seeing the sights, just touristy stuff, but I think that when evening comes or you find yourself alone on a barren street, the better part of common sense, would make us more watchful and maybe think about returning to our hotel.

    Lorrie
    September 19, 2002 - 08:27 am
    Betty's remarks are so full of common sense that one can hardly find argument there.

    We seem to have many different opinions as to the results of beauty pageants, and the effect they may or not have on children who are subjected to these contests. Most of you feel that the scanty clothing and provocative poses are unacceptable for small children, and from there the subject gradually led to that of rape.

    It's interesting to see the sharp division of opinion between the sexes here as to the cause/effect of rape. Most of the men were of like opinion, (that sometimes the victims were to blame) but most of the women saw it differently.

    This is a very stimulating discussion, and I am proud of you all for expressing yourselves in matter-of-fact terms and without histrionics, like intelligent adults.

    Lorrie

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 19, 2002 - 08:30 am
    There are many, many sites on the web about beauty pageants, including children's. Some have applications for entering pageants. Below are three links to such sites. There is a whole industry of clothing manufacturers who make clothes for pageant wear. The last link will take you to an example.



    CHILDREN’S BEAUTY PAGEANTS



    PAGEANT MOMS



    PAGEANT CLOTHES

    Lorrie
    September 19, 2002 - 08:32 am
    Someone spoke of Shirley Temple. I always thought the big secret of Shirley's successful transition from child to adult was the result of a careful, loving yet cautious, management by her parents from the very beginning. It seems to me that their attitudes were more of concerned parents than frustrated stage-mothers, and I wonder if this could have made the difference. Still, if we all remember correctly, nobody tried to make little Shirley into a pint-sized hooker. They left her as the endearing little girl she was, thank Heaven.

    Lorrie

    Coyote
    September 19, 2002 - 12:56 pm
    Oh, folks, I just read the words under our heading: Curious Minds - Now Open. Good words to think about.

    No, Shirley Temple wasn't made to look like a grown-up when she was little. Instead, the studio tried to make her always look younger than she was. When she first started, they got her birth certificate changed to a year later so she was advertised as three when she was really four, etc. Then even when she was ten or so, they still dressed her like she was a pre-schooler - the pinafore, high-waisted look. She didn't like that part at all and found that image made it difficult for her to transition into an adult actress.

    Bill H
    September 19, 2002 - 02:22 pm
    Malyrn, streetwalkers have a certain "swing" to their walk) Just like Dracula, they come out at night, wearing those come hither clothes and "how ya doin" look, in the not so great parts of the city, or so I'm told!

    Ben and Losalbern, yes, Shirley Temple was one of a kind. She was a good little actor, for her age. No phony make up. No beauty pageant dresses, no beads hanging around her neck. Oh, she may at times have worn a costume if the script called for it. Mostly singing simple songs, "On the good ship Lollipop, it's a nice trip in to bed we hop...." and dancing with Buddy Epson and Bill Robson. Far cry from the kids beauty pageants

    Bill H

    Bill H
    September 19, 2002 - 05:11 pm
    Was it Bill Robson or Paul Robson. Senior time again.)

    Bill H

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 19, 2002 - 05:45 pm
    Bill "Bojangles" Robinson was one of the best tap dancers who ever lived, in my opinion. Paul Robeson was a marvelous singer whose political views got him trouble in the United States.

    Mal

    Sasha 5113
    September 19, 2002 - 10:12 pm
    What do the parents of these tiny children expect to see the KIDS get out of the experience? My guess, and I'll happily take correction, is that the kids are objects to their parents as well as to the audience and judges.

    We're concerned about motivation here, and it's the parents' motivation that's suspect. So, setting aside the obvious pecuniary motivation of the pageant organizers, we have parents exploiting children. Isn't this a criminal offense?

    Coyote
    September 20, 2002 - 07:19 am
    I doubt if exploiting children is completely against the law anywhere. I see all too many parents showing off their kids one way or another for the parent's gratification. Junior, say the ABCs. Junior, show Grandpa how you can throw the ball. Junior, wave bye-bye to Grandma. Tricks. I always think of Spot, sit up and beg. Spot, roll over and play dead. Spot, go fetch.

    Children are of absolutely no use at all if you don't enjoy them, but I always figured tricks look pretty much like exploitation. I prefer to enjoy kids by watching them be themselves and getting to know them. When I watched the clips of JonBenet, I always wondered what she thought about all the goings on. I wondered if anyone ever asked her opinion.

    Bill H
    September 20, 2002 - 10:18 am
    Malyrn, thank you so much for explaining the Robinson and Robeson men. You now, I thought about that long after I signed off.

    Bill H

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    September 20, 2002 - 12:16 pm
    Oh dear - I know it sounds like beating a dead horse - but with this kind of thinking we will never get to the cure stage for sexual assault - it is a screen, a fog that keeps us looking at what we know and want to accept about what a women can and should not do to protect herself - the screen or fog is, we as a society should be concerned with the violent assault on women by strangers - it is certainly the most publicly written about assault and as long as we focus on that minute sector of sexual assault with all sorts of advise and Karate classes and keeping single women afraid of the night we will never get to the real issue or issues.

    As Betty said THREE QUARTERS of sexual assault happen either in the home by a so called loved one or on a date or while visiting a known friend. No these assaults are not written about in the Newspapers - there are all sorts of dynamics at stake, the least of which is the shame of the victim and the impossibility of getting justice in a court room because of the way laws are written. By publicizing something negative about another that you may not win the case in court the victim can be sued for deformation of character - in addition when it comes to a family member the dynamics are so confusing it would be impossible to explain here in this discussion.

    Please if you have any interest in being an advocate for yourself or the girls and women in your families - read and learn - and volunteer, if for only a couple of months so that you can take the classes, at your local Battered Women's center where you will learn tons about sexual abuse within a family.

    Now Betty described the violent abuse but remember there is equally as much non-violent abuse - so many I decided to come back and make this into a list -- There are a million more non-violent ways that sexual assault can be thrust upon a women or girl in which women/girls have not been trained how to handle - our instinct is to protect the friend/family member at fault and society has added to that training by constantly speaking of what a women should do to stay safe - where as, we see nothing about what she should do when the offending party is someone she cares about and her feelings are confused during the moments when she can least afford to be confused - Or what to do about her instant guilt and shame so that she freezes and does not defend herself at all cost

    Even during violent rape we are now taught not to fight our attacker if we value our life - when do we ever start to read and learn about what causes men to push their power by assaulting women - what will it take before men learn to see women as equals rather then someone to be made submissive to their needs and wants - when do we ever start researching the behavior cures for men rather than this constant look at what women are doing to entice what is clearly the men’s problem.

    Yes, I hear the echo - “Oh, but women do it too” - well the stats show that women perpetrators or a minute portion of the problem and we have good information as to why a women becomes a perpetrator.

    jane
    September 20, 2002 - 01:09 pm
    Sasha and Ben: We do think alike. Yes, I guess all parents [I'm not one so am off the hook here ;0)] like to show off their children's accomplishments, but having Johnny play a song for Grandpa and having Susie in multiple $300 costumes and parading across a stage to be judged, ultimately, on how "cute" she is are, in my mind, very different things. I guess it's one thing for Spot to roll over on the living room carpet to show the neighbor kids; it's another to dress him up and transport him all over the US to "perform" his trick. I see the same thing with the kids.

    I guess, in the end, for me it boils down to common sense and when something is "over the top." I think beauty pageants for children are in the "too much" category. However, I think a lot of things are in that category---battery operated toy cars for children who can't reach the pedals but no books in the child's home; children who are plopped in front of the TV for hours on end, etc. I guess I'll have to put "beauty pageants" for children in this same category--what I call Poor Parent Judgment by My Standards. Obviously, others and many parents think these contests are fine, given that they exist and companies exist to sell gowns and tiaras and jewelry for such endeavors.

    The good thing about the pageants are that I can avoid them all. When any come on TV, I do the quickest click on the old remote.

    pedln
    September 20, 2002 - 06:49 pm
    This really doesn't address the topic, but it is about young people and their attire. I'm sure than any of you who have taught adolescents in the not too distant past, the past that includes low-slung jeans, has come across a student who is leaning over his desk, computer, book, whatever, unaware that his/her jeans have slipped below what is acceptable. Today I was dining in a mall food court and this time it was a young lady who was unknowingly exposing -- tatoos included.

    What to do? Say anything? If it were you, would you want to know, right then and there? You don't want to embarrass anyone, but I think I might want to change my posture, perhaps.</b.

    losalbern
    September 21, 2002 - 12:40 pm
    Pedlin, Thats a good question, "What To Say?", . No doubt you were offended and presumably the offender may have been unaware of her offense. But to say something to the young person would only widen the gap between two sensibilites. No lesson to be learned, no wrong uprighted, just two offenses instead of one. I had occasion once to become offended by a reckless, long haired youthful driver whom I angrily followed just to tell "him" what I thought of "his" reckless and dangerous driving habits when "he" parked the car. After delivering my little chastizing speech, I learned that to my distress that "he" was a young and pretty, long haired girl whose response was "---- you" over her shoulder. Later on, upon review, I told myself that I had asked for that! So Pedlin, I don't think a response in your situation would have solved anything either. Losalbern

    Ann Alden
    September 22, 2002 - 03:01 am
    Did anyone watch the Miss America contest last night? Just being facetious!!

    Barbara, you call to arms about the women's shelters is such a good way to volunteer. We used to raise money for ours and collect food and clothing plus layettes were put together. There is so much we can do there. You are so right that abuse is not always physical and the women blame themselves for their husband's or mate's mistreatment of them. They are so beaten down mentally that they have no self esteem left. And when they come in with children, you wonder, how the children will turn out when this is how their lives have started. So sad!

    Back to the pageant beat! We have a good friend whose daughter went this route to get her education. By the time that she was competing in the state contests, she had become absolutely obnoxious. When the high school choral, of which she was a member, went to commiserate with her over a loss, she snubbed them at the airport. Now, 48, and living in Japan, her family still speaks of her with gushing praise. Its a real twister to still hear her mother brag about this girl/woman, over the six other children in the family.

    pedln
    September 22, 2002 - 09:35 am
    Ann, was the mother the one who pushed for the contests? I often wonder what motivates someone to get involved in the teen/adult contests because the process sounds like a hassle as well as costly. There was a girl here who competed; I don't remember how far she went, but she competed over a period of years. A good student, nice pleasant girl. The mother, a single mom, a teacher, would be the last person you would think would want her daughter to go this route -- down to earth, practical. All I can think is that she brought her daughter up to be independent and would support her in what she wanted to do. The girl is now happily married, 4 kids.

    Jeanlock2
    September 22, 2002 - 09:37 am
    About the teens overexposing--sometimes I think they do that on purpose.

    No, I didn't watch the Miss America, except for a couple of times when I clicked in to see what was happening. Saw Miss Maryland singing an aria from Carmen in which she did quite well til the final climactic notes when she was flat.

    What I did do was watch My Life as a House which I had taped from Pay per View a while back. That was a very profound movie. How they covered so many elemental aspects of the relationships among people who were related or semi-related was impressive. Probably one of the best films I ever saw. I've come to the conclusion that because I only tape things that come highly recommended, I tend to get the cream of the crop. Then when I watch a bunch of them as I have this week because of the dearth of watchable TV, I tend to think the whole industry is improving. I also watched Pay if Forward the other night. And am looking forward to Hearts in Atlantis. I like the book a lot.

    jane
    September 22, 2002 - 10:00 am
    After many years teaching in a high school, I agree with Jeanlock. I think many/most of the kids want whatever is hanging out to hang out. I saw more of lots of teens ...uh..."rear ends" than anybody except their physicians should be exposed to. How they manage to walk with their pants half way down their rears is a mystery to me, but I guess it explains the strange "shuffle" they did. I know, I know, I'm an old woman but what is the "appeal" is in seeing somebody's rear end? It's about the same "sex appeal" to me as seeing someone with a tongue stud and their eyebrows pierced with safety pins. YUCK!

    Jeanlock2
    September 22, 2002 - 10:04 am
    Jane--

    The teen-age son in Life as a House had just about everything pierced that could be.

    The answer to why they dress as they do is easy. Because everyone else is doing it. A better question is who is the diabolical mind that sets such standards? Where does it come from? I suppose lots of what we see today is due to the way the rock bands, etc. dress, etc. I remember when my grandson turned up home one night with an earring. The entire family descended, and his father, too. Gone the next night. Probably stifled his individuality forever.

    jane
    September 22, 2002 - 11:21 am
    Yep, Jean...the "I want to be an individual; I want to be me"...so long as I look just like everyone else my age. I guess we all went through that...and so I just shake my head and am glad I don't have to look at them across the breakfast table! ;0)

    kiwi lady
    September 22, 2002 - 01:00 pm
    We have a doco coming up. Are we stealing our childrens childhood? Do we want 12 year olds to be twenty year olds?

    It's the adults who design the clothes. Its the adults who make the movies and the TV soaps. Its the adults who publish the magazines which give young girls a negative image of their bodies. I have heard children as young as 8 telling me they are on a diet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! At my Brooke's dance recital half the kids looked like products of the German Concentration camps. They weren't just thin they looked malnourished. I will report on the documentary later.

    There is a soap on here at 7pm in which there is so much bedhopping that I am sure no one can keep up. My nieces have watched this program since they were very small. What message are they getting? The message they get is that sex is love. Relationships are not made to last. No wonder they are confused. I would not be letting my little ones watch this program.

    I think the wider issue is that looks matter, character is not important. It is true that if you are not one of the beautiful people your chances of career advancement is not as good or you are less likely to be hired in the first place.

    My daughter is in I/T recruitment. The first thing she looks at is degree results, secondly work experience (did the candidate work at all during high school or college) and thirdly presentation which does not mean good looks but neatness, cleanliness and a good disposition.

    This is not the case with all recruiters but Vanessa is very balanced and her candidates do very well in the workplace.

    Carolyn

    howzat
    September 22, 2002 - 11:45 pm
    Jeanlock2, they are running Ken Burns' "The Civil War" again on PBS so that's what I watched. When this first installment was over I caught about half of "Hearts in Atlantis". Seems like a good movie, but I have a hard time understanding Anthony Hopkins. It's not his accent--in this movie he doesn't have one--but just that he speaks so softly I catch only about half what he's saying. I wish my TV had a headphone jack.

    Talk about wild kids. I was married with two children when my husband comes home with a gold earring in his left ear! Seems he and his buddies all decided to have the one ear pierced, after one of their nights out. Well, I mumbled something about it being different, for sure, and waited to see what happened next. The earring lasted long enough to cause an infection in his ear. That was the end of that.

    HOWZAT

    Ann Alden
    September 23, 2002 - 07:23 am
    Oh, yes, the adults who have had their ears piered are just too much sometimes. I remember that my daughter wanted hers done so badly that her high school "teacher?????" in History or Government urged her and her girlfriend to do it during a class. So, while everyone looked on, she had her ear pierced by putting a needle through her earlobe with a potato behind the earlobe. What was that about? And, of course, the infections started and it was a full year before she recovered from that. But, she did persist in wearing her earrings and now has several more ear piercings, maybe three in each ear. We are talking about a 45 year old woman now. Can you imagine having the shell of your ear pierced? Makes me shiver just to think of it!! OOOOOOHHH! That must hurt!

    Speaking of the boys with the drooping pants, I saw a little boy, two years old, who had just had a dump in his pants and I thought,"He walks like those boys with their pants falling down!" They swing their legs in a funny way to keep up the pants.(Like sailors on a rolling deck) It does look too stupid! They have to look like their friends. Wonder who started that?

    By the by, my blue haired grandson is coming to spend the night on his way from Ithaca,NY to St Louis. He and his roomate are moving a pinball machine to their apartment. The roommate bought it on the internet. Probably from E-BAY.

    Yes, the daughter of my friend was very well thought of in her family because she won beauty contests so often. I don't know what kind of family support there was there as I met this lady when the girl was a high school junior or senior and had alread been in the business since she was 5. Which indicates some motherly help early on.

    Ken Burns was interviewed on the Today show this morning and he said that they are going to repeat part of all their PBS historical programming starting with "The Statue of Libery" program next Monday night. I also, saw the "Civil War" is on tonight, here in downtown Gahanna, and the program is two or three hours long. Two segments, I believe. Mr Burns says that they are going to do all the shows that he had anything to do with, starting with the Statue of Libery then the Baseball, the Civil War, Jazz, Brooklyn Bridge. Our library has copies of these wonderful shows but I had to reserve "Eleanor and Franklin" to get it. Got three segments of it. Very well done!! I saw it when it was new, in '91, I think.

    jane
    September 23, 2002 - 07:33 am
    There's one explanation about how the low-slung no belt pants thing started...in prisons...but I'll leave the rest of the explanation to your imagination.

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 23, 2002 - 07:52 am

    My ears have been pierced for thirty or more years, and I've never had an infection. (My grandmother's ears were also pierced.) My 26 year old granddaughter's ears are pierced in several places. She also has some rather beautiful tattoos. One of my sons has a tattoo. Body decorating is an ancient art which goes back before Ancient Egypt.

    The clothes kids wear today bother me less than when my sons grew their hair long and dressed like John Lennon. That was a shock for a while because it seemed like such a drastic change. My elder son was threatened with dismissal from high school when we lived in Indiana in the 60's because he wore his hair long. He got a haircut; went to school the next day and quit. Not long after that we were transferred to New York where dress codes weren't as stringent. My son went back to school, long hair and all, and later to college. A talented actor, he later acted in plays on the stage and TV and directed theatrical productions before he had a serious head injury in an automobile accident which has disabled him for life. My decorated and tattooed granddaughter is running a business and doing well. My tattooed son is head of sales for a large corporation and doing extremely well.

    Clothes and body decoration do not make the person, nor do I think we should judge kids by the low slung or baggy pants and other clothes and decorations they wear. My 16 year old grandson wears baggy pants; his hair is down to his waist, kept in a pony tail. He has never received less than an A in school in his life and expects to go to Duke University next year on an honors scholarship.

    Mal

    Ann Alden
    September 23, 2002 - 09:05 am
    Yes, Mal, I too had long haired boys. And they attended school 10 years apart. They just looked the same as their friends. When one of our male friends mentioned in a horrified voice, I can't believe you let him have long hair!! I told him that my son was still the same person, inside, and we loved who he was. He had beautiful hair, curly, and when he did get it cut, he still kept it long but layered. What a handsome fella' he was!

    My granddaughter received some Christmas money from us one year and after going to Merle Norman, at the mall, to have her one ear done, she returned to the bench where Granpa waited and offered to let him have his done as Merle Norman said that they owed her one more piercing. He very graciously turned her down, while the rest of us just fell over laughing. The man is really staid!! Like HST!

    Faithr
    September 23, 2002 - 10:12 am
    I remember when the kids started growing long hair my son was already in the Signal Corp. and he and his buddies were very sarcastic about those long haired kids. But I ask him one day to consider what we called "Longhairs" in the 30's were classical scholors. "Roundheads" in England were the rebels who cut there hair very short for their civil war.Wigs were the proper way for our founding fathers to wear their hair. And then he became more accepting of "strange" ways. By the time he had traveled around the world a few times he had seen and learned enougth to have discarded most of his prejudices about things different. That is what is needed for most prejudice to disappear ..familiararity. Fr

    kiwi lady
    September 23, 2002 - 11:29 am
    My boys both had very long hair when young teens but when they started dating fashion changed and they both got the shortest cuts their father nearly fainted! One had an ear ring (dad upset). I have had my ears pierced for 30 years and in NZ its the norm. Children often have their ears pierced as toddlers. However in my extended family ear piercing is done for 10th birthday present. They only wear gold studs until they grow up. Here you can't buy many nice earings for ears that aren't pierced. Nikolas is only 2 but has a very short hair cut I personally would like it a bit longer. He looks like he is an army recruit. So here very very short is fashionable.

    Carolyn

    Marilyne
    September 23, 2002 - 04:44 pm
    In the 1970's, here in California, everyone had long hair - both the boys and the girls. My son and daughter, ( in high school at that time ), had hair about the same length for years. One humorous daily event that I recall, was that every morning before school, my daughter's boyfriend would come by to have his "hair done". She would brush it, and braid it for him, in one long braid that hung down his back - then tie it with a thin leather band. How she envied his thick, long, blond hair! Hers was fine and brown, and refused to grown any longer than a little past her shoulders.

    Lorrie
    September 23, 2002 - 09:57 pm
    Someone just wrote me an email and stated that I should step in here and get this conversation back on track, but I reminded this person that this is not like one of our regular book discussions where we focus on the book only, it's a hodge-podge of ideas here. However, we have wandered far from the subject of children's beauty pageants, and perhaps we could sort of get back on subject.

    Everyone has a different viewpoint on this---most of you, who are evidently in the same age group, disapprove of, not the pageants themselves, but what they teach our little girls. I watched the Miss America show the other night, and even though they tried to make it appear as though the beauty part was incidental, the whole thing revolved around what these young women looked like, not what they actually were. To me this is a mistake.

    Lorrie

    betty gregory
    September 24, 2002 - 03:29 am
    Lorrie, I watched the pageant, too, since I hadn't in so long and because of our topic here. By the time it was over, I was terribly sad, having watched the choreographed sameness, almost puppet-like standing, turning, smiling. Trained seals, trained barbie-dolls, I kept thinking. During the (new?) serious, quiz section where the last 5 finalists had to answer 15-20 history type questions, I was just appalled at the ease of the questions and embarrassed for those who couldn't answer them correctly. ("After JFK was shot in Dallas, who was the Vice President who became president?" and similarly easy questions.)

    Watching that grown-up pageant, I was thinking of the children's pageant for little girls where they will learn to PLEASE adults and win approval for behaving in certain ways. Not learning to explore their creativity. Dressed up dolls who perform

    Sasha 5113
    September 24, 2002 - 05:02 am
    Extending the subject a little beyond pageants per se, we've been pursuing the responsibilities of parenthood. First and foremost, how many parents accept the child they got, rather than trying to impose their own dreams and desires (and prejudices) on the child? There's the source of lifetime friction. All the institutions conspire to rob children of their creativity and spontaneity: schools and churches, scouting, and all the adult-supervised "enrichment" programs ... none of these leave room for "play" the way you and I remember play. It's a wise parent who lets the child lead.

    pedln
    September 24, 2002 - 07:30 am
    Well said, Sasha, about the responsibilities of parenthood. I think this discussion could also expand into "exploitation of children," mainly what is and what isn't. I often wonder about some of our very young athletic performers, especially after reading about their grueling practice days.

    Now, having said that, just a positive comment about beauty pageants. A few years back, a graduate of St. Louis Central Institute for the Deaf, Heather Whitestone, became Miss America. And we began hearing more, thru the media, about deaf education. She has now just received a coclear implant, and now we are learning more about CIs. I wonder if the media would have picked up on this if she had not been selected as MissA.

    Ann Alden
    September 24, 2002 - 07:31 am
    Sasha, what an astute comment!! I am for letting children use their own imagininations while at play. Sunday, as I baby-sat with my four grans, I was thrilled to hear them making up a play which they were going to show Grama. It didn't get finished so they promised to bring it over when they came for dinner. Then they forgot their props!! What a hoot it is to be the observer!!

    We did no plays later than five or six years old. But I do remember it being a big deal. We even had ticket takers! And, our play was in a beautiful grape arbor in my friends' backyard. What fun!

    Coyote
    September 24, 2002 - 09:22 am
    Once, back in Missouri for a visit with all the cousins present, we all cooked up a talent show or something which was staged on grandma's back porch. The first act was my three-year-old cousin singing Rosaday. She sang the first two lines over and over, to which the audience started clapping to get her to quit. It backfired. She loved the applause so much, she just kept on singing. We finally closed the curtain on her, everyone broke out laughing, and I never did get to do my long-practiced tap dance routine.

    It wasn't as fine-tuned as a child beauty pagent, but I'll bet she was just as tickled as any little princess who got crowned after grueling days of travel and grooming.

    BaBi
    September 24, 2002 - 12:02 pm
    This subject has obviously gotten a lot of response, and that's good. But wasn't Curious Minds originally supposed to change subjects q 2 weeks? Is there another topic off stage? ..Babi

    Lorrie
    September 24, 2002 - 01:37 pm
    Ladies, Ladies!! Are you so eager to leave my scintillating comments, my reprehensible rhetoric, my dazzling bon mots? Hahaha No, we are right on schedule, as you can see. The next segment is already in the wings and being prepared, and will be in place here on Sept. 29.

    SCHEDULE FOR "CURIOUS MINDS"
    Sept. 1 thru 14th.....
    Sept. 15 thru 28th....
    Sept. 29 thru Oct. 12...
    Oct. 13 thru Oct. 26..
    Oct. 27 thru Nov. 9..
    Nov. 10 thru Nov. 23..
    Nov. 24 thru Dec. 7...
    Dec. 8 thru Dec. 21...
    Dec. 22 thru Jan. 4..


    Lorrie

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    September 24, 2002 - 02:59 pm
    I think we have probably kicked this topic around from stem to stern and some of us are ready for something new - I think most of us are not in favor of the pagent for children but I am picking up for a variety of reasons - some just because it depicts little girls and young women in the same old light when all a women was supposed to be was pretty and well mannered with nary a brain cell functioning.

    A flip side to that and I don't know all the rational or background but have you noticed we say this is not in the realm of boyhood BUT I have noticed it seems to be in the realm of boyhood for Black boys - it seems very important and the compliments are appreciated when someone notices and says something about how good looking a Black Man is dressed and how he carries himself or how he has fussed in front of a mirror. I do not know a black family well enough to find out what that is all about - by any chance do any of you know...

    annafair
    September 24, 2002 - 07:00 pm
    So many comments and a lot of thinking. And that is what curious minds is about I THINK!!!

    In reading some of the biographys or stories about some of the early young movie stars I remember many of them were not happy stories. Judy Garland nearly had a breakdown when she was doing so many movies and the studios introduced her to uppers so she could continue to perform.

    That Shirley Temple became a normal person and stayed that way I feel not only were her parents watchful but when she had her first marriage come apart because he was abusive..she later married someone in the Navy and led a more normal life ...she became an ambassador and speaker for awareness of breast cancer.

    As to women asking for it ...I would like to say my 88 year old junior high school teacher was asleep in her bed when she was attacked by a man who broke the front door down and she ended up in a hospital bed for four months. Her letter to me when she had recovered enough to return home still haunts me. Just remembering makes me weep again.

    I have always felt womens clothes were designed by people who hate women. Like abusive husbands or boyfriends it is their way of abusing women. Men wearing long hair or even earrings has never bothered me. Like Mal said these were popular in many societies and many levels of life.

    We can try and justify some of the pageants by some of the successes but how much pain and failures are hidden. I think of the children's pageants ...the winners may be happy but what about the losers? Do they feel unwanted and failures at thier young ages?

    I look forward to a new subject though. I didnt watch Miss America and find most of TV offensive now. My one son in law tells me he can tell a senior citizen. Their favorite tv show is the weather station....anna

    howzat
    September 24, 2002 - 11:30 pm
    That's a very interesting question, about young Black males liking compliments about their looks. I don't know anyone to ask either, but I can tell you, a good looking man is a joy to look at no matter what color he is.

    HOWZAT

    Nellie Vrolyk
    September 29, 2002 - 09:45 am
    Welcome to our new topic: Should Art be Comfortable?"

    I think another way to state this question is to ask if Art should concern itself only with the pleasant things in life, and ignore those things that are negative?

    I got the idea for this topic when I saw that statue of the Fallen Woman on the TV news and all the negative reactions it was getting. That started me thinking of art which elicits such negative reactions, and art which is the opposite, and if there is a place for both.

    Every thought and comment is equally welcomed: I'm interested in reading them all.

    Faithr
    September 29, 2002 - 10:18 am
    I personally find "art" in odd places all the time. I was looking at some children drawing on the sidewalk one day and appreciating their artistic talents as they drew from that true place only kids have even when their motor skills dont quite match. Along came an older man who was mowing his lawn nearby and began scolding them for their graffiti. I said politely that we would wash the chalk off the sidewalk and then ivited the children to use our driveway and draw all they wanted. They scrubbed off the public walk and covered my driveway until their chalk was gone. I left it there and my children added to it when they wanted to until the rains came and new games too started. But this is an example of Seeing. Faith

    Lorrie
    September 29, 2002 - 10:23 am
    Kudos to our own Nellie, whose digital art (above) is so eye-catching! You are a lady with many talents, Nellie. Thank you for sharing this with us.

    Lorrie

    Lorrie
    September 29, 2002 - 10:48 am
    Some modern paintings remind me of a short, tongue-in- cheek documentary I saw once on public television. It showed a bare expanse of sandy beach at sunrise, with only the sight of a long pier for emphasis. It was the kind of program with no voice-over comments, only the visual impact. A man approached, clad in overalls, laden with a roll of heavy canvas. He walked out to a spot on the sand, directly beneath and alongside the pier, and unrolled the canvas, securing the corners with heavy stones. Then he walked out on the pier, lugging numerous cans of bright paint, and arranged them in an order only he could understand. He stood there for a moment in the rising sunlight, studying the canvas below, then went to work. First one can of paint, then another, all different colors, were opened then splashed haphazardly onto the canvas below. The bright colors all mingled and splattered together, forming rivulets and waves, circles and splotches. His enthusiasm reminded me of what fun I’d had in kindergarten, slopping finger-paints.

    When every pail was emptied, he gathered together all the residue, leaving the canvas below, and left. When he returned, presumably when the paint had dried, a helicopter could be seen descending. It landed on the beach beside the painting and two figures emerged. They rolled up the canvas, stored it on the chopper, and shook hands with the man in the overalls. Everyone left. It was only when the camera panned in close to the side of the helicopter that the words painted on the side could be seen:

    MUSEUM MODERN ART
    .

    BaBi
    September 29, 2002 - 01:01 pm
    I must admit I have seen 'modern art' that evoked in me the heartfelt response: "YOU'VE GOT TO BE KIDDING!" That said, I do believe art should arouse something in the viewer. I like art that catches my eye and hold me there awhile, making me think and wonder and respond. I also like the art that entrances me by it's sheer beauty; all forms of art.

    Some art does make me uncomfortable, which may possibly be a good thing. Maybe. But whether pictures, poetry, dance, pottery, sand sculpture, or children's chalk drawings, what may interest me is not always the same as what I want to live with. If it's going to be something I see every day, then I want it to be something I am comfortable with. A daily jarring of sensibilities is not at all agreeable. So, should art be "comfortable"? Only where I live. ..Babi

    Coyote
    September 29, 2002 - 02:11 pm
    My art makes folks comfortable because it is beautiful afghans, sweaters, hats, mittens, etc. But seriously, I never thought about art making me comfortable or uncomfortable. I am quite comfortable without any of the visual art, to tell the truth. But now beauty - that subject is something I understand. I see it and hear it in all sorts of strange forms. Stark scenes from news films of horrible subjects can be extremely beautiful to me. Then some things intended to look or sound beautiful, cross my senses sideways and send me quickly in another direction. Whether a picture, a series of words or well arranged and played bit of music, what I appreciate and enjoy enough to call art must have balance, rhythm and poetry with something special to catch my attention. I reach out for more shady colors with enough light and bright for contrast. I want rhythm without boredom. My music needs an occasional pause, a crescendo, a minor variation. The words I swim in with a young heart are short and long, in short and long phrases or sentences.

    I don't really know how to create beautiful art, but I know no computer can generate it because a machine does things too right, too predictably. My art must have humanity and humor, no matter how serious the subject.

    annafair
    September 29, 2002 - 03:26 pm
    There is art that takes me away, art I puzzle over and run away from ..it seems so pointless. And it also depends on when I find the art what it says to me.

    After my husband died I took a trip to visit family and friends . In Kansas City Mo a friend and I went to an art show. It was a large display of paintings by Andrew Wyeth. One painting was larger than life, of a blue door..barely open to the outdoors. I stood there and wept because that is where I found myself. Inside, in front of a door. And I had to decide whether to walk through that door or close it and stay put.

    Earlier in my life it would not have had the impact it did that day. I might have wondered why he painted that glimpse, and gone on to other paintings. But that day it stopped me cold and I marvelled how he had captured that moment in all of our lives when we have to make a choice to go on or close the door.

    I think of that often as I continue, as we all do to face choices. For me I just keep going through that door. anna

    kiwi lady
    September 29, 2002 - 04:49 pm
    I like art or sculpture that pleases my eye. Each one of us has a different perspective of what is pleasing. I like some modern art because of the use of particular forms and colours. Of the art that makes a statement some of it is so ugly I can't bear it.

    To me art can be many things. It can be as simple as the beautiful form of a tree bereft of all its leaves and it makes a living sculpture. It can be a group of boulders which together by shape color and form make another living sculpture. Nature is a brilliant artist.

    I love the impressionist paintings and I also love many of Van Goghs paintings. I will never forget an exhibition of his works I saw as a teenager. The colors struck me dumb. I was transfixed.

    I love all kinds of art from painting to sculpture. The sand sculptures commemorating 9/11 I thought were wonderful. I would have liked to see them done in a permanent material as a memorial to the firefighters.

    I also like childrens art in it's unformed state but saying so much.

    A piece of art can speak in many different tongues. By this I mean you could get four people looking at the same painting and all four could get something different from it. I think its a very personal thing.

    Sasha 5113
    September 29, 2002 - 04:53 pm
    To quote from the header,"(i)t forces us to stop dead and SEE what we are looking at. It forces us to engage with it, think about it, react to it with our emotions. It catches us with our defenses down and punches us in the gut."

    The weakness of this description of art is that it's too inclusive; it's also a definition of life, when life is lived to the full. So the opposite of this art (which would encompass all the ugly "performance art" that gleans so much press ... I hesitate to supply an example) must be death. I know many people who refuse to let discomforting images or concepts into their lives at all, and are much the poorer for it.

    I'm in awe of Annafair's clear description of the viewer/audience discovering an art object at the right moment in time. At the opposite end of that spectrum, I look at some paintings or music that thrilled me as a teenager, and wonder what I saw in it

    Marjorie
    September 29, 2002 - 04:53 pm
    BENJAMIN: I do needlepoint and there are needlepoint pictures all over the walls of my home. The images are all pleasing to me or I wouldn't have created them in the first place. They may not be images that appeal to other people, except for the "artistry" of the stitching.

    Recently I have planted two small areas in my yard. I find that I look at the colors of the flowers and leaves as if they are a painting and place the plants in what to me is an artistic fashion.

    I am thinking of art as what is pleasing to my eye rather than what might be placed in a museum.

    Faithr
    September 29, 2002 - 08:05 pm
    Art has so many definitions, doesn't it. The fine arts. Arts and Crafts. Sometimes pleasing sometimes disturbing and emotional, or plain and useful or just beautiful with no specific form. I for one find working my needlepoint a very satisfying craft. I only have one piece hanging as it is something I love. Most other pieces I have gifted to my children and they are pleased with my things. I find beauty like Ben said in many different places but the form of art I truly love is sculpture, therefore I find simple shapes in life all around me including useful household objects are often very beautiful to me. I also agree with Marjorie that art is what is pleasing to my eye. I too can find an outlet for artistic impulses in gardening. I think I choose art that is something I can be comfortable with, and avoid bring art that makes me uncomfortable into my living space. Still I would not state that art shouldbe comfortable. faithr

    betty gregory
    September 29, 2002 - 11:04 pm
    Where I am in life and what needs I have definitely affect my reaction to all forms of art, so I loved Annafair's story and have experienced the same with music as Sasha wrote.

    I heartily disagree with the quote above for pretty much all the articulate reasons already listed. I don't know the author, but I have to wonder at all the experiences (possibly) not yet lived. I wonder what she would think of (Kiwi) Carolyn's "Nature is a brilliant artist." Would she say a sunset is not real art? Or that it has to make us uncomfortable? Ridiculous.

    Recently, maybe for two years, I guess, I've been searching for a print of something...., something....that stands for me, represents what I've loved or done or SOMETHING. I knew I would know it when I saw it....and I saw it and yelled "that's it!" about a month ago. I couldn't believe it.

    You know how so many prints having to do with San Francisco are OF San Francisco from somewhere out in the bay. This is a limited edition Thomas Kinkaid from the point of view of standing at the top of San Francisco's Lombard St., at NIGHT, looking DOWN the famously twisting street (steep, hairpin corners for a block), then the rest of San Francisco, including Coit tower, THEN!!! the bay, then in the distance, a fading Berkeley/Oakland mainland. I can see (imagine) the Berkeley, in the distance, where I lived 2 years about 7 years ago. Such an incredible time in my life, the culmination of 6 years of graduate school in Austin, then internship and post-doc in Berkeley. (Always old enough to be everyone's mother, in the Austin and Berkeley cohorts.) I sold pretty much everything but my car, just to be able to get there. I lived in a small, one-room efficiency right on the edge of the east bay and could actually see the Bay bridge into San Francisco from my balcony, IF the chair was up against the rail sideways.

    That's where I was 3 days after moving into that closet of an apartment....it was July 4th and I was wrapped up in blankets in a chair, late at night on the balcony (hey, it's cold at night in the summer there), gazing at the lighted Bay bridge and downtown San Francisco. Happier than it was possible to be. In my new limited edition print, I can see me there on that balcony, too happy to sleep.

    Betty

    kiwi lady
    September 30, 2002 - 12:25 am
    When I look in the Photo's Folder here on SN there is art everywhere. In the stillness of the Lake with silvery trail of moonlight. In the beautiful sunsets in the storm clouds. I see art in the close up of a single perfect rose bloom.

    I think photography is a very powerful art form. I have always felt art and music for me has to be uplifting which does not mean that certain forms of music or art have not reduced me to tears because they portray where I am at, at a particular time in my life or they remind me of someone who has now moved on out of my life.

    There are some art works which I find obscene. (and I don't mean the human form) There are some exhibitions I would never think of attending.

    Carolyn

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 30, 2002 - 06:50 am

    I don't think anyone can say what "real art" is. Visual studio art (painting, sculpting) has always been controversial. I'm going to speak only of visual studio art here. This kind of art is very personal. Each person looks at a painting or sculpture in a different way and transfers some of himself or herself into what he or she sees. What people like or dislike is a matter of personal taste.

    I'm an artist, and I cannot stand Thomas Kinkaid's paintings, which so many people seem to like today, probably because I am an artist. To me his paintings are flat because his color values all seem the same. All his paintings evoke in me is distaste. But they do evoke something, didn't they? I guess that has to mean something.

    I like many kinds of studio art, including work by such painters as Picasso, Jackson Pollock and Kandinsky. Picasso's Guernica is a very, very powerful commentary about war, but to some it looks like a bunch of nonsensical scribbles.

    Pollock's paintings are extraordinary, but to some people they look like a bowl of not appetizing stew. He used the drip method that someone described here earlier.

    Kandinsky's paintings are very colorful abstracts. Many people don't like them at all. Some people can't stand Picasso's artwork, either.

    Salvador Dali was an extremely fine painter, but there are people who can't stand the surrealistic way in which he and others like Max Ernst painted.

    Andrew Wyeth painted in egg tempera, a very old medium which uses the yolks of eggs as a binder for the pigment. Though Wyeth painted from life, the world he painted never existed any more than the world of Norman Rockwell. Andrew Wyeth's father, N.C. Wyeth, was a fine painter. He did a lot of illustrations for books such as Treasure Island. Jamie Wyeth, Andrew's son, also is a fine painter.

    There are some interesting pop artists such as Roy Lichtenstein, some of whose paintings look like cartoons in the comics. He used a kind of dot system (pointillism) similar to what Georges Seurat used.

    French impressionists like Monet, Manet, Berthe Morriset were scoffed at when their paintings first were seen because they were so different from the classical representational paintings people were used to. People react strongly to things that are new.

    Though he's called an impressionist, I put Van Gogh in a class all by himself. His madness showed through his work. So did Modigliani's kind of cruelty. William H. Johnson's later paintings of Blacks look primitive, but they're great and were done when he was in a hospital for the insane.

    Edward Hopper is one of my favorite American painters. His paintings appeal to me much more than those of Andrew Wyeth.

    I like the sculpted mobiles of Alexander Calder and sculptures by Brancusi and Henry Moore as well as work by other sculptors. I also like classical sculptures like Michelangelo's David and Pieta as well as sculptures by Rodin who did the well-known Thinker. If you click on some of the links to art museums at the top of the page you'll see work by artists I've mentioned here.

    I don't think it's a question of whether art should only elicit pleasant feelings or should it engage all our emotions. The fact of the matter is that it does both whether we like a work of art or not.

    Mal

    betty gregory
    September 30, 2002 - 07:54 am
    Hahahaha, Kincaid's standard subjects never appealed to me, Mal...the thatched cottages, mooshy-gooshy bridges of faith, gazebos, etc., and I dislike the overly done yellow "light" that so many like. There is one scene of a Paris street I like very much, though, and I love, love my Lombard St. with foggy bay and foggy Berkeley in the distance. Some of his earlier work under another name is so understated that you'd never know it was the same painter.

    No, thank you to most of the modern painters, but there is a reaction in me to Jackson Pollock that is surprising. I can get pleasantly lost and don't want to come back for a while.

    I used to have Georgia O'Keefe's huge dark purple pansies on my wall and even though I still love looking at all her subjects (the white door/wall is wonderful), I don't want that on my walls anymore. I keep looking for smaller, life-size photos of single stems.

    I have many art books and the double-set I go back to the most are from Van Gogh. There are 20 or so potato eaters that I look at over and over. There are a series of huge bouquets of flowers that can belong to no one else, because of the incredible colors. I think of them as "Van Gogh colors."

    Is it a Wyeth, of the exterior corner of an old white farmhouse? I love that picture.

    Betty

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 30, 2002 - 08:29 am

    Betty, Andrew Wyeth did several paintings of corners of farmhouses. One I especially like is called West Window. You can see it by going to www.allposters.com.

    Who was that controversial black and white photographer a few years ago? Does his name begin with an M? He did some wonderful photographs of single stems of flowers you might like.

    I like some of Georgia O'Keeffe's paintings. Whether I could live with them on my walls I'm not sure. Van Gogh's Potato Eaters were done very early. I saw a marvelous Van Gogh show at the Albright-Knox Gallery in Buffalo once that I never forgot. Also saw a large exhibit of Andrew Wyeth's paintings there, too. When I went outside after looking at the Wyeth paintings the world looked pretty darned drab to me.

    Did you ever see any early Jackson Pollock paintings? They're a surprise.

    Do you know Louise Nevelson's sculptures? I like them.

    Mal

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 30, 2002 - 09:25 am

    Below is a link to a couple of paintings I did. The first is of my mother done from memory. She died in 1940. The second is of a room from the vantage point of looking down from a stair on a staircase. These paintings are opaque watercolor. I am untaught, and a real artist I know called my stuff "primitive".

    PAINTINGS BY MAL

    BaBi
    September 30, 2002 - 12:19 pm
    I have enjoyed so much reading all the messages today; all the stories of why one particular artwork had such a strong effect. I don't care much for most "modern" art, but I too find myself attracted to Jackson Pollock's work.

    Kiwi Lady, was it you who commented on Nature as an artist, and that you liked sculpture? Have you seen a book called "Hillerman's Country", with text by Tony Hillerman and photography by his brother? The photographs are of the Southwest country in which Hillerman's books are set, and some of the "sculptures" of Nature are so incredible I kept reaching out my fingers to stroke the pictures. I think you would enjoy it.

    Malryn, your 'untaught' talent is incredible. The paintings are so strong..that's the only way I can describe them. In the one of the window, I found the wallpaper and the radiator evoking feelings and half-memories, yet I can't think of what. In the one of your mother, so similar as to background, I find myself slightly disturbed by the effect of the glasses casting a white shadow over her eyes. Again, I can't say why.

    I am thoroughly enjoying this discussion. I am sorry I will only have one more day to participate, as I'm taking off on a trip on Wed. But at least I can read everyone's notes when I get back. ...Babi

    tooki
    September 30, 2002 - 03:48 pm
    The "controversial black and white photographer" of a few years back was Robert Mapplethorpe (1946-1989). He did do some lovely flower stem photographs, somewhat O'keefian in feeling. However, his other work can be upsetting. Cindy Sherman is currently big. She photographs herself in various disguises. The point being, I suppose, is that we see in art reflections of ourselves. If that's the case, William Wegman, who photographs only Weimeraners, is poking fun at us. Their work can be found at www.masters-of-photography and probably other places on the web.

    Bill H
    September 30, 2002 - 04:48 pm
    My favorite black and white photographer of all time is Ansel Adams. The drama and atmosphere of his photographs could never have been achieved in color photography. The Ansel Adams museum in Yosimite National Park displays his photographs. Another black and white photographer was Yosef Kharsh. His portraits of Churchill and Stalin are without peer.

    Bill H

    Nellie Vrolyk
    September 30, 2002 - 07:09 pm
    Wonderful, wonderful posts everyone! I don't have much time to put down my thoughts on art, so I shall return in the morning and do so then.

    kiwi lady
    September 30, 2002 - 07:45 pm
    Mal the lady is right your style is called Primitive but that does not mean they are no good. I like Primitive art also and we have a few young and old artists here I really like but they are not well known. If I could afford their works I would buy some of them.

    I am very pleased with the miniature water color Caroles husband sent me of the scow at sunset. It is hanging proudly on my wall and I keep looking at it as I love old boats.

    One of my favorite paintings is Van Goghs sunflowers. I don't think anyone could beat him for color! There was a print up the road in the gallery but too expensive for me and I gazed wistfully at it and threw hints at birthdays etc but alas it was sold to someone else!

    This is a great discussion. Love to hear everyone tell us of their likes and dislikes!

    Carolyn

    Malryn (Mal)
    September 30, 2002 - 09:28 pm

    That wasn't no lady, Carolyn. It was an established artist -- male -- well-trained in classical style, which mine is not. And who's he to say? It's anybody's guess whether those really in the know would say my dabblings in art are primitive or not. What sells is what counts, and I've sold a few, believe it or not. Thank heaven I've never set myself up to be an art critic.

    Mal

    stainless
    October 1, 2002 - 02:03 am
    I remember a four foot pile of rocks tied with wire at a gallety....gee I was unimpressed .Who has observed a paint drip on a piece of modern art ?,a photo of 100 naked bums ? I may not know much about art but I know what I like and it is not a copy of my 3 yearold grand daughters kindergarten water colours purchased at great expence for our national galery using public funds

    Malryn (Mal)
    October 1, 2002 - 02:14 am

    There always is a dilemma when it comes to funding a rockpile that looks like art to some or investing in rubble created by bombs.

    Mal

    ALF
    October 1, 2002 - 05:17 am
    The most magnificent pieces of art I have ever viewed were in the Ringling's Museum in Sarasota. I was taken there by friends, under protest, as I thought I would be viewing objects from Ringling's circus. I entered the room and before me was a 13th century tapestry that covered the entire wall. It took my breath away. Proceeding throughout the vast rooms, I was so moved by the beauty of the Renaissance paintings, I teared up. The colors were glorious and luxurious after hundreds of years. I wanted so badly to reach out and touch them that I had to fold my hands to keep them away from these outstanding works. (that of course is a no-no.) To be able to witness the beauty and the accomplishments of these long gone artists was such a profound experience. My greatest disappointment was in myself due to my ignorance of many of the artists.

    dkrosin
    October 1, 2002 - 08:58 am
    Any art may give pleasure and comfort and entertain through form, color and content. And, there are times when that is all we need or ask from a piece of art. Great art in any medium stimulates thought and provokes a more profound reaction, emotional and intellectual. One cannot simply pass by a great work of art, but one is drawn to it and must stop to absorb its effect. Great art may appeal to any of the human emotions and conditions, including discomfort and even horror. The lithographs of Goya shock and perhaps digust some, but they are great art not only because of the immense technical skill he employed, but mostly because of the emotions and thoughts that they arouse in the viewer. The effect of great art stays with the viewer long after the actual viewing experience is over.

    Malryn (Mal)
    October 1, 2002 - 09:27 am

    Wow, dkrosin! It's been such a long time since I've seen you! So lovely to read your post. I couldn't agree with you more. Goya! Yes.

    ALF, there is a wonderful circus museum in Baraboo, Wisconsin, I hear. Did you see the photographs of the circus wagons in Photos Then and Now a while back? They're truly works of art. Did you happen to go to the Dali Museum in Sarasota? I missed that and the Ringling Museum the one and only time I was there for a couple of days. My son, Chris, had an audition for a play with a repertory company there before he moved to New York from St. Augustine where we lived, and it was a busy time for us.

    Today's my granddaughter, Leah Paris Freeman's third birthday. Now, there's a work of art. Her picture’s in the DAYS WE CELEBRATE discussion. Please click the link and scroll down a little to see her.

    Proud grandmother, Mal

    Lorrie
    October 1, 2002 - 12:19 pm
    Oh, Mal, she is absolutely adorable! Her whole person seems to throb with the joy of living! Wonderful photo!

    Lorrie

    tigerliley
    October 1, 2002 - 01:13 pm
    The impressionist are my favorites.....my son tells me it is the light I like in these paintings.I am very fond of water colors also..... I have not education in the different kinds of art .....just know what moves me and what I like.....

    BaBi
    October 1, 2002 - 01:36 pm
    Hate to read and run, but I'm packing. This particular discussion will be finished before I return, but I look forward to reading the comments when I return. ...Babi

    Malryn (Mal)
    October 1, 2002 - 01:40 pm
    The magic of Cyberspace changed the link to the picture of LEAH PARIS FREEMAN, one of my most personal favorite works of art, so here is the link again. Forgive me. It's not every day I can show her off.

    Mal

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    October 1, 2002 - 04:34 pm
    Interesting topic to muse over - all art is, is the organization of space and time - Einstein proved space is time - visual art organizes space with line, shapes, texture, color, value creating movement, depth or flat space, balance, variety, harmony and rhythm - then there is the organization of sound both in music, poetry, choral reading, drama - the organization of the larger space both within and without; sculpture, gardens, buildings, boats, cars, furniture within the visual arts we have ceramic decoration and in space we have pottery, crystal, silver, bronze castings - decorating the room is organizing the space with objects that bring balance, variety, harmony and rhythm to the space that includes color, values, texture, shapes, lines, shadows, much like the 3D space of a sculpture - dance is a combination of sound and movement often on stage where like a sculpture the stage is organized - when you think on it art is everywhere and we can be as formal or casual or create fantasy or drama or be daring or traditional in our approach.

    Several layers of old torn wallpaper can be artistic as it organizes space - the line of the tear, the overlapping colors of some bright and some faded paper, the shapes of the pieces of paper exposed, the texture of the tears against the smooth paper - compared to or as much as, a newly painted sparsely decorated room arranged harmoniously using lights and a minimal amount of furnishings - and like all impressions art can touch us in ways that are sentimental or shocking. New sounds or groups of color, line, shapes etc. often shock because they are not only new but at times are meant to shock in the choice of elements used to create the art.

    There are two visual art centers at the University of Texas - one holds, among other works the Michner Collection which includes many large pieces from the non-representative art popular in the '60s and '70s. There are also some early Hopper and Benson pieces that help to see the progression in art from simple shapes to the larger non-representative shapes. The other building keeps changing its name but it houses some early Greek statues that shows the change in the artists ability to reproduce exact details of muscle and facial features where the early work is a wonder in the folds of the clothing.

    This building also houses one of the most complete South American and Mexican visual twentieth century art collections. With so many of these nations in revolution the art is seldom easy on the eye, filled with rage and revolt depicted in colors and shapes - you can feel the energy just looking - it reminds me of Stravinsky who brought a new sound to symphonic music that was as shocking as hip-hop was to our ears a few years ago. We forget that all sound and visual organization was new at one time. As we see more and more of the new it gradually became easier to live with but for many of us anything new is shocking.

    Where as I love Stravinsky I am still not able to enjoy hip-hop - and yes I too love Caulder as well as, Mexican textile and color combinations, Makepiece woodwork/furniture, Japanese stone work, iron lanterns and gardens, French country furniture and French crystal, Irish sweaters, wooden kithenware, tourquise Indian jewlery and my favorite painting is in the Met by Swiss artist Steinlen - a color lithograph done in 1896 called La Rue using shades of reds a bit of red-brown, black againt white, a flat rather than deep crowded street scene of charming everyday women and men in work clothes, some with huge baskets - each hat and hairdo, apron and shirt is an interesting shape that act as directional arrow taking you through the picture. I've a small copy on my desk.

    Nellie Vrolyk
    October 1, 2002 - 06:34 pm
    Thank you all for those marvelous posts that are a joy to read!

    Some of my favourite pieces of art are Michelangelo's sculptures - I have only seen them in photos, mind, but even then they are overpowering to me, specially the Pieta.

    I'm recalling now a visit to the National Gallery of Canada in Ottawa back in 1979: I spent a whole day enjoying the artwork and spent a long time in front of a lifesize painting of one of the English kings -I can't remember if it was a James or a Charles- but I was fascinated by the image because this olden days king looked exactly like my father.

    More likes and maybe dislikes tomorrow.

    dkrosin
    October 1, 2002 - 07:27 pm
    An interesting and provocative quote by German Expressionist painter Emil Nolde (1867-1956):

    "Art is exalted above religions and races. Not a single solitary soul these days believes in the religions of the Assyrians, the Egyptians, and the Greeks. And their races are exhausted, crossbred and spoiled. Only their art, whenever it was beautiful, stands proud and exalted, rising above all time." Emil Nolde, 1911, quoted in Twentieth-Century Artists on Art.

    I just returned from Toronto, Ontario, where I saw an exhibit of the work of Henry Moore, English sculptor. I am fortunate to live a ten minute drive from the Cleveland Museum of Art, one of the nation's finest.

    kiwi lady
    October 1, 2002 - 09:41 pm
    I also like ceramic art I am told I did Ok at it. Unfortunately the cost of firing each piece has gone up and too expensive for me to indulge anymore. I don't have my own kiln. I have kept only two of my works. The rest are all given away and displayed in the homes of family and friends. I still have my glazes, brushes and tools maybe I will do another piece one day! There is an award for ceramics given by one of our big Corporations. The shows are something to see. I love bright glazes especially the blues, yellows and reds. I did a massive platter for my Mums 70th and it was a cream main color with a giant sunflower centred in it. Its the heaviest piece I have ever made. Mum keeps it for Christmas as a platter for assorted cold meats.

    I love the ancient Japanese and Chinese pottery. We have a nice collection here in our Museum. The painting on the pieces is so detailed.

    Carolyn

    howzat
    October 2, 2002 - 12:05 am
    Well, I love your "stuff"; I have always been drawn to that kind of representation. Someone said they couldn't see your mother's eyes, but I can. Her eyes are half closed, in thought? melancholy? What is the square white space to the left in the other picture? Is it a space where something was hanging on the wall and isn't now? What does the bannistered railing go to? Your granddaughter is a joy to look at. Thanks.

    HOWZAT

    annafair
    October 2, 2002 - 12:27 am
    Mal your granddaughter is so delightful. She is a little beauty and full of joy the way all children should be.

    I grew up in the St Louis area and spent a lot of time at the Art Museum. It was a favorite Sunday or Saturday trip. The area I loved most was the Sculpture Court. I am sure it had originals but what I loved best was a copy of Winged Victory at Samothrace. How exciting years later to walk down the grand staircase at the Louvre and look down and find the original. It was the highlight of our visit.

    A few years ago a group of us took a bus to DC and spent the day at the national art museum...It was overwhelming ..all of the wonderful works of art. Room after room and I enjoyed it so much but after awhile it exhausted me and some of us went outdoors and sat on a bench on the mall ( is that what it is called?) later I wrote a poem about the trip and the things we saw at the museum but also how wonderful it was to sit outdoors and admire the beauty of a single blade of grass.

    Nature just cant be beat for art. I do have to say a lot of modern artists who use the drip and splatter method reminds me of my son when he was four years old. He came home from kindergarten with a picture in fingerpaints. It was very vibrant and I asked him what it was. He looked at me like I must be stupid not to see. He replied in a rather disgusted voice "It's a picture of paint" That is what I feel when I see some of the modern art.

    Ansel Adams is also a favotite of mine so I am glad to see him mentioned. His photography is really wonderful. I love good black and white photography. I cant say why I prefer it to color but I do. Some of my favorite photographs of two of my grandchildre are in black and white. My daughter dressed the children about 4 and 5 in all white outfits, sort of 20's look and photographed them in black and white settings. They look like something out of an F Scott Fitzgerald book. I love them.

    One of my friends son is an artist and has the most wonderful talent . he does murals now for the homes of wealthy clients and I suspect someday will be recognized for some of his work. Many of his works are of very simple everyday objects. One I particularly loved was a in a kitchen with all these clean pots and pans draining on the counter. It was quite a large painting but he captured something special and I found it very appealing.

    When I first saw one of Thomas Kincade's paintings I loved the light and the effect but now it seems too much ...I feel like I did at the museum in DC too much of a good thing....I felt saturated and decided I enjoy art in small doses ...frequently but not too much at one time. anna

    kiwi lady
    October 2, 2002 - 01:20 am
    Black and white photography is IN - in a big way here. I just saw a whole wedding album in black and white. What is different from color photography? I would say - definition. Its sharper and much more artistic.



    Carolyn

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    Malryn (Mal)
    October 2, 2002 - 08:48 am
    The links below take you to computer artwork I did. I used PhotoDeluxe for this. The "paintings" were done with my mouse. I'm not very experienced with doing this form of art, but need the outlet since my hands are misshapen because of arthritis, and it hurts me to use a brush. I have also done web page backgrounds for my electronic magazines using the same technique.

    FLOWERS #1

    FLOWERS #2

    EME
    October 2, 2002 - 10:13 am
    Did you say PhotoDeluxe, Malryn. I thought you had to have some fancy software to do that. Or maybe you just need talent. I guess that leaves me out.......Mary

    annafair
    October 2, 2002 - 12:50 pm
    If you did that with your mouse and program I consider you a REAL artist...and you must have enormous patience. I tried doing something one time and it looked like something my 4 year old neighbor did. She was recognized in the newspaper ..I might be recognized but I dont think I would like the headline...bravo to you.......anna

    Nellie Vrolyk
    October 3, 2002 - 07:25 pm
    Mal, your flower pictures are lovely, and I know from experience that it is not easy to make a picture using a mouse, which is why I use one of those electronic pen pads for doing mine.

    I'm enjoying your posts everyone!

    winsum
    October 5, 2002 - 03:34 pm
    art was never meant to be comfortable and isn't. it's an expression of the artist whose inner life may not be at all comfortable. . . . claire

    Nellie Vrolyk
    October 5, 2002 - 06:42 pm
    Interesting thought, Winsum.

    Does anyone have an example of art that makes you feel uncomfortable?

    Sasha 5113
    October 5, 2002 - 07:56 pm
    Sure: Modigliani's nudes. I love 'em for the colors and line, and hate 'em for the mental anguish.

    Malryn (Mal)
    October 5, 2002 - 10:23 pm

    Modigliani didn't have a very good reputation with women, Sasha.

    Francis Bacon's art makes me very uncomfortable. Click the link below to see why.

    FRANCIS BACON PAINTING

    ALF
    October 6, 2002 - 05:20 am
    Good grief! What is the name of Bacon's painting?

    annafair
    October 6, 2002 - 06:29 am
    Mal I can see why..it looks like a painting done by a tormented mind...the whole thing makes me uncomfortable.

    I could not tell you what paintings make me uncomfortable I just pass them by in a gallery and ignore them.

    anna

    Malryn (Mal)
    October 6, 2002 - 06:56 am

    ANDREA, I found the Bacon painting at Mark Hardin's Artchive at www.artchive.com. The only title given was "Painting". Francis Bacon 1909-1992 was a British artist born in Ireland. The first time I saw a painting by Bacon was at the Albright-Knox Art Gallery in Buffalo, New York, a very fine art museum which leans toward contemporary art. Bacon uses what is called "Hanging Flesh" or hanging sides of beef in many of his paintings. You'll see them in the picture I posted. As far as I know, he did not have a tormented mind. He did a very famous painting in the style of Velázquez, which I'll post a link to as soon as I find it. For some reason, Artchive is not downloading for me this morning.

    Mal

    Malryn (Mal)
    October 6, 2002 - 07:13 am

    Below is a link to a rather charming painting I think you'll link. It's by William H. Johnson, who was part of the Harlem Renaissance. William H. Johnson lived in Europe, especially Denmark, for many years. During that time his paintings were done in a classical style. Later, back in the U.S., his style changed to prmitive. When he painted artwork like what is linked below, he was in a hospital for the insane. His was the tormented mind. If I remember correctly, this painting is called Honeymoon. Don't be afraid to look at it.

    WILLIAM H. JOHNSON PAINTING

    Vrai
    October 6, 2002 - 08:24 am
    Malryn, you are a great artist to have formed those computer images that convey the beauty of the flowers and the container. Thank you for the inspiration.

    Vrai

    Malryn (Mal)
    October 6, 2002 - 08:37 am

    Thank you, Vrai, and all of you who have commented on my computer artwork. I'm just a beginner at computer art and appreciate your encouragement.

    Below is a link to another painting by William H. Johnson. It is done in a more classical style and probably was painted in the late 20's or early 30's when he lived in Europe.

    WILLIAM H. JOHNSON SELF PORTRAIT

    Faithr
    October 6, 2002 - 10:57 am
    The painting by Bacon was truly awful in content but I bet it was executed very well if we could see the actual painting. It looks to be oils. The Johnson paintings were on exhibit I think here in Sacramento Crocker Art Gallery. I have been to so many exhibits there that I can't state this for sure but I think I have seen this Honeymoon painting there. I do love it. I think that style is wonderful and tried to learn to do it but was not so good at it.fr

    Malryn (Mal)
    October 6, 2002 - 12:20 pm

    Now, here's something beautiful for you to look at. At least, I think it is. It's one of my favorite paintings. It's by Claude Monet and is called "Magpie".

    MAGPIE BY MONET

    kiwi lady
    October 6, 2002 - 12:48 pm
    The Bacon painting - maybe his name had an influence on his work LOL Not what I would like to have on the wall!

    I like all of the other paintings. I have always loved Monet?

    Does anyone else besides me like Sara Eystones American Garden Collection?

    I have one of her large prints on the wall. Very colourful and cheerful.

    Carolyn

    Malryn (Mal)
    October 6, 2002 - 12:59 pm

    Most everybody knows Edward Hopper's painting called "Nighthawks". This is another Hopper I like very much.

    LIGHTHOUSE AT TWO LIGHTS BY HOPPER

    Malryn (Mal)
    October 6, 2002 - 06:21 pm

    I had to come back in. My daughter's been in New York City for the past eight days and arrived home tonight. Guess what she brought me as a gift. A print from the Metropolitan Museum of Art. Know what it is? Edward Hopper's "Lighthouse at Two Lights". Isn't that wonderful?

    Mal

    ALF
    October 6, 2002 - 06:23 pm

    Marjorie
    October 6, 2002 - 07:37 pm
    MAL: Your daughter knows you well if she brings you a print that you like so much. You are very lucky.

    Coyote
    October 7, 2002 - 06:42 am
    I read somewhere that poets and artists are statistically much more likely to have bipolar disorder (manic/depressive) than the rest of us. If this is true, it would explain some of the glorious pictures as well as some of the ones which show so much pain. People with this mental problem feel their highs and lows so much more intensely than most of us. (I have never read whether they become artists because of their disorder, or whether being in such creative occupations drives them over the edge.)

    There has always been the wisecrack about the fine line between genius and insanity. There may be a lot of truth in it, because the lack of the ability to shut out stimulation appropriately seems to allow for a lot of creativity until the over-stimulation of the brain starts becoming too stressful for an individual. It all seems to be a matter of chemical transmitters or somesuch. I have wondered, lately, if treating so many kids with behaviour problems of one sort or another, may not be "protecting" society from the next great poet, composer, or artist.

    Malryn (Mal)
    October 7, 2002 - 07:29 am

    What you say is true, Ben. There often is an excruciating sensitivity among artistic people, and the highs and lows are often extreme. Maybe it's a combination of both; they're artists because of this "disorder", and their creative activity drives them a little bit nuts. Many real artists of all kinds are compelled to do what they do; don't know when to stop and rest and don't take very good care of themselves when they're in the throes of their creativity. These people are only truly happy when they're doing their art. When they're not, they can become very depressed. You're right, too, about treatment of bipolar disorder. It could be possible that some children and youths who are treated in this way have the potential for being really fine artists, writers, musicians, composers, etc, which is being subdued by medication.

    Mal

    Faithr
    October 7, 2002 - 10:03 am
    Ben I have often thought abut the subject you just brought up. I think it is most likely true that say Poe would not have been the creative poet he was if he had been medicated for his bipolar disorder. Many Alchoholics are self medicating this disorder, myself for one and when chemical disorder was finally treated I found sobriety with no problem. Another thing I have noticed particularly about some of our country western song writers who wrote wonderful poetic songs while on uppers and they went too far and had to clean up and stop taking those pills then their creativitiy dried up. Perhaps not the singing voice, but the poetry of their writing did, like Johnny Cash wrote no more after stopping amphetemines, and Glen Campbell likewise. Faith

    annafair
    October 7, 2002 - 11:23 am
    Have always loved the quality in a Monet. It is sad to think that creative people need some sort of stimulate (alcohol, drugs etc ) to create.

    It is also sad that by treating what is really a miserable condition we may lose the creative abilities of children.

    I havent researched a number of artists or poets but I do know many I admired were indeed tormented souls one way or the other.

    Just thinking ....anna

    kiwi lady
    October 7, 2002 - 11:29 am
    Many artists are medicated but still create with an obsession. You have had many Americans who have been on medication but still continued with their craft.

    From personal family experience I know that medication does not destroy the talent if it is there. It may take motivation away from the artist but certainly the talent does not come from the illness. The terrible illness of bi polar affective disorder seems to hit very intelligent people. Maybe its their sensitive personalities. There is nothing glamorous about the illnesses.

    Carolyn

    Coyote
    October 8, 2002 - 07:05 am
    I didn't mean to imply all great artists are mentally ill. I'm quite sure this isn't true. I was simply pointing out why some art can be so full of pain - it may only be the flip side of the extreme bliss which that particular artist needs to express on other occasions.

    But it is true most great artists in any field see, hear and imagine more than average. I would assume feeling more emotional pain would be part of that package, whether they need or use medication or not. I'm sure many choose to experience more, even though it can be painful at times, so don't seek drugs of any kind.

    Nellie Vrolyk
    October 8, 2002 - 03:15 pm
    Thank you for the interesting posts all

    In a similar vein I was just thinking of seeing, and how I am probably not seeing the same thing the artist saw when I look at his or her painting. From reading books on how to paint and watching the art instruction shows on TV, it seems to me that artists see more colours and shades of colours than I do. I think that has an effect on how I perceive a painting.

    What do you think of that?

    Sasha 5113
    October 8, 2002 - 05:36 pm
    Is there any kind of objective measurement of color perception? (I know color generation can be measured by wavelength.) At what instant on a rainbow does the color shift occur? Is it just a rumor that many women are more sensitive to shade differences than many men?

    Coyote
    October 9, 2002 - 06:51 am
    To me, the discussion about what colors, or how much variation, is one of the oldest. My brother and I used to argue this idea when we were preschool or so. I suppose because our mother was artistic, we discussed colors and played with them a little more than average kids. We could look at some shade of blue-green and argue for an hour about whether it was blue (my favorite color) or green (one of my brother's favorites.)

    We also were very clear about what color each day of the week was - don't ask me how we knew.

    Now that I have read/heard so much about how different animals perceive the world in different colors or other ways from the way we perceive it, I am only more curious about how different people see things. I think I take in more light than average, so find delight in subtle shades of color as well as contrasts, but find too much bright yellow, orange, etc. almost painful. This is similar to my reation to overtones in music. I hear more high and low pitches than many people, so the overtones from string instruments can really annoy me while they delight someone else. I am quite aware that many folks really enjoy and even seem to need a lot more stimulation of the senses to be happy.

    Anyway, the differences in what we perceive remains a fascinating subject to me, as much as differences in how we react.

    MaryZ
    October 9, 2002 - 09:57 am
    There was an article in the Smithsonian Magazine a year or so ago about color - specifically that some people see colors with certain words or numbers or smells or sounds (including music, of course). I have a friend who was surprised that anybody would find that unusual. When I asked her about it, she said "Of course, numbers have colors - don't you see it?" But I'm not that perceptive, I guess, even though I'm a painter and very sensitive to the differences between colors, shades, hues, etc.

    Mary

    winsum
    October 9, 2002 - 04:55 pm
    numbers have colors? nope I've never heard of it. so what color is nine...blue? and lower numbers are hotter or cooler? music highs and low make a difference to me since I don't hear the lows very well. when tuning my guitar I bring the low six string jE up two octables by playing the harmonic so as to match it with the one string which is that E....I envie Ben who has that great range of awareness. I find I do have color habits because I keep using maroons and mauves and violate blues a lot...bright colors hurt my stomach..isn't that weird?.....Claire

    Marjorie
    October 9, 2002 - 07:20 pm
    CLAIRE: I am not surprised that you react to different colors. I know that I do. Perhaps not as dramatically as you describe. I have read about colored lights being used for healing and colors in the environment have an effect on mood. Mauves, violet and blue are all calming colors. I don't like red walls in a room. If there are yellow walls in a room I would want them to be a very pale yellow. I remember one time I painted my kitchen a shade of orange. I thought it was a color I really liked and I was so tired of white walls. I sure got tired of that orange in a hurry.

    Coyote
    October 10, 2002 - 06:26 am
    I think my reaction to bright yellows, etc. may be why I always felt so comfortable in Western Washington, a frequently cloudly country. I am just naturally a shady character. But back to art. How can anyone find a good picture to hang on an orange wall? Seems like off-white, or better yet a lighter wood, would be a lot more useful as a background. The little bathroom I use in this double-wide has a fancy print wallpaper in maroon on white with some gold. Now somebody must have liked it, but I intend to paint over it before long. I would absolutely hate to even go in there if I didn't feel well.

    Seems like finding a good place to hang a painting is getting harder and harder. Back when I was little, all a front room had to worry a person was a fireplace. Windows never went to the floor, nobody had heard of TV or worse, entertainment centers. No one had windows to the floor, baseboard heat, massive drapes or mirrored walls to contend with while arranging things. I moved in here over a year ago and still have two of my mother's paintings leaning against a wall. I don't want to put them outside in the shed, knowing they will deteriorate, but there just isn't a good place for them. Oh well, she loved yellow, so both are a little bright for me anyway.

    Marjorie
    October 10, 2002 - 02:46 pm
    BEN: If you are referring to my comment about painting my kitchen orange, that was at a time when I didn't put anything on my walls. I wasn't much of a decorator. I am learning.

    Coyote
    October 10, 2002 - 04:13 pm
    Marjorie - I guess I am lucky. I do my experimenting with color with yarn. If a sweater is too bright, I just don't wear it much and if an afghan turns out yucky gaudy, I donate it to raise money for the senior center.

    betty gregory
    October 10, 2002 - 09:33 pm
    Ben, you're in luck. Leaning paintings is "in." You can also muffle the brightness by having several objects in front of the paintings. Try leaning one at the back of a desk, directly behind a lamp and other sitting objects. That's my favorite way to decorate with wall art, anyway, unless it's a favorite print and I want to see all of it. Another place to lean a framed print is on top of a tall bookcase...even if other objects will obscure portions. If you absolutely have no other place for a final print, leave it on the floor, leaning against the wall, maybe sitting on top of a double stack of books. I've seen that, too, and it looks fine.

    Betty

    Coyote
    October 11, 2002 - 06:19 am
    Betty - You mean I have started a new fashion? Maybe I will call it the Lazy Mover style. Hmmmnn.

    You are inspiring me. Next, I think I will try different colored yarn stacked in glass knick-knack shelves for brightness, then maybe carefully arranged videos as conversation objects on tables and speakers.

    When I was first married in 1954, we chose a fascinating decoration refered to as "Early Matrimonial" which made use of furniture donated from my in-laws' former home and my folks' recently sold summer place. It's about time I came up with a new style.

    Malryn (Mal)
    October 11, 2002 - 08:17 am
    I thought you might like to see a painting by Winsum. Please click the link below.

    PAINTING BY CLAIRE READ

    betty gregory
    October 11, 2002 - 09:50 am
    Sorry, Ben, hahahahaha, you can't claim the discovery of leaning framed art. I suspect a harried photographer from a home and garden magazine was running late, decided to rush through a photo-shoot, thinking that a few pieces of leaning art would show that the homeowner had just moved in and had not finished decorating.....then, when the magazine came out, it was misinterpreted as a deliberate, alternative method of displaying art.

    At least you're moving in the right direction, Ben. (grin) A few years ago, my mother recognized and announced, to our delight and much laughter, that by the time she was financially able to have all living room and dining room furniture match in style, that matching furniture was OUT and an electic mix of styles was IN. She and I have laughed often at how odd it seems to her that I have worked hard to choose just the right MIS-matched chairs for my deliberatly old-looking dining table.

    Betty

    .........

    winsum
    October 11, 2002 - 02:16 pm
    in the kitchen of my first house with white mouldings and woodwork looked ok. the red had a brownish tint to it. However when you try to paint over red use titanium shellack or you'll never get rid of it. ac ouple of layers of this stuff...white seems to seal it off. even majogany if it's not sealed will leak. I think a dark paynes grey would make an interesting wall color in a small room with maybe a lighter grey or off white woodwork and would be great for paintings with wide light mats. I never know what something is going to look like until it's done though so don't take my word for it. as a painter UI like plain white walls...the whole house is white now...took forever to remove wall paper..ben don't paint over it...remove it with sprayed water and elbow grease... and on and on. Inadvertantly I have objects in from of paintiings for lack of space, but it's the worst possible insult to the artist...which is me.. . . . Claire

    Nellie Vrolyk
    October 11, 2002 - 06:24 pm
    Winsum, I like the painting of yours that Mal showed us. The more I look at it, the more different things I see in it.

    I don't think I would ever put something in front of a painting because then I wouldn't be able to enjoy looking at it in full.

    Ben, have you ever thought of knitting an abstract wall hanging as a piece of art?

    This is a nice discussion to read; thank you all for making it so.

    Sasha 5113
    October 11, 2002 - 06:50 pm
    I can't resist following up on "numbers have colors." The folks who don't see them think those of us who do are off our nuts, but here's what really convinces them I'm around the bend: since I was tiny I've known the gender of numbers and letters, too. Very embarrassing for a proponent of the continuum theory. Sorry for throwing that into a discussion of art.

    betty gregory
    October 12, 2002 - 04:30 am
    Sasha, I can't resist. Let me see if either gender comes to mind for a number. 2 is male. 3 female 6 is male, but not as male as 8. Hehehehe...how did I do, Sasha?

    Betty

    Faithr
    October 12, 2002 - 10:14 am
    Betty Gregory you are very witty. Fr

    Sasha 5113
    October 12, 2002 - 01:08 pm
    you won some, you lost some. Chuckle. Perhaps your numbers live a different lifestyle.

    Sorry to go off-topic, but maybe I found an art that does make some people uncomfortable.

    Nellie Vrolyk
    October 12, 2002 - 04:38 pm
    Thank you all for the wonderful and interesting posts!

    We are soon leaving the world of Art for the scary doings of Halloween, which will be our new topic beginning tomorrow.

    It was a pleasure to be your DL

    Lorrie
    October 12, 2002 - 08:26 pm
    THANK YOU, NELLIE! FOR LEADING THIS INTERESTING COMMENTARY ON ART AND THINGS ARTISTIC!

    ARE YOU ALL READY FOR OUR ANNUAL JOURNEY OUT AMONG THE GOBLINS AND WITCHES, PUMPKINS AND COSTUMES? JOIN US NOW FOR A DISCUSSION ON THIS NATIONAL PASTIME (?) MONITORED BY OUR OWN ANNAFAIR. PLEASE JOIN US,


    Lorrie

    betty gregory
    October 12, 2002 - 10:55 pm
    "A forum for conversation on ideas and criticism found in magazines, journals and reviews"

    I always look forward to the next challenging or provocative news article or editorial, etc. I hope we're not changing the format of this folder.

    Betty

    Lorrie
    October 13, 2002 - 02:04 pm
    Betty:

    As you probably know, we change topics every two weeks in this forum, and we have a revolving schedule of volunteers who offer to do their bit. The choice of each particular topic is up to the Discussion Leader, no one else. This next segment will be hosted by AnnaFair, who has not yet returned from Washington, and she has chosen to talk about the occurrence of Halloween and all it entails. I do hope you will stay with us and offer your always welcome insights.



    A forum for conversation on
    ideas and criticism
    found in
    magazines, journals and reviews.






    Share some of your own memories about Halloween. Did you dress up? Trick or Treat? Did you take your children out to do the same? Do you think it has become too dangerous for children to trick or treat anymore? Would you prefer the community offer places for the children to show off their costumes and play some games and get some treat? Would you be willing to contribute to the events, say what you might use to buy candy or whatever for the trick or treaters?

    Do you think then to prevent children from still going around door to door trick or treaters and their parents or adults responsible should be fined?

    Since many places limit trick or treating to 12 year olds or younger do you think they should also say parents or an adult over 18 WILL accompany the children.


    Join us here on Curious Minds and tell us what you think
    --We really want to know!"


    Links

    Halloween

    The Humor of Melvin



    Your suggestions are welcome.
    Discussion Leader: Annafair

    Lorrie
    October 13, 2002 - 03:26 pm
    Anna, I checked your link above to the "Customs and History of Halloween, etc" amd that is a really moody piece! The music in the background is quite relevant. Hahaha

    Lorrie

    Annie3
    October 13, 2002 - 03:48 pm
    In our family we went to a Catholic school and just before Halloween the school would hold a rummage sale...this was way before they became popular. Mom would give us each a dollar to spend and we could buy anything we wanted. I always picked out things I could use for a costume for Halloween. I had some GREAT costumes and still smile when I think of them all. Then on Halloween night, after supper, we would pick out a pillow case from the closet and go out tricks or treating. We had to be in by ten p.m. We lived in the city so we didn't get into any of the tipping out houses over or anything like that. But we could soap windows...not wax them. I remember we got a lot of apples and Mom always made Halloween apple pie. Peanuts and pop corn by the handfuls were also in that pillow case. Lots of pennies too. And I remember Whiz candy bars, so funny looking back on that. There was one house that always gave out dime Hershey bars and although it was very far away we always made sure to stop at that house. We'd go home when our pillow case was full, when we got too tired, or when our curfew was up. This was one of the nights we got to stay out past when the street lights went on. There were 9 of us kids in my family and it was always fun to dump out everything we got and count the apples and suckers and bubble gum and pennies and trade with each other. The next day for supper we would have Mom's delicious hot apple pie with vanilla ice cream. Very pleasant memories. I still try to make Halloween fun for the children that live nearby me by having special fun decorations and giving out treats.

    Sasha 5113
    October 13, 2002 - 04:18 pm
    Then: in Newton, Mass (no small town, that), in the '40s, every school had a school-wide party, with hours staggered according to the kids' ages, and IMMENSE participation by the parents. I remember being photographed with a bunch of my classmates for a spread in a national magazine (Quick, I think it was), with a parent dressed as a witch, putty nose, warts and all. ALL the kids were off the streets, but we all had a ball, and were safe.

    Now, in the DC suburbs: "With the sniper loose, schools throughout the region remain locked down, and outdoor activities are becoming few. ... Homecoming was canceled at Massaponax High School ... " © 2002 The Washington Post Company

    annafair
    October 13, 2002 - 05:03 pm
    It was wonderful and I wish all could have attended. My Sunday paper said about 35,000 showed up. I am not sure but there were a LOT of people, a few dogs and even a cat or two.

    After four days of rain the sky was still cloudy but no rain. It was exciting and I am at a loss for words to tell you all I saw and expierenced.

    I know this is supposed to be a discussion on current events but everything seemed so controversial and the world situation so volatile not to mention the sniper I am glad I chose something we can talk about that refers to simpler times.

    Still even if the sniper is found Halloween may not be the same for the people in the area where he/she has been terrorizing everyone.

    I welcome all here and hope we can talk about both the way it used to be, the way it is and the way we can hope it to be.

    Thanks to the early posters and to the work of Lorrie and all who make the openings for us. The hard work is really theirs.

    anna

    Marjorie
    October 13, 2002 - 08:20 pm
    SASHA: I was having trouble remembering Halloween when I was growing up until you said something about school-wide parties. I remember that in the fenced in yard of the school I went to until 8th grade there would be a bonfire when it got dark.

    I also remember putting pins in doorbells with a friend of mine. I am sure that I must have had costumes and gone trick or treating but I remember that more from when my children came home and dumped out the candy they got than from when I was little.

    Now I try, usually, to find something "healthy" to give out. That is difficult since things need to be wrapped.

    betty gregory
    October 14, 2002 - 05:07 am
    What's wrong with me? I never even saw the two posted articles (links) above. I didn't mean the articles weren't serious enough!! I thought there weren't any articles!! I thought we were taking a break, or something.

    I'm standing in the corner and will stay until I've learned my lesson.

    Sorry. Sorry. Sorry. Sorry. Sorry.

    Betty

    Coyote
    October 14, 2002 - 06:45 am
    NELLIE - No, I never wanted to make anything just for a wall hanging - what I call useless art. I like working art. Ms. E does enough pretty-pretty stuff for ten houses. Even in a required art appreciation class in college when we were required to do a portrait in any medium we chose, I made an abstract portrait throw rug. I guess I've never liked being stared at and prefered to be useful, so I want the same for the things I make.

    TRICK or TREAT - I sure wish it would go one way or the other. For the last few years, every year I bake or buy a bunch of really good stuff only to have few or no treat-takers. This forces me to gain about three pounds - right before the big eating holidays come along. Here, only Ms. E's grandkids come before going to a party at the school. Our dogs hate the whole thing, so maybe I should buy dog treats, then have any kids who show up give the treats to the dogs before they can have any of their own. Hmmmnn.

    When I was a kid, Halloween was the time to get even with all the grumpy, mean adults in the neighborhood. Our pranks were relatively harmless, but made our point. Little kids didn't go out - they had to wait until they were big enough to take care of themselves. I think the idea of one day a year to be anything you want is as good for kids as for adults. Maybe a big parade, like Mardi Gras, would do better than trick of treating.

    Lorrie
    October 14, 2002 - 08:46 am
    Oh, Betty, Betty!!

    I'm still laughing out loud! It's okay, you can come out of the corner now. I think you've said enough mea culpas.

    Benjamin:

    We, too, used to connect Halloween with acts of mischief, remember soaping windows, toilet paper in trees? Really, it's much more civilized (?) now.

    Lorrie

    Lorrie
    October 14, 2002 - 09:06 am
    On the day after Halloween, George Washington's father said to him at the breakfast table; "I suppose you were with that bunch of pranksters going around knocking over outhouses?"

    George replied, "Yes, Father, I cannot tell a lie. I was."

    His father said, "And I suppose you were one of the bunch that knocked over ours?"

    "I cannot tell a lie. Yes I was, " said George.

    "You get a whippng," said George, Sr.

    "But why?" asked George, "You didn't whip me when I cut down the cherry tree!"

    "Yes, but I wasn't sitting in the cherry tree!"

    annafair
    October 14, 2002 - 09:41 am
    Betty your time out is over....SO COME OUT AND PLAY ...And gee I understand the buying too much and then HAVING To eat it. One year I made little ghosts and put in a dime ...few callers so I had a lot of dimes left over. At least I didnt gain weight!

    I have already gone through one bag of Halloween treats ..a small one and I will have to see what the weather forecast or the city suggests this Halloween before I buy more...

    LOVED the idea of the treats for the dog! I am chuckling about that and imagining my dog thinking she was in heaven with everyone treating her like a queen..which of course she is!

    Thanks so much for everyones sharing ..I am looking for some additional links to some stories about Halloween. anna

    Malryn (Mal)
    October 14, 2002 - 10:49 am
    To see Hallowe'en stories, poetry, pictures and music, click the link below to the October, Hallowe'en issue of the WREX Magazine and get scared by the writing of SeniorNet Writers Exchange WREX writers.

    The WREX Magazine

    annafair
    October 14, 2002 - 12:21 pm
    Thanks so much for the link...I read the story about the two Franks ...now that is a sly one....loved it ..will return and read the others.

    Recalling my past ..my elementary school was located at Y where three streets intersected. The city built a small park there called Sunken Gardens...A tree lined side walk made the triangle a pleasant place and steps to the bottom offered access to benches a view of cannas and annuals in summer.

    Each Halloween the school had a parade around the walkway. Children came to school after lunch ( we lived close enough to go home in the hour alloted ) in costumes. Parents, neighbors and passersby gathered to watch us march around the triangle. We were gathered by classes so you would have the first graders and up to the sixth grade. It was a fun event and there were no classes in the afternoon so we could just enjoy the festivity. The school gave us apples as a treat and most parents lingered until school was dismissed and walked home with the children.

    I am glad I have such warm and happy memories and a bit sad my grandchildren dont.

    Thanks again Mal for the link....

    BOO! BOO! from anna

    kiwi lady
    October 14, 2002 - 02:02 pm
    Halloween is not a NZ Custom. The children have learnt about it on TV and they like to trick or treat but not much tricking goes on just hands out for sweets. It has not really caught on at all. Its not a major part of the NZ culture.

    Carolyn

    Marjorie
    October 14, 2002 - 02:37 pm
    MALRYN: I just copied your post with the link to the WREX Magazine. I am going to go put it into the SeniorNet discussion Holiday Traditions.

    Malryn (Mal)
    October 14, 2002 - 03:08 pm
    Thank you, Marjorie.

    Mal

    Faithr
    October 14, 2002 - 05:56 pm
    I remember holloween in the thirty's in Northern California as something the big kids did. Not we young ones. We never went trick or treat in those days. The older boys would make up a gang and go wreck a few things, pull a few jokes and maybe get a piece of pie at Mrs. Andersons our town librarian so they would leave her alone. Once they put a model t ford car up on top of someones flat roofed woodshed. Block and Tackle learning time for the young engineers. I think even after I had my own family it was around 1950 when this big holiday began in the suburbs all over the country. Where we lived we let the children make costumes and carry a lunch bag size paper bag and one or two adults would walk with each gang of 4 to8 kids. The only trick they pulled was bar soap on car windows or house windows and mostly there was little of that. The holiday has gotten so out of hand now I am really against it and wish parents would invent a new diversion for the kids. Most children do not even know that it comes from a Catholic Saints Day. fr

    Annie3
    October 14, 2002 - 06:20 pm
    So, you all seem to be saying that I should apoligize for my great Halloween memories and my love for the holiday. Does everyone in this group have a sour taste in their mouth for all things that are frivolous and fun?

    annafair
    October 14, 2002 - 08:34 pm
    We all have different memories. Perhaps some of it is the area we grew up in..I lived in the St Louis area in a city. It was a big thing and one we all enjoyed. My mother made home made pumpkin donuts. She filled a basket with them. It may not have been a bushel but it was a LARGE one. All the children for several blocks loved Mrs Hannigan's donuts.

    Years later when I was in my teens some young men came to the door and asked if my mother still made those donuts. They apologized for asking but they remembered how good they were and wondered if they might have some. We gave them a large bag of them and they left after more apologies and profuse thanks.

    I am not sure when mother stopped making them but I suspect it had something to do with WWII.

    I think it is sad that home made goodies are no longer welcome and parents are advised to discard any. I used to make pancake sized cookies, put them in plastic bags with my name for neigborhood children. We were a developement out in the country then so the only children we had were ones we knew. A dentist who lived in our area always gave out toothbrushes and small tubes of toothpaste.

    Times have changed. anna

    elizabeth 78
    October 14, 2002 - 09:52 pm
    My husband enjoyed Halloween. He used to take the kids through our dark forested place where families were few. He carried a shot glass and was never turned down. Fortunately the families were very few.

    Coyote
    October 15, 2002 - 06:36 am
    Halloween is great for one reason. All of us Walter Middys and Snoopys running around really need an annual chance to be whatever we want to.

    There is to be a Halloween dance at the senior center close to us with costumes requested but not required. I think it would be fun to dress up again - haven't done it since college in the early '80s. The only trouble is the dance. Music is said to be from the '50s on up, which leaves out my favorite '30s and '40s music. Also, I have bad feet which can't handle much time in those dress shoes with leather soles and there are about three women to every man. Put the two together and I see pain in my future. Maybe I could dress up as a band member and sit in with the musicians, thus letting my fingers do the walking?

    At my age, I have no secret dreams of what I want to be left because I have tried them all. (How can I dress up as a person young enough to still have good joints?) So what dream person would any of you choose to be if you were dressing up and pretending this halloween? I think it was the solitaire site where we had a cyber party one year. It was fun to dress up for that, because we could change our height, weight, age or whatever to go with the outfits.

    annafair
    October 15, 2002 - 06:53 am
    Oh My that brought back a memory of a cyber halloween to me...I was a sassy girl in a long dress and people kept stepping on my imaginary train...it was really fun. You go Ben and keep those three women happy! It is the least you can do for our country's senior ladies!

    Our local site offers a link to Haunted Hotels ..I am going to try and put that in and hope it works.

    http://www.digitalcity.com/hamptonroads/halloween/?page=hauntedhotels

    There are many events going on locally and I bet every city has something to offer. Edgar Allen Poe was stationed here at Ft Monroe and gave readings of his poetry at the hotel near the base. They have a reading of The Raven scheduled this month.

    I was honestly surprised to see how many things have been scheduled. One thing is a walkathon, where parents and children in costume walk for a local charity. I thought what a great way to use Halloween.

    Frankly I am getting rather excited to see what the children will wear this year. Will it be spider man ? And with six grandchildren I get to see them all in costume.

    Hoorah for a holiday we can have a fun time with...although I have to admit I dont carve a pumpkin anymore but use huge fiberglass ones.

     BOO! BOO! anna

    Marilyne
    October 15, 2002 - 12:15 pm
    I was only three years old, and my brand new baby brother had just been born the day before, on October 30th. My dad carried me around to all the houses on our street, and passed out cigars to all the neighbor men. I remember the women smiling and kissing me, and giving me a cookie or an apple. In the years that followed, Halloween was a time to celebrate my brother's birthday, with a party. All of the party guests came in costumes, and the table always contained a lighted jack-o-lantern and a homemade cake decorated with a smiling orange and black pumpkin face. The special treat was a little Dixie cup filled with candy corn.

    The costumes in those days were all concocted from whatever you happened to have around the house. It seemed like every year I was a Gypsy, and my brother was a Cowboy! The Gypsy outfit consisted of a peasant blouse, one of my mother's full skirts that was pinned at the waist to fit me, and hung to my ankles, and a bandana tied around my head. And of course, LOTS of lipstick! My brother wore a plaid shirt and jeans, a toy gun and holster set and a cowboy hat.

    We would all go out later for, Halloween Handouts, as it was called in our town. The handouts, were always, homemade cookies, fudge, apples, oranges or pennies! The term, "trick or treat", was not known to us until around 7th and 8th grade. Then. we did harmless things like ringing doorbells, or tapping on windows, and then running away. The worst thing we ever did, was to sneak into the local funeral parlor, in hopes of seeing a dead body. Sounds ghoulish and terrible, I know, but we were only 13 and 14, and always looking for excitement - which we surely did find that night!

    Lorrie
    October 15, 2002 - 12:34 pm
    elizabeth 77:

    I laughed so upon reading your post. That idea of bringing along a shot glass while taking the children trick or treating would have delighted my husband. Fortunately for you there won't that many close neighbors. Hahaha

    Benjamin:

    In this Senior building where I live, we have a costume Halloween party every year, and some of the costume ideas are great, even without spending a lot of money, which we want to get away from.

    Last year the ist prize was won by a woman here who dressed "down" as a bag lady. She put on a scraggly wig, layers of old clothing, and she pushed a grocery cart (that belonged to the building) filled with garbage and junk. I think what cinched the prize was that she removed her false teeth, and just chomped on her gums! Talk about real!

    I won first prize once for dressing as a "gangster." I had a white pant suit, so I bought a black dickie and white tie, borrowed a black fedora with a snap brim, and i carried a toy cap revolver that I kept snapping as I walkded. Like somebody from "The Godfather!"

    Wear a costume that involves sleepwear of some kind, then you can wear bedroom slippers, which are more comfortable for you. Just a suggestion. But no, don't disappoint the ladies!

    Lorrie

    annafair
    October 16, 2002 - 10:07 am
    It is wonderful to read the memories you are sharing. Some of the costumes I see now are from a store or very elaborate ones some mother or grandmother made.

    I remember when my sons were young ( the oldest 40 now) and he wanted a teredactyl outfit...now that was a challenge. His brother wore a lion costume I made which was easy. I eventually made him a brown ourfit with a cape in which I cut half circles leaving points at the ends and binding them in bright yellow tape. I also put elastic under the cape so he could hold the "wings" out >>.I am not sure just how I made the head piece but he thought he was great!

    I look throught the paper daily to see what Halloween events are planned. It seems a lot. Of course we also seem to have a conflict with Octoberfest. But the more happy events the better.

    I will wait to see what the city says about trick or treating this year. As you know I live in Virginia , just 3 hrs from DC and the sniper has everyone concerned even here.

    The only thing I really object to are the OLDER BOYS who come out with pillowcases sans costume to collect candy etc. Some have got to be in High School.

    Good to read the notes and I too had to laugh at the shot glass...that was FUNNY...anna

    angelface555
    October 17, 2002 - 11:45 pm
    I was raised in a very small town compared to what it is now. It was a town that saw a mixture of old gold mining sourdoughs and store clerks, along with University professors and business people with the political cronies known to all. A typical small town of that era. My father worked as a welder for the city garage, came home for dinner at six each weekday night; and my mother was a housewife then. My father retired from the city after fifty years. You don't see that anymore!

    Anyway, my sister and myself made out like bandits on Halloween! We would go out early with our brown paper bags, in my Mother's sewn costumes; and hit the neighborhood and the nearby police station. Then it was off to home for new empty brown bags and off to the three major apartment buildings in our area. One had nine floors, one had five and well, you get the idea.

    Luckily for our "insides" Mom always rationed the candy we hauled in and Dad felt he was entitled to freebies and really, what could we say?

    That type of freedom disappeared in the sixties and by the seventies, I was not able to let my child trick or treat.

    There's something sad about that type of progress.

    angelface555
    October 17, 2002 - 11:52 pm
    If I was a parent today, I would ban trick or treating and make it a school carnival with costumes or cakewalks and all the games and food either provided by parents or classes or PTA.

    Or the community could do something along those lines. I do not like the idea of going to stores as some towns have. A lot of the store clerks do not care for the idea, or the damages; and have to go along with their boss or mall association. Its not a good idea to have an Easter egg hunt or anything similar at the malls.

    To answer Benjamin's question, I think I would be a nurse again. I was always a nurse or a ballerina in the fifties.

    Trick or treating doesn't have a place any more in today's world and that is truly sad.

    Diane Church
    October 18, 2002 - 12:06 am
    When I was a youngster our town sponsored a fun evening at the school with apple bobbing, games, food, and all sorts of things. Parents volunteered to man the various booths and events. One year my parents ran the "House of Horrors" - as I recall it involved crawling under sheet-covered tables, a few witches, sounds - stuff like that.

    The funny part was when the next day the various kids were asked to give their comments on what they had liked at the party, one child said his favorite was the Tylers' whore (horror) house!

    Nellie Vrolyk
    October 19, 2002 - 03:10 pm
    My very first Halloween was in 1954, the first year we lived in Canada and the first time we experienced such a thing since Halloween was not celebrated in the Netherlands at that time. I remember that it snowed quite hard, and that we were taken from house to house by car because we were out in the country. At every house we were invited inside for hot cocoa and cookies, and then sent on our way with a generous helping of goodies, both homemade and store bought, in our pillowslip bags. I know we kids were not very dressed up, but we did wear masks we had made ourselves, for we were not told about Halloween until the day it took place.

    I also think that there should be a community place for children to go and have Halloween fun, as it is safer for them overall.

    Hello Angel!

    annafair
    October 20, 2002 - 07:51 am
    The mall that holds Halloween here does not have stores open. It is all done in the mall itself and many churches offer a place for thier children and friends to have a fun evening.

    Here in Virginia where we are looking for a sniper already parents are saying they dont feel safe allowing thier children to trick or treat. I am not even sure if some of them would feel safe at an enclosed area. Several people have been killed in parking lots doing routine things like putting purchases in cars etc.

    For the first time for many, Halloween is going to be a very scary event. I suspect it will be a long time for any of the things we shared of our past will be safe again. It looks to me it will change in ways that will make it sort of a different event. That is not only sad but scary even to adults..perhaps even more to adults.

    One 13 year old has been shot so we know the sniper doesnt care about age or gender.

    Even if a Halloween party is held indoors the number of security people would take away some of the fun and for some children it would make them feel insecure instead of the other way around.

    I am glad I came from a past where it was a fun event, and my children had the same but my grandchildren havent and most likely never will.

    By the way I would be happy to donate what I spend in treats for a safe place.

    Perhaps this will be a "Holiday" that has seen its time and will change or just fade away with only the "Old Timers" to tell like it used to be.

    anna

    Ann Alden
    October 22, 2002 - 08:14 am
    Anna, this is a great idea for a discussion! Halloween is my favorite holiday!! We have always made most of our costumes from stuff around the house plus some dyeing and painting. My not so old memories are of our university parties in the married student housing area of Purdue University. My husband and I went one year as the Headless Horseman and his killer. One of our kids awoke after we had dressed and he didn't get over the shock for years! Another year, we went as "The Golden Girl"(A Purdue special cheerleader) and Purdue Pete(the Purdue mascot). My husband wore tights and his well endowed sister's bathing suit over it(all sprayed with gold paint) and a homemade wig(all yellow yarn). We promised not to take his picture and can you believe, we didn't?? How dumb? As Purdue Pete, I wore black and gold clothes(Purdue's color's) and made a head from a small box with hat and all. These costumes stuck with us even to the wearing of them by our kids. Finally the headless horseman's head(a really scary rubber mask) rotted away and we quit using them and went on to other homemade things. I have pics of most of them and they were always fun to make.

    Your idea of giving your candy money for a safer place to have Halloween parties is not a bad idea but I think that most of us here in middle of the US feel that we will go with the kids and they will be safe.

    JjLadybug
    October 22, 2002 - 11:12 am
    Just a short note to tell you she is showing me how this works....Ladybug

    Marjorie
    October 22, 2002 - 07:31 pm
    LADYBUG: Welcome! Any friend of ANNA's is most welcome here.

    Ann Alden
    October 23, 2002 - 05:39 am
    Keep trying, Ladybug. This SN site is just too much fun to miss!

    annafair
    October 23, 2002 - 06:47 am
    In just a little over a week Halloween will be over for another year. A year I hope will not be as fearful as this one has been. I am sure your papers and news are reporting the sniper case. So you will know there is a letter threatening children. And another person has been shot.

    I am sure this will not be a fun year for the parents and children in Virginia. Even if the sniper is found and arrested nothing will ever bring back the loved ones lost or heal the pain of those who lost beloved children, spouse, mother, father, grandparents.

    My heart is heavy and hurts for those who have faced this terror.

    A very sad anna in Virginia

    annafair
    October 23, 2002 - 06:53 am
    I spent most of yesterday helping her set up her computer. A nephew gave her his old one and she couldnt figure out how to print. NO PRINTER CABLE! Bless her. We rearranged some things to make it easier for her to use the computer and she bought a printer cable and as soon as she buys the ink she will be set to print.

    Ladybug is an artist and one who was in my poetry class this year. I gave out information about seniornet and how to access it and am pleased I was able to help her do so.

    She was very interested in this site and I hope she comes often and shares her opinions and hopes with us.

    Thanks again for your welcome...anna

    Bill H
    October 23, 2002 - 10:30 am
    October is my one of my two favorite months of the year. I suppose it's because of the Fall colors, football and the World Series, and, of course, Halloween with all the mystery that day brings to mind. Last night Larry King had a guest (I forget his name)that was talking about the safety of Halloween this year. His idea was also to have the trick or treaters visit the malls that were participating in this tradition. There isn't near as many trick or treaters in my neighborhood as in by gone times and every year they are less in number. Isn't a shame that a few spoil the good times for the many? How unhappy these few must be.

    Bill H

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    October 25, 2002 - 08:38 pm
    Interesting - the links speak to the Celtic and Roman practices and granted many a church practice is a carry over Christianized - but my childhood knowledge of the day was that it was the feast of All Souls Day on the 31st and therefore, the day or night before was a day to ward off the spirits of the dead and than Nov. 1 is the feast of All Saints Day. Both days were big High Mass days.

    As children we celebrated Halloween by being as scarry and as mischivious as we could but there were no treats from neighbors - that was reserved for Thanksgiving morning when all the kids dressed up as rag-a-muffins as we called it - in clothes that belonged in the rag bin and we all went begging from house to house - the money we received was often buried in an apple but at the end of the morning we would all go home and count our money - the greater portion was reserved for Chirstmas gifts but after dinner all of us kids took 10 cents to the local ice cream store where there was a row of chocolate turkeys that every year we had been eyeing for over a week before Thanksgiving. (remember it still only cost 10 cents to get into the movie so 10 cents for a chocolate turkey was a lot of money)

    Some kids had a bit more family money and they got the big turkey's that cost 25 cents - we sorta eyed those kids as not so much lucky but rather as seperate and as traitors. It usually took us a good week before it all evened out again and we would share and play together.

    annafair
    October 26, 2002 - 08:35 pm
    I am pleased to report the local plans for a safe and fun Halloween are in full swing. With a great deal of relief from parents now that the snipers have been caught.

    My daughter took her two to a party at the Y and in today;s paper it seems EVERYONE is offering some place special and safe for families to enjoy an evening of fun and activities.

    Besides enjoying a visit from a senior lady from California and watching the World Series I have been sidetracked and negligent.

    There seems to be a lot of nostalgia concerning Halloween. The other day I remembered when we lived in Germany our daughter was just recovering from the measles ..She wanted to go trick or treating and I had been busy caring for her and besides at that time I didnt drive.

    Her father promised to do something about a costume. In the end she was dressed as "Something" in one of his turtle neck shirts that was as long as a dress on her ( she was 4) and he was 6'2"...and he bought a new mop top. I guess I should say mop bottom for it fit on the bottom of a mop. It was cotton and sort of grey, he parted it and put it on her head and he took her to the apartments that formed our stairwell and to some of our friends and she was happy since she came home with a nice collection of goodies. It was not the poorest excuse for a costume I ever saw but sure ran a close second.

    When she was 22 we had a Halloween party at the house for her friends. Now that was something.. We had someone who had an emt put his leg in a cast and came in on crutches, a young woman in a Nun's habit, a couple that came as a devil and a pregnant angel who wore a sign that SAID THE DEVIL MADE ME DO IT! It was quite a party and lots of interesting costumes.

    I am hoping we have enough trick or treaters to come to the door so I can give all this candy away before I EAT IT ALL....anna

    annafair
    October 27, 2002 - 07:32 am
    When I was young there was a poem that ended with The Goblins will get you if you dont watch out...I found this web site and if you want to see it check it out...anna

    http://www.thefaerycrossing.com/goblins.html

    Lorrie
    October 27, 2002 - 01:41 pm
    Okay, guys and gals, goblins and ghouls! It is now time for another change of topic in our ongoing Curious Minds discussion. We would like to thank you, AnnaFair for a truly interesting session here, and such a timely subject!

    Barbara has prepared a very attractive heading here for her next topic, all about "Citizen Kane." I'm sure you all have some comments and opinions about this famous subject, and we'd like to hear from you all! Everyone is welcome to post---let's see your comments!

    Lorrie

    angelface555
    October 27, 2002 - 03:23 pm
    Halloween can be revived as a place in the schools, private home parties and or in mall general areas. My daughter was a child in the seventies and even I felt unsafe knocking on doors with her and her friends.

    I also remember one year when the school called to say my daughter had bitten down into a Safeway orange and just missed a NEEDLE by centimeters!

    We spent Halloween in those following years at a winter carnival or church haunted house!

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    October 27, 2002 - 04:11 pm
    Yes angleface555 Halloween was made no longer the night of scarry pranks by kids but the serious mayham of sick minds - I always have to remind myself the thought shared by my 8th grade teacher, fire can heat and cook or burn down a home or burn skin.

    I started to get a jump start and watch Citizen Kane last night...'Rosebud'...with that word starting the movie I did remember seeing it those many many years ago as a child but of course I had no clue I was watching an enduring piece of art. At the time it seemed rather scarry and yet the animals and so forth didn't continue the feeling of a detective story and so as a child I was confused. So many moview of the era used that spooky voice as in Citizen Kane to describe the background for a scarry plot. And although there were some color movies they were very few. All those old black and whites seemed to have an intensity about them that bordered on mystery. Where as the light hearted stories were almost slap stick in comparison - even the Nelson Eddy and Jeanette McDonald movies had some broad jokes to keep them light.

    Unfortunatly the extra hour last night did not help - I was so tired I fell asleep in the middle of the movie and so I will need to watch it tonight – Although, I AM NOT missing the Forsythe Saga on PBS and so it may be tomorrow night before I finish seeing the entire movie.

    I was struck by the use of lighting in this film - what drama - I remember taking an interior design class years ago that had a session on lighting - I didn't quite get it then, but now, after seeing this film, I really get it – I know in theatre the spotlight highlights the important character and the focus of the scene but this film goes beyond the use of a spotlight - after I finish viewing the movie I must read the link I included about lighting - it is a longer essay but I think the movie will be more meaningful because of understanding the use Orsen Wells made of the lighting. He really was a genius wasn't he.

    annafair
    October 27, 2002 - 08:02 pm
    Thank you everyone for sharing your memories and ideas. Today's paper was full of ads offering safe and fun events for everyone for Halloween. They are new ads and I think they have held off until the snipers were caught.

    One ad from a nearby mall reminded everyone ONLY children 11 and under may wear masks. Any adults or older children will not be allowed in with masks. It does seem there is an undercurrent of concern not present in years past. I Hope all of you have a great Halloween and no candy left over to tempt you. One year it poured rain and we donated our supply of goodies to a local organization for at risk children. May have to do it this year.

    Again thanks for your participation.

    Barbara you have chosen one of my favorite movies so I will now have to hie myself to Blockbuster or check the local library for the movie. Looking forward to this discussion... anna

    BaBi
    October 28, 2002 - 10:15 am
    Barbara, this is a really great idea, and I dearly wish I could participate. Unfortunately, old movies have no closed captioning, and without the CC I am totally lost. Can't follow the dialogue and have no idea what's going on.

    Maybe we can do this again some time, with a more modern 'classic' with the helpful 'CC'. Clever of you to think of it. ...Babi

    ALF
    October 28, 2002 - 12:43 pm
    I have never seen nor read citizen Kane but I learned so much from the links above that I just rented it.

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    October 28, 2002 - 01:26 pm
    Great to see your post Babi - hope you could read the diologue to the movie from the links above - or maybe just reading the links will give you some thoughts about the movie - you may even want to rent it for its artistic look - it is amazing as a work of art - not like so many of our movies today - even the best of them tell a wonderful story and the locations chosen are wonderful but none of them have the artistic look that some of these old black and whites had or at least this one that Orsen Wells so magnificently orchastrated. To learn that he was only 25 years old when he did this blew me away.

    Alf enjoy - can't wait to hear your impressions - I never really got into all the hoopala about Hearst - isn't his home in California an art museum today? I wonder if Sarah has ever visited it or knows anything about him and his home - I need to e-mail her and see what she can add. Seems to me I saw something on TV about this location in Florida that is used was recently renovated into a multi-million dollar resort for folks paying something like $4000 a night to stay there. Alf you visit Florida - had you heard anything about it - not that we are in that economic bracket - yes, I do have the proper number of zeros after the 4.

    I'll finish watching the movie tonight - yes, the Forsythe Saga was my movie of choice last night.

    Ginny
    October 29, 2002 - 04:22 am
    I hate it, but I have never been a devotee of Orson Welles, I admit to being a philistine.

    I do think his radio broadcast on the "invasion from Mars," which I have heard, was very inventive and quite real, tho it was clearly stated several times it was a radio play, yet it seemed quite realistic, to me.

    I have tried three times (told you I was a Philistine) to watch Citizen Kane and simply can't get past much of the opening scenes. The ego rampant is such a turn off, it causes despair because I know he's on SUCH a pedestal but I can't figure out why. I would like to appreciate him, but I guess it's a case of pearls before swine.

    I have been to the Hearst Estate in California, it's fabulous. It has the most beautiful indoor pool I have ever seen, bar none, goes off into alleyways and private alcoves, it's just spectacular.

    Apparently he brought several works of ancient art for his outdoor pool, as well, he's got it made up into a Roman type colonnaded arrangement, sort of like Hadrian's Villa, on that pattern, very impressive. So is the house.

    Alas, Marion Davies is way before my time so again I can't understand the hoopla about her staying there, which is really repeated throughout any tour you take, almost constantly, (who cares?) Was he actually married to somebody else at the time?

    ginny

    ALF
    October 29, 2002 - 07:26 am
    I not only visit Florida barb, I live here. However a multi million dollar resort is just a tad out my reach. Could it be the newly renovated Ringling house that you speak of? What the heck is the name of that castle?

    Ginny, watching Citizen Kane one must only keep in mind that he was a man who desired only love! He couldn't give it but that was what he was always striving towards and for. He was always the child who was looking for love (in all the wrong places.) If one keeps that in mind, his egomaniacal behavior is better tolerated and understood.

    The lighting in this movie is a master piece, without a doubt. The frames , the darkness and the contrasts are wonderful.

    Katie Sturtz
    October 29, 2002 - 08:31 am
    GINNY...you are not alone! I think Orson Welles is/was, vastly overrated. "Citizen Kane" is/was vastly overrated. I have seen it several times, trying to understand what all the hoopla was about, but I'm still puzzled. What's more, I don't care! On the other hand, Miz Anderson, join me at 5:00 today on Bravo, where we will enjoy a most satisfying look at the life of Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings in "Crosscreek"!

    annafair
    October 31, 2002 - 11:04 am
    Like Barbara I am amazed Orson Welles did this when he was only 25. I realized like Babi if the movie isnt closed captioned I wont understand it. Now I remember it well from when I first viewed it and to me it was a very sad story. That is the impression I am left with in any case.

    I have loved the movie Cross Creek and watched it again the other night. It was such a joy to view and since it was raining and cold here it was good to see people in summer dresses in a warm clime.

    Now I know that is far afield but couldnt let the comment by Katie pass by ...I do hope you enjoyed it Katie as I did.

    Will continue to come by and see what others have to say about Citizen Kane and Orson ......anna

    annafair
    October 31, 2002 - 11:14 am
    This came out in 1941? I was very young then ...did I see it then or later? Just thinking ...anna

    BaBi
    October 31, 2002 - 04:00 pm
    I've read the outline summary. From that I would agree with Anna's impression of 'sad', but add that much of the loss seems to derive from Kane's values, or lack of them. Of course, that is the essence of tragedy, isn't it? My library no longer has the 'Citizen Kane' video, unfortunately. I know I've seen it there, but apparently it was withdrawn because no one had ever checked it out. Not at all in the current popular vein, obviously. Anna, your date had me doing a bit of fast math, and I find I was six at the time. Citizen Kane was old news before you and I became interested in the more serious films. Roy Rogers and Tarzan in '41, right? ...Babi

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    October 31, 2002 - 06:24 pm
    There are so many artists that I do not admire but their work is the stuff of the gods - I believe this movie was the first of the genre labeled 'film noir' - having visited Radio City Music Hall many years ago the art of this film reminds me of the Art Deco design of Radio City Music Hall. I have no idea if this movie played there or if the theater was built yet in 1941 but since the Art Deco movement was all about in the 1930s and early 40s I can't help wonder if there was a match.

    The scene of him being taken from his home is heartbreaking - and yet that was such the popular solution during this time in our history. How many children that never became famous were taken from their families because of poverty - not abuse as now but because of poverty - and how many children were wrenched from their families because of WW2 - not just those fleeing the long reach of the SS but the many children from London of which some had a good experience and others a dreadful time of it.

    I'm remembering as a child how any authority believed themselves to be more knowledgeable and capable than any parent - parents were not allowed to visit their children in hospitals except during strict and infrequent visiting days and children were often scooted off to some sanitarium out of the reach of parents - all this comes back to me as I see the mother showing no feelings as she signs off on the papers - rather than being cruel I see her as knowing she could not buck the-powers-that-be and therefore, in a very stoic way she shut down her feelings and became strong.

    This way of handling things is what I think brings the wrath of the public against any women who does not act as the husband acts in this movie. He seems out of character for a man of that time in history. Of course this happening brings up a whole set of issues about the way women handled events when they knew they have no power to affect the event. I think some women knew they could not affect those in power but would, and still today will not give the powers-that-be the satisfaction of seeing them fall apart nor give them the priviledge of seeing their pain. I know this was the way of handling painful events that my mother used when she had no power to control or affect the outcome of something that involved her children.

    It took my becoming an emotionally grown adult rather than coming from my childhood feelings before I could cry for my mother. It helped when I remembered my grandmother telling me not to cry when life was harsh since there were so many things that will happen that I could cry over. This is a women who had 12 children and only 3 lived past the age of two. All that memory came up for me with that scene in the movie.

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    October 31, 2002 - 06:49 pm
    I wonder if the sadness you Babi and Alf are speaking to was a social commentary on what happens when money is sought and a child is prepared to earn a great fortune over his being poor but kept within the bosom of his family.

    Seems to me in those days we saw our movies in our local theatres and there was a system of time when the new movie played for several months in the big city theaters - then there was a second level of theaters where the movie played before it was finally playing for usually only a week at the local neighborhood theatre. And so, often, it was two years after release before a movie hit the theatre in our area - So, I wonder Anna if you saw this later than 1941.

    I also remember most kids went to the movies on Saturday noon time - we hurried and finished our chores and in my house Mom gave us two soda bottles and a milk bottle to return - which amounted to 12¢ - it took 10¢ to get into the Saturday matinee and the other 2¢ we got candy at the ice cream store rather then at the cigar store where we turned in the bottles. The ice cream store had better and cheaper candy. Dots on paper and these teddy bears that were little probably all sugar or a sack of 2¢ worth of nonperrals (sp) or Chicken Corn or Good and Plenty.

    There was often two features, a serial like Foo Man Chou or Hop-a-long Cassidy and the bad guys or Charlie Chan followed by a cartoon and then the feature. Very seldom was a movie in color and we all cheered the roof off if the cartoon was in color. What a circus Saturday matinee's were for the Theatre owner with ushers trying to keep order and kids opening the back door to sneak in their friends who couldn't afford the price of a ticket and all the booing and yelling and talking so loud during a mushy love scene. I am sure they were tickled pink that most of us were Catholic and had to be out of the theatre to make confession which was over at 4:00.

    That was always a mad dash in that the church was 3 long long blocks from the movie theatre and you always worried that some old lady would be in line ahead of you during confession who would take up all the time and then it would be too late and the priest would leave then you couldn't go to communion on Sunday and your mother would know you stayed too long at the movie theatre.

    What a maze of calculations on Saturday just to stay out of trouble and here we were seeing some of the greatest artistic movies ever made and only now can we appreciate the wonders we saw with a vague memory of seeing the film.

    annafair
    November 1, 2002 - 11:20 am
    There was a short notice on the coming events page telling that a local movie theater would be showing Citizen Kane later this month for free. The article stated that the movie was considered the very best movie of all time. Now that surprised me.

    I am sure I did not see it in '41 as we waited until all the movies arrived at the nieghborhood theaters and admittence for a child was ten cents. A bit higher grade movie theater was 25 cents so mostly we went to the 10cent movie.

    Over my lifetime I have seen hundreds ? thousands? of movies and I guess I was too young to truly appreciate this one. I certainly would not rate it the best. But then I am not sure what criteria they use to judge the "best".

    I do know it has recieved high praise...does one need to know about movie making to make that judgement? I have to say reading the part about how they made the movie takes a lot of the magic away. I was watching a movie this am on AMC and after so many years of seeing movies made more or less on location and not a back lot I can see some of the false elements. In this one people were on a train and it was obvious the "train" was not moving but the background was...

    I hope to view the free movie this month ..but by that time we will be on a new subject. Social services still make decisions regarding children and parents and often not wise ones even now. anna

    ALF
    November 4, 2002 - 08:14 am
    I loved the way that this story progresses with the headlines and newsreel being the main focus. It is said that few privte lives have ever been more public than his.

    I do truly feel such sorrow for this man. He insists that he is an "American" while being dubbed as a communist; he runs a newspaper (The Inquirer) just for the fun of it; his marriage to the president's niece goes awry and his infidelity with Susan Alexander is a farce even after they marry. He strove for governor but in truth never held public office because of his indiscretion with Susan and their little "love nest." He continued to buy and merge newspapers and he, himself, was always the news. If his attiutude had been different he would have been President, his friends claimed.

    I loved the snow and the whiteness against the dark, dismal settings that began with his sledding at the mine and ended as he dropped the "snow globe, upon his death." Very impressive.

    ALF
    November 6, 2002 - 06:12 am
    I choose to be a newspaper editor. Kane said "I'll provide the war" just so that he could publish. He also said "I always gagged on that silver spoon and if I hadn't been rich I'd have been a big man." Always striving, this stricken soul, wasn't he?

    I liked the way the film continued to switch back and forth between the interviews of Bernstein and Thompson and Leland (his closest friend.) The ideals were at the highest peak when the "Declaration of Principles " was written by Kane. Leland kept them for years as the truth was honestly provided by the paper . That came to an abrupt halt when Kane fired Leland for writing the truth about Susan's lack of talent. Leland said "Kane never finished anything except that notice."

    Ann Alden
    November 6, 2002 - 09:22 am
    I've been to San Simeon three times and find it a beautiful place to tour. There are three or four separate tours and I once saw it by candlelight due to a power outage on a rainy day. Very nice! We scads of pics but you can go to www.hearstcastle.org and see most of the place from there. If one goes to San Simeon, the Hearst castle, there is a book on sale, titled, "Citizen Hearst" by W A Swanberg. I have read it and find much of the movie follows Hearst's life. Supposedly, Hearst sued or wanted to sue Wells for making this movie, claiming what? I can't remember! Anyway, Hearst was accused, in real life, of falsifying reports on the war in San Juan or Cuba just to sell newspapers. He was bored and wanted to sell those newspapers! There is a page on the net with a list of books about Hearst, should anyone be interested. Here's a link: Citizen Hearst

    San Simeon is run by the California Parks Department as the property became a financial burden years ago so they gave to the PD. Interesting note: Nothing has been completed where it was still in flux. They want to preserve it as it was when Hearst died. Seems there is a storage area beneath the castle where many many objects of art and other collections that Hearst intended to put into the castle as it was completed. I seem to remember the tour guide telling us that that was one of the stipulations made by the family. Also there is a Hearst Castle site at: www.hearstcastle.org/

    To me, the movie's cinematography is fantastic but why it is the best movie made is beyond me. I know people who watch it frequently and just love it. Why????? Also, I have seen many equally good movies or even better, that are certainly equal in the cinematography department. One of the things that I have always loved is watching B&W movies when they are well done. And, there were many!

    Ann Alden
    November 6, 2002 - 09:58 am
    My gosh, National Geographic has built a theater next to the visitor's center which is down the hill from the castle. Five stories high, with an iWerks movie theater to view. All I ask is that they have potties at the visitor center! They didn't have them the first time I saw this place in 1978. Just a white tent housing the souveneirs and a ticket booth. It says there's a museum, a cafe, a gift shop(of course). My goodness! The times, they are a changin'!

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    November 8, 2002 - 03:48 pm
    I wondered why this movie was considered the greatest by so many film critiques - the video I watched was a 50 anniversary copy with many famous directors and producers having their say after the movie ended. I did learn that as Lindburg's flight across the Atlantic may not have been the fastest or the sleekest with the largest plane it set a standard of what could be achieved and a brave new world was entered. From what I understand now that is the wonderment of Citizen Kane so many new affects from make-up to film.

    Interesting that the Oscar it did receive was for the story - by today's standards it was a simple story but what amazed me the most is how many scenes said it all without words - this movie could almost have been without sound. Each frame was a work of art - all filmed in grays from black to white. There was interesting staging with a partial wall or window or mirror separating the actors - and as has already been said the bit with the snow in the globe becoming the snow in the scene at the cabin.

    I didn't get the significance of the Library being like a tomb - no books in sight, the marble, the echoes; even the librarian so severe with the policeman as a guard, I just didn't get what that was all supposed to symbolize - it wasn't Kane's library it was the Lawyer who managed his money and him till he was 25 years old.

    Now on a social level it hit me right off how the women, except for the mother, were there to please the men. There was not a women among the press corps nor in any place of power except for the mother.

    I have to wonder if all his life he was looking for his mother's love in other women or was he looking for the power to do unto others what he felt his mother did to him. That loss was more than a loss of home and childhood but a loss of a connection to a mother's love that may or may not have been there. It did appear his father's love was observable and maybe that was it - by sending him away he was deprived of his father's love and for him all he saw was that women were the key to greater power. Certainly when the second wife left that is the message I got - not that he wanted her to stay because he loved her but because she was the key to his achieving success.

    All these psychological aspects of the story seem to me to be later 20th century rather than written in 1938. And so even the theme of his story was facing a brave new world.

    interesting how Joseph Cotton seemed to play a part so in character for him as I remember his movies. He was usually played a southerner or a drunk and often a bit of both. I could see him playing a Faulkner story couldn't you. Didn't Orsen Wells play Big Daddy in that one with JoAnn Woodworth and Paul Newman where Paul is poor white and is brought to the big house after he out does the brother becoming successful at the store.

    I have to agree Orsen Wells was never an actor that made me want to see a picture although his work was masterful.

    annafair
    November 8, 2002 - 05:42 pm
    Barbara I enjoyed reading your comments about why it was an important movie....I dont know his history but I have often wondered if actors are drawn to parts that are a bit autobiographical.

    It was Burl Ives who played the part of Big Daddy in Cat on a Hot Tin Roof...since I loved his gravely singing voice I never forgot him...anna

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    November 9, 2002 - 12:29 am
    Aha - yes it was Burl Ives in Cat on the Hot Tin Roof with Liz Taylor - great film and only years later when I saw it done with another actress could I appreciate just what a wonderful actress Elizabeth Taylor was.

    Had a different movie in mind - it had Angela Lansbury as Big Daddy's love interest and the prim Joanne Woodward in a big four poster, in love with a Mama's boy or so she thought till Paul Newman hits the scene - looked it up on the internet and found it - The Long, Hot Summer -- 1958, - Starring Paul Newman, Joanne Woodward, Orson Welles Anthony Franciosa, Lee Remick, Angela Lansbury

    A drifter's arrival in a small Southern town has an unsettling effect on the members of a wealthy family.

    I wonder what ever happened to Anthony Franciosa - I remember him in a black and white about drugs - maybe The Man with the Golden Arm and didn't Lee Remick commit suicide or die in a strange way?

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    November 9, 2002 - 12:42 am
    Found it - A Hatful of Rain with Eva Marie Saint - 1957 - evidently this was the repeat of his role on Broadway and his first movie. He received all kinds of awards for this part.

    This site gives the titles of all the Orson Wells films

    Ann Alden
    November 9, 2002 - 08:04 am
    I think the movie follows the life of Hearst pretty well. If you know anything at all about Hearst's life, you can see his wanting to please his mother at all times and the movie follows that part of the story. The difference here being that Hearst's mother took him with her to Europe and exposed him to all the art that he later collected. His father was too busy making money, in his silver mines, for her to spend.

    When the Hearst papers were accused of making up the battle of San Juan Hill and also of being communist leaning, there was a huge public meeting(6000 attending) in the big park in NYC(name escapes me) where he was chastised heavily for his newspaper publishing.

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    November 9, 2002 - 10:52 am
    Ann it begins to sound scary doesn't it when we wonder today if we are getting the news or an editorialzed version of the news - A movie like this only reminds us of the power a newpaper or in today's world the TV News has and the power of the owners of these news mediums - I find it especially disheartening when I pick up BBC or take the time to run an Italian newspaper through a translater and learn of things we never hear about as well as, a very different slant on what we do hear about.

    I thought the link to the power piece was also interesting in that it spoke of the huge change in the US after the 1929 Stock Crash. This event rocked us as a nation then and now I think 9/11 has done the same thing to us with all our desire for security we could almost read the article and simply replace 9/11 for 1929.

    annafair
    November 9, 2002 - 01:50 pm
    I woke up and realized you were talking about another movie..with Joan Woodward and Paul Newman ..and thanks for looking that up because for the life of me I couldnt remember it ...anyway I did get to mention Burl Ives ...I think I love teddy bears who can sing ( more or less).

    Unfortunately it is my belief that men (or women) in any sort of position of power always use it to spread thier beliefs. When I was young we had two newspapers one was decidely Democrat and the other Republican ...one was morning and the other afternoon...and we subscribed to both...even then there were times when I felt they were talking about different towns. The bias was very evident and it was hard to decide which was truer. In reading history I am always saddened by what I see as the world never really changing.

    At least with newspapers you had no idea what was going on unless you read it ..with TV it comes right into your home and sits in the living room. just thinking...anna

    YiLi Lin
    November 9, 2002 - 02:00 pm
    I note the header in Curious Minds says a discussion is for two weeks- can someone tell me where we are timewise here- I have been out of contact for a bit and wonder if I have time to try to locate this movie- or if I should wait for the next topic. thanks

    patwest
    November 9, 2002 - 02:34 pm
    YiLi Lin ... This is the last day for this topic... A new one will be put up late tonight.. Biil H will be along later to announce his topic. Do come by tomorrow to see what he has to tell us.

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    November 9, 2002 - 04:04 pm
    THANKS PAT -- Yes, the new topic will be up later tonight or early in the morning -

    Yili Lin, I think it is a movie to locate - it is a well done piece of art. Also, the subject is interesting in light of today's political issues as well as, it shows the age old search for personal love and meaning that is part of all our lives - The links above can 'always be bookmarked on your computer and discarded when you have finished reading them.

    Interesting comments while we considered this movie - for some of us the actor Orson Wells got in the way of our appreciating the movie and for others of us the movie was just not what they would label the 'best of the best' - regardless how it is labeled, I am glad I saw it again for no other reason than to observe art in film that is harder me to see when a film is in color. Also the shock that as Anna says, the world hasn't changed that much when it comes to the use of power by those who have it.

    Adios...and I believe Bill will have one that will allow us to sing Happy Trails to you...

    MaryZ
    November 9, 2002 - 09:31 pm
    I can't even imagine where to start. Our National Treasures are just that. We keep going back over and over, and still haven't seen them all. We'll all love to hear about each other's favorites.

    Mary

    Bill H
    November 9, 2002 - 10:05 pm
    ...and happy trails to you too, Barbara.

    Hello, Well, I'm on board the Curious Mind's trolley for the next two weeks and your welcome to come aboard. You won't be charged a fare because it's a free ride.

    I'd like to discuss the national parks. If that's OK with you, climb on board the trolley and let's ride the rails. Settle back in your seats and get to know one another by telling stories about your favorite parks. By the way, don't forget to use the two links in the heading they'll whisk you away to some fabulous places. But remember, there's no smoking on the trolley )

    Barbara, thank you for a very fine discussion.

    Pat, thank you for another fine heading. I have good idea now of the work that goes into it

    Bill H

    BaBi
    November 10, 2002 - 01:53 pm
    Wow! I had no idea we had so many national parks. Some of them I've never even heard of; others I recognize but didn't realize they were parks. Going over the list, I find I have only visited five, and some, like the Petrified Forest, we just drove through when traveling. There are two right here in my home state of Texas I've never visited...shame on me. A pity, seeing I'm no longer able to hike any distance greater than the equivalent of three-four blocks w/o sitting a bit! ...Babi

    Faithr
    November 10, 2002 - 03:52 pm
    Well Babi your not the only one to be ashamed. We were traveling one time from Colorado to California and as we came to part of the Grand Canyon there was a sign telling where to turn off the highway to go to an entrance to a lookout and "historic site" and I was so tired with little kids crawling all over me I refused to let my husband turn off and take the time. That was that. I never got back to Grand Canyon. But I did spend two vacations with my family in Death Valley in a travel traler. We also spent a lot of camping trips in the Redwoods up in Humbolt County. We made day visits down to Yosemite and one memorable trip up to Lassen which is just out of Redding. All these places are convienent to Sacramento where we have lived for more than 50 years.

    I think the one trip I would like to take is to Bryce Canyon National Park. I have seen a travel log of it and would like to go there. Also would love to spend more than an afternoon in Yosemite. But at 75 I may not get to any of these places. Still I have enjoyed all the trips we did take when my children were growing up. Faith

    Bill H
    November 10, 2002 - 05:06 pm
    Hi, Mary, Babi and Faith, I'm glad my old friends are back. We talked in other discussions I had here in Curious Minds.

    Mary, you can start just about any place and not go wrong. Why not use the links in the header for a guide.Those guides have beautiful pictures of all the parks.

    Babi, Oh, what a shame you didn't take the turn off leading to the Canyon. Wasn't there a place of lodging near by you could of stayed, got a night's rest and returned to the Canyon the next day?

    Faith, if you get a chance, do visit Bryce. I was there one time. It's not as awesome as the Grand Canyon but it has a beauty of its own. The Internet has some great photos of Bryce. I'll try and find them for you.

    By the way, Our Canadian neighbors have some very beautiful places also. I have been fortunate enough to visit a few of them and was never disappointed. I'll be telling you about them as we go along, or maybe the readers can tell me about them.

    Bill H

    pedln
    November 10, 2002 - 05:24 pm
    Those are great links above, and certainly list all the magnificent national parks. But I couldn't find one of my favorites -- the C and O Canal National Park until I went to the .gov listing below. (Babi, we were there just last month, with all the other SeniorNet Book Festival folk)

    http://www.nps.gov/parks.html

    Which makes me want to know, what are the differences. What's a national park, a national historic site, a national monument, etc.

    kiwi lady
    November 10, 2002 - 05:25 pm
    I can't talk about your national parks but I will tell you a bit about ours. We have national parks and regional parks. Auckland has some lovely regional parks. The best I think is the Waitakere Ranges park. This is a rainforest which is right by the West Coast. The beach fronts are not allowed to be developed thank goodness and the only concession to civilisation is the toilet blocks. It is lovely to go to the beach and have no apartment blocks etc on the beachfront. There are amazing bush walks with amazing views to the sea. You would have to see the beaches to believe them. So wild - huge surf bit like the Northern Californian coast. There is a seal colony and a gannet colony. I feel very lucky to live so close to this magnificent coastline and rain forest.

    Carolyn

    patwest
    November 10, 2002 - 08:07 pm
    Charlie and I have a Passport to the National Parks... which we acquired in 1990 (for free) when he was 65, when we were entering Yellowstone for the 6th time. It used to admit us free to any National Park or site... but now there is a charge at some parks and the Passport costs now too.

    pedln
    November 10, 2002 - 09:13 pm
    Here's a link to information about Golden Age Passport and other National Park Service Passes.

    http://www.nps.gov/fees_passes.htm

    Sasha 5113
    November 10, 2002 - 09:40 pm
    I gladly bought a Golden Age Passport the instant I was old enough, to pay the government back a little bit for all the peace and quiet I've had in NPs and NWRs. This discussion reminded me of our trip to the Virgin Islands NP, which in the old days was billed as "the only underwater National Park," since it required snorkeling gear to see the coral formations off the Trunk Bay beach. Since then a lot has been added, all of it good, I'm told.

    Lorrie
    November 10, 2002 - 09:56 pm
    Bill, unfortunately, the only time we went to see the Grand Canyon was in the early afternoon, and though it was still a wondrous sight, people later told me the best time to see the Canyon is at sunrise. Is this true? Have you ever seen it that early?

    Lorrie

    Coyote
    November 11, 2002 - 06:42 am
    My first exposure to the Nat'l Parks was in August, '44 when I was nine. We bought one of two used cars for sale in the twin cities and drove it, a '39 Plymouth, on our move from St. Paul to Seattle. When we stopped at Mt. Rushmore, I ran away with some tuna sandwiches and our wire-haired terrier, because I wanted to stay there. I think I envisioned Seattle as another flat, prairie town like those where I always had lived. The mountains claimed me instantly - maybe memories from past lives made me finally feel at home. Well, the ranger found me before the sandwiches were all gone, I skinned my knees badly on those wicked stone steps, and we left.

    We had Yellowstone almost to ourselves (not counting several hungry bears.) Due to gas rationing, there were only eight other cars in the park while we were there. It was gorgeous, as it still is, but I am glad we got to see the canyon before Artist Point fell in during the earthquake several years later. I was back in '79 and many things looked different, due to the earthquake and fires.

    I remember the badlands, but had no desire to stay - picture pretty, but no desire on my part to live there.

    As far as Washington parks, I first honeymooned in the Olympics - beautiful in August '54, then from '69 to '79, I farmed seven miles down the hill from the entrance to Mt. Rainier Park. For the first several summers, the folks working the gates tended to let the locals through without charging, because so many of us had someone in the family working in the park or some other reason to drive up. Even though milking cows, we found time to sneak up and enjoy it a few times. In the mid-seventies, my second daughter worked in the park with the YCC (I think that was the great society name for the high school kids who worked for the government in the summers.) She took a lot of training to be able to answer questions for visitors, but ended up telling them the way to the restrooms more than anything else. (It is a long drive up from Seattle or Tacoma.) My farm in the start of the Nisqually valley, was visited by an abundance of different specie of wild animals and birds, largely due to their protection when inside the park. We had a herd of about 19 elk which jumped our fences tearing the top wire, enjoyed our salt lick and extra hay left at night by cows, then wandered on. They were steady night visitors for part of every year until hunting season. Our little creek attracted racoons and blue herons. Coyotes surrounded us and serenaded us every night. Lots of deer, an occasional black bear or cougar came fairly close, but stayed clear of the farm thanks to my collies. Oh, and I should mention many assorted spotted skunks, porcupines, etc. who dropped by sometimes. This place was only a few miles from Paradise (a lodge location inside the park) so I figure it was as close to paradise as I will ever get to live.

    I have never visited the North Cascades area since it became a park. I hear it is beautiful in the summer. (All three of these can have roads closed during the winter, so check ahead of time after October 1st or so on through April.)

    annafair
    November 11, 2002 - 08:11 am
    Oh so many memories of visits to parks ...I wonder if people realize how blessed we are to have these many beauties to visit and view. Off I go thundertstorms are expected by noon and I have to shower and take in an appointment at that time. Tempted to cancel..will return ASAP ...anna

    BaBi
    November 11, 2002 - 09:28 am
    Faith, I saw the redwoods when we were living in California, and they are magnificent, aren't they? But what on earth is there to see in Death Valley? I have visions of vistas of emptiness. I hope you do get to see Bryce Canyon; I've heard it is beautiful.

    Bill, it was Faith who missed the turn into the Grand Canyon. I saw the Canyon from a lookout at the top, where I was distracted by my son trying to walk the fence railing along the edge! My memories of that spot are a combo are awe and terror!

    Ben, I loved the Yellowstone, too. My best memories of it are that enchanting waterfall, and my first sight of a brilliant blue kingfisher diving into the water. Your Nisqually Valley description makes me yearn to spend some time there.

    Kiwi lady, New Zealand and your wild bush and beach are another place I would love to see. (Oh, if only I were rich!!! I would travel all over the world.) ,,,,Babi ...Babi

    MaryZ
    November 11, 2002 - 09:49 am
    Bryce Canyon is one of our very favorite places! The easily accessible part is smaller than some of the other parks, but that just gives you a cozy, up-close-and-personal sort of feeling. For the hikers, it's a great place to day hike. But, there is a wonderful drive around the edge of the basin (it's really not a true "canyon"), with lots of overlooks. So there are lots of wonderful views for us non-hikers.

    A great trip, with relatively little driving would be to see Bryce Canyon, Zion, Cedar Breaks, and the North Rim of the Grand Canyon. The first time we went "out west", we flew into Las Vegas and rented a car, and spent two weeks visiting these wonderful places.

    We also have our Golden Age Passports - paid a one-time fee and then get in free or for reduced rates at any national facility. One of the great bargains!

    Mary

    YiLi Lin
    November 11, 2002 - 12:07 pm
    I don't know how the links work and if you plan to go to other parks throughout the two weeks- but an often overlooked but amazing park is Acadia in Maine. The park provides oppotunity to touch the sky by driving or climbing up Cadillac Mountain and also has guided ocean tours. Even without experiencing the highs and lows, you can tour the park along the coast drive- just amazing! I imagine the overall expanse of the Grand Canyon perhaps makes a park like Acadia seem small, but Acadia provides a little bit of each natural wonder.

    I hope when fully retired to have the time to take advantage of park passes and visit as many as possible. I do hope that more and more people will speak out and become custodians of these wonders, preserving them from pipelines, insensitive riders of atv's and other 4-wheel drive vehicles, litter, fires and visitors who do not respect the flora and fauna of the parks.

    Faithr
    November 11, 2002 - 04:12 pm
    BaBi the redwoods and sequoias in CA are the most magnificent national treasures I have ever seen. There are three seperate places that I know of. ON the north coast on Hwy 1 and 101, down by San Francisco and then up in the Sierra's.I have only visited the big forest up in Mendicino and Humbolt counties on the Northern CA coast.But my father lived right in the heart of that country inhis retirement home he built right outside Shelter Cove near Garborville.His garden backed right up into the redwood forest. All over the little hills between him and the coast there were huckleberry bushes by the millions and we spend much time picking and then eating them. They were like tiny blueberries only sweeter and deep deep purple. My stepmother made a wine from them that she then used as an additive to many dessert recipes.

    I did see the part of the Grand Canyon where Boulder Dam is. We stayed in a little trailer park in Boulder City and then took day tours all around there. We went to see the Joshua trees.

    When we went to Death Valley there were a million things to see. We went in April when the wild flowers were blooming and the dessert floor was carpeted with blue and yellow tiny little flowers. The cactus of some types had blooms too. There is a whole little town at Death Valley Junction and it is called Moranga I think and there is an opera house there. In the years we went there it wasnt open but my sister was there recently and she had a blast going to the daily show there. We went up to Scottys Castle and took that tour and heard the story of Death Valley Scotty and the man who fronted the money to build and furnish this fantastic place. They have priceless antiques in there including the persian rugs. We had to wear covers over our shoes and also they limit the numbner of guest in the tour. It was lots of fun for us all even the little ones in the family. Faith

    Jeryn
    November 11, 2002 - 04:43 pm
    We enjoyed Death Valley immensely, too.

    The first time we went, in the summer, was probably a mistake... 118* in the shade that day and we were actually worried about our car and climbing back out of the overheated valley! [we made it]

    The second time, in December, was much better! I enjoyed the scenic views, the hikes, and the peace and quiet of Zabriski Point... I have never been in a quieter place. I could hear one funny little sound; took me a while to identify the sound of my own breathing! The drive down through Titus Canyon was interesting. We tramped around on the dunes. We loved the Artist's Palette and marvelled over Badwater, where you are actually below sea level.

    I have many memories of our wonderful national parks and may be unique in that I live in one! Our neighborhood of 84 homes is surrounded entirely by The Cuyahoga Valley National Park, Ohio's only national park, situated between Cleveland and Akron.

    Bill H
    November 11, 2002 - 06:33 pm
    WOW, so many posts. I love it. Just got home after a busy day.

    Pedlyn, thank you for link. We have so many beautiful parks.

    Carolyn, could you give us a link to your National Parks?

    Lorrie, the tour I was on stayed two days at the Canyon's north rim. No, not being an early riser I missed the sunrise. However, I did see it in early morning, afternoon and evening, and it was something to behold.

    Two or three days before I got there two women rode the mules down to the bottom of the Canyon, but they wouldn't come back up on them. They hired a helicopter to bring them back up.) It was many years ago, Lorrie. I haven't been there recently but I always think about going back.

    Babi, sorry. I had a senior moment. Seems like I'm getting a lot of them of late )

    YilLi Lin, I found a link for Acadia. On the home page you can find another link on the left about half way down called Images of Acadia..

    Acadia

    Pat, how very lucky to visit Yellowstone six times. I was there one time. In the evening I took a walk along a trail of pines under a clear star-lit night and I still remember the frangrence of all those pine trees.

    Bill H

    annafair
    November 12, 2002 - 01:35 am
    I was very fortunate to have an aunt and uncle who took me with them when ever they traveled. Just before the beginning of WWII they took a trip West and we saw a lot of interesting places. Wisconsin Dells, drove by the Badlands ..it had not been developed then, and I am not sure when Mount Rushmore was completed but in my memory it was or nearly so and it was so awesome. The small road leading away from it was full of hairpin curves and tunnels and everytime we went around one there was a sign to look back and you could see Mt Rushmore.

    Yellowstone was just so wonderful and full of marvelous places. We drove very carefully through the park for we were always encountering moose, or bears and they do have the right of way.

    I recall seeing Old Faithful, I dont remember what they were called but a place where mud bubbled up in colors..it was called Paint Pots I think. There was one place that had an interesting formation in the shape of a morning glory with the most brilliant blue.

    We stayed in a log cabin with a tin roof and it rained all night. Even though it was summer time it was very cold at night as there was no heat in the cabin. Well there was but it was a small stove my uncle had to light. The room was divided by a curtain and I stayed in my bed until he had built a fire in the morning. When I did get up I saw a bear opening an in ground garbage can by placing his paw on the metal lift. He opened it and rummaged around for food. By the way I have never forgotten the odor of the pines in that rain. It was such a wonderful fragrance. I have a piece from the Petrified Forest ..I understand you are not allowed to remove any now. We saw so many places and they are lost in my memory now. I do know we stopped at every park and places of interest. My uncle wanted to make one last trip west as it was apparant war was just around the corner so we visited every place we could.

    About 12 years ago my husband and I retraced that journey. What a difference at Mount Rushmore. Wider roads and all sorts of hotels and restaurants ..and nighttime show with lights, music and someone telling all about the figures. The Badlands had been developed and we drove through the roads ...it was full of many colorful areas and we enjoyed it a great deal. I drove through the Great Salt Flats and marveled at the wide highways because when I went with my aunt and uncle the whole trip was on narrow two lane roads.

    We also visited I believe it is called The Colorado National Monument park. It was spectacular. There was so much to see and all of it a wonder land of nature. We bought Passports and I still use mine here in Virginia when visitors come.

    I am enjoying reading everyones memories and hope they will jar my memory so I will reach back in time and recall all the wonderful places I have been fortunate to visit. anna

    Coyote
    November 12, 2002 - 07:13 am
    Yellowstone is land which is very much alive. Things we remember from years ago are always changing. Colors, shapes, which geysers still are active or which have gotten bigger - all these things change. The amazing concept of the whole area is how thin the crust is there and how alive the earth is. When the first trappers came back telling of such a place, everyone considered it science fiction (using other names for it, I'm sure.) It is science, but not fiction. Me, I enjoy the animals most. In '79, I took several walks through the delightfully varied habitats. Strolling within fifty feet of elk, deer, buffalo (bison) with no fences between us, is a rare experience in this world. Watching cranes doing a mating dance from the highway instead of on TV - so special. I would suggest going after the second week of September, like we did. Families have taken kids home to go back to school, so it is less crowded. Days can still be up to 80* but at 7000 feet and up, you will need warm bedding if you camp. Nights will probably be below freezing. And remember, fall is mating season for many animals, so don't venture between a bull buffalo or elk and any of his intended. That might be pushing your luck a little.

    Bill H
    November 12, 2002 - 12:01 pm
    Anna, I remember the Paint Pots at Yellowstone. You are right about the name.

    Most of the long distance traveling I did was by tour bus. I realize that has some short comings, but we didn't like long distance driving. When we were first married we did drive from Pttsburgh to Florida several times and from Pittsburgh to Atlantic City a couple of times. Atlantic City didn't have the gambling casinos then. When you mentioned you stayed at a log cabin in Yellowstone it jogged my memory of the log cabin I stayed in at the north rim of the Grand Canyon. The cabin was within walking distance of the rim and it was so nice to get up and walk a reasonable distance and see such grandeur

    Benjamin, when you mentioned the trappers, I thought how nice it must've been for those men to live in the untouched surroundings of nature. I mentioned staying in a log cabin at the Grand Canyon and when I would wake and step outside I would think to myself how nice it would be to stay here for several months at a time in these.

    Bill H

    Bill H
    November 12, 2002 - 01:08 pm

    Spirit Island
    Photo: Webshots Unlimited

    One of the most serene spot I visited was Spirit Island in the Canadian Rockies. I think it's part of Jasper National Park. This was one of the places we visited on a tour that started in San Franciso. We traveled through and, of course stopped, in the Redwoods, went up along the magnificent coast of Oregon into Washington state and crossed over into Canada and on up to Jasper. It would take me a couple of pages to tell about all the places we seen on that trip

    The one spot I continue to remember is Spirit Island. It was so peaceful an quiet we whispered so as not to break the mood.

    Wouldn't it be a shame to sully these beautiful places with cable wires, ground pipes for oil and natural gas and the like? I can't help but wonder if in some future century this will happen.

    Bill H

    BaBi
    November 12, 2002 - 01:15 pm
    Another beautiful spot on Canada's west coast is Banff. The place is one huge garden, with something to see everywhere you go. I visited there while visiting my son and daughter-in-law, when they lived in Victoria. I'm thinking about seeing if I can dig out my photos of Banff, and enjoy it all over again. ...Babi

    MaryZ
    November 12, 2002 - 01:41 pm
    There are at least four contiguous national parks in the incomparable Canadian Rockies - Banff, Jasper,Kootenay, and Yoho (and I'm sure I'm missing something). We've been there several times, and always marvel at the wonders that we see. Far and away, though, my personal favorite is Takkakaw Falls in Yoho Nat'l Park. It would be a spectacular set of falls wherever it was located, but it is within sight of the parking lot, and it is only a short walk along an asphalt walkway almost to the base of the falls. I know it's great to get way out in the wilderness to see nature's wonders, but there's something special about having something this magnificent be so easily accessible.

    Mary

    kiwi lady
    November 12, 2002 - 03:09 pm
    I cant make a link but here is the address on the web for a very good site.

    http://www.newzealand.co.nz/national-parks Hope you like it.

    Carolyn

    Arta62
    November 12, 2002 - 03:48 pm
    What a wonderful topic. In my forties I had the great privilege to view the Everglades in a Piper Cub piloted by a very, very senior citizen(as a matter of fact I was the last passenger allowed.) Parks provide majesty from all angles. I too am able to partake of the Cuyahoga Valley Nat'l park especially with the new trails.

    Jeryn
    November 12, 2002 - 05:38 pm
    I love reading about everyone's National Park adventures! I have been to so many of those places. I think one of my favorites of all time is Glacier National Park, Montana - bordering Canada and their International Peace Park. Just an incredibly scenic area where we did lots of hiking, bouncing our "bear bells" vigorously all the way! [so the grizzley bears would stay out of the way, it was to be hoped!]

    Hi there, Arta62. So you are out there tramping in the valley too? On the Towpath Trail, I bet? Whereabouts do you hike? I'm generally to be found at the southern end of the park, around the beaver marsh, sometimes also the first mile north of Hunt Farm Visitor Center.

    I found this website which tells a bit about our Cuyahoga Valley.

    Sasha 5113
    November 12, 2002 - 07:45 pm
    that reminds me of my visit to Glacier in 1961, Labor Day. The Lodge (name ... ?) had just closed for the season. I was speechless with excitement to be standing on a real glacier, and it started snowing! Perfect.

    Edit: I just visited your Park. How wonderful to LIVE there. How long have you been there?

    ClaraO
    November 13, 2002 - 04:56 am
    Just chanced onto the NP discussion and I agree that they are our national treasures. During our travels in the past whenever we were near a Park we stopped to visit, so we've seen a lot of them. Now I visit them vicariously through the mysteries written by Nevada Barr, who has written about a half dozen books, each set in a different park, with herself as a ranger on assignment there. My favorite was "A Superior Death" because it is set in Isle Royale in the western part of Lake Superior, but I'm ashamed to say I never had the chance to go there even though I grew up very near Lake Superior. The parks in Utah and Arizona are particularly wonderful for their magnificence - indescribable. Our two oldest sons live very near the Colorado National Monument and it is much like the Grand Canyon but not as large. Looking forward a lot to others' messages in this space.

    Bill H
    November 13, 2002 - 05:14 pm
    Hi, ClaraO. Glad you happened on to our dscussion. Please stick around and tell us more of where you visited.

    Bill H

    Bill H
    November 13, 2002 - 05:15 pm

    Battle Rock Beach, Oregon
    Photo: Brookings-Oregon

    I mentioned earlier that after leaving the Redwoods, we traveled along the Pacific coast heading toward Canada. I was awed by the rockbound beaches of Oregon. At times the tour bus would travel close to the edge of the road and we could look down the rocky boulders. The driver stopped at a lookout point and there was a path leading down to the beach. Fortunately the tide was low at the time and we walked down the path and got a closer look at these huge rocks. We couldn't go to far because the beach was still wet further and it would've made for wet shoes and feet. Although some on the tour did take their shoes off and ventured a little further out.

    Bill H

    Jeryn
    November 13, 2002 - 06:03 pm
    That is neat, Sasha! We drove through Glacier NP one year before anything was open yet, snow everywhere, only the road through the place was clear... just beautiful. But our hiking trips where we spent a couple of weeks in the Lodge were in summer. Still some snow in the highest reaches only.

    We moved up here to the Cuyahoga Valley in January 1999 to be near family that live in this area. We've certainly not regretted buying our "home in the park!" One problem does rear its head: trying to figure out how to keep the deer from eating all the hosta lilies!

    Indeed, ClaraO! Nevada Barr is one of my favorite authors! I think the one of hers I liked best was Track of the Cat... wasn't that set in Mesa Verde? [Too many books read; not enough brain cells left!]

    Bobbiecee
    November 13, 2002 - 07:37 pm
    This looks like an interesting discussion, so I have joined. I haven't visited any US national parks since I migrated to Australia, but visited all of them in the western part of the US with my parents in the 40's and 50's, and most in the other areas of the US as well. In the early late '50's and early '60's, before migration, I also visited most of the national parks in Canada, as well as driving up the Al-Can (which was dirt then) to Alaska, and all the national parks in Alaska. I was also a keen hiker and backpacker, so visited the interior of many of them, on foot, with my 'home' on my back. I've always been a world traveller, and although I have visited the cities and seen the important things in cities, my preference has always been national parks and the bush, as we call it. I have also toured almost all of Australia, and visited most of our national parks as well. One of the things I love about Australia is that when one goes bush, one doesn't have crowds. Also, the roads are such that everybody who goes way out bush either tent camps or has an off-road tent trailer (which is what I bought as my retirement gift to myself, and which I pull with my 4 wheel drive). Carolyn, enjoyed the site on NZ. As you know, I'll be visiting Kiwi-land next summer and will actually be able to meet you in person, which I'm looking forward to. I also want to re-visit all the national parks in the South Island, the following summer.

    angelface555
    November 13, 2002 - 07:41 pm
    I have never been to any national parks except for Denali which is only a few miles from here and has MT. McKinley or its proper name, Denali. Every ten years we would go south for a vacation and see relatives from California to Alabama.

    We also stopped at Disneyland and one or two other California places in the fifties. My father was the type that planned each trip out with a number of daily miles and no side trips. With the three of us in the back seat, this may have been a good thing.

    Living in Alaska however, is like living in a park. I grew up going to swimming holes which were mainly sloughs and fishing and camping. My father belonged to the Fairbanks Outboard Association and we made several trips up and down the rivers in our area, after he finished racing.

    We had a cabin, sixty miles up from the mouth of the Salcha river and spent time there. We also went to girl scout camp a number of times, during which we did mostly the same as with our family camping trips; only with many friends. Several of the girls, even some as young as 14 were pilots and flew their planes to camp, with parents assisting.

    My father had one permanent rule; that we stayed with babysitters until we were seven. Then we were allowed on the family river trips. We also went down to Anchorage and that area one or two times by boats as well as going along the Yukon River to several villages and then to Circle Hot Springs and the remnants of the ghost gold camp town there. It is now a much smaller town.

    For my 18th birthday, I was given a trip thru south east Alaska and back up to my home again. I also camped and fished with my husband when we returned to this area after his military retirement.

    I am no longer able to go up the rivers as I don't know of anyone with a boat and I don't have the sang foid,(spl.); I had as a child and trusting the pilots. But I do take at least one trip on some of the stern wheelers and go as often as possible to the hot springs and to the fishing spots out along the highways from town.

    Having said all that, I would have loved to go to some of those National Parks back when it had been affordable!

    Bobbiecee
    November 13, 2002 - 07:51 pm
    Angelface, your discussion of Alaska brought back memories, and the great thing was that I could picture every place you mentioned, although I assumed it's changed now, like I understand there is now a freeway into Anchorage, and the area where we camped, which way quite a ways out of Anchorage, is now a suburb. When at the little town of Denali, which at that time was a combination petrol station, shop, post office, bar and motel, I got the gastro, and actually had to stay in the motel room so I had ready access to the loo.<g> I also enjoyed the sing-along in the bar, and actually played and sang with the band...after I was over the gastro, of course. <g> I then went back to our camper at 2am, and it was still light out, a bit of a shock to those who expect dark at night.<g> I loved the Alaskans, they were all so friendly and hospitable. It's my favourite US state, the second favourite being Hawaii, the island of Kauai. The tropical weather and scenery there is similar to what it's like here as well.

    ClaraO
    November 14, 2002 - 10:51 am
    Thanks for asking about our trips. With all or some of our five sons we've been to both N Dakota and S Dakota Badlands, Mt. Rushmore, Grand Canyon, Smoky Mountains, Mammoth Cave, and on one trip westward we visited US President's homes - Truman, Eisenhower, Hoover, as well as LBJ territory in Texas hill country. When folks complain about paying taxes, I reply that I don't mind because some of our taxes go to our magnificent park system. We've also taken our sons to Washington, DC and Niagara Falls so they could soak up a bit more history. Happy traveling, friends!

    Bill H
    November 14, 2002 - 03:19 pm
    ClaraO, Bobbiecee, and Angleface555, if you folks are new to SeniorNet, I extend a hearty Welcome. And, of course, welcome to this discussion. I have been reading all these interesting posts you readers are giving us, but it's almost impossible for me to answer all of them. I'd be typing away all day, ) but please keep them coming for our readers do enjoy hearing about your experience in the national parks. It really does make for great reading and your posts allows them to picture these places in ther minds's eye.

    Jeryn, Glacier National Park. Is Going To The Sun Highway there?

    Bill H

    Sasha 5113
    November 14, 2002 - 05:22 pm
    obviously, but Bill, thank you. I've been trying since I posted to remember the name of that main road up the valley. "Going to the Sun" it is.

    Jeryn
    November 14, 2002 - 06:55 pm
    I concur. I remember "Going to the Sun Highway" as the main road through Glacier NP. Incredible views.

    No one has said anything about the Great Smoky Mountain NP. We lived in Knoxville when I was a teenager and our high school had a hiking club so I got to tramp around those mountains several times. Very different from the Western US and Canadian mountains but to a gal that had grown up in Eastern Illinois, they were spectacular!

    Bill H
    November 15, 2002 - 10:42 am
    Sasha and Jeryn, "A rose by any other name...."

    Bill H

    Sasha 5113
    November 15, 2002 - 05:45 pm
    That's Second Hand Rose to you, Sir.

    BaBi
    November 16, 2002 - 07:33 am
    Jeryn, I've driven through the Great Smoky Mountains several times in traveling from Texas to New York and back again. (My ex-husband's family lived up there,about 12 miles this side of being Canadians.) We never stayed in the park, but would stop and see some of the sights. Every mile of the trip was beautiful. I must admit though that my first trip north, with me on the passenger side looking straight down the side of the mountain, was a bit scary for a Gulf Coast flatlands girl. < ...Babi

    DorisA
    November 16, 2002 - 02:37 pm
    Our favorite parks are Death Valley, Zion, Yosemite, Yellowstone and Glacier. Nothing is as beautiful as Lake Tenaya on Tioga Road in Yosemite. The valley in the seventies was breathtaking but now with all the grownup trees and having to take a tour, it just isn't the same. Grand Canyon is too large to appreciate. The canyon of the Yellowstone is much prettier with the waterfalls and all the color. We like Zion because you are down in the canyon looking up. If you like rocks, any of the parks in Utah are great.

    My favorite trip to a park was to Smokey Mountains. Our sons were just out of college and thought it would be fun to go there in the fall. It was our last trip with them and we had a great time.

    Bobbiecee
    November 16, 2002 - 02:42 pm
    Mommie D, I used to go to Yosemite regularly. I actually climbed to the top of Yosemite Falls, and used to do lots of hiking around there... get away from the maddening crowds, so to speak. I liked Zion, but also liked Bryce Canyon. Yellowstone and Glacier were nice as well. I didn't like Death Valley, too stark for me. My favourite national parks were Sequoia, Kings Canyon. I don't know what they are like now, probably built up and crowded, but they weren't when I used to go there in the '50's and very early '60's.

    Nellie Vrolyk
    November 16, 2002 - 04:30 pm
    While I live within a day's or less drive of the following parks: Banff, Jasper, Yoho, Waterton, Glacier, and Elk Island, it has been years since I visited most of them. Only Elk Island, which is about 45 minutes away is the oft visited exception.

    But I will be going on a winter photography expedition to Jasper in January, and will be making up for not going there for so many years.

    Except for Glacier, I have only been to Canadian National Parks. I have over the years paid visits to the following in addition to the ones mentioned above: Cape Breton Highlands, Gros Morne, Terra Nova, Kootenay, Mount Revelstoke, Prince Edward Island, and Pacific Rim.

    Pacific Rim National Park is second to Jasper as one of my favourite parks. I have been there three, or maybe four times, and the first time was the best because then the area was still undeveloped and very wild, and not an easy drive to get there. The second and third time there had been the development of resorts in the two nearby coastal towns, and the narrow winding roller coaster road that we drove the first time had become a fairly straight highway. But the park itself was still beautiful.

    Sasha 5113
    November 16, 2002 - 05:26 pm
    what part of PEI is a Park?

    Bill H
    November 16, 2002 - 06:18 pm
    MommieD. When I was much younger I was an avid photographer in black and white photography for many years. Did everything from developing the film to the finished and mounted 11 x 14 print. When I visited Yosemite, I made it a point to visit the Ansel Adams museum to view that famous photographer's works of black and white prints. Astounding!! I believe he spent a great deal of his life in Yosemite. He was truly dedicated to his art

    Nellie, absolutely awesome to be within a days drive of all those beautiful parks. I have visited Banff, Jasper, Waterton and Glacier and found them to be all so exquisite. I also visited Lake Louise and still remember walking the path to the tongue of Victoria Glacier. I was constantly on the lookout for bears while traveling that path. I wonder what I would've done if I had encountered a bear? In the novel "The Girl Who Loved Tom Gordon," Stephen King writes: it's best to stand still and look that bear in the eye. Hmmmm.

    I'll also remember my visit to the Royal Canadian Mounted Police barracks. I believe it was a little outside of Ottawa? Oh it was great seeing the Mounties and their magnificent horses. The pride they took in caring for them showed when we complimented them on this. I could write on and on about the magnificent places we visited in Canada.

    Bill H

    Jeryn
    November 16, 2002 - 06:20 pm
    I hope Nellie can answer, Sasha... I've not been to PEI. We did travel all around Nova Scotia and New Brunswick about 20 years ago. Cape Breton was a lovely drive; actually, all of Nova Scotia was charming. I wonder if it is still today as unspoiled and natural as it was then?

    Also, Nellie, we have travelled through the Banff and Jasper Parks; spectacular! What do the Canadians call their parks? Is it Jasper National Park? Or Jasper Provincial Park? Or...???

    Of our own western parks, it's hard to pick a favorite! Glacier, Rocky Mountain, Zion, Yosemite, Grand Canyon... loved them all. We had the great fun of riding mules down about 5-6 miles into the Grand Canyon from the north rim, many years ago. A most impressive experience, for getting to know those mules as well as for the scenery!

    On the way back up, we stopped fairly frequently so the mules could rest. Feeling that great beast's heart beating beneath my bottom was amazing, also reassuring! I could barely walk for two days afterwards and, I swear, my hips have never been the same since. ( I'd do it again in a heartbeat, though!

    BaBi
    November 17, 2002 - 12:52 pm
    Nellie, even tho' this subject will be completed long before January, I do hope you will share with us the results of your photographic expedition to Jasper. Maybe in the photo gallery, with an alert to Curious Minds? ..Babi

    O'Sharny
    November 17, 2002 - 03:00 pm
    Hi everyone. I just found this discussion and would like to add my two cents. I have been to many of the National Parks in North America and will say that my two favorites are Bryce and the Badlands. The latter is unreal with formations that give them their name. I saw Bryce before I was married fifty years ago, and when we bought out house and I needed drapes, the pattern was called Bryce. The colors of course, caught my eye.

    Bill H
    November 17, 2002 - 05:06 pm
    O'Sharny, welcome to the discussion. Thank you for your post and I hope you have enjoyed the topic. I like Bryce Canyon also. When I think of my canyon trips, Bryce always come to mind.

    Bill H

    GingerWright
    November 17, 2002 - 07:51 pm
    O'Sharny Good to see you back in Books. Thanks for coming Back as You can add to a discussion very well and Lead one also.

    Yes I remember You, Ginger

    Bill H
    November 19, 2002 - 01:51 pm
    I was hoping some one could tell us about the parks in Alaska. I've never been there and I would appreciate hearing about them.

    Bill H

    MaryZ
    November 19, 2002 - 02:05 pm
    Bill, we've only been to Denali NP once, and flown over Glacier NP twice. Actually the whole state is like a national park. It it such a magnificent place.

    We drove to Alaska, pulling our travel trailer, and stayed in the campground at Denali. There is a small supporting town just outside the park with places to stay, eat, and shop. There is a small, non-luxurious lodge inside the park. You can get to the park by car, bus, and train. A road goes well back into the park, but only about 1/4 to 1/3 of that is open to private vehicles. To get further back into the park, you must ride one of the park or licensed buses (all school-bus-type vehicles). There are two trips available: half-day, and all-day. It's not the most comfortable ride in the world, but the drivers are great guides, very knowledgeable, and incredibly gifted in spotting wildlife. We took the all-day trip, and wouldn't have done it any other way. We were there in August, and the weather was overcast and rainy all four days. We didn't get to see Mount McKinley, but that didn't detract from our experience.

    We have flown over Glacier Bay and the area in small planes from both Haines and Skagway. It is an incredible, not-to-be-missed experience, and one I would recommend to anyone.

    We were in Alaska for almost a month the first time, 10 days the second, and will be back there any time we get the opportunity.

    Mary

    angelface555
    November 19, 2002 - 03:00 pm
    I am a typical Alaskan and visited most of the parks only once except for Denali. The mountain is rarely visible, being almost always shrouded in mist. Did you know that if Everest and Denali,(MT. McKinley); were side by side on level ground; that Denali would be higher?

    Also Mary, you were right about the whole state being like a park. We have 87% of the country's national parks within our borders and not every Alaskan likes the idea. I live within 150 miles of Denali, so it is a wonderful summer trip.

    HI NELLIE!!

    Bill H
    November 19, 2002 - 05:19 pm
    Mary and Angelface, thank you for those good posts.

    Bill H

    pedln
    November 19, 2002 - 06:41 pm
    Angelface, I've only been to Denali once, and that was on a bus tour. We had been living right because the sun was out, the mountain was out, and the wildlife were out. It was wonderful. Am I right in remembering that our guide told us cars were limited as to how far into the park they could go? Buses had greater access?

    MaryZ
    November 19, 2002 - 09:38 pm
    Pedln, this is true - private vehicles are limited. See my post #392 above.

    Mary

    Bill H
    November 20, 2002 - 04:06 pm
    Mary, Angelface and Pedlin were kind enough to tell us their thoughts on the Alaskan National Parks. How about the folks that have visited or live in Hawaii telling us about the National Parks there. Here's a link so the rest of us can visit them.

    Hawaii

    Bill H

    O'Sharny
    November 21, 2002 - 06:14 pm
    One more comment on Denali as I was there also. Our guide told us that only 30% of the people get to see the mountain and we were some of the lucky ones. We also had a clean sweep and saw the "grand slam" of bear, caribou, sheep and moose. I was on a bus trip and we stayed at some cabins just outside the park with the cabins on four levels. That night I went to the top level to look for the northern lights and some whispy white lights were out for a very little time.

    May I mention another park? Roger Williams Ntl Pk in Rhode Island is proably the smallest of the national parks. It is high on the bluffs and I believe his cremains are buried there. You can look down on the capitol so we walked over there and wandered thru the building.

    Bill H
    November 22, 2002 - 11:33 am
    O'Sharny, thank you for the post. Sometimes we tend to forget the small parks. However, some of these park have history as interesting as the more famous NPs

    Bill H

    Bill H
    November 22, 2002 - 11:39 am

    GRAND TETON MOUNTAINS

    Photo: National Parks Service.

    One of the most pleasing photographs I have is of the Grand Teton Mountains.(this is not the picture) I stood in a small chapel bordering the Snake River and directly across from the mountains. I aimed the camera through a window in the back of the chapel making sure the window would also show in the photograph. It turned out very well, however, it was a transparency and I don't have the computer equipment to show transparencies.here.

    Bill H

    MaryZ
    November 22, 2002 - 11:47 am
    Bill, we have taken that photo, too. It surely is a wonderful place to take pictures.

    Mary

    Bill H
    November 22, 2002 - 12:27 pm
    Mary, yes, isn't that a peaceful place. Did you take the raft ride down the Snake River? I don't mean a white water raft ride. The raft ride I took was very calm thank heavens. The guide on the raft, a young man, knew the place so well and told us little things I'm sure could not be found in books. I wouldn't trade the visits to the National Parks for all the tea in China. Well, I'd have to think about that a bit )

    Bill H

    MaryZ
    November 22, 2002 - 12:57 pm
    We haven't done the raft trip, but there is a place along the Snake River that is just perfect for taking early morning photos of the Tetons. We noticed it while driving around when we first got there. We came back early the next morning, only to discover about a dozen other shutter-bugs with their tripods getting ready for the sunrise. Obviously, since it's right between the road and the river bluff, it's a well-known, well-used site. Lots of smiles about that one.

    We, too, love the parks - and always try to visit new ones and old favorites anywhere we go. On our long trip to Alaska, we went first to California for a family get-together, so on our way out west (from Chattanooga), we stopped at the North Rim of the Grand Canyon, Bryce Canyon, Cedar Bluffs, Zion, Sequoia/Kings Canyon, and Yosemite. Just can't pass those up. And, of course, we live right next door to the Great Smoky Mountain NP, and part of the Chattanooga/Chickamauga Nat'l Military Park is within the city limits of Chattanooga. And on, and on, and on......

    On our most recent trip, we went to the Westward Expansion Park (the Arch) in St. Louis, the Harry Truman Library in Independence, MO, Rocky Mountain Nat'l Park, the Black Canyon of the Gunnison, Grand Mesa, the Colorado Nat'l Monument, Arches, Canyonlands, Canyon de Chelly, Aztec Nat'l Historic Site (NM), and probably others that I've left out.

    Mary

    Bill H
    November 22, 2002 - 02:24 pm
    Mary, what a coincidence you should mention the Truman Library here. I'm doing a discussion about Harry Truman. In David McCullough's bio of Truman, McCullough describes the library and the work that former President Truman put in to the making of it very well. Former President Lyndon Johnson traveled to to the Truman library to sign into law the Medicare bill. Harry Truman was the first Presdent to recommend Medicare.

    If you get an oppurtunity, do the raft trip down the Snake River. If it is the same one I had many years ago you'll find many places to photography along the way.

    Bill H

    Bill H
    November 22, 2002 - 02:33 pm

    OLD FAITHFUL
    Photo National Parks Services

    What would a National Parks discussion be like without a picture of Old Faithful? To view the many geysers in Yellowstone NP, visit this clickable

    Geyser List

    To make a short tour of Old Faithful without visiting the Geyser List, you can click here

    Old Faithful Tour

    Scroll down until you see "Next Stop."

    Bill H

    Bobbiecee
    November 22, 2002 - 03:04 pm
    Wonderful tour, Bill. The last time I went to Yellowstone was '61, just prior to migrating to Australia, and it still looks the same. NZ has Rotarua, which is not as big or spectacular, but is still very interesting, and worth seeing. Thanks for the tour.

    Bobbi

    Bill H
    November 22, 2002 - 05:16 pm
    Bobbiecee, you are more than welcome. I'm happy you enjoed the tour.

    Bill H

    Nellie Vrolyk
    November 22, 2002 - 08:26 pm
    Jeryn, we call Jasper just Jasper and more formally Jasper National Park. Ditto for Banff.

    Another beautiful area south of Banff is the Kananaskis. And a fascinating one is Dinosaur Provincial Park in south central Alberta not far from Drumheller and the Tyrell Museum.

    PEI National Park - it has been a long time since I was there, but I do remember it being on a coast, on the side facing towards the Atlantic, and there were lots of lovely sand dunes which brought back childhood memories of the Netherlands. (I was going to check at the Canadian National Parks website to refresh my memory, but the site seems to be unavailable at the moment)

    MaryZ
    November 22, 2002 - 09:38 pm
    Nellie, Canada is justifiably proud of the Tyrell Museum. We always recommend it to anyone who is going to be in the Calgary area. It is, without a doubt, one of the best museums we have ever seen! Here's their web site.

    http://www.tyrrellmuseum.com/home/

    Also, here is a link to a live web cam of Old Faithful (nothing showing at night, of course)

    http://www.nps.gov/yell/oldfaithfulcam.htm

    Mary

    Bill H
    November 23, 2002 - 09:00 am
    Mary, thank you for giving us those links.

    Well, the SN Trolley is pulling into the station again. Your posts, links and our conversations have made this a most enjoyable journey. I wish to thank all who participated in the National Parks adventure and I hope you enjoyed it as much as I did.

    Tomorrow we change trolley operators. Ann Alden will be at the controls for the new discussion and what a honey it is. I took a peek, Ann, and I'm going to be following this one The heading will bring out the nostalgia in all of us. The links you picked for the heading are GREAT. A very good topic!!!.

    Bill H

    patwest
    November 23, 2002 - 10:40 am
    This had a been a great source for finding places to visit here in the US... I have read here, about several new, different parks for us to visit and search on the Net.

    Lorrie
    November 23, 2002 - 02:58 pm
    Bravo to our own Bill H. for a really interesting trolley ride visiting our National Parks, etc. Thank you for an interesting two weeks, Bill!

    Lorrie

    patwest
    November 23, 2002 - 06:38 pm
    The new heading is up ..... and Ann Alden will be along shortly... This looks like a great topic and we will all enjoy.

    Ann Alden
    November 23, 2002 - 07:29 pm
    I want to thank Bill for a super discussion of our national parks. My bag is packed and next spring, I will be heading for one that I haven't seen. And there are many. Thanks again, Bill. As usual, your discussions are the tops.

    So, here we are in Toyland and just to get things started after the questions that are up above, I want to pose a few more.

    From your childhood attachment to a particular toy, have any of you made it a lifetime hobby?

    Like, the train layouts that dot the country with the great layouts that have perfect tiny towns, train stations,tunnels and tiny people?

    Or were dolls your favorite pastime and from that love have you maybe built a business on making miniatures or dolls? Have you gone into the doll repair business?

    Are you an RC modeler wwho spends all winter perfecting a bi-plane for flying at the local "Fly Off"?

    I hope we can have fun remembering our favorite toys of childhood. Come tell us about yours!!

    robert b. iadeluca
    November 24, 2002 - 04:36 am
    Ann and Pat:--That is an absolutely marvelous Heading!! It is a discussion in itself!!

    Robby

    Ann Alden
    November 24, 2002 - 06:47 am
    Yes, Robby, it is a marvelous header and the credit all goes to MsPat's expertise. She really does a super job.

    O'Sharny
    November 24, 2002 - 12:37 pm
    Toyland from my childhood. The dept stores had almost an entire floor devoted to toyland during the Christmas season and Daytons in Minneapolis MN had a train circling the area from the ceiling! Oh, how I wanted to ride on it! Something tells me that my older sister (by 13 years) either paid for my ride or talked Mother into letting me ride. I don't think I was more than six years old. Hope you realize I'm pulling this out of my memory and its not easy.

    BaBi
    November 24, 2002 - 01:16 pm
    Ann, I just had a delightful few minutes linking in to a couple of teddy bear and miniature museums sites. I passed on a miniature museum site to a friend who loves miniatures.

    My favorite gifts were always books, which of course has stood me in good stead for a lifetime. Thinking back, I think I most enjoyed my skates. They gave me such a wonderful feeling of speed, wind in my hair, and general freedom. Not to mention building a positive sense of agility and skill that I later carried over into tumbling. (You ladies do remember taking 'tumbling' in gym don't you? Sailing over four or so prone bodies and ending in a somersault? How I sigh when I remember what I could do , once upon a time.) (*_*( ...Babi

    robert b. iadeluca
    November 24, 2002 - 01:54 pm
    We lived close enough to New York City that on Christmas my parents could take me to that wonderful Macy's. If the toy existed, it was there. And right in the middle of all that was Santa Claus sitting on his throne. Now I was young enough (5-6 years old) to believe in Santa Claus but old enough to do some thinking and asked why there were so many "Santas" around. Who was real?

    My mother told me that the Santa Claus in Macy's was the real one and all the others just helping with the Christmas spirit. And I was satisfied with that!

    Robby

    robert b. iadeluca
    November 24, 2002 - 02:28 pm
    When I was a boy, big derricks that operated by diesel didn't exist. They had steam shovels. Just about the time that a new road was being built in our area and a steam shovel was breaking up the old asphalt and digging necessary holes, I received a toy steam shovel.

    I was in my glory! It was strong enough that I could sit on its roof and turn the reel which wound or unwound the cord (big cable in my mind!) which made the shovel go up and down. I spent days and days doing that. I wonder if the contractors in my town ever realized how much their success was partly due to my hard work.

    I want to add that participating in this forum is very easy for me as the "little boy" in me never grew up.

    Robby

    Ann Alden
    November 24, 2002 - 06:25 pm
    First of all, a welcome to O'Sharny who is new to me as a poster. Welcome, O'Sharny. I hope you enjoy this discussion.

    I don't think that any of us has lost that child within, do you, Robby. Listen to Babi telling of the wind in her hair as she ice skated. And, the toy train ride that O'Sharny's mother or sister gave her. We just never forget the fun things in our lives, do we?

    I forgot to mention that probably one of my favorites was a doll house given to me by a neighbor who no longer needed it. He had constructed the dollhouse before building a life size model in our neighborhood. I spent many hours decorating that house(nothing like they are today). After saving my paper route money for 6 months I was able to buy some furniture for the house and then I proceeded to make slipcovers for it as my mother always did some changing of her decor during the different seasons. And, of course the windows had to have curtains which I thumbtacked up at each window. There were pretend lamps, a kitchen replete with a stove, frig, and table and chairs even tiny dishes. What a great time I had with that house. You know, I had forgotten about that house until just now.

    Bill H
    November 24, 2002 - 06:54 pm
    Ann, I wish this discussion could continue on until Christmas so I could get up every morning and find a different toy under the tree. The little boy in me never grew up either.

    O'Sharny's post jogged my mind of department stores, during the Yuletide season. In Pittsburgh we had three large department stores and they each had an entire floor devoted to toys, Santa Claus and the like. Every year the day after Thanksgiving my mother would take to me to downtown (we call it "dahn tahn") Pittsburgh to see the Yuletide window displays of these three stores, of course, I'm positive she wanted to see them herself. Anyway, each store tried to out do one another's window displays and each had a real live Santa Claus. We would go to see every one of them. I would sit on Santa's lap and tell him what I wanted him to bring me. One year I asked mother how can Santa Claus be in all three stores at the same time. Her reply "...because he's Santa Claus." That was good enough for me. Why press my luck?

    After visiting all three stores, she would take me to Murphy's five and ten cent store--remember the 5 an 10s. I was allowed to order a hot dog and a big glass of Hires rootbeer the price was a nickle each. I don't know why but the dogs and rootbeer tasted better then. I guess it was because my taste buds were young. More later.

    Bill H

    annafair
    November 24, 2002 - 06:56 pm
    What a lovely place to visit, our memories. We had a wonderful train set and added to it each year. There were crossing signs that sounded an alarm, lights flashing , a log carrying car and a platform that picked the logs off and on. It was the greatest each Christmas to have that train and everyone in the family enjoyed it as well.

    My husband was also a train lover and when we were in Europe we started a large collection which eventually our sons shared. At one time we had a whole sheet of plywood painted to represent grass etc and the trains were set upon that, with houses and people etc. It was a family affair.

    We used to take our children to a park in Nashville, Percy Warner I believe to watch the RC flyers and eventually became involved with that as well.

    Girls played with dolls until they were almost 16 then and I believe I had one of the first Betsy Wetsy Dolls. Eventually our oldest daughter became a collector of dolls and has two curio cabinets full of them.

    I still have the toy oven we gave our youngest years ago. It works with a light bulb and it did bake cakes etc. Some things showed up yearly at Christmas regardless of how old we became. We all loved those wonderful metal tops that you wound up by pushing a rod up and down. I dont see them anymore and I suspect a child this day would not find them as fascinating as we did. Frankly I would love to buy one for myself this Christmas.

    Ann You have opened a door and if I walk all the way through I would monopolize this discussion! But I want to hear what others remember so will leave room so I can enjoy thier memories.. Anna

    pedln
    November 24, 2002 - 07:21 pm
    Anna, You have brought back a raft of memories. My children also had an easy back oven -- worked with a lightbulb -- and they spent hours (and years) making all kinds of cakes.

    And the tops -- especially the ones we called "singing tops," with the rod that you described. And also those little tops, that fit in your hand -- two parts; you'd wind them and then release the bottom part to spin on the floor.

    Robbie, I liked hearing about your steam shovel. You do know Mike Mulligan, don't you? When I was in high school I worked weekends in the toy department of a hardware store, and I just loved working with those big toy trucks and tractors and fire engines. They were mostly all metal then, too. Very little plastic.

    kiwi lady
    November 24, 2002 - 07:39 pm
    We had very few toys as children and my mind boggles when I see my grandchildrens bedrooms.

    Only two toys stand out in my memory. I had a walking talking doll bought for me by my mother when there were only three children in our family. I loved it but unfortunately my three year old sister went into my room pulled it out the box and ripped its hair off and poked the eyes in. My grandpa managed to fix the eyes but the hair was never able to be repaired as my mother could not afford to take it to the dolls hospital. It broke my heart as I had cared for the doll with such reverence. I can't imagine any of my grandchildren at 3 doing such a destructive thing to a toy.

    The other toy was a baby doll bought for me when I was 10 made in a new material soft and rubbery. I called her Anna and she could be fed and have her diapers changed. My mother thought I was too old for dolls but I begged her for it.

    I think I enjoyed my kids toys as much as they did because I had not had many as a child! I also enjoy the grandchildren's toys! I have a dolls house I bought for the playroom here for the grandchildren. Sometimes on the pretext of tidying up I rearrange the furniture. I always did want a dolls house! I actually bought the dolls house with a Cheque I got for Christmas last year! LOL so I wonder who I really bought the dolls house for!

    Carolyn

    robert b. iadeluca
    November 25, 2002 - 04:33 am
    When I say that the "little boy" in me grew up, I am not speaking of memories. I mean that I still at times act like a little boy.

    Remind me to sometime tell you folks about my adult merry-go-round experience.

    Robby

    Coyote
    November 25, 2002 - 09:02 am
    My toy memories are separated by before, during, and after WWII. Before, we were poor, but I had a couple of metal cars with rubber wheels and one rubber station wagon. I also loved stuffed animals as a little kid - Andy Panda and later a Dumbo, the elephant. My brother had a floppy stuffed rabbit or something dressed like Uncle Sam. We used to tie his legs to a mini trapeze and otherwise use him for stunts in our homemade circuses. We loved building with our Lincoln Logs and Tinker Toys. We also had some great orange-colored blocks with holes drilled in them and wood pegs to put them together (Cunstructo or something like that.) My brother got an Erector set before the war, so it was around for several years, but he was quite stingy with it. The year I was four and a half, my mother got locked out of the house right before Xmas. I was slipped in through the coal chute to open the door, but I noticed something covered by a tarp over in one corner of the coal bin on my way through. It was a big, bright red trike which I wanted for Xmas. I kept still about seeing it, but snuck back in to ride it around the basement several times before Santa put it under the tree. (My mother never said anything about the small black tire tracks which must have covered the floor of her laundry area.) Of course, that ended my belief in or dependence on that fat elf.

    During the war, I loved the cardboard punch out and put together sets, like one we got of naval ships. We spent hours putting tab A into slot A until we had a whole fleet. Of course, there were no rubber or metal toys, no leather sports equipment, no new bikes, no skates, BB guns, and no plastic toys on the market yet.

    Then the war was over. My father was making good money by then. We got new musical instruments and I delighted in the BB gun, sports equipment, skates, my brother's 24" bike when he got a new 26" one - heaven for kids.

    kiwi lady
    November 25, 2002 - 10:55 am
    Ben you reminded me of paper dollies. You got them in book form. The dollies were on the cardboard cover and you pressed them out they were perforated to enable them to be pressed out. Then you cut out a myriad of clothes for them to wear. Oh we loved paper dollies!

    Carolyn

    Faithr
    November 25, 2002 - 12:10 pm
    Carolyn I also loved my paper dolls. The local library gave me the used fashion magazines that people had donated and I would cut out all the models in their outfits. Then I would seperate all that looked alikes into piles and name them. Though they might be different models if they were same color hair they became one person in many outfits. Then my sisters and I would role play with them by the hour. We each had a big cardboard box under our beds for our personal things and there I kept my Color Books, Crayons,Paints, paper and paper dolls. Also My diary which was very precious to me.. my grandparents bought a new one every birthday for me.

    OUr Christmas toys were simple and not expensive often homemade by each other. Six syblings with an absent father after 1935 meant lean times for us. We once get a sled for the whole family.Another year a toboggan. Or a large box of toys to share such as board games, tops, jacks, pickup sticks, but the boys would get individual Tinkertoys and Lincoln logs. And girls would get individual gifts of a doll or doll cloths that some one made for the existing dolls.

    We made our own doll house and furniture out of cardboard boxes and matchboxes etc. Also we learn very young to do needlework and embroidered hankerchiefs to give as presents to others.

    The winter my baby sister was about 18 months old my mother got all we older children in the kitchen and ask us to agree with her that since we had very little money that year would we help give the baby a Santa Clause present so we agreed and had a great time picking a little rocking chair out of the sears catalog for Santa to leave for the baby, and then a tin decorated pail filled with hard candies for Santa to leave for the "big Kids" who knew that Santa had disappeared along with our father. The chair came and our Mom hid it then Christmas Eve, after the little kids were asleep Mom and my older syblings put it and the big tin of candies along with the wrapped presents we had all made along with some that grandparents, uncles and aunts had sent under the tree.

    In the morning that baby was so surprised and so delighted with her chair and her eyes were big with wonder while we spun yarns about Santa Clause for her. It was a wonderful Christmas and maybe the best I remember. Faith

    Ann Alden
    November 25, 2002 - 12:43 pm
    Oh, Annafair, I too remember the Easy Bake oven that my daughter had in the early 60's. And with your family being Air Force people meant you could collect from many different countries, those trains.

    I still love to go to the Fly Offs that they have here in Columbus in September. Our son is active with a huge group and they are able to use a private airport for their wonderful flying. The whole day is great fun and excitement. My husband just finished building a WWI English BiPlane. Has all the ablility to fly but he hesitates to fly it as its his baby. We have seen grown men collapse over a crashed RC model.

    Robby, you should tell us about your adult carousel ride. I loved your word pictures of the steam shovel. Weren't those metal toys the best! We bought our son, then 2, a nice size orange dump truck which he continued to play with until he was 8 or so. It was great to use in the sandbox! I moaned over the cost of it at the time but soon saw the error of my complaints. A worthy investment!

    Bill H., just come in through that door any time you wish. You know that we love to hear from you.

    BenjaminLewis, I haven't seen you around much lately but that's probably because we are in different discussions now. But welcome and thanks for your memories. Weren't the metal cars and trucks great. And now we have Matchbox cars which are great fun to play with. Last year, my husband spent two months making a drag-race tracks for our grans. We keep it here in the downstairs playroom. They would destroy it or lose parts at their busy house.

    Kiwi Lady, yes, all of us girls had our paper dolls and their lovely clothes. I saw some Dolly Dingle paper dolls recently. Of course, they were reproductions but I think I did buy two books. Haven't a clue as to where they are now.

    And, Faithr, I liked your mother's idea to make Santa real to the baby of the family with her very own Santa delivered rocking chair. What a special family you had. I hope you are writing your memoirs for your own family and are putting in stories like that one.

    Babi, thanks for sending the link to your friend of the miniatures sites. Did you see the Doll+ site? Whoa! I had no idea! Did you?

    Ann Alden
    November 25, 2002 - 01:16 pm
    Someone here mentioned Tinker Toys and Lincoln Logs and I thought I would tell you that they are my grans favorite toys when they visit. Makes them use their imaginations. I went on E-Bay two years ago and looked for toys and came up with two complete sets of them. Also, an unopened Erector set. Gave that to my husband for Christmas. After 50 years, it's hard to find something different.

    Have you all played the Toyland midi up above? Isn't it lovely music?

    BaBi
    November 25, 2002 - 05:13 pm
    Yes! The paper dolls that my cousin and I played with, and the jacks. I loved playing jacks; I remember getting up to 'ninesies' with my long-fingered hands.

    Didn't mean to mislead you, Ann, but the 'skates' were roller skates. Not much ice skating in Texas! But on my roller skates I could go zipping down the sidewalks, hopping over cracks and impediments with great aplomb and stopping on a dime! In many ways, today's kids on their skateboards bring back those times for me.

    I enjoyed board games, too, but that could depend on who I was playing with. Some players could really spoil the fun. (I'm sure you know what I mean. That carried over into adulthood. There were bridge players I avoided most carefully.) I remember Parcheesi and Monopoly. I'm trying to remember some of the card games we especially liked, but they are not emerging out of the fog tonight. ....Babi

    Faithr
    November 25, 2002 - 07:33 pm
    Babi we had lots of cards also dominoes. Our card games were Go Fish, Casino, Rummy, Spades, and 52 Pick up ..hahahaha. My memory is that we also had several ways of playing dominoes from easy games to hard just as we got to more complicated card games as we grew older. I loved it one year when we went to a christmas tree held by the Firemen and each child got a gift off the tree after caroling etc. I got a checker board with nice new counters and all there so we didnt have to substitute any buttons etc. I was very popular in our house that winter and we played checkers every night after dinner.I think I was about 10 that year and we also had a Monopoly game which my mom even loved. She said it was the same as a game she had when little but I dont remember the name of that game from 1910. Someone might. We did have an old old board game very worn out called Life which had been given as a christmas present to my parents in the early 1920's.. Faith

    Coyote
    November 26, 2002 - 06:33 am
    My girls, born '55 to '61, still loved paper dolls. The made the dolls by pasting pictures they copied onto cardboard, then drawing the clothes for them. One batch that were used for several years were copied from the Archie comic book characters.

    They also spent a lot of time with Barbie and similar dolls, also making their own outfits and accessories. My son also made clothes for his GI Joes, learning to use the sewing machine a little to turn old mismatched socks into football uniforms, etc. One year, they did a whole wedding with appropriate formal dress, etc. Most years, they put up tiny fir trees and had elaborate Xmas festivals with those dolls, down to making tiny gifts for them all. I do believe a little poverty assisted the development of their creativity, just as it did for my brother and me.

    Ann Alden
    November 26, 2002 - 08:12 am
    Oh boy, a Christmas pageant of someone's dolls. Kids, left to their own imaginations, will come up with so many ways to play with different things.

    My son used to sew Barbie doll clothes for his sister as she was too young to sew then and he was just fascinated with her child's sewing machine. Her gran gave her that.

    And the games were top on our list in the winter. Sounds like we all played the same ones. My kids had the Game of Life which I think came out in the 50's or 60's. My daughter loved that game and asked us to play often.

    Did anyone mentionTripoli? We used to play that with the kids using poker chips. They enjoyed it a lot.

    My BIL constructed a hexagon board for playing Parcheesi and when we first used it, the game went on for hours on New Year's Eve. Our 8 yr old son thought it was just too swell to get to stay up past midnight that night just to play Parcheesi.

    On New Year's Eve at our house, we have a new 500 or 1000 piece puzzle(usually given to Dad for Christmas) ready to put together. We start after supper and must finish it before midnight. One year we had 7 adults and 5 kids trying to get it done. We worked it in shifts so that it wasn't so crowded at the table. I believe that I even have pictures of that night. This is a tradition. And, we still do it when we are together.

    Annie3
    November 26, 2002 - 09:40 am
    It's bringing back so many sweet memories.

    BaBi
    November 26, 2002 - 09:47 am
    Ben, I think it's fabulous that your kids were able to make all those things. I was grown with children before I learned to use a sewing machine! How do they use their creative skills now that they are grown?

    Ann, I love the puzzle tradition. We like puzzles too, but our work space is limited. I have cabinets full of old puzzles that I try to weed out regularly and contribute to the adult center or a nursing home. While I used to enjoy difficult puzzles, I find that I now just want a relaxing occupation and would prefer to avoid the kind that get aggravating! :>) ...Babi

    kiwi lady
    November 26, 2002 - 11:49 am
    Sewing. It was my son (now the talented designer and builder of beautiful homes) who took to sewing when I got a brand new machine when he was about 10. He was the one who figured out how to cut the fabric keeping the pattern correct- he did all my cutting out. He made back packs for school, made his own summer shorts complete with zip pockets and generally assisted me with my sewing. He made me swear never to tell any of his friends from school he could sew! I guess the sewing machine was his favorite toy for a few years!

    My girls used to take scraps of material and spend hours making clothes for their Barbies.

    We played knucklebones (jacks)at school. We had spinning tops that you wound string around and threw to get going. We had top wars where one would try to knock out as many of the spinning tops as you could with your own top.

    Kites were enjoyed in summer. We made our own kites with Newspaper, glue string and thin sticks of bamboo taken from the orchard hedging which was everywhere in the orchard area I was raised in.

    We made trolleys (carts) out of orange crates, spare wood and wheels we had to save up to buy from the bike shop. The steering mechanism was rope tied to each side of the front axle. Some kids even had brakes on their trolleys. Bits of wood stuck to each side that they let down when they wanted to stop! Many injuries were received when the trolleys capsized from going too fast round a bend on a hill! Parents today would forbid the games we played! We also used to take sheets of cardboard from old cardboard boxes and slide down the grass hills in the paddocks across the road from our house. We do not get snow here so this was the next best thing to tobogganing in snow.

    We made our own fishing rods from sticks and string and used bent pins for hooks and fished in the local creeks and ponds for eels. We used dough for bait. Eels will eat anything!

    We dressed our pet cats in dolls clothes and wheeled them in the dolly pram! The poor cats spent quite a few years as substitute babies to a bevy of little mothers! Today it would be considered animal abuse and I suppose in a way it was. However my placid cat loved it and would sleep peacefully in the dolly pram for hours while I wheeled him complete with his little bonnet and cardigan round the neighbourhood.

    Every Saturday night- before the day of Television in NZ- we put on a concert. We dressed up and sang , recited and put on short plays we wrote ourselves. My brother would recite the Man from Ironbark an Australian narrative poem on request. It had numerous verses and it was requested almost every concert night. Our mother was the only audience unless my grandparents happened to be visiting.

    Gosh I think we had more fun with our simple toys than the kids have today with all their elaborate toys which do not require using any imagination at all.

    Carolyn

    Faithr
    November 26, 2002 - 01:00 pm
    It is so true that children will always find ways to build and operate their own idea of toys or play things. We did all the things mentioned and there were a few more since we were in the snow country with lots of winter and summer sports that we did on the Lake. Also in the forest we found a lot of things that could be used to build little homes for elfs or fairies. We spent hours collecting acorns and moss and pinecones etc. and making homes for the forest spirits hahahah.

    It was also a wonderful place to climb trees and spy on the boys. They had tree houses and wouldnt let us up in them so we would go up a different tree and tease them. If they tried to follow we girls up the tree we used pine cones as hand grenades to throw down on them.

    We slide down hills on big sheets of cardboard too, but on snow and that solved the fights over the one sled we had which big sis and bro usually took but they were good and gave us all rides. We made our own fun and it didnt take money only imagination. My own children in the 50's and early 60's had a lot of that imagination in them too. However they were allowed to run pretty free in those days.They also had big yards and lots of parents at home in the neighborhoods so they could run and play all over the blocks. Now the children must be guarded in playgrounds and in their own yards too. Working parents tell children to go in the house and lock the door if they dont have afterschool care somewhere. This sets up the seditary life watching tv and developing a consumer appetite that parents struggle to fill. I never saw so many toy as one grandaughter has for her two little ones. And they dont care for a new toy longer than a minute or two and it is discarded. I have no idea what the answer is. FR

    Coyote
    November 26, 2002 - 01:11 pm
    BABI - My girls are all working too many hours for much in the way of hobbies, but I suppose their creativity comes in handy at work as far as solving problems with what is at hand. Their kids didn't seem quite as creative except one, who did get an art scholarship. I'm afraid TV and computers have snagged that generation almost entirely. My own kids lived without TV from the time they were between 3 and 9 on up until they were grown, so they were spared those traps. I figure the creative ability to entertain themselves will surface again in a few more years when my kids retire. It can't have all just vanished.

    My son did a lot of art in college and was very creative until he was head injured. He still had the actual skills of sketching or painting afterwards, but he lost the ability to plan and actually finish anything.

    Bill H
    November 26, 2002 - 02:22 pm
    But let's not forget the scooters, sleds and bicycles. Remember how we would put one foot on the scooter board and push with the other foot. )

    The day I learned how to ride a bike was one of the happiest days of my life. Gosh, we kids in the neighborhood road our bike every opportunity we go. I can still feel the wind whizzing past my face and billowing out my unbuttoned jacket like a sail on a ship. Faster and faster we would peddle sometimes a little too fast, but there weren't as many autos then and we could ride fairly well on the neighborhood streets that were usually free of cars. Not now. Now the cars whiz past not the bikes.

    One of the kids didn't have a bike but he was welcome to ride the bike of someone who wanted a rest, because his family owned a player piano. His mother and dad would go to bingo on Friday nights and, oh, what a grand time we had. We were peddling again but not on a bike. This time it was the foot peddles of the player piano. We'd play one roll sheet after the other and what great songs they were. We didn't have electronic toys. No, we had the real things.

    Ben, I agree with you . The kids are spending too much time with TV and computer games. An article in the local newspaper stated that obesity among the young children is alarming and due to this very reason. Of course, fast food joints were mentioned, too.

    Bill H

    GingerWright
    November 26, 2002 - 02:45 pm
    I remember when we stepped in the middle of a can and wore it so it would sound like horses. We also played kick the can, Hopscotch, Hide and seek, I will never forget my first ride on a bike as dad pushed me from the top of a hill and I smashed into the headlight of a parked car as no one told me how to use the break. I don't remember getting hurt tho. Oh that was the good ole days. This a good discussion remembering days of ole.

    kiwi lady
    November 26, 2002 - 05:11 pm
    Another holiday occupation we indulged in was making cakes and sweets. My mother worked and from 14 I was in charge of the others in school holidays. There were 5 of us the youngest being 3 years old.

    My friend Ruth (who incidentally now lives in my studio out back) used to come over and we would make trays and trays of toffee and fudge and bake chocolate crunch and banana cakes etc. We even made toffee apples. We would use all my mothers sugar and often got a good scolding! Parents today would not allow this type of thing unsupervised in fact many adult children cannot cook by the time they go to University! I have a DIL who had never cooked as they had servants. We also did the Christmas baking while on holiday.

    Other holidays we would polish my mothers tiles and skate in our socks to do the polishing rather than use the polisher. Skating inside! LOL. Golly we had some fun! None of us got hurt as children were given lots of responsibility in those days and knew all the safety precautions. At 13 I knew how to treat common ailments.

    Carolyn

    Ann Alden
    November 26, 2002 - 05:39 pm
    This is fun! I love all the memories of your childhood years. We seem like the last or next to last, generation who could go outside safely and go from our house to a neighbor's. One Christmas, my parents gave me a portable record(record? Grandma, what's a record?) player so my best friend, three doors away would beg me to bring down the player after supper and homework was out of the way. It would be dark out and sometimes snowing or raining, but I would truck it over to their house(and it was heavy). We would dance to the music or just listen sometimes. I had a complete album of the Nutcracker Suite with the story being told along with the music. What a treasure that was! Sort of like Beethoven Lives Upstairs.

    I am so enjoying everybody's stories. You all have some nice tales to tell about when we lived in a different world and managed to have so much fun with much less.

    We lived near the state fairgrounds which was off limits during WWII and well guarded. It was a munitions and supplies place, so when the war was over, we would go after school to play in the guard towers. The state offered the big(12x12 with a walkway all around) wooden guard huts, up on 12 foot frames, to anyone who wanted one for $100 and you move it. You should have heard all the kids in the neighborhood begging their parents to do it. Sure, honey! Hahaha!

    Did no one have a Teddy Bear, way back in the dark ages?

    Faithr
    November 26, 2002 - 07:58 pm
    Ann A in my family there was one teddy bear but not until around 1940 and was for my smallest sister ..my nearest sis and I shared a baby doll. Oh we had those little celluloid cupie dolls and rag dolls made by grandmothers or aunts that we just loved to death and sewed cloths for.

    No bicycles in the family until I was about 11 a neighbor girl gave me her used bike when she got a new one and my brother promptly commandeered it. Still I was able to ride it most of the time when I wanted to. It was not so much fun at Tahoe as it may have been down in the valley towns to have roller skates or bikes.

    We did over the years get skis and sleds and toboggans(some used of course) plus the necessary winter clothing that go with snow sports and even here it was a laugh as we were constantly swapping scarves gloves hats etc.We never threw away any item of clothing until it was worn and torn and turned inside out at least once. It seems we never could swap ski boots though as no ones feet were the same size. I know in other families I have heard quarrels over sharing but not in ours ..we were willing to take turns and share with each other anything we could. I think it built great love between we syblings ..there are five of us left and we still are closer to each other than any other people we know except of course our mates. We all are in touch and exchanging news constantly..three of us live in a 50 mile radius and the two others are less than a few hours drive away . fr

    Annie3
    November 26, 2002 - 08:03 pm
    We had a teddy bear in my family although it was for my youngest sister. She was a colicy baby and someone got her a musical teddy bear that wound up and played ...lullaby and goodnight...around the winder it was worn right to the stuffing and repaired there several times. We all took turns winding it as it was the only thing that relaxed her so she could sleep. By six months it wasn't necessary any more. How different that was than the musical toys they have now for children. I had forgotten about it until you mentioned the bears.

    GingerWright
    November 26, 2002 - 09:26 pm
    I had no Teddy Bears but I do now. Smile

    Coyote
    November 27, 2002 - 08:14 am
    Someone mentioned tin can stilts. We graduated from those to the real thing made of 2 x 4s with adjustable foot rests. I loved striding around on those - at least until I stepped into mud and had one leg suddenly go dow several inches and dump me. Another toy I loved right after the war was my pogo stick. I jumped 2000 consecutive jumps once just to prove I could - got horrible blisters on my hands from that sweaty aluminum handle. I think I liked both the pogo stick and the stilts because I was short and the youngest, so I liked being tall for a little while.

    One homemade toy I loved was the huge rope swing a bunch of us put up down off the side of Queen Anne Hill in Seattle. It was fastened about 75' up in a huge tree. (I climbed with a string on my belt which was tied to the rope to tie this on a thick branch.) The seat was one strong vine maple stick stuck through the knot. We mounted by holding the rope, jumping off the take-off spot on the side of the hill, then swinging our legs around the seat to sit down.

    Faithr
    November 27, 2002 - 12:24 pm
    Our home made toys did include stamped on cans, stilts made by my older brother, the engineer of our family, rubber guns made from old lumber and innertubes and my brothers trusty jack knives which they received for xmas presents at age eight. I had no such sign of leaving babyhood and entering childhood as the boys did when they got those knives. They learned to whittle whistles and puzzle boxes that had little balls that bounced around inside bars. These out of balsa wood which my grandfather would scrounge up quarters to buy for the boys. Of course there were more than one jack knife presents given down the years as they grew older and their carving and whittling more sophisticated. faith

    Bill H
    November 27, 2002 - 12:32 pm
    What a coincidence. A story appeared in today's paper about a hobby shop (not far from me) that sells all kinds of things for those whose hobby is miniature trains. It's a nice read and if your interested visit
    Trains

    Bill H

    BaBi
    November 27, 2002 - 03:26 pm
    Ben, I had forgotten the stilts! I loved them. Unfortunately, my Dad was afraid I would hurt myself and told me to stay off them. I now confess that is one of the very rare times I dared disobey him...while he was at work, of course. It was so lovely being way up in the air like that.

    And how about yo-yos? I never did get as skilled with them as my brother, but I tried. There was something about that whir and tug at the end of the string that was captivating. ...Babi

    pedln
    November 27, 2002 - 06:49 pm
    Did you all make potholders -- those looped things that you wove? I made 'em, my kids made 'em, and my grandkids made 'em. Some things do last.

    Another craft my friends and I like to do was to spool weave. We pounded four nail into the top of a wooden spool, and then wove yarn around them, ending up with a long long piece that came out the hole in the spool. Then we'd use that to make little rugs and doll clothes.

    Does anyone remember "Carems?" You had a square board that was a combo checker board and pool table, and these round donut shaped pieces that you would shoot across the board with your fingers.

    And trading playing cards. None of my adult friends here have ever heard of it, but when I was about 10 or 11 several of us would collect old decks of cards, or at least the jokers, and trade them. we tried to get sets -- like a pair of horses, or two landscapes. The prize was Blue boy (gainsborough) and pink girl paintings. One of my friends even got a round playing card. that was big stuff back then.

    pedln
    November 27, 2002 - 06:51 pm
    Someone mentioned "kick the can" and tin can stilts. Both loads of fun. Another game we all especially liked was statue. "It" would swing you around and then let you go. You had to hold whatever position you landed in. Sounds a little risky, but no one ever broke any bones.

    MaryZ
    November 27, 2002 - 09:41 pm
    Pedln, you really hit the stuff I knew and did. Actually, our grandkids made the potholders, too, and my "best" ones now are some of those old ones. And I did the spool knitting - never did anything with it, though.

    We had a Carom board, too - it was one my father made for us. Gee, I hadn't thought of that in years and years - it was a good game.

    But, ye gods!, trading playing cards. That was really a blast from the past. They made special scrapbooks that held the cards, and I had a bunch of those. I really hadn't thought of that in zillions of years. I wonder what happened to all those things.

    I was born in St. Louis, but moved from there at age 7, to Houston, TX. Maybe there's a MO connection to my TX upbringing (although my parents were both from TX).

    Mary

    Coyote
    November 29, 2002 - 07:26 am
    The middle fingernail on my right hand ached instantly when I read of the CAROM. Too many hours perfecting my spinking skills often left me aching, but I did get very accurate. I never mastered the pool-like stick version of the game, though. As far as the big boards which went on a card table, my favorite was Chinese checkers. My step great uncle taught me to play when I was around four or five, then later gave me his marbles (which I still have in the box some prescription drug samples originally came in to his doctor's office.) I haven't played most of these games in so long, I would need to search online for instructions to get started again.

    Ann Alden
    November 29, 2002 - 09:07 am
    Whoa, trading playing cards?? I did that and had forgotten all about it. We collected little treasure troves of real art. I remember that!

    Stilts were my son's favorite thing for a long time. He was even on TV with a class circus walking on those 6 or 8 foot high ones and he and another stilter held a bar between them with a girl hanging from it doing tricks. Scary!

    One thing that I didn't mention when I talked about going online and buying the two Lincoln Logs sets was that one of them was a homemade one. Made from the ends of orange crates(the label is still visible). Everytime I look at them, I think of some poor grandparent crafting these for his/her grandchild. Must be a story there!

    Trains, trains, trains, Bill H. What a nice article about the trains. I love trains today and go see layouts whenever they are advertised. Once I was in Chattanooga for the grand opening of the Tennessee Aquairium with my grans and they talked me into going to see the local train club's huge layout upstairs in the Union Depot. It was so fabulous that I now look for them wherever I go. Saw a super layout plus many other exhibits in Victoria last year. That toy museum is here somewhere. I have a link!!!

    annafair
    November 29, 2002 - 01:02 pm
    Your postings are so wonderful I cant decide whether to laugh or cry ..SO MANY MEMORIES ....in some ways we all seem to share the same expierences. The board games, the jig saw puzzles, the card games, What about OLD MAID? I doubt it? I cant believe I have forgotten so many and what great and glorious memories you have stirred.

    My one daughter is now introducing her children, 8 and 6 to board games and OH how I enjoy playing with them. Chinese checkers I have a very very old set of that, Pick up sticks, tiddley winks ...Lincoln logs, Erector sets, Legos who could be used to build everything, some things we recieved every year since we would have lost too many parts since the year before.

    Paper dolls, made from catalogues and REAL ones from a book we had to cut out. AND my girlfriends and I played with them until we were 16 and even beyond. Too bad 16 year old girls worry about clothes, often inappropiate too, whether they have a date, how to be charming and attract boys. I guess I am too old for when I was 16 boys were really a pain in the neck!

    Ah my own children were raised so differently than my grandchildren are being raised. They are wonderful children and I love them but I feel they are missing something with all the toys they have that never challenge thier imagination ...perhaps I am wrong....I once set up a card table for jig saw puzzles but it was never finished ( not in my home for I just left them up to be finished ) but the parents felt it was a nuisance..how sad that is ..

    Thank you all for all the warm and tender memories you have shared and for all the memories you have invoked.

    By the way I have always loved teddy bears and even as an adult have a rather large collection that line the backs of the den sofas, on small chairs, and have spilled over into the living and dining rooms. I allow all children who come to play with them but they must leave them behind. Some look the worse for wear and some have had to be thrown away. That only gives me an excuse to buy the next one.Once in awhile a child will ask to take one home , Since I know they have plenty of toys I always say ..no they are mine but you may come and visit them whenever you want and play with them. I dont restrict the playing since they are meant to enjoy and I am happy to see the young ones pretending with the bears.

    AH must go Thanksgiving was a big event at my home and now I have to ready myself for more guests next week ...but if there is any time I am particularly glad to have guests is from Thanksgiving to New Years. I feel like I am home again with my five brothers, my parents and my little grandmother. I have had a few Christmases since my husband died when I was more or less alone so I dont complain about the effort. My tree is up and I feel giddy and your memories stoke my happiness..LOVE TO ALL< anna

    MaryZ
    November 29, 2002 - 01:31 pm
    Ann Alden - We do love our Aquarium here in Chattanooga. They've just announced a large addition - to be completed for opening on 1 May 2004 (I think).

    Give us a holler sometime when you're going to be in Chattanooga, and maybe we can get together for lunch or something.

    Mary

    Ann Alden
    November 29, 2002 - 02:49 pm
    Hey, Mary, that would be wonderful but don't hold your breath! We were living in Marietta at the time we came up and then in Kennesaw when we returned once again. Chattanooga has much to be proud of: The Chattanooga ChooChoo and the restored train depot, the Aquarium, Rock City, the Incline and Ruby Falls. We've seen it all several times.

    Anna, please come back whenever you have a chance. I, too, had expected company today plus my daughter is here from Ithaca,NY but my sister, Mary, whom you have met, is down with the flu and her husband just called to tell us. But, we are glad that Barbara is here and we will have a super time. She is already planning long walks with different members of the family.

    Ann Alden
    November 29, 2002 - 03:02 pm
    Here's the link to the Victoria Museum: MiniatureWorld

    As you scroll the page, click on the pictures to enlarge the picture. This place was great fun!

    Bill H
    November 29, 2002 - 04:13 pm
    Anna, Chinese checkers. I remember those quite well. There were two kids in the neighborhood that were always playing that game. Well, almost always.

    Ann Alden, good link. I love those drawings of fantasy palaces and pictures of Olde London Towne houses. I think I learned to like those kind of pictures from the old fairy tales I used to read when I was a real young kid, and before I learned to read my mother would read them to me. I'm sure she enjoyed them also. I think I liked the pictures in those books as well, maybe better, than they stories. Come on now, fess up, how many here liked those old fairy tale books? You know, Grim Brothers, Hans Christian Anderson, etc. Do you think they would make for a good book discussion. ) Hey, some of them are still classics.

    Bill H

    Faithr
    November 29, 2002 - 05:14 pm
    That is one thing my family never lacked, books. Now how we got them is a mystery to me but even in the darkest days of the depression we had magazines and newspapers and a new book on bithdays and christmas. Often it was one book for everyone to share and to enjoy. We had all Tarzan books, all Oz, all the Mother Goose and 2 Vol. of Grimmes Fairy Tales. Then, in my home when I was married there was East of the Sun, West of the Moon which my husband cherished in his childhood along with all the Booth Tarrington Penrods, and these were stored at his grandmothers when he went to college. We obtained these books later after her death . I gave East of the Sun and West of the Moon to my daughter when she was 7. She was in despair once at a time she came home from college and she realized it was missing and we never have located it.My husband also gave me all the books stored at his grandmothers that I wanted, a whole set of Kipling, One set of Thomas Hardy, a set of Brett Harte and four or five books by Mark Twain and many more. My children were allowed to handle and read all books in our home as I was in my childhood home.

    The first Christmas that we were in our first home and that mortgage was looming over us(we still had depression mentality ) we still bought a set of Encyclopeadia Brittanica with bookcase etc. for our two children- of course they had other presents but the most cherished were the two wheelers. I think we gave them those bicyles for own fullfillment as much as theirs as I know they ask for trucks and dolls on Santa's lap. fr

    angelface555
    November 30, 2002 - 12:05 am
    Hi;

    We were constantly being sent out to play and I would take my books up a tree. We also had several of the pioneers from the Gold Rush still living in my early childhood and they told wonderful stories. In that more innocent time, you could go to an older person's home for milk and cookies and stories.

    Reading was cherished in our family as well and I remember Tarrinkton's Penrod and Twain and Thomas Hardy as well as the Bobbssey Twins and The Lion, Witch and Wardrobe series from Lewis.

    There was also croquet and marbles and cards; along with board games and dolls and bikes. My first doll was a "Ginny" doll that I bought at the local toy store on payments when I was eight.

    Before my daughter's birth, I had purchased a child's table and chairs; a small bookshelf and a goodly supply of little golden books. She was born in 1972. I also bought her the one toy I had always wanted and never received. Do you remember the stuffed monkeys with suspenders and baby shoes? Of course she could have cared less for it!

    Éloïse De Pelteau
    November 30, 2002 - 03:24 am
    This is such a wonderful place to visit. It brings me such fond memories of the past. My kids spent a few hours every day outdoors and winters were the most fun. Once a year I used to dress them all up warm, even the baby, to go and see the fireworks display at night during Winter Carnival. We used to walk towards it on the frozen lake, one year the temperature was minus 25 degrees F.

    Snow banks were so high you could not see the street from the sidewalk and kids climbed on them and slide on cardboards, flying saucers, they dug tunnels, built igloos, have snowball fights, go tobogganing, ice skating, skiing. They came in red cheeked, hungry and tired.

    Eloïse

    Bobbiecee
    November 30, 2002 - 03:46 am
    I've been reading the posts with interest, and a bit of nostalgia. My kids were raised in the outback. I look at the kids today and at my kids and think, what a difference. My son and his mates had a tree house, also spent hours making roads, tunnels, bridges in a portion of the back yard for Matchbox cars, but most of the time, the boys played Cricket. Krysti's thing was a cubby house where she spent hours with her friends. They were in to art work and would spend hours making lovely creations, and put the best results in the Alice Springs Show. Aside from that, they had a trampoline and above-ground pool. There was only one TV station, on from 6-11pm, but they never watched TV as it was light outside until 8pm, so most of their time was spent outside. On the weekends, we'd go camping at a waterhole at the end of a 4wd track. We also all had trail bikes so spent a lot of time going trail bike riding in the bush. Krysti and I played flute and Greg played sax so we often had musical evenings as well. I often played the piano to accompany them and they played duets. The kids also spent a lot of time at swim club from age 6 onwards. Certainly different from what the kids have today.

    I was an outdoor person too, and in to skating and horseback riding. When inside, I read. On weekends we either went hiking or camping and hiking. I guess I passed that on to my kids.

    Bobbie

    Ann Alden
    November 30, 2002 - 05:01 am
    New names and faces are here!

    Welcome to Annie3, Angelface555, Bobbiesee, and our old friend, Eloise!

    Do stick around and tell us more about your childhood toys. Did any of you start a business because of your childhood toy experiences? Like making dolls, repairing dolls? or the model plane and train business?

    We have a wonderful doll hospital here in Columbus? When you visit, you spend at least an hour, just looking around and the lady who runs it, almost gives you an audio tour. Her talents abound!

    Did any of you have RaggedyAnn or Andy? Did you or do you posses a Raggedy Ann book by Johnny Gruelle? He wrote those for his daughter and named the doll Raggedy Ann after one of the characters in The Hoosier Poet poems. The Hoosier Poet? What is his name? Oh, I remember, James Whitcomb Riley!! And the poem was "Little Orphant Annie".<Little Orphant Annie He also named or titled his books after Riley's poem, "The Raggedy Man" The Raggedy Man

    Bobbiecee
    November 30, 2002 - 05:42 am
    I didn't have a Raggedy Ann or Andy, but my Mum's friend painted a picture of them as a present for my birth, so that picture is 64 years old.<G> I still have it, hanging up in my guest bedroom.

    I didn't start a business as a result of my childhood toy experiences, but I do write poetry. I also still go camping and bush walking and play my three instruments. My favourite toy was Tinker Toys. I had mobs of them and used to make wonderful contraptions from them. I had a teddy, which I still have, quite tatty.<g> I was never in to regular toys much. I had a doll but tired of that quite young. I seemed to be more into sports and reading. I'm still an avid reader, of both fiction and non-fiction. I also do some painting, lots of sketching. Not really childhood toys, but what I was interested in in childhood.

    Ann Alden
    November 30, 2002 - 06:15 am
    Yes, Bobbiecee, that's what I was asking for here when I asked about toys affecting your adult life. I knoe that many of us just continue our interests from childhood. Like making dolls and other toys. Or building railroad cars and planes. Such as, creating those wonderful miniatures. As this lady has done: Miniature Dollmaking Or the building and furnishing of doll houses which many of us are into today. Here's a nice site, one of many here on the net, for the buying of kits for doll houses. Doll House KitsDid you know that there are all kinds of books on making miniature food, embroidery, dolls? BooksAboutMakingMiniatures

    I have made dolls but its not my business. One year, I made 14 "Cabbage Patch" dolls. Or rather, I named them "Mom's Ugly Muppets" as the head pattern that the maker of the original Cabbage Patch dolls, Xavier Roberts, had not printed the correct pattern shape for the head. So, all of the dolls were extremely homely, because of their funny shaped heads, but we loved them anyway. Eight of them were under the Christmas tree in one big box and I gave them all those combination Southern names. Like Jane Lou and Bobby Jo. It was fun to do and the work kept me out of trouble.

    BaBi
    November 30, 2002 - 08:51 am
    Angelface, how well I remember sitting in the crotch of a tree reading. It combined two favorite activities, reading and climbing trees! Faith, I loved "East of the Sun and West of the Moon", too. I wonder if it is still available today. We had a wonderful set of books that included that were passed on to my kids, and then to one of their cousins. I don't know what happened to them after that, but I wish I had them again.

    We also had a two volume set (don't remember the name) that included stories, poems, songs, etc. The covers on these books were heavily embossed with characters from the stories. A favorite rainy day activity was to lay a sheet of paper over some part of these covers and go over the area with pencil, bringing up a picture. (I know there is a term for this; people do it with tombstone engravings.) It was great fun to put together characters and scenes from different stories.

    How I wish I had saved some of these things. Speaking of saving, did any of you collect bottle tops? Esp. bottle tops from soft drinks? I would dump out a sack full of the things and line them up in order. I had so many Nehi Orange and Grapette, it became tedious. After I ignored the collection for a few months, my Mother took the opportunity to trash the lot. Just as well; they collected rust, but no value! ...Babi

    Marilyne
    November 30, 2002 - 08:58 am
    Ann Alden - "And the Gobblin's 'ill getcha if ya don't watch out"! Oh, how I loved, "Little Orphant Annie", and all other poems by, James Whitcomb Riley. My mother read to us from a very old edition of his book, Riley Child Rhymes. The illustrations were unique and fascinating to look at. I recall sitting for long periods of time and studying those picture. Do you remember, "Nine Little Goblins" - or the one that always brought tears to my eyes - "The Happy Little Crippled Boy"?

    Trading cards! Yes, we also traded playing cards, and had them all neatly catalogued in a shoe box, and ready for bargaining and trading. (according to value, rarity and beauty, LOL!) Another game was played with bottle caps. Meaning, those soft pressed paper caps with the tiny tab, that were inside the top of every milk and cream bottle. The game itself, consisted of standing in a circle with one cap on the ground, in the middle. Then each player takes turns trying to hit the original cap. Winner takes all, of course.

    Another inexpenive game that required no money - only an old piece of clothesline, was Jump Rope. Talk about your aerobic exercise! We jumped rope by the hour, and had all sorts of rhymes that we recited while jumping. Does anyone remember
    "Mother, mother, I am sick -
    send for the doctor, quick, quick quick!
    In came the doctor, In came the nurse -
    In came the lady with the alligator purse".

    BaBi
    November 30, 2002 - 09:01 am
    ANN, the one I remember is: "First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes (the jumper's name)with a baby carriage!"

    Annie3
    November 30, 2002 - 09:59 am
    When playing jump robe we used two ropes turned opposite each other. One of the rhymes ended...salt, vinegar, mustard, pepper, and when pepper was said the ropes were turned much faster, funny thing to remember. My sisters and I read a lot of Bobsey Twins books. We didn't have real instruments but I remember putting toilet paper on combs and making music with those and using the pots in the cupboard for drums. And at night my Mom would read us a bedtime story from a book called 365 Bedtime Stories. One toy I remember having was a little metal sink, it has a little holding tank in back and when you put water in and turned on the little faucets the water would come out. At Christmas Santa would pick up our dolls a week early and then bring them back on Christmas Eve with all new clothes. It would take my breath away to see how pretty they looked. At a very young age I got what I call a snowball, but I think they're called snow globes today. It was at Easter time, a little yellow chicken inside. I still have that first one and I have collected many more through the years as a result of that childhood gift. And also in the summer in our town we had soap box derbys. Of course in those days it was a boys only race, but I helped build the cars and search for the parts. Those old orange crates worked swell for the bodies and you could always find wheels for it if you looked hard enough. Anybody else play stone school on the front steps in the summer?

    Malryn (Mal)
    November 30, 2002 - 10:14 am
    My favorite Christmas presents were a ream of paper and soft lead pencils like #2's because I loved to draw pictures. One year I received colored pencils. I made all of my own paper dolls. Drew the girl or man or children or all of them, cut them out and drew around them to make clothes with tabs so I could put them on the dolls. I designed my first house when I was 13 and designed all the furniture that was supposed to go in it.

    I always loved books, had a lot of them while growing up. I also loved music and spent hours practicing my piano lesson and just playing and singing for fun.

    I had a big bag of marbles, which we called aggies because many were made of agate, and in good weather I took that bag to school and played various marble games with the kids who had to stay at school during lunchtime because they lived too far away to go home and eat.

    I wrote the words and music for several songs and wrote a whole lot of stories. Because I had polio when I was 7, I couldn't play a lot of games the other kids could, so figured out things I could do by myself inside the house.

    I was alone in the house after school from age 11 on because the aunt and uncle who raised me both worked. I washed up the breakfast dishes, practiced my music and started supper every night before everyone came home at 6:30. After I finished my homework, I drew pictures or wrote songs.

    I never liked dolls. They were hard and cold and unnatural looking. I loved to cook, so began making soups and other things when I was very young, along with biscuits and gingerbread. That was like play to me.

    Mal

    Bill H
    November 30, 2002 - 11:28 am
    Babi, Barnes and Novle still carries "Eat of the Sun and West of the Moon"

    Does any one remember Tiddle-Winks? The game consisted of a bunch of flat round disks and a cup. The players would lay a disk in front of the cup and use another disk to snap jump it into the cup.

    Bill H

    annafair
    November 30, 2002 - 01:01 pm
    I still have an original Tiddly wink set ..it was in my husbands family..his mother played it as young child.

    Stone school? We used to play something where one person had a rock or a stone in thier hand and put thier hands behind their back and asked a question WHICH I HAVE FORGOTTEN and the rest of us sitting on the porch steps had to guess ? I dont rememeber that part either ..IF ANY KNOWS about that game PLEASE tell me ..my brain is getting sore from trying to remember...what a wonderful discussion this has been...thanks to everyone for sharing...anna

    nanaleni
    December 1, 2002 - 01:14 am
    I just happened on this thread and oh what memories!

    I had a "Betsy Wetsy" doll that came with a baby bottle and diapers. You put the water in one side and it comes out the other.

    And cut-outs and coloring books. I had Sonja Henie cut-outs with all her cute costumes and all kind of movie star coloring books. My Crayolas were kept in a purple metal Louis Sherry chocolate box.

    The library was my favorite place and I loved to read! There is a series noone seems to have heard of about a little girl named Maida. The books were "Maida's Little House, Maida's Little Store", etc. They were about a rich little girl whose father built her special places. And Robert Louis Stevenson's "A Child's Garden of Verses". How many children know "I have a little shadow..."?

    anneofavonlea
    December 1, 2002 - 06:34 am
    have just spent an hour on this great discussion.Living on a farm in Australia during and after the war, we had few toys. Our great delight was to play farms with dolly pegs(wooden clothes pegs)and marbles, both of which were plentiful.When I was 10 I received a klaidescope which was my most treasured posession untill the next christmas when i got a golliwog.How politically incorrect was that.My great reading delight were Archie and Veronica comics, which inspired in me a passion for reading which I still have. Well I have just spent all this time reading your wonderful posts. anne

    Ann Alden
    December 1, 2002 - 06:48 am
    Welcome to the all those new people who have joined us here.
    Malryn, Marilyne, nonaleni,anneof avonalon
    Glad you dropped in to tell us about your childhood toys and games. Did anyone read The Little Colonel books? I was referred to them by a girl friend and read them all. Shirley Temple was in a couple of movies made from the books. The writing was really surprisingly well done.We read the Bobbsey Twins, Nancy Drew, Cherry Ames, Candy Kane, all those wonderful series. And, of couse, the Hoosier Poet, since he had lived in my hometown of Indianapolis.

    I remember the little sinks with the water container in the back!!!! What a hoot! and Betsy Wetsy, oh my gosh! I had forgotten her completely. And, yes we collected bottle caps and played jump rope. It is good aerobic excise which I don't think I could accomplish today!

    I do remember what Annafair is describing with the rock. If you guessed right you got to go up or down the steps and then whoever reached the goal first was the next "teacher".

    Hop scotch was another cheap game to play. You didn't even need chalk if you could find a soft rock for drawing the playing field. My grans do play that on their driveway. I know because I have run over the field occasionally in the dark.

    Annie3
    December 1, 2002 - 08:22 am
    I thought we invented stone school, guess not. It was a fun game on a summer evening and we had a lot of steps leading to our house.

    Éloïse De Pelteau
    December 1, 2002 - 11:50 am
    Did anyone ever play with a button collection kept in a tin box? My mother always cut out the buttons before a garment was to be discarded? Because we didn't have many toys during the depression, those buttons would be used to spread on the floor and become a complete castle or a fortress with moat, towers, room after room, corridors, living room, kitchen and we would march our toys through the castle in each room trying to catch the thief or the bad man who kept hiding somewhere. I have kept a jar of buttons too, but not as big as my mother's who sewed more than I did. I don't remember how many years we played with buttons, and my children did too.

    Eloïse

    Faithr
    December 1, 2002 - 02:03 pm
    Eloise I still cut the buttons off everything that is going to be discarded. Wow, how many hours at age 4 and 5 I spent stringing like buttons on thread then tying it off so my Nana would have matching buttons when she sewed. I also helped cut the buttons off and cleaned out the thread from the holes. I remember teaching my little sister how to match and make sure the holes were the same as she would string all black together or all white until I helped her see the difference in them. As I grew older I began bringing home buttons from other places that I found them. I still do. I will stop to pick up a button as fast as a coin. Funny, that.

    We played all the conventional games at school, but I really think that the season for various games was pretty much the same in all schools. I dont remember which ones but the girls played jacks all year while boys were doing marbles, then mumblepeg, then other games.

    I remember that Golliwog because my in laws lived in Broken Hill Southern Rhodesia, S.A. until 1952 when the mom and sis with bil came home. Father had passed away. He was superintendent of mines there from 1939 till he died. They sent many little presents and some magnificent big ones. The Golliwog was one of my little girls favorite toys but got lost when she was about five and she has never forgotten him. He was knitted and had red shirt and blue pants.

    Bill I am going to buy that East of the Sun West of the Moon for a great-granddaughter . Thanks for the info. Hasn't this been a wonderful and nostalgic discussion. I could go on and on. Makes one want to go back and see ourselves. Faith

    Diane Church
    December 1, 2002 - 03:37 pm
    What an enormously fun discussion. I've read most of it but didn't have time to post till now.

    I loved hearing about the books we've shared - two I don't recall anyone else talking about were "Beautiful Joe", about a dog. How I would cry over that one. And another called "Mr. Wiggly" - about a goat. I can almost see the author's name - Leon Garis? no, maybe not quite. And several of the "Oz" series - long gone now but I did spy one at a swap meet and snapped it up. It looked so much like my very own, once upon a time copy (but it wasn't).

    And the trading cards - oh my. I would have thought it was a pastime that "we" had invented (small town about an hour north of New York City). Yes, Blue Boy and Pinkie were highly desireable. And I remember some really good kitten ones, and some scenes, and horses - all rubber banded together, by subject, in little stacks. For some reason I remember them as being mostly Congress cards - can still see those nice soft blue, velvety boxes.

    Big sigh.

    But one thing we did, not even a game, was play horses. This was a girl thing, like jump rope (red, hot PEPPER! - remember?). Anyway, we would be standing around, then a few of us would start stamping our feet, whinnying a little (honest!), and then gallop all over the place. I'm not sure why this was so much fun but it really was. Maybe because, like most little girls, we would have loved to have had our own horses but that just wasn't gonna happen,and this was the next closest thing (well, sort of). I'm so glad that TV wasn't around then.

    Another really good memory is of our family gathered around the fireplace on Sunday evenings playing a board game called "Clue". I think it's still available but haven't played it in decades and decades. It wouldn't be the same without my family gathered together so I won't even try to recapture that one.

    I thought this was going to be a somewhat dull discussion - how wrong I was!

    pedln
    December 1, 2002 - 04:05 pm
    Diane, are you talking about "Uncle Wiggly"? He was a rabbit. There were a lot of books about him, and also an Uncle Wiggly game.

    Ann Alden I loved James Whitcomb Riley and got a book of his poems one year for Christmas. Besides Orphant Annie there was the Bear Story, and the Raggedy Man, He worked fer Pa an he was the raggediest man you ever saw.

    I'm glad someone refreshed my memory about "Teacher" or "Stone School" as some of you call it. Interesting. And then there was "Mother, May I," but I'm not sure what we were asking unless it was to take "Giant Steps."

    It's really amazing, isn't it -- we have all lived in different parts of the world, but more or less same time frame, give or take a decade. And in spite of distance, so many of us played with the same toys, played the same games, and read the same books.

    And speaking of books. Oh, Elsie Dinsmore. My dad died when I was 8 so I spent part of that year living with an aunt and uncle in a small Wisconsin town. The minister's daughter and I became good friends, bonding instantly over a collection of Elsie books that she found at a reletive's house. I can still remember reading at the dining room table, and my aunt and her new DIL, recently come to live there too, asking me "Why are you crying? What's wrong?" and I would sob about the injustices done to poor Elsie.

    Diane Church
    December 1, 2002 - 04:12 pm
    Pedlin, YES, it was UNCLE Wiggly and he WAS a rabbit - not a goat! My, what funny tricks memory can play on us. Why am I picturing a goat on the cover, though? Can't shake that image. Thanks for the refresher.

    kiwi lady
    December 1, 2002 - 07:51 pm
    Eloise my granny had a huge tea box full of buttons.

    We put them in sets. Admired the elaborate ones with awe. We got out the kitchen scales and pretended they were candy and weighed it and sold "candy" to our siblings. They were the basis of mathematics to us and how we loved playing with the button box.

    Carolyn

    annafair
    December 1, 2002 - 07:53 pm
    My goodness, once I was chatting with a seniornet member that grew up in Canada and then lived in California..our memories were so similiar we would laugh and say we had the same mother but she lived in different parts of the states.

    We share so many memories ....it is really incredible. What is so wonderful about this is I thought I would NEVER have the opportunity to discuss with anyone again my memories from the past.

    What about musical chairs? something where someone shouted some word and then UPSET and we would all scramble for new positions? Go in and out the window? Drop the handkerchief? London Bridges Falling down? So many of these I played at birthday parties at my girlfriends houses.

    Statues I used when I was a Girl Scout leader ...I guess perhaps they were Brownies...I had 22 in a Church group and when the girls were too rowdy we would play statues. They loved it and I had a breather!

    Oops I just remembered it was Fruit Basket Upset someone would say when we scrambled for new positions. And what about using a ball to bounce up and down and say One two three O'learia and we would put our leg over the ball and keep bouncing it until the end and I have NO IDEA what the end was. It was a great game to play when you were alone. It is so sad to me these wonderful children's games are no longer being played. Instead all children spend too much time at the TV or playing games on the computer.

    Thanks so much for taking me back to my childhood. anna

    Ann Alden
    December 2, 2002 - 04:20 am
    You are all so interesting and we do seem to have been born and raised in the same town. Does anyone remember reading Alex Payson Terhune's books? One being, "Lad, A Dog". He was writing from experience since he owned several collies. There is even a website about the author and his Collies and his home, Sunnybank. AlexPaysonTerhune and still another: More Terhune sites

    Pedln, I went through the Riley Home and Museum just this past summer. Lived within 40 miles of it for years and passed it many times on our way home but had never been to the museum. I guess that his home in Lockerbey Square, in Indianapolis is also open to the public. I don't know about Johnny Gruelle's home. He's the author of Raggedy Ann and Andy books.

    Johnny Gruelle



    Johnny Gruelle, born in 1880, grew up in Indianapolis and went to work for a newspaper as a cartoonist at the age of nineteen. He eventually worked for the Indianapolis Sentinel and the Indianapolis Star. Legend has it that Johnny’s daughter, Marcella, approached him one day with an old faded doll that she had found and Johnny then painted a face on the doll. Inspired by fellow Hoosier James Whitcomb Riley’s poems “The Raggedy Man” and “Little Orphan Annie,” Johnny named the doll Raggedy Ann. With her shoe button eyes and winsome smile, Raggedy Ann, soon became the beloved playmate of Marcella.

    Ann Alden
    December 2, 2002 - 04:53 am
    Here's the site for James Whitcomb Riley's Lockerbie Square Home and Museum Riley's Lockerbie Home

    Éloïse De Pelteau
    December 2, 2002 - 06:13 am
    One game we used to have fun with was holding a partner's chin in thumb and forefinger and the other would do the same and the first one who laughed received a slap and at the same time, we had to sing this song:

    Je te tiens, tu me tiens par la barbichette,

    Le premier qui rira, aura la tapette.

    Meaning: I hold you, you hold me by my little beard, The first one who laughs will get the slap. How hard it was not to laugh looking at the partner in the eyes, and usually it was the funniest one in the bunch.

    Eloïse

    Coyote
    December 2, 2002 - 08:48 am
    Well, one thing is very certain to me - most folks posting on here still love toys. I hearby suggest we all buy ourselves one toy or game this Xmas - just because we want it. If you just can't afford to spend much, rescue some old treasured toy from your own stash or even from some yard sale. Or if you already have teddy bears or dolls, you could buy or make them something new. Oh, this toy can be shared with any kid, old or young, who wants to play with us, but it is to be ours. Why should we burden our grandkids or greatgrandkids with things we want and they don't? Then the end of the month, we can tell each other what we got for Xmas. Time to treat the little one still inside each of us - we have been good all year.

    Ann Alden
    December 2, 2002 - 08:51 am
    What a wonderful idea, Benjamin! I think that I do buy something for my husband every year because he loves things like old Erector sets, Tinkertoys. Of course, he only uses them with the grans. So, maybe, I will take your suggestion and reward the kid inside. Wow, the possibilities are endless!

    BaBi
    December 2, 2002 - 09:53 am
    Ann, I read all the Terhune books and loved them dearly. Someone on the Book Exchange was looking for Terhune books, but they are hard to find now.

    Ben, I indulge myself as needed with Sunday Crossword Puzzle books or jigsaw puzzles. My knees can no longer jump ropes, and my fingers are no longer nimble enough for jacks. Like Malryn, dolls were never a favored toy with me. But books, puzzles, and games...oh, yeah! ..Babi

    howzat
    December 2, 2002 - 10:01 am
    The first book in the series Elsie Dinsmore was the first book I ever "owned". Mother bought it used at a fire sale (they didn't have garage sales back then). I still have it (and several others, too). I must have read it, over the years, a dozen times. I've cried buckets of tears over poor Elsie.

    Howzat

    BaBi
    December 2, 2002 - 10:09 am
    I only read one Elsie Dinsmore book, titled (surprise!) "Elsie Dinsmore". I too was much moved by the noble, long-suffering little girl back then. When I picked up the book years later as an adult, I'm afraid I found her a frightfully self-righteous Miss Prim. Change in perspective, hmmm? ...Babi

    nanaleni
    December 2, 2002 - 12:03 pm
    I've been thinking and thinking of what we called hopscotch in Brooklyn, NY. It was potsy !

    Back in the olden days, there were so few cars that we could ride our bikes, skate and play games in the middle of the street. There was a game called Skelly we used to play with bottle caps. Can't remember another thing about it.

    Faithr
    December 2, 2002 - 01:16 pm
    Yes I am beginning to believe we were all raised in one town. I have been trying to remember who taught us the games we played. As far as I can remember it was the older children, certainly not adults and these universal games could be traced. I once had a chance to read an article in some magazine that traced games and nursery rhymes way back in time and gave a thought on the meaning such as London Bridge is Falling Down was to do with some real catastrophy on the bridge. And Ring around the Rosy was to do with the plague. Humpty Dumpty refered to a Stuart king who couldnt decide to be Catholic or Protestant. Things like that. I have not tried to research the thing I once read but think I will.

    But things like playing with Nana's buttons why that is world wide and could have been other things besides buttons that the grandmother collected and let the child play with. Made at home toys were fabulous. Some of the "rag" dolls were totally art as were their clothes. And remember the wooden jumping jack that grandfathers carved and strung together, the little wooden man that danced at the end of a string? Oh do grandparents do these things anymore. My daughter is a grandparent and she doesnt seem to do these things, instead she has computer games for them when they visit. That is the new world. Another granddaughter has even gotten the children their own keyboards. They hardly know any "childrens games" and the ones they do know they learn at birthday parties like Musical Chairs or Pin the Tail on the Donkey or Simon Sez.

    The sharing of memories also has a lot of pathos. Makes me so nostalgic but I am going to take Bens suggestion also and feed that inner child. Fr

    Bill H
    December 2, 2002 - 04:00 pm
    Faithr, glad I was of help in that "East of the Sun and West of the Moon" book.

    When I was, oh maybe, six or seven years old someone gave me a book titled "The Book of Knowledge." It was full of educational stories, rhymes and illustrations with young children in mind. One rhyme I still remember is " A frog he would a wooing go. Hi -ho said Anthony Raleigh." I can't remember the rest of that rhyme. Unfortunately I don't know what happened to the book. I did a google search and I found books with title, but there not the one I had in mind. Does anyone remember that book?

    Bill H

    goldensun
    December 2, 2002 - 04:31 pm
    Some of these toys I have never heard of, others bring back memories. Has anyone mentioned Rook and Authors yet? On long winter evenings we kids played many a hand of those. Rook can still be bought, but I have scoured garage sales and thrift shop, even e-bay once, looking for an Authors set from the forties for nostalgia's sake with no luck.

    Around 1950 several boys showed up at school with yo-yos and the craze was on! Soon all the boys and girls in the school were walking around spinning yo-yos. That was the first toy "craze" that I remember, but more would follow, like the hula hoop. Eventually toy makers got ahead of the game and began to "manufacture" crazes through well-timed advertising.

    We also played a game called roll-a-bat which was better than soft ball when boys and girls played together- no power hitting required. Can't recall the details except rolling the ball to hit a bat lying in the center of the field and doing lots of running and tagging- great fun!

    Annie3
    December 2, 2002 - 04:55 pm
    Ben I would buy myself some marbles, cats eyes I think and a steely for the shooter, I wonder if they still have those, I'll have to look. Authors, we played that a lot and when the deck would wear out Mom would get us a new one. That was a great game!

    Annie3
    December 2, 2002 - 05:07 pm
    I went searching on the web and found this Authors Card Game web site. I was surprised to find it. http://www.abookorgame.com/cgi-bin/unclesgames.storefront/en/product/0880791608?pa=pgt

    Faithr
    December 2, 2002 - 10:48 pm
    Bill I remember a book with that title. Seperately I remember the rhyme you quoted re: the frog. HOwever I also can not tie them together but I will do a little searching on that one too. I know we had a copy of a rather large book called The Book of Knowledge I just have a senior moment when trying to access more to that memory.fr

    goldensun
    December 2, 2002 - 11:48 pm
    That is terrific- thanks for that Authors link Annie3!

    Sasha 5113
    December 3, 2002 - 09:54 am
    Nanaleni! My gosh, the Maida books! I thought only Bostonians read them! Remember "Maida's Little Island"? Spectacle Island, a real island in Boston Harbor. Westabrook, was that their family name? Oh, what a wonderful memory! Thanks.

    highcedar and Annie3, Authors was a card game I also thought was New England oriented; so many of the pictures were of the Concord writers. But between those and the Classics Illustrated (NOT Classics Comics, heaven forbid!) comic books, my parents gave me a pre-school taste for literature. I remember aspiring to collect ALL the Classics Illustrated. (Of course, I'd sneak off with the occasional Dick Tracy, too. I remember one where they thought the bad guy was a Nazi, because his shoe left a swastika imprint. Then some forensics expert pointed out that the mark that was left was in reverse, and it wasn't a swastika at all. That's a lesson I've never forgotten.) And does anyone remember Plastic Man and his sidekick Woozy Winks? I think I was older by then, and able to enjoy the subtleties of the wit.

    For Ann A's stated mission in this discussion, my Lincoln Logs and Tinker Toys (actually my brother's, of course, in those pre-feminist times) developed my urge to build. So if anyone wants to stop by and hold a 2 x 4 for me ....

    In our house, The Book of Knowledge was a whole set of kids' encyclopedias, with annuals by mail every year. It even had little French lessons!

    Éloïse De Pelteau
    December 3, 2002 - 11:09 am
    We didn't know why our oldest brother was so meticulous of his toys, but his TARZAN collection was so precious to him that we were not allowed to read it except under strict supervision which was not often. He collected the Saturday Tarzan comic strip for at least 2 or 3 years so it had become a quite treasure. I can still visualize to this day what Tarzan looked like back in the 30's. That brother of mine never played a game unless he knew he would win which was almost all the time.

    Eloïse

    Ann Alden
    December 3, 2002 - 02:32 pm
    Do I remember "Authors" and Classics Illustrated? Two of my favorite things. I, too, feel that I received pretty good lessons in both the genres. We played Authors by the hour and read the Classics whenever they were published. When I was short of money, I used to sit at the drugstore counter with a coke and a "borrowed" Classics.

    Yoyo's? I thought that they appeared much sooner than the 50's. I remember the Oriental guy showing us his expertise with the YOYO on our school playground and I was in grade school in the 40's.

    You know, BillH, I remember the poem "Froggy Went A'Courtin' " but I don't know where I read it. I, too, will look around. Here are the words and the music: Froggy Went A Courtin' Music

    Good website, Annie3.

    Isn't it amazing what is available at our fingertips right here on the net? I love it!

    I didn't think about my building penchant coming from our Tinker Toys. All that I do know, is that I have a weakness for it. So far, we have designed and had built, three of our own homes in the last 40 years. The last one was done with CAD(computer aided design program) and I would sneak into the den and made changes in the plans in the middle of the night. But I am on another topic there! Sorry about that!

    goldensun
    December 3, 2002 - 06:43 pm
    Now that I think about it, Ann, the yo-yo craze I remembered was more like in 1946 or 47. We had already moved to Detroit by 1950 and yo-yos were long forgotten.

    There is no way to know the answer to this, but I still wonder- would my sister and I have loved Barbie dolls as much as our paper dolls? Somehow I don't think so. Our imaginations used to go into overdrive with the paperdolls, and the excessive realism of all the Barbie accessories seems to me more a hindrance than a stimulant to imagination. Or maybe it's just a different kind of play, neither better or worse. My daughter had Barbie and Skipper etc., but didn't show much interest in playing with them.

    Ann Alden
    December 4, 2002 - 04:45 am
    Yes, sometimes toys are too specific, aren't they? Actually, even when I had a doll house, I didn't play with dolls with it. I just constantly redecorated it. I loved that part of having the house.

    But, my two little granddaughters love to play with their Barbie dolls and use different voices for them,too. They are 5 and 4 and really enjoy the dolls. All four kids are very good at giving voices to many things. Puppets, soft toys, cars. You name it.

    Somemore fun things when I was growing up were wagons and scooters. We spent hours racing up and down our street in our wagons and racing our scooters. Also, we roller skated for years, even played hockey, wearing our skates and using a tennis ball. We had hockey sticks which had been broken in a real ice game. The hockey players cut the sticks down and then taped them for us. We were so impressed with ourselves. But we had such a good time.

    kiwi lady
    December 4, 2002 - 09:22 am
    Barbies

    Brooke my granddaughter aged 5 got her first Barbie at age 4. She has different names for all of the Barbies. None of them are called Barbie. The first one she called of all things Tapioca. Then came Heartstar then Sally and then Rose. I think she just loves the sound of the word Tapioca and Heartstar came at a period when she was fascinated with hearts and holding memories in your heart and love in your heart etc the star was because she likes the shape of a star and she was learning with her mother about planets and stars.

    Brooke and her two year old sister Grace also put on voices and the Barbies have great conversations. They take the Barbies in the bath and in the pool and play all sorts of imaginary games with them. If parents encourage their children to use their imagination they will get far more fun out of the unimaginative modern toys.

    Carolyn

    Bill H
    December 4, 2002 - 06:00 pm
    Faithr, I do believe it was a large book(not too large.) A blue cover with the title in gilt lettering.

    Ann, I found two sites with the rhyme "A Frog He Wood a Wooing Go." This one plays music while you are reading the rhyme.

    FROG 1

    This one has no music but I believe it is the one I'm refereing to.

    FROG 2

    You know, this is really silly.)

    Bill H

    nanaleni
    December 4, 2002 - 08:53 pm
    I didn't bookmark this thread and it's taken me two days to search you all out.

    SASHA 5113: I guess Maida got to New York too. I didn't remember much except how wonderfully imaginative the stories were and how you could dream about ever being that rich.

    I, too, had a Book of Knowledge set. As I remember they were like encyclopedias for youngsters. And the covers were blue!

    A book I still own is Charles Lamb's "Shakespeare for Children" (or something similar).Also, of course, "Little Women", "little Men","Hans Brinker"

    I grew up on 55th Street in Brooklyn. In the early '40s noone on our block had a car, and there weren't cars speeding by. So it was safe to play in the street and we were out of doors for hours.

    How things have changed!

    Faithr
    December 4, 2002 - 09:10 pm
    Yes,I am now remembering. The Book of KNowledge was a set (kind of like encylopeadias) for young people. We had them at our school as I remember. We also had a magazine that came once per month during school year anyway that was associated with the books I think. fr

    Sasha 5113
    December 4, 2002 - 09:34 pm
    "Highlights for Children." And it's still being published. "This is a watchbird watching ..." .

    Coyote
    December 5, 2002 - 07:15 am
    "This is a watchbird watching you" was done by Monroe Leaf(sp.) A great aunt bought me a couple of his books, one of which was Manners Can Be Fun - I wonder why???

    Ann Alden
    December 5, 2002 - 07:54 am
    Welcome back, nanaleni! Glad you persisted in your search for us. Yes, we did play in the street and my children who grew up on a deadend street of 18 homes, out in the country, also played in the street. My husband said that when he turned onto our street, it looked like a school playground. And, these kids, all had huge yards to play in, as we all had an acre of property.

    Mentioning books, I remember Little Women and Little Men and Jo's Boys! But, BenjLewis, did you ever read "What do you say, dear?" and "What do you do, dear?" They actually came out in the 50's and I read them to my kids. They are still available in the library and also, at B&N. They make a nice gift set for a child of 4-8 years. I just read them the other day to my grans while I was babysitting. And, of course, Children's Highlights,Sasha5113 and FaithR, are still around. In fact, my grans a now suscribe to that fine magazine.

    Bill H., glad you saw the two sites that I put up the links for here. And I imagine that those are the words. But, did you see the other Ancient words(scroll past the Froggy words) and different title to the song? Interesting! Seems that it is a very old song.

    kiwiladyYes, kids do have the imaginations and use them if we urge them to do so. My grandson, at the age of 2 or 3, had some imaginary friends that he named "The Tiny Guys" and they were brought up all the time. Then, his younger sister, joined in. The Tiny Guys raced my car on their motorcycles when the kids were there. The Tiny Guys also spent the summer at my house with their own homemade beds and pillows made by the two kids. I haven't heard much about them since these two started school this year. And, I really thought they were a riot. We even had to have their opinion about sleepovers and whether their busy schedule would allow them to join us. What fun we had with those guys! One day, while in the car going shopping, the two got into an argument about who's Tiny Guys were better. On and on, they compared their Tiny Guys. Whose was the fastest, whose was the prettiest, whose had what things and whose could sing. Finally, the girl says, "You know what, Grama, my Tiny Guys died and I feel really sad!" She topped the boy, for once. Competition among siblings is so fierce.

    patwest
    December 5, 2002 - 08:01 am
    I well remember the Watchbird... We once had the book.... Manners Can Be Fun... Wish I still had it.

    I found it for sale
    " Manners Can Be Fun Price: $200.00 Leaf, Munro: Good hb J. B. LIPPINCOTT PHILADELPHIA, NEW YORK 1936 cloth Front & Back cover has small spots. Inside front cover stamped X 2 with previous owners name. Pages clean & intact, yellowing. Back hinge is cracked. DATE PUBLISHED: 1936 EDITION: BOOKS017505I Merchant: Princeton Antiques Bookshop"

    Ann Alden
    December 5, 2002 - 08:10 am
    PatW, we were posting at the same time. I think I will pass on buying your $200 book. Egad!

    pedln
    December 5, 2002 - 08:50 am
    Benjamin, didn't Munro Leaf also write Ferdinand the Bull?

    I remember "Highlights for Children." Does anyone remember another children's magazine called "Jack and Jill"? One of its monthly articles was a story about a goldfish, Finny, who was always getting into trouble.

    Back up in central Wisconsin with my friend the minister's daughter -- we spent hours on her glassed in front porch playing with little rubber bricks, which must have been the forerunner of Lego. They were shaped just like them, but all one reddish rubber color. When we tired of that, we'd go out to the playroom in an old barn behind the house, wind up the old Victrola, and listen to "Yes, we have no bananas"

    Annie3
    December 5, 2002 - 10:04 am
    For quite a few years I got a Jack & Jill subscription from my Godmother for Christmas. I remember Finny the Fish well. I always looked forward to getting the magazine in the mail, it was such a great idea for a gift to a child. Story book dolls were what I played with as a child. I had a princess and little red riding hood and a beggar girl. They came in pink or blue polka dot boxes. Had arms and legs that moved and eyes that opened and closed. We also had a ping pong table in the basement that got a lot of use. The ping pong balls would dent easily but we found out if we held a lit match to the dent it would pop back out and we could continue our game.

    Faithr
    December 5, 2002 - 12:38 pm
    Those story book dolls are now collectables and my eldest daughter looks for them at every flea market and thrift shop and antique stores. She has 3 in very good condition but not expensive as they had some damage and no boxes. Still they are going to make a nice collection for her little granddaughter somedy.

    I remember my grandfather singing a Froggy would a wooing go but I do not remember which words he sang. Most of his folk songs were from memory that he had learned from his father and mother.

    Thinking over this discussion I remembered my bank. It was an iron bank painted and looked like a house. the coin drop was in the chimney and the locked front door was to open it. I kept the key in my journal book taped to the back page. I always saved a part of any money I received as a gift or worked for. Unless my mom needed money then all us kids shared in the grocery bill ..this after my dad was gone and we were pretty strapped for cash. I earned money dusting in the neighbors library and also in a little real-estate office owned by a friend. I also remember piggy banks galore among my contemporaries in the 30's. Most got broken open when families got strapped for cash. Still we were learning a lesson. Some kids had banks that played music or did other things when the coin was dropped. My little "house " was just a bank and I wonder where it went. Faith

    nanaleni
    December 5, 2002 - 09:44 pm
    Everyone seems so enthusiastic and has so much to share, I wonder if this ought to be a topic in the "Golden Age" area. Two weeks seems so short.

    Ann Alden
    December 6, 2002 - 07:21 am
    Yes, we all had banks of some kind or another. My brother had a horse, I had a pig. His was cast iron and mine was glass. Guess who's broke?

    Now that it is snowing here in downtown Gahanna, I am remembering the snowmen that we built and the forts for snowball fights. We also all skated, most of the time on 2nd hand skates. There was a big lake in Indy, named, Lake Sullivan, that had warming huts, with crackling bon fires and where we defrosted our feet and hands. My parents went skating with us, but we usually paired off with our school friends. Remember, crack the whip? What simple pleasures! Outside in the winter but warmed by family and friends and those bon fires.

    Diane Church
    December 6, 2002 - 07:25 pm
    Gee, this has been fun. My computer has been down with a bad virus (are there any good ones?) and so am playing catch-up on posts.

    I don't remember seeing any posts on playing in the sandbox. I just loved sitting out there, the warm sand around, and "designing" endless houses, no castles, but lots and lots of houses with elaborate driveways.

    Leaf Munro struck such a familar note - did he also write "It Happened on Mulberry Street"? No, no - that was a Dr. Seuss book....or was it?

    For years someone gave me a subscription to Children's Activities which I really loved. The only thing I specifically remember was that each month they published winners of the best drawings and the winners' ages were shown. I remember being amazed at how well other kids drew - and you could usually see the difference as they got older. But I always felt that I'd been short-changed on artistic abilities - I tried and tried to draw as well as the others, but, it didn't happen.

    Yes, we had ice skating, too - outdoors on the "duck pond" just outside of town that often froze over. Occasionally a few ducks froze into the ice but there was always someone to break the ice and set them free. I've always loved ice skating, especially outside, but one thing about the indoor rinks - you don't have to worry about falling through thin ice!

    Ann Alden
    December 7, 2002 - 06:04 am
    No, Diane, but you do have to worry about falling period. I am not too sure that skating would be healthy for me today.

    My dad built a huge sandbox for my brother and I but we preferred to play at a neighbor's because their's didn't have a bottom which meant that one never ran out of sand?(dirt).

    And, of course, there were always our bikes to take us anywhere we wanted to go. We took pretty good care of them. During WWII, my parents could only find a boy's bike for me to ride to school, with no fenders, painted black. Not much of a bike but it got me there. I was 8 or 9 at the time. One day, I noticed that a boy who was a class ahead of me, was riding a girl's bike with fenders and painted blue and white. Well, I offered my bike to him as a trade for his! And, he took me up on it. I was thrilled and rode home in great excitement. My mother nearly died and immediately called the boy's mother to what she wanted to do. Well, the boy's mother said that it was fine with her as her son had been mortified that he had to ride that girl's bike.

    Diane Church
    December 7, 2002 - 11:15 am
    Ann, I didn't admit that I only skate in my dreams these days! Although I think I would like to try again, I do remember that even as a kid the first few sessions of each season were pretty wobbly. Ah well.

    Nice story about the bike exchange.

    Ann Alden
    December 7, 2002 - 12:29 pm
    Not too much going on here today and I am getting ready to hand this discussion over to Nellie Vroylk tonight. I want to thank everyone who left a post or message here. I hope you all enjoyed this as much as I did. What great stories we all have. We all have a story to tell.

    So welcome Nellie tomorrow and keep on visiting this discussion.

    GingerWright
    December 7, 2002 - 12:57 pm
    Ann I have been enjoying the posts so much. Thank You for this discussion.

    Sasha 5113
    December 7, 2002 - 04:12 pm
    that WAS a good subject, and a pleasant one, too. Do think about carrying it over to another area, as (I think it was) nanaleni suggested.

    Ann Alden
    December 7, 2002 - 05:23 pm
    This has been so much fun! And, the people posting are the ones who made it that way.

    Nellie Vrolyk
    December 7, 2002 - 05:32 pm
    Ann, I have enjoyed reading this discussion on toys very much! Everyone has such marvelous memories to share.

    Tomorrow we will begin a discussion on an article on books, which are bestsellers but not in any way literary masterpieces as far as the critics are concerned.

    It should make for an interesting discussion...

    Bill H
    December 7, 2002 - 05:45 pm
    Ann, your discussion was

    Excellent!

    Bill H

    Annie3
    December 7, 2002 - 06:43 pm
    This discussion took me back to some very pleasant memories. What a kick to find out other kids far away were playing with the same toys and having fun playing the same games. Thanks for thinking of it.

    Faithr
    December 7, 2002 - 10:04 pm
    And a suitable ending to this discussion might be, for me anyway ,that on this Day in 1941 I saw beyond the tip of my fourteen year old nose and looked at a world in chaos.

    Though we had all been talking for a couple of years about getting into the war, and the adults around me for longer than that, it did come as a big shock to us that we were bombed at Pearl. That Sunday afternoon my life changed forever along with all those millions of others. I began to read the newspaper everyday, and that became a life long habit. I began to understand more about politics and to learn more about how it worked in our country. We still played monopoly and pick up sticks after dinner. And we listened to Jack Benny on our Philco and had a laugh but we cried too. I guess it was really the last day of my particular childhood even though I had married that summer (way too young) I had not really started to accept being a grown-up until that day. fr

    Ann Alden
    December 8, 2002 - 07:23 am
    Good morning, Nellie! This topic interests me as it comes up many times in our library group. Maybe we should be reading some of the obscure authors? I am printing the article to see what I can make of it. I do agree that we have menu driven prose out there today but it not only sells, its very readable. The "tostitos" and dip for the mind. Or cornflakes and bananas while I travel. Certainly not for the soul but these novels or mysteries do make my trips by car pass without too much boredom. Wonder what these professors think of Dickens. Don't you? And, in naming authors of this genre, they include Ken Follett who does write his spy books with a formula but also has written a wonderful historical fiction titled, "Pillars of the Earth". Also, they didn't mention LeCarre whose fiction is certainly different and has its own style. Especially "The Perfect Spy" which seems like a biography of the author. The No-Style authors are all about moneymaking and they admit that. Are the professors worried about us not having long lasting authors' talents to pass on to the next generation? A credible worry. But we do have William Least Heat Moon and his sojourns which are certainly different. Tee hee! Maybe we need to be looking at the historical fiction writers who wrap fiction around historical settings. Of course, they have a formula,too. How about Ernest Gaines books? He certainly writes as well as the author of "To Kill a Mockingbird".

    Coyote
    December 8, 2002 - 08:38 am
    I don't even read very much anymore. As long as what I pay for is boring because of it all following one formula or another which is already familier, I prefer equally mundane TV because I can knit, crochet, or work puzzles easier with TV than with a book. I have been surveyed several times. I still put reading down as a hobby, then get someone wanting to know which genere of books I like: mystery, medical, western, romance, etc. They never leave a place where I can fill out what I like in fiction, outdoor settings rather than cities, more animals and fewer machines, one primary protagonist rather than many, who is developed well and followed over more than one situation.

    I have spent entirely too much money in the last twenty years or so, on books which turn out to be much like prepared food - no taste and not very satisfying. I can still cook my own food, but do I have to write my own books, too?

    Ann Alden
    December 8, 2002 - 10:13 am
    Good on, BenLew, isn't it the truth! Hahahaha! write your own? Yes, I too prefer watching the mundane on TV or listening to the mundane on the radio(does not include Prairie Home Companion) so that I can crochet or sew or work puzzles. Am I am getting rid of all my mundane books immediately? No, I can still trade them for something more meaningful at the used book stores. Or, give them to friends who are looking for a "good beach read". I still prefer historical non-fiction which at least leaves me feeling that I am learning something and enjoying it.

    Nellie Vrolyk
    December 8, 2002 - 12:35 pm
    Ann, I like your phrase "menu driven prose" and the thought that it sells and is very readable. That is true, the no-style books are easy to read and very popular. I've been thinking about this and wondering why these books with their simple plots and characters are so popular. In some way they must satisfy some need in people, otherwise they would not be so well liked.

    I think the "easy to read" part is sad because it tells me how much reading skills seem to have deteriorated. It also tells me that many people are not willing to take the time to read a book with some meat to it.

    Benjamin, interesting, isn't it? that even the simplest book demands all of our attention; and we cannot read and do handwork at the same time. I like your likening many of the books you have read to bland prepared foods; and that preparing your own food makes for a more tasty meal; and perhaps writing your own book would result in a more "tasty" book.

    Alas, we can't all write our own books. Nor would we want to, for writing a book is hard work.

    Besides, if I wrote my own book, it would probably turn out to be one of those menu driven, no style, potboilers with hardly any redeeming value - just like the ones mentioned in the article.

    More thoughts coming up later on...

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    December 8, 2002 - 12:47 pm
    Hehehe - to me this is 'much ado about nothing' When I was a kid in school I remember Dickens being derided as a magazine writer since his books came to America we were informed as monthly excerpts in magaizines - now what is funny about this to me is during my early marriage when magazines where worth their two cents (the cost of Woman's Day only available in the A&P) The classic Tristram and Isolda was printed over several months in the Ladies Home Journal

    To me each his own - I prefer to choose new books in a book store so that I can read a bit of the book to see if it is meaty enough for me. If a book doesn't have a few words for me to look up in the dictionary or a few concepts that challange me further then I toss it off - you can almost tell by the cover what kind of read the book will provide. Those with a slick Madison Avenue look with dramatic lettering and a shocking graphic I know will pabulum.

    But just like TV - some of us will watch things like Wheel of Fortune and others of us will stay up late to see Charlie Rose. And sometimes, for a change of pace, the Charlie Rose crowd will watch Wheel of Fortune and the reverse for the Wheel of Fortune crowd.

    This article sounds to me like someone who is making a snob statement hoping to create chit chat - which she is - about what is worth reading and publishing and then we can go on and cluck over the deplorable state of education and oh my where will it all lead. Sorry...but people who judge others choice of reading I find insufferable.

    And if the issue is one of ethics about making money - well than just stop supporting the authors that are not giving their best. But we don't do we - many folks like to read for 'enjoyment' as they say and do not want to be challanged. A serious read is not an easy read. Enjoyment is in the eyes of the beholder. Some of us like baking a cake from scratch and other's of us have other things to do with our time and have not practiced the skill sufficiantly to be assured of a great cake and so the Bakery supplies the cake. For many of us there is no longer a local Bakery and so it is the supermarket. Let's face it all the supermarket bakery cakes taste the same!

    kiwi lady
    December 8, 2002 - 08:04 pm
    I have to say there have not been many books which have stuck in my mind over the last 20 years. I love the classics. I think what I have got sick of is that the potboilers are full of either explicit sex for sex's sake or violence for violences's sake. Same with today's movies don't you think? Guess this is what sells today! I must say that I enjoyed "Shipping News". I have enjoyed most of the Pulitzer prize books in recent years.

    Carolyn

    Ann Alden
    December 9, 2002 - 06:17 am
    I thought these two articles very insightful and maybe you would all enjoy them: Becoming a Book-Part 1 and this one: Becoming a Book-Part 2

    Coyote
    December 9, 2002 - 08:40 am
    NELLIE - I have knitted and read at the same time, but it is awkward. I used two clothespins to keep the book open and knitted on the non-thinking leg part of a four-needle sock a time or two. The book was due to be returned to the book mobile and the sock was needed for a gift or somesuch. But I wouldn't recommend the process. Changing the clothepins slows the flow - of stitches and words. I have wondered about trying a music stand with metal page holders, but never tried it.

    BaBi
    December 9, 2002 - 10:39 am
    Interesting article. On thinking about it, I realized that with Clancy, Clark and Cook, I read some of their books and enjoyed them, yet then didn't bother picking them up anymore.

    I can think of reasons why people might prefer 'easy' reading. Those who have been into heavy brain work all day want something fairly mindless for relaxation. Busy people, like mothers, for example, can only read in bits and snatches and need something they can put down and pick up and not worry about losing a deep train of thought. I was a fairly fast reader until I had small children to tend. Never fully regained the knack.

    BEN, from your description of the kind of books you enjoy most, I'm wondering if you have read Nevil Shute's books. Strength of character is a keynote for him.

    ..BABI

    kiwi lady
    December 9, 2002 - 12:06 pm
    Yes Nevil Shute is a good writer and many men enjoy his books. Bryce Courtenay is also a very good writer and can write in three distinct styles. I enjoyed "April Fools Day" the story of his sons life and death. It was very helpful to me as I read it when my husband was in the last few months of his terminal illness. I have now read most of his other works. He is an Australian writer. Tommo and Hawke is a good novel about Colonial Australia. There is even a bit of Maori culture and a bit about NZ colonial days in this novel too. I think there is a sequel to Tommo and Hawke. I have not read it yet.

    Carolyn

    Bobbiecee
    December 9, 2002 - 03:43 pm
    Carolyn, I read all of Bryce Courtenay's books. I have the hard copies of all of them. Krysti has bought all of them for me. I also have the hard copy of his latest book 'Four Fires' but haven't read it yet. Solomon's song is the sequel to Tommo and Hawk.

    Bobbie

    Ella Gibbons
    December 9, 2002 - 04:57 pm
    Having read the article twice now, I am familiar enough with it to say that three-fourths of it is criticism of the No-Stylists. It is very easy to criticize isn’t it and it is what commentators, reporters, reviewers and the like get paid to write, just as the Grisham’s of the literary world get paid to write.

    Personally, I don’t want reporters or reviewers telling me what to read! I don’t know this reporter and how qualified Linton Weeks is to tell me or the public what is and what isn’t good literature.

    Furthermore, I don’t believe in conformity - as an individual I will make up my own mind what I like to read. I will not read a book because others (reviewers, friends) say it is good literature; conversely I will not put down a book I enjoy because a reporter or a friend tells me it is a no-brainer. I am an adult; furthermore, I am a retired adult and am not being judged or graded on my reading habits or material.

    I enjoy reading many kinds of books; ordinarily I bring home 6 books from the Library which I visit probably, on the average, of once a week and from these books I will read, on the average, two of them. Nonfiction appeals to me, I learn from it, I love to share the ideas in the book with others.

    But we are not all alike, thank heavens! We all do not like the same books, thank heavens!

    Some want to “plot (plod?) along” – others want to learn as they r3ead.

    The reviewer in the Washington Post article had this to say about good literature –

    “The most durable thing in writing is style," according to Chandler, "and style is the most valuable investment a writer can make with his time. It pays off slowly, your agent will sneer at it, your publisher will misunderstand it, and it will take people you have never heard of to convince them by slow degrees that the writer who puts his individual mark on the way he writes will always pay off."

    Vladimir Nabokov put it this way: "An original style is the only true honesty any writer can ever claim." Writing with a style "puts the human dimension beneath the occurrence," she says. "It isn't that there is action and then there is style. It's that the style, the action, the plot and the events embrace each other and belong together. If you read a book that is written with style -- well-written, that is -- it comes to you not as bare occurrence, but as something that has come through someone's imagination."

    Cormac McCarthy, Terry McMillan and Michael Chabon are among today's best-known stylists. Chabon says, "A voice, not merely recognizable, but original, unique, engaging and above all derived from, reflecting, and advancing the meaning of the story itself, is necessary to good and worthwhile literature."

    Whatever happened to the cadences and fireworks and transcendent detail of Mark Twain, Katherine Anne Porter, Richard Wright, Terry Southern, John Cheever, Flannery O'Connor and James Baldwin? There are the few dinosaurs left -- Tom Wolfe, Hunter Thompson, John Updike and J.D. Salinger.

    Here are the opening lines of Chabon's "The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay": "In later years, holding forth to an interviewer or to an audience of aging fans at a comic book convention, Sam Clay liked to declare, apropos of his and Joe Kavalier's greatest creation, that back when he was a boy, sealed and hog-tied inside the airtight vessel known as Brooklyn, New York, he had been haunted by dreams of Harry Houdini."

    While the books of great stylists usually demand a greater commitment from the reader than the No-Style offerings, the literary and artistic payoff can be rewarding.

    Though Hemingway wrote short, simple sentences, he had style. Nobody sounds like him.

    In great literature -- that is, the swirling, surprising and sometimes unsettling prose that saves souls and redefines reality -- plot, detail, language, characters, point of view, truth, beauty and other intangibles all clamor to be at the top.

    Style! Who decides it? Can't it be me or you?

    Diane Church
    December 9, 2002 - 05:31 pm
    Nice post, Ella. I enjoyed what you had to say. It reminded me of something I was thinking of recently - time after time I return from the library with a book (or more) that I had never heard of, nor the author, and find it an absolute gem. Maybe it's just because there are so darned many good books and we'll never get to the end of reading them all. Don't know if that makes me glad or sad.

    And now I guess I better click on the link and read it so I can be on topic.

    Nellie Vrolyk
    December 9, 2002 - 05:38 pm
    Great posts all!!

    We all like to read different types of books and I think that is good. I happen to enjoy reading books by the authors mentioned in the article and don't at all feel guilty about it.

    Who decides about an author having a writing style, you ask Ella. I think it should be us readers and not the critics. I disagree on the columnist's saying that writers like Dean Koontz and Robin Cook as having 'no style': I bet, that if I were given a sample page from each of their newest books -one that I had not yet read- I could tell you which author wrote which piece because to me they do have recognizable ways of writing.

    One more thought: maybe lots of folks enjoy the books in which the good guys are always good and the bad guys are always bad; and in which the good guys always win because it is sometimes the way they/we wish things were in real life?

    Benjamin, I had to chuckle at your knitting and reading at the same time. Did you ever get clothespin and knitting needle mixed up in the process?

    You are all making this a great discussion

    kiwi lady
    December 9, 2002 - 08:04 pm
    Love Hemingway too! Love Dickens, the Bronte's. Love Mark Twain too! Daphne Du Maurier. Love Grishams novels for a relaxing read. Like two or three of the American Crime Writers. Patricia Cornwall? stands out for me. Love Johnathon Swift. I could go on and on. Still love Louisa M Alcott and Anna Sewell and the Anne of Green Gables series! Shed copious tears over Black Beauty as a child! Still like reading all those classics from my girlhood!

    Carolyn

    pedln
    December 10, 2002 - 08:16 am
    Bravo Ella! Well said.!

    You stated my feelings exactly, but you said them much more eloquently.

    Plotting Along. After reading the article I felt much the same as I did several years ago after attending an organ concert. I asked a clergyman who had also attended how he liked it, and he proceded to point out not only all the errors made by the organist, but also the poor quality of the music. My response to him was that I was indeed fortunate not to know as much as he because I was able to enjoy the concert so much more.

    Ginny
    December 10, 2002 - 10:24 am
    I’m really enjoying all the comments here, Ella, well said.

    Wonderful choice, Nellie!

    I am finding it staggering the authors that Linton Weeks chooses as his examples of No Stylists and Stylists.

    The opinion of a critic is only that: his opinion. Some of them, as Marvelle noted in another discussion, have no credentials themselves.

    This one looks well written till you come to the examples.

    It’s true a lot of books seem to follow a pattern. It’s true some of them are not memorable. It’s true that some of the romance publishers require their writers to use a formula outline, I’ve seen one. One of my grape customers writes Romance books under a lot of different names.

    It’s true some of them are formulaic.

    But to call Stephen King a no stylist with no plot and no memorable titles is ridiculous. That piece he wrote about the father and son in the supermarket will haunt me all the rest of my days, in the Bachman books. Here are some titles from memory: Pet Sematary? No originality? Christine? Thinner? NO originality? The Shining? No plot? The Running Man? No originality? Salem’s Lot? No originality or plot?

    Jeepers. King has a voice like no other, and so do quite a few of the others mentioned. Where King went wrong, and the reason the serious critics do not consider him seriously, is in too areas: first, his honesty: he admits he’s doing it to exorcise his own demons. He states flatly ANYBODY can write a book who sits at a typewriter for 5 hours a day (sacrilege) He admits publicly HE’S not great and points to Shirley Jackson AS great and she was. Secondly King takes it too far, he pushes the envelope, he makes people squirm, he doesn’t need to do it, but he does. And because he does, he’s scorned. I had to quit reading him, myself, in the one about the author captured, but that does not mean the man can’t write.

    It’s true some in series sound alike, Crichton sounds like Crichton, is that bad? Straub sounds like Straub. (that’s good) who are the two doctors always writing about epidemics, theirs always sound the same, they should: it’s their own style. If you want Hemingway’s style (ugg) or that of Faulkner (ugg, sorry) then you read them, some of what they wrote IS good. Some is not.

    Penelope Fitzgerald and Grace Paley, anybody’s idea of a different voice and stylistic writing, wrote in abbreviated style, but Fitzgerald, at least, won prizes, I don’t know about Paley. Does winning prizes make that type of style OK, then?

    Chabon and the Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay. We read that here. It’s the biggest nothing I ever read. Nothing. It was one of our most Amazing discussions because of what the Discussion Leader, Charlie Wendell, found IN it to discuss, the continuing and alive interactive annotations he made painstakingly for each reference. But the writing? Oh yes I gushed over it , I’m on record there as raving over it because we had the knowledge the author was reading it, but behold? When the plot faltered at the end, when it simply unraveled, what was the reader left with?

    What remained was what the reader had in the beginning, lots of questions with no answers, a store house full just like the character in Spelling Bee, of purloined images and phrases and references thrown together like a kaleidoscope, sound and fury signifying nothing, at least in my view, and certainly nothing to write home about, I don’t care what it won.

    Does it come down to confidence in your own taste, then? What DO you have confidence in? What does the public flock to read?

    Have you noticed what’s on the NY Times bestseller hardback fiction lists lately?

    I think this topic is fabulous, Nellie, and something we all need to discuss, thank you for bringing it here.

    What’s the best written book you’ve all read lately? That might tell the tale right there?

    ginny

    Mary W
    December 10, 2002 - 10:36 am
    Hi everyone: It's time for my semi-annual post to a discussion group. This particular topic is one I like.

    ELLA, my friend, I do agree with you that style is very important. Since I am primarily a reader of fiction I consider content equally important. Even in works of fiction. How many times has one read a delightfully written novel and after the last page asked oneself "what the h--- was that about?'--a complete waste of time.Conversely, how many times do we struggle through a work of non-fiction that is so dully written that it becomes a real chore to finish it. But doesn't everyone remember histories or other books that were so delightfully written that we sailed through them and not only enjoyed them but the contents were indelibly impressed upon us.

    It takes both style and content.

    It has frequently struck me that best-selers are not always worth reading. It stands to reason that if a book is written that appeals to a very large public it is often on a level-both stylistically and in content- it is not for a discriminating, demanding or seasoned reader. Perhaps this is a bit of intellectual snobbery but I remember so much junk that was on the best seller lists.

    The classics that are still read and enjoyed today are great example of literature that employed an interesting style of writing coupled with believable content. The best!

    kiwi lady
    December 10, 2002 - 12:24 pm
    I think for me there are times I don't concentrate so well so I read a pot boiler. I read fairly widely but have never been able to get into Stephen King. I am not a fan of horror tales which is how I regard his writing. I have one son however who has read everything he has ever written. I know a lot of people who are into fantasy novels. Some of them are regarded as great literature such as The Lord of the Rings Trilogy. The CS Lewis books etc. One son reads fantasy as a preference. Again Fantasy is not my first choice.

    I like books with very developed characters. I like to know what makes the characters tick and I have found these characters in the most unlikely places such as in crime novels. The books may not be great literature but the characters are very well developed. This makes particularly the ones which use the same characters in each novel like old friends. I had never read crime novels until about two years ago when I had read so many books I could not find one I liked in my usual catagories so I began to read out of the crime and mystery sections.

    Carolyn

    BaBi
    December 10, 2002 - 12:59 pm
    PEDLIN, I loved your response to the music critic. And it's so true. It's so much more enjoyable to be open to what's offered, and not be there to criticise.

    Mary, your post made me smile. I can also remember (and don't spread this around)thinking "What on earth was that all about?" following a particular preachers sermons. Nameless, of course.

    Ginny, I think the best-written books I've read lately are Michael Malone's. I've read three; a novel and two mysteries, and they are exceptionally well-written. ..Babi

    Faithr
    December 10, 2002 - 01:10 pm
    I have an eclectic taste in fiction and have read a little of every thing. Some wonderful plays too and poetry. I also have spent a lot of time reading non fiction. There is also a type of fictionalized biography that I love like the ones of Vincent Van Gough and many others I have read. As to agreeing with the critic who wrote the article above in heading, I do not agree that those authors she chose to say had no style have no style. I for one can read a few pages of Faye Kellerman and a few pages of another and tell hers. Same with Stephen King. Ginny had it just right and her post would make a much better critic of fiction writing than the author of our article, when it comes down to that and I agree with what she h ad to say.

    I love reading non fiction and go to the local library and read articles in major magazines such as Pschology Today, the Atlantic monthly and New Yorker also some foreign magazines have been appearing there lately. I will have to investigate those before commenting.

    I started reading newspapers when I was in Kindergarden as my grandfather taught me my abc's out of the newspaper and all the easy words too as sight reading so then in first grade when I bumped into phonetics it was a natural step and I was reading whole articles in the paper way before I understood them. So I like and admire many styles of writing. I don't like to read any pornography or even soft pornography. It really irritates me to come across explicite sex in a book and in modern books they always through it in and it seldom is necessary to describe the act...a simple remark abut the act taking place should be enough. And swearing also irritates me. I will still read the book but just skip the irritating sentences. My husband said I was a prude and maybe I am. I have not let my disdain for some parts of the language keep me from knowing what it all means and where it all leads however faith

    BaBi
    December 10, 2002 - 01:21 pm
    Books, Faith? How about movies? Whatever happened to the delicate 'fade-out' that left the rest to one's imagination? IMHO, watching most of today's films would require a taste for voyeurism. ...Babi

    Nellie Vrolyk
    December 10, 2002 - 04:04 pm
    I love all your posts!

    I trust my own taste in reading; after all, I'm the one who reads the books I choose for myself, and no one else. I'm not going to hand a book I have picked out to read to my mother and tell her to read it for me. Reading tastes are very individual and no one should feel embarrassed by their choices.

    Ginny, you ask us what we have read lately that we consider well written: for me it is Dean Koontz's One Door Away From Heaven. The story is full of excitement for that is the type of stories he writes. But it is the characters I loved; specially the young girl, Lelani Klonk, with her left leg in a brace and her crippled hand and lots of spunk. She rings true for me.

    I'm short of time, so will return later with more.

    TigerTom
    December 10, 2002 - 05:13 pm
    All,

    One of the problems in our modern age about Art, Music, and Writing is that the Critics have failed us, badly.

    For the most part the Critic of today is afraid to call bad work, bad work. So, we have art that isn't really very good, Music that grates on the nerves and books that seem to be churned out by a copy machine. Critics will not pan something because they are afraid they might miss the latest fad or possibly a new, and really good Artist, composer or writer. It has happened in the past and today's Critics, fearful for their jobs, won't take the risk. We pay for that.

    I would rather a Critic write honestly even if he is wrong or I don't agree with him. The person who wrote this article said what he believes. We might not agree with him but at least he has the courage to print his belief's.

    I can remember years ago reading in the Washington Post a critic reviewing a piece of Modern Art: A hole dug in the ground by an "Artist" The Critic didn't have the courage to: refuse to review the thing or to call it a sham or to say that he didn't believe it was art in any sense of the word.

    Tiger Tom

    Bill H
    December 10, 2002 - 08:00 pm
    To say Stephen King has no style is like saying Leonard Bernstein couldn't play the piano.

    I would like to add two more to Ginny's Stephen King list of books. "The Dark Tower" series a creation in itself, and, of course, "The Stand." I apologize for saying this, but those who claim King writes with no style lack reading imagination.

    Bill H

    Ann Alden
    December 11, 2002 - 05:16 am
    I don't know about Stephen King as the last book that I read of his was "The Shining" but I have enjoyed the movies that were made from his offerings.

    What makes me wonder about this critic is that I enjoyed the series of Tom Clancy's about Jack Ryan(haven't read them all), and Dale Brown's Jake Grafton, Robert Ludlum, And my personal favorite, Dirk Pitt brought to us by Clive Cussler! They are like reading super hero comics without the pictures. They are Batman and Robin hoots! And, some of them are politically up to snuff, especially Tom Clancy and Dale Brown. Read "Storming Heaven" by Dale Brown and shiver to the realization that this is the story of 9/11 but told in 1994! Where did that some from? And, Len Deighton's Hook, Line And Sinker series? Good books and well written. They are pot boilers or menu driven stories in some instances but fun reads. Keeps one out of trouble and out of the food pantry! And, from the women, what about P.D. James, Ruth Rendell, The Western Women Writers who put together the stories of the women who, as they say, won the West. This is why I wonder what the critic thinks about Dickens who wrote his wonderfull social commentery in fictional series form for the local, and then international, newspapers or magazines.

    I think we all know about the publishing advertising ploys and we are adult enough to pick and choose what we read. When I worked at a bookstore, I read Publisher's Weekly, and discovered that the Best Seller List came from the records of the big publishers and book warehouses. My boss told me that the list is put together by counting the number of books ORDERED by the country's bookstores. Not by the number of books sold!

    Coyote
    December 11, 2002 - 07:29 am
    PEDLN and BABI - It is so very true that knowing too much can ruin enjoyment all too often. I always made it a policy never to take a good waitress out to dinner.

    pedln
    December 11, 2002 - 08:03 am
    LOL Ben, what about taking a good cook?

    Do you remember just about a year ago on this site we were discussing an article by R.B. Myers? As I recall (perhaps incorrectly) he was fussing about the big words and long descriptions by so-called "notable writers," saying that they were a distraction. It sounds like everyone's a critic and one person's meat is another's poison. My opinion -- if it reads good, do it.

    Coyote
    December 11, 2002 - 08:14 am
    I have often enjoyed books with no sequels, or no good sequels. These are often stories which contain an awful lot of truth from the author's own life and experiences growing up, etc. He/she pours so much real feeling into the first book, but can never do it again. Of course, publishers want just the opposite. They want and author who can not only sell well, but shows promise of selling over and over again.

    One good example of that great first book is The Clan of the Cave Bear. Jean Auel was a very bright woman who must have experienced the same feelings her heroine did while she grew up, so the first book was ever so much richer than any of her subsequent novels. I believe the ideas and insights she shared in that first novel were far above her actual writing skills.

    I guess I prefer those real feelings anytime over the fantasy, action and violence which fill so many of today's books and movies.

    Bobbiecee
    December 11, 2002 - 08:38 am
    Ben, I agree with you....Clan of the Cave Bear was by far the best of the series....The same is true of the trilogy by Bryce Courtenay. The first one, 'The Potato Factory' was by far the best, although I did enjoy the second two...mainly because they offered history of my nation, my country. The Wilber Smith series about Africa are another example, although I did enjoy both of the books he wrote about ancient Africa.

    I have been reading this discussion, but not contributed. I tend to read what I feel I'll be interested in, rather than best sellers. I prefer historical novels and good detective novels. I pay little attention to what the book reviews say, feeling that in many cases, the reviews are manipulated depending on the amount of money, etc, that has been passed under the table. I do, however, pay heed to what the librarians at my branch of the library say. They have directed me to many a wonderful, deep and truly literary book.

    Bobbie

    MaryZ
    December 11, 2002 - 10:29 am
    This had been a good discussion. Currently, I like to read mysteries - usually series with continuing female protagonists - but not limited to that. A recent non-fiction book I found fascinating was "Guns, Germs, and Steel" by Jared Diamond.

    I rarely read reviews. IMHO, the reviewer has his/her reasons for liking a book, and my reasons might be entirely different. Also, if it is a book I'm sure that I'll read, I find that the reviewer usually gives too much of the plot. I'd rather discover for myself how the story unfolds.

    Mary

    BaBi
    December 11, 2002 - 11:29 am
    Ben, I feel the same way about "Dune", and it's sequels. I consider "Dune" one of the best SF books I've ever read, but the follow-ups were disappointing. After the first couple, I stopped reading them.

    Tiger, I discovered early on that anything a movie critic panned, I would probably enjoy. The ones that were highly praised I sometimes found downright unpleasant. Artistic snobbishness seems to me to be criteria #1 for many critics. As to books, I rarely read a book review. Actually, I find the discussion here to be a better guide to finding great new books and authors. ...Babi

    Marjorie
    December 11, 2002 - 11:32 am
    ANN: Thank you for pointing out how Best Seller lists are created. When I worked at a bookstore, I read Publisher's Weekly, and discovered that the Best Seller List came from the records of the big publishers and book warehouses. My boss told me that the list is put together by counting the number of books ORDERED by the country's bookstores. Not by the number of books sold! My background is business and math and not books although I love to read.

    BENJAMIN: I agree with you about Clan of the Cave Bear. I was very disappointed with the next two books in the series. I haven't yet read the latest one. We have it in the house but it is not high on my list of books to read.

    BOBBIE: Maybe I will look for The Potato Factory since you are comparing it to Clan of the Cave Bear

    kiwi lady
    December 11, 2002 - 11:44 am
    I have the Bryce Courtenay newest novel on request from the library. It is called "Matthew Flinders Cat" read the jacket on the pay to read stand - looks good! There are 49 people ahead of me so it looks like a years wait! LOL There is more than one copy on the shelves! As expenses rise here my days of buying books are over but I can afford to buy the occaisional book on sale. It costs $5 to get immediate access to a book on the pay to read stand. I begrudge paying the fee and having no book at the end of it so I am patient enough to wait my turn. This novel would make a great movie hope someone picks it up. You can see I am a Bryce Courtenay fan!

    Carolyn

    Nellie Vrolyk
    December 11, 2002 - 02:46 pm
    More excellent posts from everyone!

    It seems we all have different ways of deciding which new book, or even old books to read. But most of us read what we like to read and pay little attention to what critics and reviewers think we should be reading. I think that is good!

    Something that I like to do is to go into the fiction section of the library and grab books off the shelves at random without looking and taking them home to read. I've found some good books that way and quite a few that were not up my alley; but it gets me out of any reading rut I may be in and exposes me to new authors.

    I have a question for you all: Do we automatically assume that a book which is easy to read is badly written? How do you judge bad writing?

    I love all your posts and come by here first of all to read.

    MaryZ
    December 11, 2002 - 03:05 pm
    I read mostly for pleasure. If a book does not capture my interest within the first 50 or so pages, I stop reading, and start something else. I got one recently by Patricia Cornwell (an author I mostly enjoy), and decided after the first couple of chapters that I didn't care if ALL the characters were killed off on the next page - and at that point, I returned it to the library. I have no compulsion to finish a book, just because I started it. (I do the same things with movies I check out from the video store.)

    Mary

    Bill H
    December 11, 2002 - 07:03 pm
    You know, I could never understand how a person would allow a critic to influence his/her judgment as to what to read or see. After all, critics are just people who presumably have read a lot of books or watched a lot of movies. They have likes, dislikes and prejudice. I believe prejudice is sometimes the guiding factor. A favorite author/friend gets a five star review, while another author, who has fallen from the critics grace, gets a poor review.

    I seldom if ever read the reviews about a book. I'll visit a bookstore, meander through the isles of my favorite genre, and if a book catches my interest I'll read the synopsis on one of the fly pages and then sit down in a comfortable chair provided for the purpose and read a few pages. This is usually enough to determine my like or dislike and very seldom has my judgment failed me. Heavens forbid I should ever become so weak-minded as to allow another person to determine what I like before I even see it. Am I alone in this or do some of you share my opinion?

    Have any of you read some of Clive Barker's works? I have and the one I shall never forget is "The Great and Secret Show." This book is an excursion in complete fantasy, fantasy the likes of which I've never read before. One would've had to read the book to understand what I mean. I bring it up here to make a point. I chose this book by using the method I described earlier and I found the novel very entertaining, and whether or not a critic gave it a good or bad review doesn't alter the fact that it provided me with entertainment.

    Bill H

    kiwi lady
    December 11, 2002 - 07:39 pm
    Bill - Yes that is what I do to choose a book. I have to mainly use audio books now as I have a soft tissue ailment that makes wearing my glasses torture for more than half an hour or so. There are some very good books out on audio now and our library service is very good at spending money on them. At the moment I am listening to a crime novel called "The Attorney" its a good light listen before bed- not too violent.

    I have started to read foreign novels too and have three by Chinese authors. Very interesting.

    Carolyn

    angelface555
    December 11, 2002 - 07:55 pm
    I came here and found myself nodding yes to so many of your posts. I am also one who just skips the sex scenes to get on with the book. I also feel that books, because they engage your imagination; are more vibrant then movies.

    Movies just load up on gore and special effects to sell. The books being pushed by the publishers are done in my opinion, the same way a jury is scrutinized for a trial. There is nothing in there about quality. I never saw the movie, but Stephen King's book, "The Shining" made me stay awake at night and actually caused my then husband to forego westerns in favor of King's work.

    I rarely listen to the radio and I gave my television away last summer, but I have five crammed wooden library shelves and really need more shelving as I hate to give up a book! I will come back one or two years later and have more pleasure in rereading the book. I also cannot read at night because I will stay up and finish the book.

    On the computer, I am able to go around the world and read different newspapers from other countries to give me an idea of what is going on in the world. When I order a book online, I will read the sample pages and sit a spell in the bookstores to do the same. I have eclectic tastes and will read King or Shakespeare with as much enjoyment as Hemingway or Thomas Wolfe.

    My nonfiction sections are full of books on psychology and philosophy and biographies. There is so much to learn. I also have three shelves of books on just cameras and I have two whole bookshelves on European History up thru the 19th century and Woodrow Wilson. I love history and believe everything is connected to what has gone before.

    The last six books I have read or reread are Grims Fairy Tales,Letters to Arthur Greeves by CS Lewis,Hitler's willing executioners, (ordinary Germans and the Holocaust); a treatise by Daniel Goldhagen,The Viking Potable Libraries' Nietzsche and Voltaire volumes, and Napalm & Silly Putty by George Carlin, one of my favorite comics.

    I find that if I don't read a little each day that I can get withdrawal symptoms. I mention a book I have read and often get odd looks like why would you read that? But this is in an age where the top sellers are People Magazine and the National Enquirer.

    As to taste, I will read almost anything if it is done well, but then my idea of "done well," may not always coincide with yours and that's okay too.

    kiwi lady
    December 11, 2002 - 08:50 pm
    When I was a kid I loved Grimms Fairy Tales - Had a huge volume of all sorts of fairy tales including Tom and the Waterbabies, Brothers Grimms Tales, Gullivers Travels. I read and reread them. The book was destroyed in a flood. Broke my heart. Would have loved the book for my own kids. Won it in an essay competition.

    Carolyn

    GingerWright
    December 11, 2002 - 09:17 pm
    I do not want to pull from B&L but If any one is Curious as to another place I hang my Hat It is here so A Post from You would be much apprieciate by me

    Thanks, Ginger.

    MaryZ
    December 11, 2002 - 09:41 pm
    Re sex scenes in books....

    I always remember my mother's comment (she died in 1983 at age 75, so this was even before things got quite so graphic). She was reading some book, and commented that she "didn't mind some sex in the story", but she "didn't really want an instruction manual". I howled with laughter at the time, and it still makes me smile when I remember it.

    Mary

    annafair
    December 12, 2002 - 12:31 am
    So much activity and company and NOW I can visit here and speak about books ..I can't think of any type of book I failed to enjoy. Now there were many I never finished because I found the story dull or too explicit..I love your mothers comment Mary and agree with her wholeheartedly. I can skip over those if the story seems interesting enough. What I really deplore are the use of four letter words that poison a book.

    My home is a haven for all my books and I hate to give one up. Fortunately my children are readers and I happily give them my favorite books because I know if I yearn to re read them I can "borrow" them. I saved all the books my children read and have finally found them all where I had stashed them and now thier children are reading books their parents read ...including the names they penciled in and the drawings the books encouraged.

    I wasnt surprised to read that one book reviewer admitted he did not read all the books he reviewed. Ha ...most reviewers sound like they have never read the book they reviewed or they have very poor taste.

    One of my favorite mystery writers from years ago was Mary Stewart and I loved MAry Roberts Rhineharts books as well. Have to get busy on my own tasks but did want to check in and enjoyed all the comments and relived with pleasure some of books mentioned. anna

    angelface555
    December 12, 2002 - 01:50 am
    I have read all of Mary Stewart's books as well. She was a wonderful author to a 13 year old girl. I also deplore the use of bad language in a book. I would agree with your mother, Mary; about the sex scenes. If there is a place in a well done plot for violence or sex then fine. Don't just throw it in by the hand full to stretch out the pages!

    I find myself reading nature books or older books these days. I especially like Edith Wharton, Oscar Wilde, Maxim Gorky, and Thomas Paine. William Safire who was Kennedy's speech writer, has a wonderful book out entitled "Lend me your ears"! Richard Tarnas has an excellent book called "The Passion of the Western Mind."

    There is also a very well done book drawn from diaries of everyday women on the wagon trails west. The suspense, hardships and medical problems they endured were horrendous, as well as dealing with that era's modesty codes. There is the famous tale of a woman who spent a year living in a sod house on a treeless plain. Her husband brought her to town and she saw a living tree and she wrapped her arms tightly around it, sobbed and quietly went crazy. She had to be institutionalized. "Women's Diaries of the Westward Journey" is by Lillian Schlissel.

    Ann Alden
    December 12, 2002 - 03:32 am
    Angelface555, I will be looking for your suggestion of the Western women's diaries. Did you read "The Women Who (Won or Made) The West"? It was written by the Western Women's Writers authors and is quite interesting,too. At the moment, my granddaughter in Oregon has my copy which I spent years finding. She is reading bits and pieces slowly as she is getting used to being a newly wed and teaching so doesn't have much time to read.

    Annafair, I love that you saved the books that your children enjoyed and have passed them. I have in my possesion, one of my favorites which was part of a set by Childcraft. I have read it to my grans. Most of this volume is Mother Goose rhymes and old fairie tales.

    TigerTom
    December 12, 2002 - 10:37 am
    Angelface555,

    You are lucky you still have the books you read as a child and those your children read.

    My mother either tossed or gave away all of my books without saying a word about it or asking me if I still wanted the books. One, "Grimmms Fairy Tales" was my favorite because it was the first book I ever owned and it enchanted me with the stories. I kept it in pristine condition. My mother gave it to her sister's kids who destroyed the book in a few days. I found it, at my Aunt's house, in pieces so bady torn up it could not be put back together or fixed. I asked my Aunt where she got the book and she said my Mother gave it to her as I "didn't want it any more. Lots of other books were given or tossed also.

    Tiger Tom

    annafair
    December 12, 2002 - 12:20 pm
    Oh I know how sad that must have made you feel. Books to me are precious and I could not bear to part with them. Once I put together a box of books I had read and decided to sell them to make room for more of course. The Avon lady came that day and saw the box and bought about five. When she left I wept and put the rest of the books back. I have given them to those who also enjoy reading and of course now to my children who are like their mother, voracious readers.

    I keep all of my books even the ones that are a bit tattered ...I dont mind giving them to other readers though. Thank goodness my grandchildren love books. They all have computer games for learning but you cant curl up with a computer and cherish it like you do a book...anna

    pedln
    December 12, 2002 - 03:03 pm
    Personally, I like to read reviews, both book and film. I don't always agree, and I don't always take the advice, but it's a way to find out more about what's going on in both mediums. TV, also. I've watched some good programs that otherwise would have ben missed, because I read the review.

    My daughter, recently used another method. She recommended a book for me to get her 9-year-old for Christmas, as she said,"We usually get our books at the library, but this has 149 holds on it, so I figure it must be good." I bought it without examining it this past weekend and wish i had time to read it. It looks delightful --The Thief Lord by Cornelia Funke, a German author who is quite popular in Europe and who has won some awards. The illustrations are terrific -- little pen and ink sketches of present day Venice -- they remind me of Janet Langton's. Reading level seems more for teens than 4th grade, but daughter and SIL read aloud a lot with the kids, even books they can read themselves. (Sometimes one of them will read ahead and then the others get unhappy.)And tomorrow the Seattle package must get in the mail.

    Faithr
    December 12, 2002 - 03:35 pm
    Womens Diaries of the Westward Journey was a wonderful collection of diaries and letters. I read it some time ago but never have forgotten it. I was captivated by the deep thoughts these women had regarding the movement westward and how it tore at their very souls to be so enstranged in the land they were crossing. I was inclined to think we should all just write it down, not a book or even a story but just a journal of our thoughts. Write it down. Bet your kids and grand kids would love it as much as or more maybe than a strangers story.. Faith

    Bill H
    December 12, 2002 - 04:08 pm
    Tom, that was a sad experience seeing a favorite book torn to pieces. How old was the child that did this?

    There are some magazines I wish I still had. In the thirties, when I was just a kid there was a monthly magazine called "Wings." It contained stories of WWOne fighter pilot air plane battles, (they were called "dog fights") in air planes not much better than kites. The feature story was called "G-8 and His Battle Aces." It was a fiction story about an American fighter pilot/spy, and oh the trouble this guy would get in, never did give his name, just G-8. I would wait patiently for the next month to roll around so I could get the next issue of "Wings" and read more of his adventures, by the way the other short stories were very good also.

    After I had a large pile of these magazines, I started giving them away to other kids that wanted to read them. Why not? Well, last year I did a google search just to see if there were any G-8s still around and after all these years there were still some collectors items available. Some of them were selling for more than a hundred dollars, and I just gave mine away. But I have no one to blame but myself.

    Too bad there aren't magazine stories like this for kids today, but why read a magazine when one can play a hand held computer game. I think I'll get one of these hand held electronic games just to pass the time away when I sit and wait in a doctor's office ) I got this idea last Friday as I sat in my doctor's waiting room, for what seemed like several lifetimes. Well, there was a lady, perhaps on the sunny side of thirty, waiting also. Yes, she had one of these little things and was playing away to her heart's content. It was her son's, so she said. Oh, how I wished I had one with me that day. Must look around for one.

    Please forgive me, Nellie, if that last paragraph strayed a bit

    Bill H

    angelface555
    December 12, 2002 - 04:55 pm
    I was read to as a child and went to the library early with my parents who were both avid readers. I grew up without a television and even if I missed the Howdy Doody stuff and Disney clubs, I had outdoor games and board games and books everywhere! I have never been able to adjust to television. I even prefer my news with the newspaper over the TV.

    Fairbanks was founded in 1903 as a gold camp and supply terminal; so many of the old prospectors and women were still living as I was growing up in the early fifties. In those more innocent times, it was common for a group of children to head for one of these pioneer's homes to hear stories of great hardship and the trials and tribulations in their search for gold and wealth in copper or silver.

    We were enchanted by all that they had gone thru and loved to be able to look at and hold some of their treasures brought with them. One children's book was about a young boy who had many animal friends to play with. Then one day, they all got sick and he didn't take them to the animal doctor, so they all died.

    There was a chapter on how he mourned his animal friends until a good fairy came and told him to mold copies of all his lost friends out of clay and to set them out overnight. He didn't understand, but did as he was asked. He was joyously surprised in the morning to find that the good fairy had brought all his friends back to life.

    This was, I believe a European children's book and the woman who carried it about for so many years. died in a fire one day when I was twelve. I've never forgotten that book and wish I could find it again. The pictures were pen and ink and it was very Victorian in style.

    Another benefit of reading is that when my daughter was eight, her reading and vocabulary tested at college levels.

    Ann, I haven't heard of the book about women who were active in the west. I've noted down the title. One problem I've found in reading as many people don't know a word and I have to hunt for a lesser word that means the same or similar.

    I have gone thru several dictionaries as my spelling is not that well done. I have found that the Oxford Dictionary is the only one to really carry a large range of words. Many of the other brands tend to just have the more common or popular words.

    One of my more unusual hobbies,(to some!); is to buy the little hard backed journals and to write down either quotations or reasoning or a particularly fine word passage. I enjoy this even if some find it unusual.

    Nellie Vrolyk
    December 13, 2002 - 04:10 pm
    Hello all! I love reading your posts! So many different thoughts are being shared on the same subject. You can tell that we all love books and reading.

    Library books and having to give them back: I had to chuckle at that, Angelface, because I feel the same way. So whenever I begin reading a library book I know is one I would like to have in my collection, I stop reading and check if it available for me to buy in the bookstore, and then I buy it there. Sometimes going to the library can be an expensive proposition!

    I'm still trying to determine what constitutes 'good writing'. Perhaps there is no one answer to this question?

    Diane Church
    December 13, 2002 - 05:07 pm
    angelface, I LOVE your habit of writing down especially meaningful passages from books as you read them. How many times I've thought how I SHOULD be doing that but, alas, well... Which also reminds me of a comment in one of Helene Hanff's books in which she says that she always likes to buy used books in which a previous reader has made notes in the margin because then she gets to share in what someone else has thought while reading the same book. I liked that a lot but somehow STILL can't get myself to underline, or highlight, or any of that stuff.

    And yes, the feeling almost of being robbed when returning library books - after an especially good one I will think, "But no one else will love this as much as I have", "Maybe they'll lose it", or whatever. And so, off to the bookstore (or these days, amazon.com - and what a deal is their used book prices - what a find!). Where we used to live the bookstore was right across the street from the library. How handy! Sometimes I was heading to the library because the bookstore was out of, or hadn't received yet, a book I HAD to have immediately and other times, as you've mentioned, had to return a book to the library that I couldn't stand to be without, and headed in the other direction, across the park to the bookstore. Usually, but not always, one or the other had what I wanted.

    Just to touch on the subject of "style", two books come to mind that probably no one would commend because of their style. One was Ice Bound, the story of the female doctor who spent a winter on the ice in Anarctic. No great writer, she, but what a story. I just really loved that book and was sorry that when it was discussed on SN, I don't think anyone else enjoyed it half as much as I did.

    The other book, more recently read, was "Ten Things I Learned from Bill Porter" who is the now somewhat well-known Watkins Products salesman who was born with cerebral palsy. This was written by his close friend and assistant, Shelly Brady. Porter's life was recently portrayed in a TV documentary called "Door to Door" - perhaps one of the most moving few hours I've ever spent in front of TV. Now, Shelly Brady, bless her heart, is also no writer (in my humble opinion) but this story is so incredibly touching and inspiring that thank goodness she brought it to life.

    angelface555
    December 13, 2002 - 08:12 pm
    Many of you spoke of a liking for crime stories. There is an excellent book in a brown paper wrapper type cover with a peach on the front. It is a small sized hardback. The novel, called "The Peach", of course; is about a very small minded man of slight stature who boards a cruise.

    He is a food columnist for a important paper and he's on vacation. As the book slowly unfolds amid his cranky complaints about his treatment and assigned quarters, you gradually realize he is on the run from poisoning several people.

    The book is both psychological and even somewhat humorous in parts. It is an excellent book for those who enjoy the intelligential pursuit over the gore and action of some of the genre.

    BaBi
    December 14, 2002 - 07:55 am
    You mean I am just now learning, after all this time, that Amazon.com has a used books section?!!! As the teenagers would say, I am "so out of it!" Guess where I'm going when I leave Seniornet this morning.

    Pat, you would be interested in seeing my dictionary. It is one I compiled over thirty years ago, a section at a time through a supermarket special offering. One section a month. The finished book is over a foot thick, well illustrated, and has about everything (up to thiry years ago, of course). The pages are yellowing and several are torn and in need of taping, as it has had a lot of use. Now that I'm composing crossword puzzles, it is in almost daily use. I will continue to rely upon it until either I or it gives up the ghost! ...Babi

    angelface555
    December 14, 2002 - 01:59 pm
    Still none of them come close to the Oxford. I am a poor and phonetic speller and as a reader, I don't always have the correct pronunciation; but I know what the words mean.

    I see words as a form of emotional photography. This is probably why I collect writing samples and quotations. Words and their use give me pleasure. My mother used to love to tell of the story about how the librarian called her when I was eight. I had read all selections in the children's section of that small town library and most of the teen section and was beginning to branch out into the adult section.

    The librarian wanted to know if mom had any restrictions for them to observe for her. She told them no, to let me roam as I would. This was her greatest gift, teaching me to read at three and nourishing that love of reading until I am physically challenged to go a day not reading!

    I also read poetry and write my own. As I am of a gothic, (and very dry); bent and do descriptions well; I do some essays. I am really bad about writing conversation, however. I once submitted a sample of my writing to an established author, who was a friend. He told me to give up commas and semi colons and ditch the majority of my adjectives. Otherwise it had some good parts he thought. The narrative was very engaging.

    Unfortunately it was those downtrodden run off sentences and those ill used commas and semicolons that made the piece mine. Brevity and I have never been friends. I wisely decided to enjoy my writing privately. I don't give out my poetry either as it is a way to deal with my emotional ups and downs and my inner peace or latest version of self at this time in my life.

    The one thing I can't do that I wish I could, is write a journal. Looking back, all my attempts seem to be whines and self pity. Poetry is a much better vehicle for me. A new wrinkle is I find myself disliking some plain words and going out of my way to avoid them. Some examples are the word thing or the use of the word shot in relation to photography. This relatively new issue is I hope, going to take me somewhere pleasant.

    Nellie, I wish I could say what good writing is. There is an art to the craft and you must know your composition and word structure. You must do the who,what, why, when and where or some variation there of to engage your reader. You must know the rules in order to be able to disregard them and still write well.

    You have to have a "hook" and for some writers it is indeed a formula. I just know that many authors have both good and some very bad books and you can tell the serious writers who are compelled from the looking to get rich quick dabbler.

    The publicized ghost written books "by" a famous star comes to mind or a poorly written piece stuffed with sex and violence to engage the short interest of their readers. The honest accounts by ordinary people of life changing events are often extraordinary reads, regardless of writing style. I do admit to enjoying some trashy books on occasion, I just don't take them seriously as more then junk food.

    The current crop of writing pithy little feel good notes in slim volumes as best selling books; brings to mind some issues. One is that the general public cannot read or interest themselves in full length stories and that their education is sorely lacking if they find these pithy nuggets thought provoking or treasured. There is an entire world of books of poetry or philosophical books out there. Many of these books are thinly disguised rip off portions of their work.

    I do see a place for them as a jumping off spot to more varied writings, or a way to interest those who may have missed books the first time around. I just see no intrinsic value to them as important pieces of merit on their own.

    I should hasten to add that everything in this post is of my own private opinion and is not representative of any other person.

    Diane Church
    December 14, 2002 - 02:33 pm
    angelface - I find your style honest and engaging. I like what you say and how you say it.

    Nellie Vrolyk
    December 14, 2002 - 03:03 pm
    Fabulous posts everyone!

    BaBi
    December 16, 2002 - 09:59 am
    Angelface,I hear what you're saying about saving your poetry for your own private satisfaction. Still, I hope you will pass it on to your family some day. They would treasure it, you know.

    I like to write, too, but I am no good with fiction. What I do is more in the line of essays or studies, I guess, and on subjects that are not at all of interest to the general public. So my stuff is also for my own satisfaction.

    I liked some of the early meditative books, but I agree the soup is getting a bit thin there. It seems to me the best use for them now is Christmas gifts for busy church friends who like something brief to read before falling asleep.(*-*) ...Babi

    losalbern
    December 17, 2002 - 10:55 am
    Angelface... "brevity and I have never been friends". I love that statement! After reading something like forty postings here, I have concluded that there is a great deal of very good writing and writers at this forum. Unfortunately, I have lost the "curious mind" when it comes to reading habits. There was a time when I was a very devout reader as a much younger person especially when magazines were in vogue and new authors learned their artform there. Now... I can scarcely remember their names but there were so many of them in the late '20s and '30s. Benjamin mentioned that trilogies seldom carried the special spark of the first of the series on to the follow-up sequels. "Cave Bear" was a good example. Perhaps it could be debated that Evelyn Waugh's trilogy about the British bumbling through WWll, "Officers and Gentlemen", "Men At Arms" and "The End of The Battle" might be considered an exception. Yes, folks, these books are dated, I know! Benjamin also wondered if he had to write his own books? By all means, DO IT! Its fun! In my retirement, I have put together three groupings of stories where it would be exaggerating to describe as books. Certainly with no thought or attempt at publication, other than Kinkos. Mostly family stuff, just people that I love and enjoy writing about. One "book" delineated my happenings as a reluctant draftee in the Army that concentrated more on the somewhat satirical or humorous events that evolved and involved me throughout WWll. I write for my own amusement without too much concern for the potential reader who may not ever be there. As such, I think of myself as being more of a storyteller. Therefore Benjamin, or any of the rest of you posters, if you are ever just a little bit inclined, give it a go! A computer word processing program makes it fairly easy. So enjoy! Losalbern

    Nellie Vrolyk
    December 17, 2002 - 12:07 pm
    Nice posts, losalbern. Interesting that you are writing more than reading at this point in your life. I too write stories for my own pleasure at times, and it is fun to do.

    Any more thoughts on the article? Since writing your own stories has just been mentioned, do you think you could write a bestselling book based on the no-style, formula type of writing? Or does it take more skill than is thought to write like Koontz, Grisham, Clancy, and so on?

    kiwi lady
    December 17, 2002 - 01:17 pm
    It certainly does take skill to write like the above authors.

    I have written many short stories but a novel! Firstly research is a must then a draft of the plot then a division into chapters and then the writing begins! I do not have the work ethic to write a novel. I have written 10 chapters for my grandchildren about my childhood in post war NZ. I am up to about age 7 and have not touched the book for a while! I admire anyone who can write a successful novel it does take skill and most of all determination!

    Carolyn

    Bill H
    December 17, 2002 - 04:11 pm
    Of course, there is a fine art to writing and those who enjoy it are supremely fortunate. However, I feel that just as important as composition, etc. is the ability to express oneself by putting into writing their thoughts, feelings, emotions and the like. Many of today's leading authors and journalists hire editors to go over their work. Newspaper columnist have rewrite personnel to edit theirs; they don't wish to lose their train of thought worrying too much about composition.

    We have several local sports radio and TV talk shows in our area and every night several sports press journalists join in and answer questions from callers. Just from the way these journalists speak and the grammar they use, while on the air, makes me certain they employ the use of edit personnel for their daily columns. As I write this, I'm worrying about my own composition. How sad I don't have a rewrite person (

    Bill H

    angelface555
    December 17, 2002 - 08:45 pm
    I write here as well as for my own personal satisfaction. I can not ever conceive of putting my pen or PC program up and I am constantly rearranging my vocabulary.

    A case in point is that I have begun to avoid the use of certain words either in a single context or just wholeheartedly. People change many times thru out their life and their joys and enthusiasms change with them.

    But the fundamentals, whether it is art or writing or simply the love of reading do not ever change I believe. We may deny them and avoid them, but there is always a cost to us in doing so.

    I am aware of my gothic bent and my super human love of run on sentences and the comma and semi colon. I have been told two statements most of my life and that is that I have read a lot of English books as it shows in my spelling and word usage and the other is that I tend to place a comma where I would pause for breath in speaking.

    By this time, those of us who are compelled to write, and we are, know our faults and have simply come to accept them as part of us. I have loved adjectives as a type of verbal photography for years. To stint on them now and to pare them down would simply be someone else's writing.

    So, enjoy yourself! Write any and all that you please. Study the books on good writing and learn what does and doesn't constitute an acceptable piece and then go from there.

    We all have our own unique voice and I have been exercising mine all my life. I love the books on synonyms and homonyms and I love the crosswords and word puzzle books. I consult a thesaurus for my poetry when I am searching for just the right word or mood. This is me and its what I do.

    I have had some high school poetry published in Seventeen magazine,(Is it still published today I wonder?); as a contest reward and I have written many a letter to the editor and to various companies and organizations and those letters are planned, outlined and compared to one of the several desk reference books I own; as my private writing is not. Look at e. e. Cummings and his style.

    Don't let yourself be pushed into giving up a part of you or something you want to try. If you wish to learn a good way of proofreading your own work after checking your spelling, then read the piece from the bottom to the top. This keeps you from following the flow of words and keeps you alert to any errors you may have made.

    Bobbiecee
    December 17, 2002 - 10:55 pm
    Bill......From what I've read, you don't appear to need an editor.

    Angelface...It is extremely obvious to me that you love to write, and exercise your talent in many ways. I enjoy many of the ways you describe as well. You mention verbal photography. I call it word painting, but it is the same thing. I, too, enjoy doing that as well. At work, I had to write objectively (Psych reports) so the word painting, including poetry, was a form of relaxation for me. I agree with you...just enjoy writing. The only time that I proof read what I write nowadays is when I'm sending letters to politicians or to newspapers. Aside from that, I write for fun.

    Bobbie

    Malryn (Mal)
    December 18, 2002 - 07:23 am
    To all of you writers in here: You do know there's a writing group right here in SeniorNet? It's the WREX Writers Exchange, and we exchange and critique essays every two weeks. Come visit us in the Writing, Language and Word Play folder. Perhaps you'd like to join us; it's fun. Carolyn has been a member for quite a long time. In fact, an essay of hers will appear in the January issue of The WREX Magazine which will go on the web just before New Year's Day.

    I publish two other electronic literary magazines as well. Sonata magazine for the arts and m.e.stubbs poetry journal. If you'd like to submit work to be considered for publication in either of these magazines, please send it TO:Malryn@aol.com. Type SONATA in the SUBJECT HEADING of the email to which you copy and paste it. 2800 words per email, please.

    All of the stories and essays in The WREX Magazine are written by members of WREX. Many of us have had work published in hard copy magazines or books, and we all have been published in various electronic magazines. Do think about joining us!

    It is not as difficult to write a novel as you might think. I have written 12 novels and am working on something right now which might turn out to be the 13th. I have recently finished a very serious book about a woman who is out on her own after her bad marriage which ended in divorce. She has an alcohol problem, and that is part of the story, too. What I'm writing now is a farce about a ghost who haunts an old New England seaside house and three interior designers, a needed change of pace.

    I have never found it necessary to make a draft of the plot, then a division into chapters when I write novels, nor do I make an outline. Any research I do is fun. I get an idea for a story, go in my word processor and write one sentence. The rest of the book just comes. As happens to many other writers, usually the characters take over and write the book. Often when I think I know what's going to happen, a character will lead the story in another direction, and it's a surprise to me. For me, novel writing is like solving a puzzle.

    The most important thing about writing, as I see it, is the writing itself. If you don't write, nothing will happen, so sit down and write! I try to write at least 1000 words a day.

    Come visit us in the WREX Writers Exchange discussion. We'd love to see you there.

    Mal

    annafair
    December 18, 2002 - 07:34 am
    My your post could have been written by myself. From early childhood my favorite book was the dictionary. I have two unabridged, one from 50 years ago and one from 10 years ago plus a number of smaller ones,desk references etc. The dictionary was and still is a place of adventure for me. The things I learned there led to books covering the subjects mentioned.

    Our public library was over a mile away,and my summers were spent walking there each day to pick up three books ( children were only allowed 3 ) I would devour them, my mother was adamant about us staying in a cool, shaded area at midday. In those pre A/C days that meant the house. My younger brothers would nap but I would read. Our librarian would not allow me to invade the adult section so I had to wait until I was 12 to venture there. Historical novels were my favorite and I learned so much from them.The whet my appetite for travel and further research on history books.

    My poetry has always been just for myself but I share it with my family and my poetry classes and group. My oldest daughter is making a book for her siblings for Christmas with some she loves best and including some essays. This is appreciated for I have tried to do the same so my children and grandchildren will have some of Nana's thoughts. I cant seem to get that organized..besides I busy still writing. By the way if you ever feel like sharing some poetry discussion would welcome you. I posted one I wrote last night about Holiday Cookies..which I was doing by myself and the memories of the days my mother and I shared that just overwhelmed me.

    As you can see brevity is not my strong suit , in writing and in speech. About ten years ago my doctor sent me to an ENT who examined my throat and vocal cords since I was complaining of a hoarseness. His advice? DONT TALK SO MUCH! Which is fine except if there is no on here I will talk out loud to myself or to my dog who is beginning to understand me!

    Thanks for your wonderful post. You shared a lot and I loved every word. anna

    Nellie Vrolyk
    December 19, 2002 - 06:10 pm
    Just dashing through and reading all your lovely posts.

    Getting dragged along by my mother, who never goes shopping alone, means I have little time for internet stuff; and not much time for answering posts. And I'm the silent type

    Bill, I think we could all use a rewrite person once in a while. I sure could!

    losalbern
    December 21, 2002 - 01:07 pm
    I am curious to learn how many folks who post here (or anywhere else for that matter) compose Christmas newsletters that are included in seasonal cards mailed to friends this time of year. This concept has been held up to ridicule by some folks who tire hearing about various family successes ("John was promoted to a Vice President postion last year",) etc, ad nauseam. I have to confess that for many years I have looked forward to writing my annual newsletter in spite of such potential uninspiring receptions that might tag me as a bore. My aim is to entertain the reader and I must admit that as I grow older that objective becomes more difficult to achieve because of less interesting happenings or events. My reward for all this nonsense is a phone call or two from a correspondent that would not have happened otherwise or perhaps a more personal note included with their card. I have wondered upon occasion if SeniorNet ever considered a posting site for people to post their annual newsletters for all to read. losalbern

    Nellie Vrolyk
    December 21, 2002 - 01:33 pm
    I believe that tomorrow, Sunday, a new discussion topic will take the place of this one, so...

    Ann, Benjamin, Barbara, Kiwi Lady, BaBi, BobbieCee, Ella, Diane, pedln, Ginny, Mary W, Faithr, Tiger Tom, Bill H, Zwyram, Marjorie, Angelface, Ginger, Annafair, losalbern, and Malryn: I thank each and everyone of you for your fabulous and enjoyable to read posts!

    Happy Holidays to you all!

  • ***********

    losalbern, I don't send out a family newsletter, but have received some from others. They can be quite interesting to read.
  • howzat
    December 21, 2002 - 02:39 pm
    If I am interested in the person, I am delighted with the Christmas update in the form of a Christmas Newsletter. I never send out a card without some sort of personal message on it, written by hand to the side or above the greeting (which ever way the card is configured). But then, I only send out maybe 40 cards. I have never written a "letter" but I enjoy, for the most part, getting them.

    Hey, Nellie! Sometimes I only lurk, but I'm always here.

    Merry, merry, Howzat

    annafair
    December 21, 2002 - 03:17 pm
    Thanks for leading this discussion. All the posts were interesting, some inspring and everyone a joy to read. You can see books and the reading of same is a way of life for all of us. No better subject for us bookworms .....anna

    annafair
    December 21, 2002 - 03:22 pm
    I cant speak for others but if you cant share you good fortune with your friends then you can you share it with? FOR me the letters are just that ,,they are sharing thier lives with me and I am pleased they think enough of me to do that.

    I would rather get a hundred letters telling me about some one's good fortune than one that gives me the sad news in thier lives. I read their notes with love in my heart and gladness for their good fortune and prayers for the sad.

    I think people who complain just have no soul...so fie on them and keep those letters coming ...love to all...anna

    Lorrie
    December 21, 2002 - 05:05 pm
    Nellie, I simply cannot let you fade away until I have told you what a remarkable job you have done with this topic. The posts here have been humming all along!!

    And now let's wish a heartfelt hello to our own Anna Fair, who will be sounding us all off on a new topic!

    Lorrie

    Ann Alden
    December 22, 2002 - 04:20 am

    Losalbern

    For a few years I sent newsletters but seem to lack the creativity for doing so lately. I do look forward to some of the newsletters that arrive but some do seem a bit braggy. For a few years, I wrote mine to the rhythm of a poem or Christmas song and really enjoyed doing them. One year I put out what looked like the front page of a small newspaper with little headlines over each article which pertained to my family members. Mostly I tried to entertain people with the news using humor a lot. I have kept a few of them somewhere and take them out to wonder where my ambition has gone. My getup 'n go has gotup'n went!!

    For all of you here: Have a merry one!

    Nellie, this has been a fun discussion. You have done a super job of helping it along.

    Now, Ms Anna, what do you have up your sleeve for us to peruse, discuss, diseminate this time??

    annafair
    December 22, 2002 - 07:47 am
    My heading isnt up yet but wanted everyone to know we will be discussing New Year around the world. New Year is celebrated in one form or another by everyone.

    January 1 was not always known as the New Year and for the Chinese they have a movable New Year occuring between Jan 21 and Feb 21 depending on thier calculations. In 2002 the Jewish New Year was on Sept 7th.

    I hope you will enter the discussion and share not only how you celebrate but how you feel about New Year. Do you welcome the opportunity to have another chance so to speak at life, filled with hope this one will be better than the last? Looking forward or do you feel a sense of sadness that the past year is now past?

    Please read the link as it tells us a lot about New Year and some of the ways it has been celebrated. Then hop right in and share your thoughts. I look forward to welcoming 2003 with you. anna

    annafair
    December 22, 2002 - 08:26 am
    Pat thank you so much for all you do to help people like me look good.You give unstinting of your time and energy and it is appreciated by all. The heading is perfect and thanks again for your help. Hugs...anna

    Faithr
    December 22, 2002 - 12:55 pm
    The New Year! Well what a great topic. In my house we had Lentil Soup and some sort of Sandwich for NYEve dinner then New Years Day was usually a Roast of beef and all the trimmings, what some served for christmas. We always had Turkey for Thanksgiving and for Christmas.

    My Mother liked to say we were really celebrating the old Egyptian March/April New Year with our spring lamb, new green peas and little red new potatoes, that was a special dinner the first time she could buy these items in the spring.We had a big celebration just in our own family and we thought it was just our mother who thought this up.She loved springtime and all the fresh food it meant for us. This is no big deal in this day and age but in the 20's and 30's even the 40's it was only in season that we got certain vegetables in our markets at Tahoe as we could not grow things up there or at least we did not plant gardens then.We had a long winter of root vegetables and canned goods.

    So mom had two kinds of new years to celebrate...the return of spring to us meant the snow went away and color came back into our life, and better food along with the blackstrap molasses that mother feed us she got some stuff from the bottom of the spring beer makers barrels that was black as pitch and had a horrible smell and in the spring when every one had what they called Bock Beer we had a teaspoon of those dregs everyday till they ran out. I later learned that those dregs contained all the Vitamin B's and were very good for us. So we got our new start in the spring season like the old Egyptians did.

    In the article I was surprised to learn of the "baby" in a basket as a new year symbol in old Roman times too. Of course we show the baby in the crèche symbolically, and then there is the Baby coming in the door and the Old Man going out the door. I love to hear what other people do to celebrate New Years as a sort of ritual.Faithp

    angelface555
    December 22, 2002 - 02:47 pm
    There is of course the calendar's New Year which features parties and conviviality as well as food, drink and good cheer. There are fireworks from the University and in some years, the Aurora makes an appearance for those old fashioned souls who prefer fireworks by mother nature.

    There is the winter solstice on December 21st. This signals the return of light and builds by six or seven minute daily intervals until summer's solstice of June 21st.; amid twenty four hour daylight and the beginning of our return to winter's darkness and five hour daily daylight.

    Then there is springtime, with melting snow; and the greenery and return to warmth which usually occurs with the coming of Easter here in the north country. January and February are the coldest months and the most dark and dreary, so Easter is looked forward to with longing.

    I generally subscribe to the springtime as the New Year as do many I know. The official calendar holiday brings parties, accidents and the police out in force. Springtime brings more in our heart's celebrations.

    Malryn (Mal)
    December 22, 2002 - 03:43 pm
    After studying classical music for years and years and years, I got a job playing songs from musical shows and popular music on the piano, and singing in a cocktail lounge in a hotel in Providence, Rhode Island. That gig lasted several months, and when it was done, I joined the musician's union. They immediately placed me in a job in a lounge in a neighboring city. A feature of that job was that the piano was on a platform above the bar, so I had to have help getting up so high. I noticed that there was no shortage of men who offered to help me up there and down.

    When I walked into the club New Year's Eve, the owner asked me if I'd be willing to kiss a few patrons at the hour of midnight. Not realizing what I was getting myself into, I agreed.

    Men lined up in a queue that went around the entire club and more, after it was announced that they'd be kissed by me at midnight. I have no idea how many men kissed me that night, but it was lot. I did very well on tips that night!

    Now I'm an aging woman who lives in North Carolina where the tradition at New Year's is to have black eyed peas and rice. No kisses, but black eyed peas and rice are supposed to bring good luck, so I always have plenty of that!

    Mal

    Faithr
    December 22, 2002 - 04:17 pm
    Mal isn't it unfair that you couldnt save some of those kisses, in a nice cookie jar, from that youthful New Years Eve and have them to pull out when there were distressed times in your life. Like when your lights went out....you could have opened your "cookie jar" and had a nice kiss. :>} faithp

    Ann Alden
    December 22, 2002 - 04:40 pm
    Our family has a tradition of completing a 500-1000 piece jigsaw puzzle. First of all, someone gives Dad a new puzzle for Christmas, then on New Years Eve, at 6pm, we get the puzzle out on the table and go to work. Anyone can add pieces but it must be done by Midnight! And, it is! One New Years Eve we were at my daughter's home where 7 adults plus 4 children gathered. Since there were so many of us, we initiated another tradition. One of the women brought a good sized plastic cupid and some acrylic paints. If you weren't working on the puzzle, you took a turn at painting the cupid. Too crazy! We had a good and safe evening and driving wasn't necessary. We eat all evening but put out the serious stuff at midnight consisting of pork in some form or another, a cabbage dish(I make a fabulous cabbage and sauerkraut casserole that takes all day to cook) and some black-eyed peas or red beans with rice. Having lived north and south, we seem to have adopted each area's traditional foods and put them together. Not a bad meal when you add the sides of Waldorf salad, cranberry sauce, etc,etc.

    Malryn (Mal)
    December 22, 2002 - 04:47 pm
    Faith, thinking of those nameless kisses all those years ago, i think I'd rather have black eyed peas!

    Mal

    Malryn (Mal)
    December 22, 2002 - 05:03 pm
    This is part of message Gladys posted in the WREX discussion about my kissing experience. I think it's rather amusing, so thought I'd post it here.
    "oh Mal that brought back a lot of memories! in our local pub in England, New years eve was all about kissing on the stroke of twelve,especially in the munitions factory during the war.wow having them queue up for you great,by the way that is a typically English word `queue`it was a joke during the war ,that if you saw a queue,we got behind it.one story went ,a lady saw the queue,asked what it was for and was told ``the tales of hoffman`,she replied ,Ihave never eaten that! wont bother."

    annafair
    December 22, 2002 - 05:13 pm
    You have me sitting here laughing...Thanks for sharing your stories and comments. Since I am not fond of black eyed peas I look forward to the kissing.

    From comments thus far it would seem New Years is looked forward to...regardless of when you celebrate it. anna

    annafair
    December 22, 2002 - 05:27 pm
    You are making me hungry....spring lamb...that was not a dish my family ate but one I learned to enjoy as an adult. My own family love it but their spouses dont so I dont make it anymore.

    Once I served it when my husbands sister visited.She loved lamb and the whole leg cost 28 dollars ..which was a lot about 20 years or more ago. It was so good but I sat there and with a sad astonishment saw everyone devour that roast.

    I justified the cost by thinking I would get another meal..a casserole I called Lamb Surprise. When my sister in law ate all of the remaining lamb I mentioned my intent. Whereupon she said Well I guess the surprise is you dont have enought for Lamb Surprise..Of course everyone laughed. It stands out as one of my favorite meal memories.

    I was surprised to find out about the New Year baby and some other things from the article I never knew. So this discussion is a learning one for me. anna

    annafair
    December 22, 2002 - 05:37 pm
    If I lived where you do I too would think of spring as the New Year. The winter solstice has always depressed me as I am not a winter person. Already I feel better knowing yesterday was the shortest day of the year and we have turned the corner toward spring.

    Years ago when we lived in Europe we visited Norweigen friends on the longest day of the year. Now I loved that ..it never really became dark but sort of a dusk.

    Even here in Southeast Va January and February are the coldest months of the year,,and I am always cheered when the first crocus breaks the ground and I know spring is near. I will think of you when I see that crocus....anna

    GingerWright
    December 22, 2002 - 06:55 pm
    I am enjoying Your posts so much that I must let you know.

    Lorrie
    December 22, 2002 - 07:16 pm
    Once, when visiting some people in Arkansas, I was told that an old Soutern tradition at New Year's was to eat "hog jowl and black-eyed peas" Apparently this was to ensure that you made lots of money that following year.

    Lorrie

    MaryZ
    December 22, 2002 - 07:19 pm
    I've always understood that the black-eyed peas and hog-jowl (or other pork) was originally "poor people's food", and eating it on New Year's Day was to remind us of our roots - that we had been poor once, and could easily be again...to keep us humble.

    Lorrie
    December 22, 2002 - 07:30 pm
    Zwyram:

    I like your version better.

    Lorrie

    Bill H
    December 22, 2002 - 07:35 pm
    Nellie, thank you for a fascinating discussion. So many fine posts and I enjoyed everyone of them even the ones I posted (smile)

    Mal, if I'd have been in that club I would've been more than happy to have helped you on to the piano )

    NEW YEAR'S DAY

    The first New Year's meal at my grandmother's home took place right after the bells stopped ringing at midnight. There was always quite a few guests on hand. And, as was tradition with my grandmother, the main course was sauerkraut, pork and Herring. Now you may wonder why pork and Herring was served.. Well, the reason for this is as follows. The new year was meant to go forward with good luck and pigs root forward and fish swim forward. No steer or fowl was served because they both scrape backward with hoof and feet and that would never do. I believe the only roll sauerkraut played is because it tasted good and went well with mashed potatoes and pork. I'm not so sure about kraut and Herring. However, I never ate the Herring because I don't like it although the others did a very good job on it.

    But New Year's morning breakfast would consit of bacon and eggs and milk for the coffee. Eggs come from a chicken and milk from a cow, sooooo. After the midnight meal the most dark haird man would go out onto the porch, close the door behind him, and come back in again. This was also supposed to be good luck. Why, I don't know. Maybe some of you could explain why a dark haird man had to be the first one through the door on New Years.

    Bill H

    annafair
    December 22, 2002 - 09:12 pm
    Most I have never heard of...Lorrie I have to tell you I now know why I have never been rich...I wouldnt eat hog jowl and black-eyed peas...and since I dont like either I guess I will never be rich...

    Bill I have no idea why a black haired man would be good luck..that is really a new one ....but I tell you I would have enjoyed the New Year's feast..Pork, Herring, saurkraut and mashed potatoes.

    LOL I am going to gain weight just reading your New Year menus.

    anna

    angelface555
    December 22, 2002 - 10:17 pm
    The only family traditions from my childhood were the ones where Mom was treated to dinner and dancing on both her birthday and New Years.

    Later they began going to parties and still later after the children were grown and gone; they began to go out more often.

    So I guess we expected to go out as adults on both our birthdays and New Years and woe to the new husbands who reneged on the deal! lol

    Ann Alden
    December 23, 2002 - 06:08 am
    BillH, I wondered why we always ate cabbage in some form or other with a pork dish. But we always did and now I will go look to see if I can find out why.

    Well, when I was looking, I found this interesting site about the Chinese traditional New Year food and thought you might like to read it. Chinese New Year

    Malryn (Mal)
    December 23, 2002 - 06:14 am
    Maurice Ballard came into WREX with a comment about the black-haired man. Maury lives in England.
    "Talking of New year customs, do you remember if it was a practice up north for a male person with dark hair to leave the house before midnight and return as soon as the chimes ended. Added to this the person had to carry a piece of coal in his hand. The story being that should a person as described above be the first to enter after midnight it brought good luck. Of course this should have happened at random but there is nothing like wieghing the odds in your favour. I had black hair, alas no more, and performed the the duty of first in the house on several occasions."

    EME
    December 23, 2002 - 06:17 am
    I read about that tradition in a book years ago. I think the story took place in Scotland. Anyway it was about miners.

    Mary

    Ann Alden
    December 23, 2002 - 06:17 am
    Well, here's what I found here on the net.

    Many parts of the U.S. celebrate the new year by consuming black-eyed peas. Thses legumes are typically accompanied by either hog jowls or ham. Black-eyed pease and meat, is considered lucky because it symbolizes prosperity. Cabbage is another "good luck" vegetable that is consumed on New Year's Day by many. Cabbage leaves are also considered a sign of prosperity, being representative of paper currency. In some regions, rice is a lucky food that on New Year's Day.

    I like the comparasion of cabbage leaves to paper currency. Whoa!

    Mal, a friend of mine from Scotland told us about that tradition of the dark haired man. She said her brother who had coal black hair used to "hire out" to the neighborhood so everyone would have a year of good luck.

    Ann Alden
    December 23, 2002 - 06:26 am
    Here is another description of the Scottish New Year's traditions that I found at another site.

    In Scotland, New Year is called Hogmanay, and in some villages barrels of tar are set alight and rolled through the streets. Thus, the old year is burned up and the new one allowed to enter.

    Scottish people believe that the first person to enter your house in the New Year will bring good or bad luck, and it is very good luck if the visitor is a dark-haired man bringing a gift. This custom is called first-footing.

    The song, Auld Lang Syne is sung at midnight on New Year's Eve, and this custom is now celebrated all over the world.

    This is another interesting site as it has a bit more about many different ethnic traditions. Many traditions

    annafair
    December 23, 2002 - 07:25 am
    What wonderful posts..and I am learning a lot here. Cabbage I love so I will be sure to have some New Year's Eve or is it New Year's Day...

    One article I read said long ago people returned borrowed farm equipment when spring was the New Year. It would certainly help the person who was getting ready to plant.

    Chinese New Year is based on a Lunar Calendar while ours is based on a Solar Calendar.

    Did anyone as a child use pots and pans to make noise at midnight? If I were asleep mother would waken me and we would step out on the porch at 12...my father had a gun and would shoot blanks into the air and we small children would bang pan lids together or use a spoon to hit the pans aka a drum. All around we would hear similiar sounds and neighbors doing the same would call out Happy New Year. There would be some using fireworks. Several times my older brothers hosted parties at the house, with the rugs rolled up, dance wax added to the floors, music was from the record player 78's then, and mother would have prepared a buffet. I liked it when everyone sang Auld Lang Syne, it was a wonderful time.

    anna

    annafair
    December 23, 2002 - 07:35 am
    That was one of the sites I found when I was researching New Years but I didnt read for enough..I Missed the recipes. This time I read the whole thing..

    Back to my other post..I was thinking I now watch the activities at Times Square but have to admit advertising rather ruins the whole thing. And I MISS GUY LOMBARDO! anna

    Coyote
    December 23, 2002 - 07:43 am
    I don't celebrate much on New Year's Eve because I am an early riser and a non-drinker. Oh, I used to blast the favorite song outside on one of my horns, but as little as I practice here in a mobile home park for seniors, any such attempt would probably come out as just more noise.

    But I long ago discovered the next morning is a great time to balance books and set up the same for the next year. Nearly everyone else in the world is quiet except the dogs. I don't make resolutions, but lately, there has always been another attempt to reverse directions on a couple of things - I want to LOSE weight and GAIN in my investments, instead of the other way around. Maybe '03 will finally be the year. ('02 was one of holding my ground on both fronts.) Being married to Ms. E makes the losing weight easier because she has done so well, but it hasn't done a thing for the investments.

    I don't feel sad or glad about this year or that year, but I always feel a lot of relief in having the holiday demands and bustle all around me finally over for awhile, so I can plan and do more according to my own motivation. I like family, making and giving presents, etc., but not just because it is a certain holiday or because someone expects such things from me. And it will certainly be nice to go into a store or watch TV without seeing decorations and ads pressuring folks to blow their next year's pay on things no one really needs. Maybe the old codger next door (the place with the forty pink flamingos, etc. in the yard) will turn off those horrid blinking lights all over the window facing mine. I admire his determination to keep happy and busy, but I do so wish those things didn't blink on and off half the night.

    EME
    December 23, 2002 - 08:26 am
    I don't remember banging lids on New Years Eve since my parents always went out and I was probably asleep. I do remember banging them at the end of WWII.

    Mary

    annafair
    December 23, 2002 - 08:45 am
    http://www.aynrand.org/medialink/meaningofnewyears.shtml

    Another web site that is interesting....anna

    Faithr
    December 23, 2002 - 12:39 pm
    So many interesting traditions. Yes my family stayed up to "see the new year in" and banged pots and yelled happy new year and hugged and kissed everyone(never had as many kisses as Mal though, of course I can't play the piano :>).We used lots of noise makers if we had them. I remember one year our grandparents sent some stuff from San Francisco ..poppers for the evening meal. Whirling things on the end of strings that made a funny sound and firecrackers. Not against the law then and my brothers could hardly wait for midnight to set them off.

    I am wondering if the lentil soup business was my moms way of not serving black eyed peas which she didn't like. My grandfather Stuart was never with us on the New Years Eves I can remember but he did teach us the Scots word hegemony (?) for the holiday and tell us about the dark man entering first after midnight was good luck. Faith

    Bobbiecee
    December 23, 2002 - 01:59 pm
    New Year in Australia is several weeks into our summer holidays. Most non-essential businesses close between Christmas and New Years. Many Aussies go on holiday, travel or camping on Boxing Day, the day after Christmas. When the kids were younger, we always did that. Christmas is when we share and give love to our families, New Years is when we share and give love to friends and acquaintences, many new acquaintences, at either camping grounds or where we are staying in our travels. Most cities and towns provide a fireworks display at midnight. Of those who stay at home over that period of time, some go to parties, the rest to a barby (BBQ) with friends, and watch the fireworks display at midnight. I'm going to a barby at a neighbours. New Years Day is traditionally a day to get out in nature...the beach, mountains, etc, and have a picnic and barby, and either cycle (bicycle) and/or walk or just sit at the picnic area, camping grounds, and enjoy the wonderful display of flowering trees, the beach, bushland or rainforest. I'll be spending New Years day cycling on cycle tracks along with beach with my daughter and her husband. My son will be camping.

    The day before New Years, I usually look at the past year, then look forward to what I'm going to do in the new year, and set my goals and purposes for the year or reinforce goals and purposes. To me, it's usually a new beginning, and being summer, is a time to enjoy the natural beauty of my country, a year to look forward to. This year, I'm having a bit of difficulty with this, with the threat of a world war hanging over our heads, but am doing my best to continue with the forward planning, attempting to focus on personal goals. Like you said, Ben, balance the books.

    Bobbie

    kiwi lady
    December 23, 2002 - 02:04 pm
    When I was a child New Year was celebrated in the traditional Scottish Fashion (Hogmanay) even though we lived in NZ. The family were entrenched in their home traditions. They had all emigrated here in the 1920's. As the first generation grew older the tradition was lost.

    My father was English but liked a drink so when I was a teen there was always a party. I never enjoyed it as Dad never knew when to stop.

    In my own family we have never celebrated New Year. As our kids grew up they went to parties but we were often away in our boat and would spend New Years Eve in a quiet cove with all the family groups and the boat horns would sound at midnight in the Bay and we would all then go to sleep.

    We did go to one New Years Eve party on a big boat in North Bay on Ponui Island at about 9pm my husband looked at the sky and announced a storm was brewing. Everyone laughed but we went back to our boat and around 11 the storm hit. People were trapped on the party boat and unable to get back and secure their own boats. Many boats lost their anchors and drifted round creating havoc and thousands of dollars of damage. We spent all night fending off an unmanned boat. It was one New Years Eve we liked to forget! I was glad my husband could read weather!

    Now I am either babysitting on New Years Eve or quietly in front of the TV watching all the celebrations round the world. I don't even have a drink most years!

    Carolyn

    Malryn (Mal)
    December 23, 2002 - 02:33 pm
    There's a New Year's Eve tradition
    The Highlands celebrate,
    A superstitious ritual
    Foreboding this year's fate.



    Once midnight has been ushered in
    With merriment and glee,
    Attention turns to the front door,
    Awaiting anxiously.



    The first visitor to set his foot
    Across the entryway
    Will affect the family's fortune,
    Profoundly, so they say.



    With bated breath, the Scots hope for
    An unknown passerby,
    For a stranger carries with him
    A year's good luck supply.

    Malryn (Mal)
    December 23, 2002 - 02:51 pm
    There was never any special celebration of the advent of the new year when I was a child. I can remember forcing myself to stay awake until midnight once. I expected all kinds of things to happen. The heavens would open up; there would be fireworks, a special sign. Nothing happened at all.

    When I was 17, my trumpet-playing boyfriend whom I later married, had a job in a band at a party on New Year's Eve. I stayed home and went to bed and listened to the radio.

    The war had ended the year before, so I didn't hear news like "Cologne is burning" or anything about the blitz. In fact, I didn't hear much. Never could stand Guy Lombardo, so suffered through his music and the Royal Canadians just so I'd know it was 12 o'clock.

    When I was married, my husband was a serious scientist who put no stock in New Years celebrations, so the evening was spent quietly while he studied for his prelims or prepared for the next experiment he'd do. I watched, got tired and went to bed with a book long before midnight. The kids would surely get me up early, and I had to be ready for that.

    We were transferred to North Carolina for a year in 1958 so my husband could do post doctoral work at Duke. Lo and behold, he agreed to go to a New Year's Eve party. Not knowing anyone there, I was politely bored until midnight when the host grabbed his trombone and opened the front door. He serenaded his neighborhood and a good part of Durham with Auld Lang Syne. I haven't been that close to a New Year's Eve party since.

    I never take stock of what happened in the past year and never make any sort of resolutions. What passed has passed, and what will come will come, including this year -- as Bobbie said -- a possible war. I find that no cause for celebration one minute after midnight, January 1, 2003.

    Mal

    Bill H
    December 23, 2002 - 04:27 pm
    Anna, back in the thirties, I had an uncle that would shoot a gun into the air as the bells were ringing, however, I'm not sure if they were blanks ) The rest of us would blow play horns or ring bells, and Auld Lang Syne was a given.

    Mal, thank you for that rhyme, but now-a-day with all the crime and violence that stranger may best serve us by continuing on his way.

    annafair
    December 23, 2002 - 06:46 pm
    I cant remember making resolutions ...New Year or not I was always trying to learn something new, try a new craft, a new activity, learn a new word...so I guess I dont make resolutions.

    Did some nationality write them out and then burn them ? I dont know why but that is buzzing my brain..LOL was just thinking that for most that might be the wisest thing to do.

    Mal thanks for the poem. Funny I was always attracted to the fair haired lads.Although my father had dark almost black hair and at 65 it was still the same. He died that year and when I went to the wake he looked just like a photo of him at 30.

    Perhaps I dont make resolutions knowing I would not keep them. Sure dont want to feel guilty

    Most seniors having lived through several wars view this coming year with apprehension. I think I will say a prayer.

    I am trying to think of some ritual or idea that persisted from childhood to adult. The only one I can recall , which was why I always tried to have a good time New Years with family and friends,,,Whatever you are doing at midnight will mark what you can count on for tne NEW YEAR>..SO if you have a great time with family and friends then that would be a good sign.

    Now I have to finish my Holiday Cookies...later...anna

    Faithr
    December 23, 2002 - 09:57 pm
    Party Time at home only on New Years. I am speaking of my husband and myself, our family. We would ask family and friends to our house but only once did we go out to a New Years Eve function, and it was to a large ball at a service club my husband belonged too. I hated it with all the folks who were drinking too much and it was so noisy and truly an absurd tradition to us. We only went that time and returned to our habit of staying home where we were safe from drivers who had too much to drink. In all my life I have spent only one or two New Years Eve's anywhere but my home.

    We use to make resolutions but it was silly because I never paid any attention to those off the top of my head decisions. I found big decisions to break a bad habit for instance require more dedication and work than a simple resolve. Still it was a fun thing to do and then for a day or two we would tease each other regarding the resolutions. fp

    Malryn (Mal)
    December 24, 2002 - 06:26 am
    I've got everyone in the WREX discussion talking about New Years traditions. Gladys, who grew up in England, said when she was little the adults told her to watch for the man who had as many noses as there were days left in the year. She also said all the ashes had to be taken out of the fireplace, so the year could begin fresh and clean.

    Gladys's daughter-in-law, Sandy, who grew up in a small upstate New York town, said all the kids in her family banged pots and pans with spoons, and her father shot off his double barrel shotgun. Then they went in the house and drank hot chocolate and ate popcorn. Traude grew up on the outskirts of a large European city. The only tradition in her family was this. The same kind of food was served every year.

    Mal

    annafair
    December 24, 2002 - 08:24 am
    Mal that is a great idea having the writers share their New Year's celebrations and customs.

    I will share the strangest New Year's Eve ever..for me anyway.

    It was New Year's Eve on OKinawa, the last ever at the club on Naha Air Base..at least for Americans. For Okinawa was being returned to Japan and Naha was being abandoned for the Americans and was supposed to be headquarters for the Japanese.

    The band that usually played, the best on the island, had left us and accepted a new postion with another American base. The club officer welcomed us and explained the situation, He also told us that is had obtained a group of fine musicians that had been practicing for three weeks on American songs and felt they would give us an evening to remember.

    I almost laugh out loud at that statement. We sat through a great dinner, numerous accolades and toasts before the music began. So when the band leader was ready we were all on the dance floor by the first note. It was a waltz in 3/4 time and the music sounded familiar and I could see others with a puzzled look on thier faces as well. All of a sudden several us stopped and looked at each other. WE RECOGNIZED THE SONG...It was SILENT NIGHT...At first I felt we should leave but then decided WHY NOT?

    It has been a long time since I have been out on NEW Years eve...lately I have been grandbaby sitting and thatis all right with me. ........anna

    Malryn (Mal)
    December 24, 2002 - 08:41 am
    Anna, I can easily see why that would happen. Silent Night is written in 3/4 time. I played it in my head first; then checked the score of the music to be sure. Guess someone should have told those musicians to play it Slow Dance style. Why should you leave? The only thing holy about music is what's in our heads.

    Mal

    Malryn (Mal)
    December 24, 2002 - 10:50 am
    Jerilyn posted this in the WREX discussion about New Years Eve in Minnesota.
    "Just popping in briefly. I've enjoyed the posts on holiday customs. When we lived in Minnesota we used to spend New Year's every year by having a Swedish dinner which usually consisted of Lutefisk and lefse amoung other things. Lutefisk is Whitefish which has been soaked in lye to preserve it. You have to wash all the lye off first and then it is boiled and served with a butter sauce. The only way I know how to describe lefse is to call it a swedish tortilla. The batter is made from mashed potatoes and flour, etc. We used to put sugar and cinnamon on it and roll it up and eat it. Most people in Michigan have never heard of Lutefisk or lefse.

    Coyote
    December 24, 2002 - 10:56 am
    If my family had a customary New Year's Eve dish, it had to be chips and clam dip, made with real cream cheese, chopped clams, grated onion and worchestershire sauce. This junk already on the store shelves wouldn't cut it. I think my mother started making it in the late forties for cocktail parties. Us kids got up early the next morning to clean up what the party-goers left behind when they left for the dance.

    Faithr
    December 24, 2002 - 11:16 am
    Ben in the early 40's say 41 we had a dip for stuffing celery made of sour cream, cream cheese, minced clams from a can, and clam nectar from a bottle to help lighten and mix the dip. My mom also would finely chop celery and onion to put in the dip. We didnt call it did until about 46 when we started using this recipe to make dip and chips. The other thing we had for stuffing celery at holidays was those little jars of Kraft cheese, Pimento was the one my mom used most. The litte jars became our juice glasses. We used that pimento cheese on crackers for snacks too. We girls growing up with a mother who also stuffed dates with creme cheese, and made rum balls for Christmas thought we were some cooks. faith

    annafair
    December 24, 2002 - 03:41 pm
    Here I am... snacking on cheese and Tostitoes.....Have church service at 7 do I have to get busy ..tomorrow it will be breakfast at one son's, dinner with my youngest daughter and friends..Sun will be our big holiday dinner at Nana's=ME ...

    It must have been the thing to do years ago..stuff celery with piemento cheese..and we always had olives, pickles and radish roses...

    Your talking about all those goodies makes me almost ready, almost ..note that ..to have a New Years Eve party and fix some of those fablous dips. My favorite was always hot crab dip, or spinach and artichoke dip ... While I loved the parties and dances in years past I rather enjoy just having a FEW friends in and watch the events at Time Square ...kiss at midnight ...toast the new year with sparkling cider, sing Auld Lang Syne...say goodnight to my company and GO TO BED.that is as late as I wish to be up...now... anna

    annafair
    December 25, 2002 - 02:58 am
    One custom I have on Christmas day is to wish everyone I see , even through this medium ...so before I check on more customs for New Year I want to take time today to say MERRY CHRISTMAS and if you dont celebrate Christmas than Have a great day wherever you are and whatever you are doing

    anna

    Malryn (Mal)
    December 25, 2002 - 06:40 am
    Merry Christmas, Anna, and everyone here!

    O'Sharny
    December 25, 2002 - 11:39 am
    Thank you for the greetings and a merry Christmas to all of you.

    One nice thing about living in the Central time zone is that we can watch the Eastern time zone celebrate and be sound asleep long before midnight. Just the last few years, I have had a split of champagne to toast the New Year and this year, my husband gave it to me last night. He never stays up to celebrate. Calls it amature night.

    After we got married and moved to this area, the people I worked with had a superstition of not having chicken or turkey in the house at the beginning of the new year. Anything that scratches for food would cause you to scratch for a living. I didn't know my husband was superstitious and I told him about it. Well, you know what happened. We NEVER have it in our house and you should see him go thru the freezer looking for any scrap left over.

    annafair
    December 25, 2002 - 08:25 pm
    Well that is A new one on me...anyone ever heard to that superstition before..../

    Does anyone ever celebrate something called First Night ..in today's paper there was a bit about upcoming local events and it mentioned Firt Night ..in a nearby community, I have heard of it before but since I no longer enjoy being in a crowd I have never attended . I checked with the newspaper on line tonight but the information was too minimal ...tomorrow I will see about following through. It is a non alcoholic family affair that much I know....Hope you have had a good day ...anna

    annafair
    December 26, 2002 - 10:34 am
    Here is a link to New Year in Japan...interesting ...and does anyone feel a need to clean house for New Year ? My mother always felt the need to do that..so you had to watch out or she would toss out "stuff" you cherished.

    http://tanutech.com/japan/newyear.html

    annafair
    December 26, 2002 - 10:47 am
    Try this link

    http://www.fathertimes.net/egyptiannewyear.htm

    BaBi
    December 26, 2002 - 11:09 am
    About the only 'tradition' we observe re. New Year's is the black-eyed peas. I think that is mostly so there will be something to mark the day. My usual occupation for New Year's eve is to take down the Christmas tree and decorations. I usually do stay up til midnight to hear the firecrackers, etc. I can then feel I have "observed" New Year's. Never go anywhere, as I don't care for parties. Not to mention that the drunk drivers are out in force. Reading about the stuffed celery choices, I want to put in my favorite: Cream cheese with chopped olives and pecans. It seems to me to go much better with celery than the pimiento cheese. As you can see, New Year's is not a major event for us. ...Babi

    howzat
    December 26, 2002 - 12:32 pm
    Our family has always eaten blackeyed peas on January 1st of each year. We also eat greens cooked with hog jowl. We've added boiled cabbage, since that's a tradition in some households (can't hurt). We stay up until 1:00 am New Year's Eve to make sure none of the fireworks set off by neighbors catches anything on fire--we live in an old neighborhood that has 50'x125' lots and the houses are close together.

    Happy New Year, Howzat

    annafair
    December 26, 2002 - 02:23 pm
    Found an article about retraining the brain so you can keep those resolutions concerning dieting, exercising or whatever way you would like to change. I hope the following site will show up. I wonder if it would work for the disorganized like me? I dont think I will try it is a comfortable place to be except for those times when I need to be organized...anna

    http://www.msnbc.com/news/843640.asp?0na=x224B5G1-

    Kathy Hill
    December 26, 2002 - 06:13 pm
    I have been enjoying this discussion group so much - the current and the previous topics.

    I have some fond memories of New Years from the time I lived in Pasadena, CA. A number of us would work on the Tournament of Roses floats and there was always this mad rush on New Years Eve to get them completed. We would see the floats off as they had to assemble in order about 10:30 pm. We would then head out for a midnight party and then go scout out a place on the parade route where we would watch the parade. Then it would be off to the Rose Bowl game abd always a post game party. It was a ton of fun. I hope others are carrying on that tradition.

    Kathy

    annafair
    December 26, 2002 - 06:59 pm
    Has anyone seen The Rose Bowl Parade in person? It is always one I try to watch and think about seeing in person. Because it is warmer there than here in Va that time of the year:-) and of course it is a beautiful parade. I am always amazed at how clever the decorators of the floats seem to be.

    If anyone read the link to retraining the brain to help us follow our resolutions..what do you think? I am not sure how dedicated a person would need to be to follow the ideas suggested..any comments?

    Still looking for the information on the First Night program here.

    enjoy all the comments, ideas and memories...thanks to all for sharing...anna

    annafair
    December 26, 2002 - 07:07 pm
    Below is a link to a FAMILY NIGHT in a community in Canada ...sounds like the kind of event I would welcome...anna

    http://mail.city.brantford.on.ca/brantfordevents.nsf/bydateweb/FBED07BE58138B9985256C800060185B?OpenDocument

    Bobbiecee
    December 26, 2002 - 08:34 pm
    Has anyone seen The Rose Bowl Parade in person?

    I did, once...in 1957, several years before I migrated here. I was in Uni at that time and went with some of my Uni friends. I understand that now one needs to go there the day before to get a place to sit, or pay a fortune for a seat on a bleacher. All we did was get up early, and we got a spot in the front row. Times change.

    Bobbie

    Ann Alden
    December 27, 2002 - 04:11 am
    Annfair, First Night was started some years ago and is touted as an alcohol free celebration for New Years. It is celebrated all over the country and here in our home of Columbus,Ohio. There are all kinds of entertainment going on in the churches, theatres, hotels, stores, even the banks. Quite a good time but coooldd! It is well attended and many families reserve a hotel room or two and spend the whole afternoon and evening in the downtown area where First Night occurs. First Night Celebration

    As to the Rose Bowl parade, it has become an expensive affair to attend if you want to sit down. And, there are even tours advertised to the California which take you to the parade and give you a bleacher seat plus dinner afterwards. When we lived in Torrance, I always wanted to work on the float that they did every year but couldn't find anyone else who would join me. It sometimes meant long nights and drives from the float area so I wanted some company on the trip. Several years, the Torrance float won honors of some kind or another.

    Ann Alden
    December 27, 2002 - 04:42 am
    The oldest First Night celebration is here: Boston's First Night

    TigerTom
    December 27, 2002 - 01:33 pm
    Bill H,

    Sorry to take so long to respond to your questiong: It was not a "Child" but "Children" seven of them to be exact. Fought over the book rather than waiting for a turn. Tore it up good.

    Tiger Tom

    annafair
    December 27, 2002 - 05:42 pm
    Ann thanks for the links...it seems to me these events sound like fun. I especially like ones that call for INDOOR celebrations. After more research I think we can say, except for the date and time of year, New Year celebrations are universal.

    I am including a link about foods used to make the New Year successful. It even has a recipe for Hoppin' John ..since it contains black eyed peas it will not find its way into my recipe file.

    http://www.msnbc.com/modules/exports/ct_email.asp?/news/852089.asp

    I am amazed by the amount of suggestions to help one succeed at keeping thier resolutions. One that sounded good to me was regarding dieting. Dont make a resolution to lose weight but make one to eat healthier. That way you will do yourself a favor and most likely lose weight as a result.

    I have decided I wont make any resolutions ...Just allow myself to be who I am...and I wont describe that!

    With the world situation as it is I think I face 2003 with a lot of trepidation and HIGH HOPES For a Peaceful Year.

    back later , anna

    SarahT
    December 27, 2002 - 08:46 pm
    Annafair - you added a link to New Year's in Japan. One of my fondest New Year's traditions came from the family of my dad's long time girlfriend when I was growing up, who was Japanese American. Every New Year's Day, we gathered at her mother's home for a day long feast of traditional Japanese foods. I don't remember the names of things anymore, but the most important food as I recall was called "mochi" I think - it was a custard with special food items buried inside, served in a cup. They always put out food for her deceased father too, at a little shrine they made for him. I loved that and will never forget it.

    annafair
    December 27, 2002 - 10:43 pm
    I am so glad the link to Japanese Customs etc gave you so much joy remembering your good memories. The most important aspect of holidays to me are the memories. Each holiday we share with others and the special things we do to remember is a life time gift.

    As we share and recall and learn about other countries and other people our own ways of celebrating are often a floodtide of those special days when we were children, when our children were children and now if we are lucky we see our grandchildren building thier memories for thier future.

    New Years is really special that way. It is a promise of the future. Thanks for sharing your memories ..anna

    Ginny
    December 28, 2002 - 08:56 am


    Herring!! Herring in sour cream! Extremely good luck!

    I did a search for Herring in Sour Cream here and got a ton of posts, none of which mention herring, hope I’m not doing a repeat?

    What a marvelous discussion, I've never seen such interesting submissions and customs and memories!

    You must, of course, eat Herring in Sour Cream with onions, red onions, if you like?

    One of the best New Year’s Eves I ever had was an eye opener. I was spending the evening with my old high school sweetheart, when I was a Junior in college: he was divorced and we were trying to see if anything would come of a reunion (it didn’t). But after the dinner and the movie we were at his own apartment and a knock came on the door. It was his neighbors an elderly Jewish couple, inviting, really wanting us to come to their party. This was in the early 60’s.

    I’m shy and kept saying no no and hanging back but he wanted to go and it was the BEST time and gathering, and there, there were foods you can only imagine, chopped chicken liver, to die for and HERRING in sour cream which I had never heard of, was told the glories of, and have eaten ever since on New Years Day for luck.

    I mentioned it to a friend of mine who was making Challah bread for Rosh Hashanah, and she said, never heard of it, and I said ask around in your family because apparently it’s an old custom and by George, she reported her older members of the family ate just that! And were surprised SHE had never heard of it? hahahaha

    Forget blackeyed peas and hog jowls and collard greens, run out to your specialty store and get a jar of herring in sour cream, (you can get it fresh in gourmet shops), but I like the jars, large and small in the supermarket if you can find them, eat a forkful and welcome in a proposperous new year. Hahahaha

    Seriously!

    ginny

    jane
    December 28, 2002 - 10:20 am
    No need to convince hubby on herring. The Lithuanian side of his family (he's 1/2 Belgian French/1/2 Lithuanian) can not understand why the entire world doesn't eat herring on New Year's Eve/Day (they do BOTH) to bring in good luck in the New Year. They have all kinds of herring available...the better to have much good luck in the New Year.

    In my own neck of Ohio, it's still pork (preferably ribs in my family) and sauerkraut on New Year's Day. In my family it was at noon and the only day of the year we could eat in the living room--watching the Rose Bowl Parade, etc.

    So, we two will have both traditions here.

    My Dad's "thing" for New Year's was that all the bills had to be paid, à la the Oriental tradition, by Dec. 31. If you'd received the bill, it was to be paid, even if the due date was in the New Year.

    š jane

    SarahT
    December 28, 2002 - 04:15 pm
    Do you find yourselves trying to create new traditions too for the different holidays? My brother just got divorced and I feel impelled - as auntie to my beautiful 3-1/2 year old niece - to make nice traditions for her each holiday. Decorating the tree at Xmas is going to be a biggie, I see. Every weekend for about three weeks before we actually bought the tree, she came over and just wanted to SEE the Xmas decorations. We'd take out all the boxes and look at them.

    I also started baking a cake every New Year's eve. years ago, and now I never let the event come and go without doing this. We received a big candle at our wedding, and we also burn that every New Year's eve.

    We've started doing certain ritual vacations every year too. Our first date was at the Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk here in California. We took our picture on the roller coaster that day. Every year, on the anniversary of our first date, hubby and I go back to Santa Cruz and ride the roller coaster, wearing the same shirts we wore on our first date, and getting our picture taken. We now have a whole gallery of these pictures!

    BaBi
    December 28, 2002 - 04:31 pm
    I'm game, Ginny. I like fish, I like sour cream, but I've never eaten herring in sour cream. No time like the present, right? I just hope the little market I shop at has it. ...Babi

    Pauline Reynolds
    December 28, 2002 - 04:40 pm
    I come from a family that did not celebrate the New Year except to make resolutions, usually related to improving one's behaviour. Our big celebration was Christmas while New Year's Eve passed into the oblivion of sleep! Only when I became a young woman did I celebrate, as an excuse for a party. Now I content myself with watching the fireworks on Sydney Harbor via the TV although I can hear and see a bit of them from my apatment window. There is definitely a sense of a new beginning when we put up our new calendars and polish off the new diary wondering what events will fill those pages. For me I have the birth of my first grandchild to look forward to, a true symbol of a new beginning I guess.

    I am interested in learning more about the origins of the Chinese New Year, red packets and all. Can anyone shed any light? All the best for a happy and productive 2003.

    annafair
    December 28, 2002 - 11:22 pm
    Herring in sour cream...when I was in the first grade, the first day a young red haired girl joined the rest of us. Her hair attracted me and we became best friends lasting until her untimely death at 25. She was Jewish, although that meant nothing to me. I lived in a very intregrated neighborhood.

    When we reached our early teens or even pre teens I was often invited to spend the night. Since we were both only girls in a family of boys it was really a treat. The first time I was invited was a New Years Eve and Helen and I had a great time. It was the first time I ate herring in sour cream, olives and something else I have no idea what it was..but it was soft, creamy in texture and color ...I remember Helen said it was dessert..Whatever it was a wonderful evening with my best friend and we had so much fun...laughed a lot and I loved the herring , the olives and whatever the other thing was.

    It has been years since I have enjoyed herring but I am going to buy some for New Years and dring a toast to my dear friend...thanks for sharing and awakening that wonderful memory.

    anna

    annafair
    December 28, 2002 - 11:29 pm
    I will think of you New Year's Eve watching the fireworks...we have a harbor here as well and they have fireworks too ..most likely I will be watching the same scene but on the other side of the world. Here it will be cold as this is the coldest time of the year in Southeast Virginia ...Jan and Feb...if we are to get snow these are the months it arrives.

    I will see what I can find for your interest in Chinese New Year. I find all of the customs fascinating. So I am pleased everyone is enjoying the glimpes of celebrations around the world.

    anna

    tame
    December 29, 2002 - 07:39 am
    I live in a Senior complex. On New Years Eve we have a pot luck supper followed by either a movie or card games. There are 36 seniors here but by midnight there are only about 6 of us "diehards" still up.We take bells and go up and down the corridors (three floors) ringing and making as much noise as we can. We find out that most people don't hear us--they all take out their hearing aids!

    Ginny
    December 29, 2002 - 08:13 am
    Babi and Anna, don't forget the ONIONS! You have to have herring in sour cream and onions! Jane, sauerkraut, I had forgotten sauerkraut, another thing nobody but me will eat here, love it!

    tame, I LOVE that, take out the hearing aids, I love that! And your ringing of the bells! I'm a fool for bells any time anywhere, good for you! Love that!

    Am I the only one here who goes to bed at 9 pm? hahaahahha I couldn't say up if you pointed a gun at me.

    Sarah, I LOVE that, you're making your own traditions on the roller coasters. For years I did the "red bathing suit" photo of our two boys at the beach, don't ask me why. We went ever summer to the beach and every summer for some reason we'd take the red bathing suit photos, I have now got a slew of them, most of them missing, but the ones I do have are priceless.

    WE do another tradition I guess, we use a what we call "YULE LOG" I guess it's really not a Yule Log but we put it on New Year's Eve and it's a monster, to burn all night long, I have no idea why?

    I think from reading this I am sorely lacking in "traditions!" Do they give comfort of good times remembered?

    I think that's one thing that stresses people out about Christmas, those who celebrate it, too MUCH desire to have the perfect tradition, actually. Would you agree?

    ginny

    HarrietM
    December 29, 2002 - 09:21 am
    My parents always loved herring in cream sauce. I never understood it to be a New Year's tradition. Rather it was a favorite food, an appetizer of sorts, brought out for festive occasions.

    All Jewish kosher deli's make it. Most supermarkets sell it in the refrigerated area, located near cheese and pickles. A company clalled Vita (I think) puts out jars of Herring in Cream Sauce and Herring in Wine Sauce as well. It's an ethnic Jewish version of Brie cheese and crackers, I suppose, used for the same sort of occasions

    One of the local Diners in our area always stocks Herring in Cream Sauce and chopped liver on their lavish salad bar. My husband often indulges and complains about his touchy stomach afterwards. These are comfort foods, reminiscent of the goodies our parents were fond of serving.

    angelface555
    December 29, 2002 - 10:05 am
    My family never really did much for New Years as my parents went out and we three children stayed with sitters. I continued the practice as an adult with my own babysitter for my daughter.

    To many people here in the north, it is a party excuse and a way to have fireworks via the fireworks extravaganza put on by the University. One tradition around here with a Scottish background was to open the windows at midnight. To let the old year out and the new one in.

    Noways I am in bed by the time New Years rolls around. It really doesn't mean more then a date on the calendar. The real New Year arrives with the warmer temperatures and the greening of spring

    SarahT
    December 29, 2002 - 03:29 pm
    tame, I too love that story about your bell ringing tradition.

    Years ago, I spent New Year's in Guatemala. They started this huge feast at . . . midnight (I was dying of fatigue it was so late!), and exploded fireworks for days before and after. I think people shot off guns into the air too, which was pretty scary. That midnight meal thing seems to be pretty common in Latin America - my Nicaraguan friends also do it that way.

    Ginny, I think what drives me crazy about the holidays is that I don't have enough traditions anymore, and that's why I'm trying to make new ones. As kids, we had a complete routine every year at Christmas - one that revolved around our grandparents. With all the grands gone now, those traditions have disappeared one by one. My parents were not at all traditional - indeed were quite "counter culture" - so my generation struggles to create new traditions to replace those of my grandparents. I think that striving for tradition, that need of structure and remnants of the past can be quite stressful at the holidays. It's hard to make the traditions live up to how they felt when I was small.

    O'Sharny
    December 29, 2002 - 06:24 pm
    I've gone thru all the traditional celebrations of New Years Eve from dating when single, playing cards with neighbors when married, and taking phone calls from kids at midnight as they were out partying. Even gave up all celebrations and went to bed early. Why not. But all that has changed the last few years. Dear husband goes to bed early but I stay up. Out comes the cheese, crackers, herring in wine sauce, and a split of champagne. Just for me-lucky me. As soon as Times Square has the ball drop and all that fun stuff, I, who lives in the mid-west, totter off to bed and am sound asleep when the new year gets to my home. Happy New Year everyone.

    annafair
    December 29, 2002 - 09:15 pm
    I have to go to the market and get that herring...and of course with onions...Spent the morning in ER as a sinus infection HIT me during the night and was so SICK...but they put me on something new and I feel I will be ready come New Years Eve to welcome the new year.

    Funny my daughter is an author and she is writing about a fictional very small town and said their tradition is to have a bonfire each New Years Eve and everyone brings the past years calendars and burns them...I already have four 2003 calendars and one 2003 datebook...I think it is a vain attempt to make me organized.

    Tomorrow I hope I can do a bit of researching ...

    TAME I LOVE THAT STORY...I am nearly deaf and if it werent for closed captioning I would NEVER know what was being said on TV...one resolution I did make since a friend said she would do it with me is to learn sign language in 2003..it is more involved I understand as you also learn body language...so you can get across what you are trying to say...

    See you tomorrow ...and take care..keep those stories and posts coming I enjoy everyone ..anna

    Ann Alden
    December 30, 2002 - 05:56 am
    Ah, Anna, fair Anna, your plan to try sign language is a good new year's resolution. And, what a boon for you as a hard of hearing person. Have you thought of learning lip reading also? That would make it easier for you to converse with hearing people. I admire your bravery! I,too, on top of being in the hospital for three days with a heart problem have had a horrendous sinus infection with a headache forever! Must be going around!

    Looks like we all will be doing something for New Year's this year from eating herring in sour cream with onions to trying new saurkraut dishes with pork plus the Chinese traditions. Here's the Chinese traditions page. I will put it up again for Pauline Reynolds. Chinese New Year

    BaBi
    December 30, 2002 - 03:12 pm
    Alas, I waited too long to make a serious effort to learn sign language. My fingers now REFUSE to bend as needed. Another opportunity lost. Si-i-igh... (~_~) ...Babi

    annafair
    December 30, 2002 - 10:54 pm
    We can all use all the help we can get..as thanks for the link to the Chinese New Year. Having some who celebrate on different dates gives us another chance as well. I am for holidays..they have a lot of fun as well as a lot of history.

    The Chinese New Year is so colorful ...whenever I have a chance to go to a local place on Chinese New Year I do...

    Babi I am so sorry you feel you have let your opportunity pass...but I bet there are other ways to communicate. I thought we did a great job in DC and I enjoyed your company a lot. Been meaning to say that and with a NEW YEAR around the corner I am trying to complete some promises I made in 2002...made some phone calls tonight to old friends since I am joining local friends here for New Years.

    My fever has left but my throat is still tender so I am eating soft foods...thank goodness cheese is soft. Back later...my son in law has been doing all sorts of things to my computer AT MY REQUEST so I havent had use of it this evening as much as I needed..anna

    annafair
    December 30, 2002 - 11:09 pm
    I hope this link works ..it has the story of Olde Lang Syne ...and the words ..so many sing it each year but many only know part of the song and it has been described as the song nobody knows. Tomorrow might you can astound your friends and share what you know about the song and Robert Burns....anna

    http://www.robertburns.plus.com/Auldls.htm

    Bobbiecee
    December 31, 2002 - 01:30 am
    Thanks for the website, Anna. It's New Years Eve here. I'm going next door for a barbeque shortly. There will be 21 of us. Steaks, chops, barramundi and rissoles, many salads. Pavlova and Lamingtons for sweets. Beaut summer weather. I've printed out the info, Anna, so we'll sing all the verses at midnight. It's 6.30pm here. Thanks again.

    Bobbie

    annafair
    December 31, 2002 - 04:39 am
    So glad I posted it in time for your celebration. Please let us know about New Years Eve party.

    Four of us are going to attend a show at a renovated barn not too far from my home. It was part of a huge dairy years ago and after the parents died the children sold some of the land and then moved the barn to its present location. The rest they developed into a wonderful shopping area. There will be sing alongs of old, familiar tunes, breakfast and I am sure a lot of fun. Just being with my friends will be fun as they are such a delightful couple.

    HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE

    anna

    SarahT
    December 31, 2002 - 11:56 am
    Bobbiecee - I was bowled over by your post. I always forget - you are in the middle of summer. And barramundi? What ever is that?? Rissoles? Pavlova and Lamingtons?

    I want to go discover New Years in Australia!!

    (I'm in San Francisco - wanna trade?)

    annafair
    December 31, 2002 - 01:27 pm
    try this

    Fish note - Barramundi (Giant perch)Barramundi are large predators, growing up to 60kg. They are one of Queensland's most sought after sportfish and among the largest and most important commercial fishes. www.dpi.qld.gov.au/fishweb/1948.html

    anna

    annafair
    December 31, 2002 - 01:31 pm
    Try this web site...anna

    http://members.iinet.net.au/~hellgate/recipe.html

    annafair
    December 31, 2002 - 01:43 pm
    Which sounds like mine for Angel Pie ...anyway it was created to honor Anna Pavlova the ballerina for her heavenly dancing on her Australian tour ..MANY YEARS AGO...I am sure it is delicious for my Angel Pie recipe is to die for..enjoy if you try it...

    http://cake.allrecipes.com/AZ/TheBestPavlova.asp

    SarahT
    December 31, 2002 - 03:24 pm
    Anna - Oh, those look yummy. I'm especially fond of coconut, so I guess I'm a Lamington girl!

    I spoke to another Japanese American friend here in San Francisco today, and she too does the traditional New Year's Day feast. She says it's pretty common in second generation American Japanese families, and often continues into the third. She too puts food out for the dead parent at an altar. And mochi (custard) is definitely on the menu.

    Bobbiecee
    January 1, 2003 - 03:07 am
    And, it is finally the New Year in the US. Our news showed some of the fireworks in NY. Weren't the fireworks spectacular in Scotland? Ours, in Sydney especially, are always spectacular. The theme for our New Years was 'Peace, Hope, Unity and Regeneration.' (the regeneration for the aftermath of the Bali bombing. I'm still doing volunteer counselling for some of the victims families....the Christmas/New Year period being especially difficult for them.)

    Our party was fun, relaxed, casual. Good tucker (food), good company. I had to come back here and get my guitar (it was only next door) and we ended up singing Aussie folk songs. At midnight, we sang all the verses of Auld Lang Syne...and I accompanied with the guitar. Then everybody hugged....and then the kids had sparklers. Then we all watched the fireworks from our local shire council...5 kms away, then we turned on the telly and watched the fireworks along the Brisbane River. A nice thing that Brisbane City did this year was to have fireworks 6 different places along the River, so people could see fireworks without having to go into the city...although there were 40,000 people at Southbank, across the river from the CBD. My daughter and husband went to a party at their work, which is right on the river, just outside the CBD. They had fireworks right across the river from where they were, so they enjoyed that. They all went up to the top of the building and could see all the fireworks all along the river. They said it was spectacular, but because the fireworks were in 6 different locations, rather than just at Southbank and the 3 bridges (one a pedestrian/cyclist bridge) the fireworks only lasted for 15 minutes rather than the usual half hour.

    ANNA...sounds like you also had a good old fashioned new years. It's special, isn't it? You certainly did a good job of finding Pavlova, Lamington and Barramundi. The Pav I made had lots of fresh fruit on it: kiwi fruit, strawberry, nectarine, pineapple, mango, passion fruit, cherries---all fresh fruit. I do cheat and get a pav base, but make the rest from scratch. Rissoles are mince (hamburger) mixed with finely shredded onions, finely shredded carrot, fine bread crumbs, spices, made into a patty. Barra is my absolutely favourite fish. When I lived in the NT, we used to go up camping when the barra were running and get a freezer full, which would last for the year. We used to have to stop several times on the way back from the Gulf (Carpenteria) so we could get the genny going and make sure that everything in the freezer stayed frozen. We also brough back muddies (Mud Crabs)....they're monstrous.....around 2 kgs...4.6 lbs for you. Their claws are very large, a meal in themselves. I still get muddies locally...using crab pots.

    SARA.....I love coconut too...BTW, I put cocoa in the mixture. I've never seen a recipe without cocoa. I cut up sponge cake, make the mixture, pour it over, then put on the coconut.

    Hope you all had a wonderful NEW YEARS Eve.

    Bobbie

    annafair
    January 1, 2003 - 10:22 am
    Below you will find a link to the NYTimes Editorial about the new year. Sort of a suggestion about what you will do with this new year. I know today I will try to return to normal , whatever that is. My washing machine and dryer will work overtime making clean all the linens from 5 days of company. The guest bedrooms will be straightened and the special Holiday dishes put away. I would like to take down the Christmas tree and return the living room to a sense of normalacy. Most likely it will stay where it is for another few days as I now need to pay my bills for Jan 2003. Acknowledge gifts and write little notes to those who sent Christmas cards and I didnt. I will throw out the cookie dough I never got around to using. Even as I write my TV is showing the Rose PArade and I know later today I will have some snacks,an iced diet drink and watch the Bowl games. It is a dark winter looking day here with rain which seems at odds with a 64 degree temp. Later I will put beans to soak for a ham and bean dinner tomorrow. It is really a traditional day ..all these things I try to do on the first day of the year. Their is a need to get on with life, I have enjoyed every minute of the planning and living of the Holidays but my heart knows it will have to wait about ten months to think about them again.

    Wherever you are and whatever your plans are for today I hope it will be a good year. One we can look back on in 2004 and say YES 2003 was a fine year.

    Check the link out and if you wish share some of your thoughts about what you think 2003 will hold for you...anna

    http://www.nytimes.com/2003/01/01/opinion/01WED1.html

    greenind
    January 2, 2003 - 12:54 am
    ANNAFAIR - Personally, I stopped celebrating commercial New Year's Eve about the same time I stopped consuming alcohol - many years ago. So I notice the geo-physical new year at Winter Solstice and feel the drift toward Springtime again. That's it. I made three calendars in which January 1st is on that day, and each new season begins on the first day of a month - http://www.angelfire.com/va/jauntyalbatross/index.html

    annafair
    January 2, 2003 - 07:14 am
    Since I have never been a drinker that never figured in my New Year's Celebrations. It is just that time when I recall my very happy childhood ( of course I had to become an adult to realize just HOW happy it was) and how wonderful it was to have a NEW YEAR, a chance for new beginnings, an opportunity to put the past behind and to move forward. The past was past and no way to change it but a new opportunity to change myself.

    It was a new page, not the old one with all the erasures but a NEW one and as I grew in age and wisdom (I HOPE) I gave more thought to what I would write.

    anna

    annafair
    January 2, 2003 - 07:18 am
    I know some continue celebrating for several days. And the Chinese New Year hasnt arrived yet. So while I am ready to move on there are countries where old customs are still being celebrated. How goes it wherever you are? anna

    annafair
    January 2, 2003 - 06:54 pm
    I might even back you on the calendar changes perhaps we need a 6 day week so we can get one day off? And what will happen to all those long weekends over holidays? How about some of your poetry in the poetry discussion ? And what will you do now that we are in 2003...with all those traditional days?

    It is always interesting to find someone with different ideas..they make for great discussions. So come back and let us hear from you ...anna

    annafair
    January 3, 2003 - 12:01 pm
    Below is a link I think if the suggestions comes to pass we can all CELEBRATE....it is a bit far from the designated topic but one I think we can think about..anna

    http://msnbc-cnet.com.com/2100-1023-979108.html?type=pt&part=msnbc&tag=alert&form=feed&subj=cnetnews

    annafair
    January 4, 2003 - 02:06 pm
    We open a new discussion , one I hope you will find interesting and have lots of opinions on. I volunteered to do a back to back since I had two subjects I was working on for future discussions and they needed someone for this time slot. I hope all of you will stop by and tell me what you think.

    I want to thank each and everyone for your contribution to the discussion about New Year...I learned a lot and there is still so much to learn. Since Jan 1 is not the only date to celebrate New Year our local paper each day has something interesting about other places and other people and when and why they celebrate on different days.

    Hope you all have a great NEW YEAR.......thanks again, anna

    BaBi
    January 4, 2003 - 03:49 pm
    And thank you, Anna, for a lively discussion and many interestin links. ..Babi

    Bill H
    January 4, 2003 - 04:18 pm
    Anna, thank you for the interesting discussion. It was great reading all those traditions. I'm still thinking about the Herring and sour cream (

    Bill H

    angelface555
    January 4, 2003 - 04:29 pm
    I agree, it has been interesting learning about other customs. Altho I have never been able to warm up to herring or any of the smaller fish!

    Lorrie
    January 4, 2003 - 05:32 pm
    HURRAH FOR ANNA, AND THE WONDERFUL JOB SHE DID HERE!

    NOW WE WILL CONTINUE WITH ANOTHER FASCINATING TOPIC, AGAIN LED BY OUR TIRELESS LEADER, ANNFAIR!! STAY TUNED.


    Lorrie

    Diane Church
    January 4, 2003 - 07:33 pm
    I never did post during this interesting discussion but am so happy to have lurked because it reminded me how I LOVE HERRING! And I bought some and had it New Year's Day as well as a bit that was left over this morning. So gag all you like - I loved it and thank you!

    ALF
    January 5, 2003 - 03:35 am
    I am awake with a case of insomnia again when I found our new topic that piques my interest.  This article really intrigues me as I disagree with Dr. Butler's fact finding.  His survey was taken of medical workers and for the life of me I can not understand why anyone (especially those in the profession) would object to  donating facial skin/bones.  I am an organ donor and would gladly donate any part of my part, particularly my skin, as I seem to have an added amount, especially around the middle.
    Imagine that, a full face transplant for someone in need.  What is the moral/ethical dilemma here, the fact that someone would look like you?  What are the chances that with their bone structure the results would be that close in resemblance anyway?  Am I missing something in this article, Anna?

    Imagine how wonderful that would be to be a part of the reconstructoin and restoration of a person's  fractured or surgically removed  facial bones.   Could anyone possibly object to donating to Mrs. Pitt's plight?  They say that we all have a double somewhere and with the amount of refashioning it would take I don't think that I would be recognized as "Andy" anyway. If I were--- so what?   Ethical/Moral- 'splain it me.

    MaryZ
    I'm with Alf - I can't imagine why this type of transplant would cause any more "moral/ethical dilemma" than donating any other body tissue. My "organ" donation instructions are to harvest any usable body tissues/organs/parts - from kidneys and corneas to veins, bones, and skin for transplants or tissue banks.

    Annafair, the question that immediately came to my mind was what prompted you to choose this topic. It should prove to be interesting to see what other posters and lurkers have to contribute. Thanks, as always, for your great choices and moderation skills.

    Mary

    Malryn (Mal)
    Some time ago my former husband, with the help of the research team who works for him in one of his scientific businesses, created an artificial skin, which works successfully without rejection in burn patients and other patients, from pigskin. Pigskin is very similar to human skin. The F.D.A. would not approve of the use of this method in the United States, though it is now widely used in Europe.

    Mal

    annafair
    Lost my contact but have copied what I wrote and here is is I HOPE

    I intended to be here bright and early. The weather turned really cold 24 for our area and I just slept in. Glad you found us.

    I keep thinking about this and thought if we donate our eyes than why not the whole face? But I also think we have a worry here about someone using it for dishonest purposes as well. Although I cant imagine anyone undergoing needless surgery for any reason.

    Mary the idea just intrigued me..It was a new concept, at least for me and for the people who have lost part of their face due to all the mentioned reasons. About the time I read this we had an article in our local paper about a policeman who was burned severely and had to have numerous skin grafts to give him a face. In the picture it looked like his face was a leather mask. He has courageouly continued with his job and his family and friends are just glad to have him with them as is. It made me feel humble. anna

    MaryZ
    You're certainly right, Annafair, it is an intriguing possibility. We have an organization here called FACES (I don't know what the letters stand for - I'll have to look it up), and local plastic surgeons do charity work rebuilding primarily facial deformities in indigent children. We frequently have children here from poor areas in Mexico and Central America who stay for lengthy periods of time (at no cost to their families) to have multiple facial reconstructive surgeries.

    Mary

    MaryZ
    Here's the link to their web site.

    http://www.faces-cranio.org/

    Mary

    annafair
    We have doctors and nurses here that do the same and whenever they do a special article on them and thier work ...I feel so grateful for all who participate. They are such a caring group and the results are so amazing. To see the children and the parents afterwards smiling and with that wonderful "can this be true" look just touches my heart. anna

    annafair
    Apparantly it works since you say it is used in Europe. I dont know why we hesitate and yet I understand their is a reluctance to approve a new method.

    What is interesting to me ..years ago a dear friend underwent experimental surgery ( I no longer can recall the exact body part ..it was 40 years ago) where they used an organ from a pig to replace a cancerous one in his body. The experiment failed but I have always considered him a special human, willing to take a chance and also willing to help others. anna

    angelface555
    Criminals have used facial reconstruction for years, if they used this method, it would just be business as usual. There would also be just as many people working to stop them, so I think it is a non issue.

    I think donating to save someone else is a noble thing to do for the right reasons. I see absolutely nothing wrong in medical science helping people to have some degree of normalcy in their lives.

    Faithr
    Is there some question proposed here that such surgery as a whole facial reconstruction material for donation would be immoral? I don't think so. What can be done with the heart isn't immoral is it. Well in my opinion of course, as we none of us can speak for others it is a blessing to think that a person could be saved a life time of being Masked.

    I managed a cafeteria once in a hospital and it was common to see facial disfigurements in the line. I never became accustomed to looking directly at some of the disfigurements. I did it when I had to take over out on the line for some reason but it was difficult. I would bless any MD's who could rebuild a "face" and if anyone would want mine as a donor it would be ok by me. I would obviously not be of this world by the time they would want what ever they took anyway. Seems like a non question to me anyway. faith

    annafair
    That seems to be the consensus here but apparantly the doctors are not sure. I know when I mentioned it to gathering in my home..they seemed to think the idea was gross.

    Is it possible mature adults ( seniors ) would view this differently than someone in their 30's or 40's? Just a thought.

    A lot of seniors I know not only were willing to donate organs but donated thier bodies to science. Some had been alcoholics most of thier lives and died from liver disease. The children complied with thier parents wishes but there was some reluctance.

    Or we viewing it differently than the doctors or younger people?

    anna

    MaryZ
    At one point in my life, I had signed the papers to donate my body to Vanderbilt Medical School. At the time, our kids didn't really like to think about that (maybe just not wanting to think about death getting that "close to home").

    As various transplantations became more commonplace, I decided that, when I was through with it, this poor old body might be of more use as spare parts. Our four daughters all know of my wishes, and seem to have no problem accepting them. We have had some jolly conversations about what they're going to do with the ashes from what's left. (The one they seem to like is having the ashes strewn from a low-flying plane along the beach where we go each summer, with the plane's towing a banner reading "Happy Trails, Mary" [that's another story].) John has made his own plan for his ashes, but that's his story.

    Mary

    ALF
    Faith, in the url link above this physician questions whether this would be a moral/ethical dilemma. It specifies that he did a survey on medical personnel.

    Faithr
    Gee, I wouldn't think that would be a moral dilemma for a physician. If it were possible to remove a face..here I am talking about the whole thing down to the bone and transplant it why not. Personal opinion is there is no contraindication on moral grounds, only on medical grounds, same as heart or kidney etc transplants. In fact I think it would be wonderful if it were possible to save the life of a young burn victim in this way. We lose many young people to accidents and disease who could be the donors and if it would work(and I dont think it would it is too complicated) think of the benefits to that victim.

    I don't think it is a moral question as cloning is. And sometimes I don't think that is a moral question. Just, who would be the judge of what and who could be cloned. We already use the technique for a lot of stuff. faith

    angelface555
    My daughter was cremated after she was a donor and her ashes were placed in the church sacristy as I felt putting her in the earth was obscene. Some would argue that cremation was obscene. People have different viewpoints.

    I have arranged for my body to go to medical science and the remaining ashes to be placed next to my daughter's ashes. I think that as you grow older and hopefully more rational, you become used to the idea of the body being but a shell for your spirit, soul or essence. A younger person tends to be more attached to the physical body then a senior would be, less experience or sense. That is the crux of it.

    annafair
    it seems we rather agree that seniors see things differently. As we age most people become more accepting and less concerned with what happens to our "Shell" when we die. I know when I was younger the idea of cremation was "Whaaaaat?" now I will be cremated and placed with my husbands ashes. Although to be honest I think I would prefer them being released in the Rockie Mountain area.

    This is another link which is mostly the same but did have a bit of difference. I get the feeling the doctors are ready but dont wish to proceed until there is a debate about the subject. Well we are doing just that! So perhaps we ought to let them read how we feel about the matter.

    Check it out ... http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/low/health/2516181.stm

    It does address the idea How will the patient FEEL when they awake with a new face? anna

    Coyote
    I think most everyone is forgetting a big part of identity - not the face but the thoughts and acts which give it the life it has. A multiple personality person can have the same face, yet look very different when they are thinking/acting/feeling in one way than they do in another. Remember the incredibly different faces of Ted Bundy? Or how about the way little kids perceive their mothers to be sweet beautiful mothers one minute and ugly evil witches the next? I believe the differences in the way the face muscles are used, the hairline, the underlying bone structure, teeth, etc., would make a transplanted face quite different than it was on its original owner. The face might be the same, but the personality of the wearer would make it his own.

    I wonder if a woman's face could be transplanted on a man? With his hormones, it would grow a beard, so would definitely look more male than female. No problem with her identity being stolen that way.

    BaBi
    A facial transplant. That was news to me. The only possible ethical problem I could think of was for the family of the deceased. I was thinking it might be extremely painful for them to see the face of a loved one on someone else. However, as I understood it, the article said that even a total transplant would result in a face slightly different from the original, so that should not be a major issue.

    I think it is simply that (1) the idea is new and startling, and (2)there is something much more personal about one's face. One's self identity is obviously more connected to the face than to an internal organ or an eye. Personally, once I'm through with this body, I would be happy to have any useful part of it 'recycled'. ....Babi

    annafair
    That is an interesting idea......a female face on a male..or vice versa..I have no idea but it is something to think about. I suspect it would not make a difference ..I do wonder about the size..some people have small faces ie would they cover a larger bone structure?

    In my heart I sincerely hope there is hope for the severely disfigured if they choose this route but I wonder if it were me if I would choose to have a new face if needed. If waking up to a new face as result of the plastic surgery ( not for beauty but for need in case of burn etc) would be hard to adjust to I wonder what it would be like to awake to a face that is mobile, covering whatever features I may have left how I would feel. I am not sure the problems of dealing with that wouldnt be harder than have a scarred face.

    The more I think about this the more I feel a concern. I am sure it will be done sooner or later and it will be interesting to see how it works and how the patient deals with it ...anna

    annafair
    Well I guess we are really mature people when we can say ...Hey I am finished with this "shell" and I really dont care what you do with it. Although I have to admit I am rather fond of it while I still inhabit it. anna

    Faithr
    Well I wake up to a new face every few weeks. I am almost 76 now and when I look at pictures of me from baby on thru teen young married etc and up to now the face is radically different evry few years. I don't think it would be difficult to become accustom to a new face. We do it all the time though not over night to be sure. fr

    kiwi lady
    No one in their right mind would want my face. I have never been a person who could be bothered with constant skin care. Its lasted pretty well considering!!! LOL. However they would need to do a face lift at the same time due to my sun damage round the eyes from many years of boating. Look at Denis Connor's wrinkles round his eyes- thats me! I think they would be more inclined to use good skin. I would definately be classed as a second!

    Carolyn

    annafair
    It seems we are willing to give up our faces but as several say and I am among them...I dont think anyone would want them. And I am sure the doctors would prefer, maybe even say a younger skin is better.

    Each time I do one of these discussions I find myself continuing to think about the subject. Lots of times your posts inspire me to think deeper and delve into the subject matter so I thank you for that.

    We dont seem to mind if doctors use our face and body parts after we no longer need them, but what about younger people? And what if you have to make a decision about one of your children or grandchildren?

    My youngest daughter is only 35 and is really a beautiful person and has a beautiful face. Could I allow the doctors to use that face, so dear and precious to me if she should die before me? How would a family deal with the fact organs need to be removed soon as posible? How could you have closure if there wasnt that last time to look on thier face before you say goodbye?

    Other organs would not be missed but a face? I can see why the doctors want a good debate about this idea. So I have been thinking and now await to see what you think. anna

    Malryn (Mal)
    I really don't think a whole face would be transplanted; portions of it, yes. How many times have you said, "Doesn't that woman look just like so and so?" Perhaps one might be reminded, but most of the time I believe we wouldn't even notice if somebody else had our ears or our nose. Remember, there's going to be a lot of plastic surgery involved which would probably bring about changes.

    Mal

    BaBi
    Anna, that was the point I was making about the feelings of the family possibly being an ethical consideration. And you are right, of course, that younger skin than ours would be more flexible and adaptable.

    At the same time, KIWI, I think even sun-wrinkled faces would be preferable to burnt and mutilated faces. I guess the question now is whether younger people would be as ready to donate their faces (post-mortem, natch) as this older group appears to be. ...Babi

    Faithr
    Babi in my youth I did not want cremation either nor would I sign a donor card. I just was hanging on for dear life to my physical being. I matured and went through the grief of losing family and friends to death. I began to realize that the essence of a person is what matters not the physical which winds up dust anyway you look at it. I think most youth would not want to donate their face in the sense that it identifies us. It is the first thing that starts making connections in a babies brain...the face. And it is very personal but dead is dead though it seems sometimes we can maintain denial of that right up to the end of our lives. fr

    Malryn (Mal)
    I am convinced that we believe what we want to believe and hear what we want to hear. I have just read an article which states that usually a face transplant would be fat and skin, leaving the original bone structure intact, thus facial characteristics would not change. In the case where some bones were transplanted, this article said, there might be some resemblance to the donor, but not enough that a person could say, "Oh, heavens! There's my long gone nephew."

    We've been through this ethical thing about transplants before. This is no different. A part is a part, not a whole living person. Right? If my automobile has a rebuilt engine that once belonged to someone else's car, would that car be his or mine? Mine! There's not much difference between that and replacing body parts, in my opinion.

    Mal

    angelface555
    I thought that the expectation in a skin graft would be that the grafted skin cells would regenerate and grow, causing new skin. This along with what Mal has posted, would make the ethics inconsequential.

    My daughter died at 18 from a brain tumor caused by a skin cell going to the wrong place. Ironically she had signed a donor card after seeing a burn documentary and had wanted to provide skin for burn victims. Because of the tumor, they weren't able to use her skin. Her heart was taken apart and went to four people. Two received the gift of her eyes. Altogether, she helped eight people. This is what she wanted and I had no wish to contradict her. She was a loving person and wanted people to be helped if she could. I think deep down, all of us would feel that way.

    annafair
    Angel your poignant post touches me...yes we should all feel that way but many people obviously dont.

    I read a similiar article Mal about what they can do but there must be something else that concerns the doctors since it would seem they want approval and feel a need for a debate on the question.

    With any new idea regarding a medical decision it would seem there are aspects we as layman may not think about. I wish the doctors were more forthcoming as to thier concerns. That would help.

    If my family members signed a donor card there would be no problem,it would be honored. Of course it is not going to be my decision as they are married and have children so it will be up to them. Grief also has to have an effect on any decision one might make. Angel I think you were very attune to your daughter and her wishes and were able to honor them. I am not sure everyone can or would do that. Just thinking this am..anna

    Nellie Vrolyk
    Hello all! I wouldn't be concerned over someone having my face after I am dead; after all, I certainly won't be needing it any longer at that point.

    Maybe the doctors are concerned as to what would happen if the face transplant did not take or failed for some reason; in which case the patient, who received the transplant, would be worse off than before.

    I think it would be strange to be the recipient of a facial transplant, even if one were only getting the lips or nose and not all the features; for every time one looked in the mirror, one would see those features and be reminded of the person who donated them. Not that it would be a bad thing to be so reminded.

    Interesting subject and good choice, Annafair!

    angelface555
    Hi Nell;

    I wonder if a person doesn't also feel that way with a cornea or a heart; or other major organ donation? I think it would be natural to wonder about the donor.

    annafair
    Angel I think any time someone is given the gift of life through a donor there would have to be some interest in who. There are a lot of stories I have read about the results of organ donations and how it affected the donee. A year or so ago a young man was killed in an auto accident I believe in Italy and his parents donated all viable organs and made an enormous difference for several persons. I would like to think I would think that way. Since it hasnt been done ...at least that seems to be what the doctors are saying ..perhaps they are concerned with whether the person who needs it might be unhappy with what they get. And of course when the doctors say a new face or parts etc they may be raising expectations which could result in disappointments. It is an intesting matter...and in one article it mentioned the fact it has been in a movie and in fiction...so again we can see some justification in the saying..What man concieves he can accomplish...I am not sure that is the correct saying but it means the same..my mind seems to be slipping this evening...anna

    Diane Church
    I believe as most of you do - if anyone can use any part of me after I'm through, I'm more than happy to help.

    That being said I do wonder about a few things. I'm thinking of a (true) book I read a few years ago about a middle-aged woman who had received the heart of a young man killed in a motorcycle accident. After the transplant had successfully settled in, the woman (and her family) started noticing some surprising new behaviors and tastes in the woman. Sorry, I can't remember details but I guess it might have been new food likes or dislikes that turned out to have been those of the donor. Also, maybe a new love of speed, rollercoasters and the like whereas previously she had been a little timid about such things. This would be no reason to NOT do transplants but I think it would be something to be aware of. Well, for example, what if a diabetic received the heart (or another organ) of someone who had a real sweet tooth? Could be a problem.

    Relating to the face transplant thing,I guess it's possible that someone could receive the face of someone whose looks suggested a totally different personality. You know how they say that after 50 we create the type of face we deserve - or something like that. If that DID happen, then I wonder if the face would change again into one matching the new personality. Gee, all this is stuff of late-night movies which I didn't mean. Just that there are a lot of ramifications and shouldn't be gone into without a lot of thought.

    Arast
    Reading all this I think of that young man who as a boy his father poured gas on him and set him afire - I've seen him on a TV program and thought how difficult it must be to get up each day trusting in a God and feeling positive with the absence of a face that he covers some with a pulled down baseball cap. I would think any face old or young where he had features that operate as we so take for granted.

    annafair
    Oh I remember that too. It was a horrible story and makes me wonder about humanity. SO much does anyway but you are right ..I am sure he would welcome a chance to look like a person again.

    I do worry about the expectations of those who would need this type of surgery. And I hope for those who need and desire this it will be successful and give them a chance at a normal life.

    Diane that is an interesting thought as well. Who knows ...and all of it is like a science fiction story only it is not fiction. anna

    Coyote
    I had a friend in grade school who had burned most of his face somehow. He got along fine in our school because we all knew each other - was class president in 8th grade if I remember right. During his high school years, he worked at a drive in theater where he worked in the semi dark a lot of the time. I have no idea what happened after that, but he was very bright, so I often wondered. Hopefully, he had some plastic surgery repairs to some extent, but the best of such surgery never looks totally natural.

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    This seems to fall so in line with how much we in this nation value what people look like - on Europe TV talent is hailed regardles warts, age and all - there is even a comedian now saying how we didn't really listen to Goberchof (spell oh my) as he was describing the fall of communism because we were more concerned with how he could do a better job of covering that thing, that birth mark on his forehead. Some nations we have recently been reminded hide their faces where as here every emotional button is pushed when an advertisment suggests that we can look better if we use or do such and such. To be loveable you must look good or else you are not loveable.

    Wow - but look at it, even Universities are more concerned with their image, winning football and a building project than with having a large number of tenured professors, so that part time professors are the rule today. We know without the carrot of Tenure there is not the investment made by a department in grooming a professor - the Universites money is going toward looking 'good' which is observed as success, not what is in their warehouse, the professors that educate our young adults.

    Diane Church
    WELL said, Barbara! You make excellent points.

    Although, I do think the gist of this conversation is directed more to those who might have no face or, at best, a badly disfigured face. Not so much to those who might feel they have unattractive features or maybe too many wrinkles - that kind of thing.

    annafair
    How we look and how we dress etc seems to be more important than anything else. I certainly agree with that and it is sad it is true. Perhaps if we would focus on the inside of a person instead of the outside everyone would be better off.

    The people who NEED a new face, not out of vanity or a wish to be merely free of wrinkles etc would love to just look like a person again. I hope sincerely this transplant will be successful. The more I think about it ...and it does require thought for all the reasons we have covered I hope it will give the scarred and maimed help.

    It is too bad good manners have been ignored. I cant imagine my parents ever allowing me to judge someone by thier looks or disabilty.

    I will be watching to see what the doctors in England do and I wish they could read the comments here. I think it would help them make the decision to go ahead. anna

    BaBi
    Diane, I was thinking about what you told us, ie., the story of the woman who had some changes in tastes and behavior after a transplant. I can't imagine a donor organ effecting the recipients behavior, etc. But I can imagine that a person who has been given a new lease on life might have a change in attitude toward that life; one that would cause her to be more open and receptive to new experiences. Nothing like nearly losing something to make you appreciate it more and make the most of it. ....Babi

    angelface555
    I have a hard time believing that a new face stretched over your own bones and fat and other body parts would look anything like someone else.

    I do wonder if perhaps they, (the doctors); may have been more worried about the one receiving the transplant. That they may have unrealistic expectations about the new "face."

    I also don't believe, along with Babi, that a organ transplant alone could give you new tastes that didn't come out of your own feelings from the situation.

    Diane Church
    Darn - I wish I knew the name of that book. But that was the point - no one expected anything at all like that to happen. And it took a while for these subtle changes to even be noticed. And it was some time before the organ recipient and her family got together with the donor's family so that these changes could even be discussed, or matched up, as it were. The book was well documented and I just can't remember if there were photographs or not. And I do believe that I've read of similar results from other transplants.

    annafair
    Cant help with the idea of a transplant changing a person's tastes etc. But I have lived long enough to know ANYTHING seems possible. If all parts of our bodies have DNA then perhaps it is possible for some of it to mix with transplant donee. I hope that is not far fetched but then the idea of transplanting a face seems far fetched.

    I thihk of people I know who have died years ago who could have been saved if they had lived longer or born later in life. Medical miracles are happening every day ..who knows what we learn next?

    Everyone has contributed good thoughts and suggestions here and that is why it is a pleasure to lead and participate in these discussions...anna

    annafair
    It seems after the first few articles about face transplants there have been no other. I think perhaps so much is going on in the world people are not really worried about what may or may not happen in other areas.

    I was thinking though that if war is inevitible face transplants may be used. There are so many reasons in life to think about transplants of all sorts and how we feel about them.

    As we age we care less about what will happen to what is left when we die and are ready to allow medicine and science to hopefully find solutions for the living. I think we have come a long way since I was a little girl.

    anna

    Barbara St. Aubrey
    Anne I think you are right as we see young families now being seperated as troops are deployed - I which we understood language as well as we now can replace body parts like car parts.

    I recently learned that language is the engine to a persons morality, philosophy, values, habits etc. And because of the differences in languge we hve minds taking various paths in the woods so to speak - That it is not just having the ability to translate words but, words have different shading of meaning and a history behind them. As the body has memory seperate from mental memory that brings about various knee jerk reactions well words do the same. This whole N. Korean thing could very well be as a result of very different understanding behind the words as the two languages, Korean and English are different enough to make for very different philosophies and habits.

    And so the idea of adding someone elses body parts is interesting - if it contains body memory how is that memory connected to the new body - and if it is connected by language where does language eminate. Because from what I have read body memory does not have to go through the brain unless it is described, which then it does require language whether it is spoken or written language.

    It has been rainy and cold yesterday and today - I want to shut off the TV or even (I can't believe I am saying this) have a football game on as background sound and curl up with a book and make believe the world ends in my backyard. I am tired of being torn up over so many major issues - and God bless anyone living without a warm cozy house that has adequate food in the cupboards and medical care surrounding them today.

    Malryn (Mal)
    There have been many skin grafts done for a long, long time. I don't see any of those people reflecting changes in personality or anything else.

    I had a muscle transplant when I was ten years old, but the muscle was my own. That operation was over 8 hours long, done in an amphitheater in the Children's Hospital in Boston, under the auspices of the Harvard Infantile Paralysis Commission, with doctors and medical students watching. I spent four weeks in the hospital, four more in a kind of nursing home. That operation did nothing for me.

    Mal

    annafair
    I think this may be the last. And every transplant is not successful. By Pass surgery requires using veins in your own groin and leg and I know a number of people who have done so well from the beginning it was amazing...others never survived the surgery or had continuing problems. So much depends on the skill of the doctors and the health of the patient.

    Which is one reason this will be more than just doing a transplant but seeing how well it works. You might like to read this link. Perhaps we all are guilty of wanting more than medical science can really offer.

    My mother died at 86 and lived a good life and I remember her doctor saying it was too bad new parts werent available for people as they are for cars. Perhaps we have gotten so used to having things replaced ( although that is also changing since we throw away things now as new is cheaper than repairing) we come to believe all science fiction is really true or will be ....

    Check this link ...anna

    http://www.scifitoday.com/story/2002/11/24/131248/76

    Coyote
    I am not very concerned with faces, transplanted or not. To me, it is the expressions on the face, or in the eyes of the person which are interesting. As far as good looks, a one time twist of the tongue says it all: A thing of joy is a beauty forever.

    annafair
    Beauty is only skin deep ...a saying we should all remember. Those that would benefit by a facial transplant would make it their face. Their smiles and personality would come through and that is what counts.

    Even someone who has been disfigured can make a day bright with thier smile and attitude. Glad you reminded us......People who would need this type of surgery would be helped if the rest of society would stop judging others by their looks or where they live or the clothes they wear or the cars they drive we would ALL BE BETTER.

    I remember when I was in my late teens meeting a young man my age with cerebal palsy...He had some physical defects and had been ignored by most he met but I struck up a conversation with him ...and he was one of the most intelligent young men I had met. A good sense of humor and just a joy to be with. All he required was some patience.

    Well it is cold here and the weather man promises more of the same. Today I can stay in but tomorrow I have to go out and shiver!

    anna

    BaBi
    Beautiful, BEN! And so true. Like Anna, I can recall a good example. I once knew a youth Minister who was terribly scarred on one side of his face. The first time I saw him, it was an undeniable shock. But as I grew to know him, I stopped noticing the scars entirely, as apparently did everyone else. The young people he ministered to adored him. I have found that if you look in people's eyes rather than at their faces, you can meet the real person. ...Babi

    Diane Church
    Have you ever noticed that the better you know a person, the better looking they become?

    Malryn (Mal)
    Funny to read what you write about visible physical handicaps, since I've had one almost all my life. Oh, the stories I could tell you about the reaction of people throughout my life.

    Mal

    Bobbiecee
    Diane....I agree with you in re a person who is beautiful inside. However, the opposite occurs with a person who is NOT beautiful inside. Do you agree?

    Bobbie

    Malryn (Mal)
    Forget the person who's inside because there isn't any. The person you see is the one you've got. Talk about the person inside is romantic talk. Accept me and others like me or not, I don't care. But consider what you're missing when you turn away. People like me never really think about what's inside people like you.

    The point I'm making is that you are separating us handicapped, disabled, disfigured people from the rest of you. That's a kind of superiority on your part that we do not need. After all, aren't we really just like you? Think about it. There but for the grace of God could go you.

    Mal

    angelface555
    I ran into some discrimination when I went out with my father or my daughter when they were having difficulties. Many people are shallow or ignorant. Some are afraid to get too close in case its catching or because they fear seeing what they may become.

    There were also good people who ignored the obvious and talked directly to my father and daughter, learning that both were sane and intelligent people with visible difficulties.

    The ones that angered me were the ones who spoke only to me, asking me what my father or daughter needed or wanted. I would silently look to my daughter or father to answer. The silence was often enough to shame the person. There were some who would try to regain my attention or continue to try to repeat the question.

    I also knew a man who was physically ugly with misshapen features. He worked in the audiovisual filming department of our local university. He held more then one degree and was quite fascinating. After only moments in his company, he became quite handsome and had no difficulties maintaining a social life.

    I agree that we need to look at the inside of a person as well as the outside and intelligent people do. However, I do think we have been genetically programmed to look for and prefer beauty. There have been numerous studies published about this. It all goes back to initiating reproduction and getting the best possible genetic code for your offspring. This hardwiring goes back to the beginning of our genetic code.

    Malryn (Mal)

    Is there no one who is willing to listen to what a genuine disfigured, handicapped person has to say? You all know best? Walk in my shoes. Wear my face. Live in my misshapen body that's like so many people I have known. Live our lives. Learn what it's like.

    Bobbiecee
    Malryn,...I'm not sure what you're saying, but what I'm saying is not 'romantic' or trying to be superior. A beautiful personality makes a person beautiful whether handicapped or disfigured. An ugly personality in a person with a beautiful face makes that person ugly. I have one friend who is handicapped and all I see is the beautiful person he is, his personality, his sense of humour, his intelligence. My daughter has a close friend who was seriously burned in the Bali bombing, and who is disfigured. She too is a beautiful person, who is a real battler. She fought to stay alive, is now going through the grief of losing her husband in the bombing, but through it all has retained her positive attitude and sense of humour. It's a shame that you don't look for inner beauty in people. If you did that, perhaps more people would look past your handicaps and see a beautiful inner person....like with my friend, and my daughter's friend.

    Bobbie

    annafair
    On one hand I have met some of the most attractive people ...outside they were the kind of people anyone would welcome. BUT when you really got to know them ..they were shallow, incredibly self-centered and thought the world revolved around them .

    Years ago when my husband was stationed on a base in Tennesse before desegragation we had several black officers in the squadron. The base was 17 miles from Nashville and the bachelor officer quarters left a lot to be desired. Pretty soon all of the white single officers had moved off base..several purchasing homes jointly where they entertained the squadron at get togethers. Leroy always showed at all the parties and one evening coming home from a party I asked my husband Why doesnt Leroy move into Nashville , those BOQ's are really dreary? I no sooner said it than I said OHH>>>I had forgotten Leroy was black. And I think we do the same to anyone with a visual handicap ...after we know them we forget the handicap..the same way after we find the beautiful person has a real handicap of a selfish nature ..we forget they are beautiful.

    Perhaps instead of face transplants what we all need are new eyes to see the world as it is and still find it wonderful...just thinking ...anna

    Bobbiecee
    BTW, Malryn...my husband came home from the Vietnam war both handicapped and somewhat disfigured, but he was a beautiful person, with a very loving wife and children and many friends. He was like my daughter's friend...a wonderful personality, a positive outlook on life...just glad he survived, a fantastic sense of humour. So, please don't tell me I have a superior attitude or see handicapped and disfigured people as 'different' or not beautiful. My husband walked in your shoes, lived in a handicapped body, but didn't let that stop him from living fully, and having the love and admiration of many, many people, including his wife and children. Instead of focussing on his handicaps and missing limb, etc, he compensated for that and lived life to the max. And was grateful to be alive.

    Bobbie

    Bobbiecee
    I agree with you, Anna.

    Bobbie

    Malryn (Mal)
    Bobbie, I don't need to look farther than what I see to know beauty in people because I don't question it. It's there, or it's not there. That's my point.

    But that beauty you mention isn't any different in someone who's disabled or disfigured and someone who's not. Do you get my point? Some of you are discriminating because of physical characteristics that are not yours. Like why? she says in her total amazement and igorance.

    Mal

    Bobbiecee
    Malryn, I can assure you that I'm not one of those people, as I explained in my posts.

    Bobbie

    Malryn (Mal)
    Good, Bobbie. Why am I fussing? There'll never be true equality among the species, and attitudes will not change. Throughout history the disabled, disfigured and handicapped have automatically been slated as weaker in the selection process. Survival of the fittest was not Darwin's theme, but the idea surely did catch on. So be it.

    Mal

    patwest
    I think there are a several disabled, disgfiured people here on SeniorNet who post regularly.... and I don't imagine that we will ever know that they are handicapped until we might meet them at a luncheon or a Bash.

    Malryn (Mal)
    You're right, Pat. There is a woman, for example, in the Writers Exchange WREX, a very sensitive writer, who suffered a debilitating illness at the age of two which has made her disabled in one way or another since then.

    What would happen if we WREX writers met her at a luncheon or bash? The only example I can give is a luncheon in New York, given for me, where only one person knew about my handicap. When I went in on the arm of my son, a cane in my hand, the looks I received were those of astonishment. None of my friends in Cyberspace knew. Or if they did, they did not realize the extent of my disabiity. As always in that kind of situation, it took some time to assure them by the way I behaved that I was no different from what they are. When that was done, we had a pleasant luncheon and a lot of fun.

    Pat, you had polio. You must know what I'm talking about here.

    Mal

    annafair
    I just saw this fiesty lady with a cane! So many of my friends have had knee of hip replacement and use canes and I thought prehaps you had one or the other. In fact one of my friends now has both shoulders, knees and hips replaced. She laughed and said when she told me ...I was going to be cremated but now I wonder if my family would have any ashes but pieces of plastic and metal.You cant strew that!

    I dont think there was any one livlier than PAt while we were in DC ..maybe Alf....she out walked, out talked when given a chance and just was the most enthusiastic person there. AND I can tell you there is a cab driver in DC that will never argue with a lady brandishing a cane. Hurrah for PAT ....anna

    angelface555
    I think the point Mal was trying to make is that a handicapped person should be viewed and treated the same as a non handicapped person. No better or worse,just as a person and not the handicap.

    We are still seeing the handicap first and the person second. Its similar to the way we describe a person by color or by saying the one in glasses. She's saying that a person with a handicap doesn't want to be seen as just a handicap.

    Coyote
    MALRYN - I know darned well you are different than most people. I have known you online long enough to think of you as one of the most ambitious, intelligent, talented and stubborn people I have ever met. Yes, I know you have a physical handicap, but these other differences are the way I personally define you.

    Malryn (Mal)
    Angelface, what you said is exactly right. Anybody who wants to be seen as a handicap has something wrong with him or her. That works both ways! Anybody who sees the handicap as the most important thing about anyone has something wrong with them, too.

    Stubborn, Ben? I'm laughing. Maybe it is stubbornness that keeps me plugging away at what I do. I'm glad you see me as you do, but what about all the many, many people in the world who don't know anything about that? Do they see me as that woman in the wheelchair, or do they see what I really am? Well, heck, this could apply to anyone, handicapped or not, couldn't it?

    Mal

    Malryn (Mal)
    Below is a link to an essay called "What is a Disability?" by Robby Iadeluca, which I think everyone in this discussion should read. The piano player in the illustration is Marcus Roberts, who is blind.

    WHAT IS A DISABILITY? by Dr. Robert Bancker Iadeluca

    Bobbiecee
    Malryn....I have been thinking about what you've been saying, and I do remember one incident that irritated especially me and my daughter, in re my husband. We were visiting my parents in SoCal and one of Mum's friends made a comment about how great it was that I was staying with my husband, despite his disability. I told her that I didn't consider my husband disabled, he is just the man I love, a most wonderful man, and a man who didn't consider himself disabled either, in fact, had done and was still doing more with his life than most people, and that his disability as she saw it, was his challenge and incentive to do everything he would have done without what she considered his 'disability' and perhaps more, including winning a medal from the disabled Olympics. I remember at the time that I told Krysti there was more of a tendency in the US for people to demand outward perfection....including mobs of make-up, etc, whereas in Australia, the battler who is willing to 'have a go' is honoured... a difference in culture. So, yes, I do accept that possibly there are people there who see your disability, and perhaps Bill and I would have felt it if we lived there.

    That article was excellent, and I agree with it 100%.

    Bobbie

    annafair
    I am in agreement, we are all disabled in some way or another. And Robby wrote an excellent essay about the different ways. It has been 24 hrs since I last visited this site and here you have added some thoughtful words and shared some important ideas. Thanks for giving us something to consider. anna

    angelface555
    There are many areas of disability. As a child, I suffered convulsions and numerous high fevers. I had seven eye operations as a child and three as an adult.

    My disability is vocational, basically. I have nerve damage from the fevers and have a loss of coordination at times and my pupils or actually the muscles governing them, tend to move and I often have problems judging distance and perspective. I am unable to drive or learn any electronic or close work due to this and of course my sewing or ballroom dancing is lousy.

    But this is all and I don't feel the loss as I never had it. Some of the small digs and dings I receive because of this are only a taste of what others with more serious disabilities suffer. In my case, I discovered books and cameras, exploring in that way what I couldn't in others.

    My point is that we must realize that all of us are handicapped in some way and it isn't always the most obvious one in the group. We need to think of everyone as imperfect in some ways but excellent in others.

    annafair
    Well said and I always admire and appreciate those who overcome whatever disability they may have. My oldest daughter became legally blind in her late 30's. She had to learn to change her life around. In the beginning she was afraid to go anywhere alone. I mean if I took her shopping I had to stay with her because she couldnt see well.

    Using programs for her computer that allows her to enlarge the letters until she can read them she has continued being a strong person. She writes, she has written a column a week for six years for a local newspaper. Was voted president of her Women's Club, does the News letter, organizes the annual fair to support the local food bank and the annual rabies clinic. She has the greatest support group where she lives, driving her wherever she needs to go. A couple of years ago she contacted writers in her locale and organized a writers group that meets monthly at her home.

    In fact until recently to see her you would not know she cant see well. She has such a postive attitude most people who meet her are surprised when they find out she has a vision problem.

    And while she is my daughter there are many others I know that also have a diaability. The good news is they have all accepted it and gone on ...with all the snow here (7') last night I just filled my little stove with wood and watched some DVD's one was about a young man who served jail time and was now out and trying to put the past behind him. One line I loved..Each day is like a new book. You open the first page and you never know it may be the only page in that book. So you just go ahead because you see there are lots of pages left. Perhaps not for you but they are there.

    We have left behind the original discussion here. But perhaps we have touched a need to discuss something more important. Recognizing each person has a disability and loving them not in spite of it but because of it...and that is not bad..anna

    Lorrie
    As we wind down here, I think this would be a good opportunity to tell our discussion leader AnnaFair how much we have enjoyed these past two weeks and what a marvelous job this lady has done in leading us!

    Please "stay tuned" for our next topic. We will have a guest Leader, our own Tiger Tom, and you will love his choice of subject!!

    Lorrie

    MaryZ
    Great job, Annafair! And an interesting choice.

    Mary

    Ginny
    Congratulations, Annafair!! Well done, two months of splendid discussion, what great points raised here, I've read every word and enjoyed the whole thing and the heading (I keep meaning to say) is gorgeous!

    Can't wait to see what Tiger Tom has in store for us, he's going to be our First Guest Slot and we're quite excited to see what he's come up with!

    ginny

    GingerWright
    Annafair I have enjoyed reading the posting on Face Transplants. Thank You very much for the subject matter I found it very interesting.

    Ginger

    Diane Church
    Annafair - you've displayed such a nice touch in leading this discussion along. I hope you will do others. Thanks for all the energy and thought you've put into this.

    Faithr
    Annafair this has been most interesting. I enjoy so much this door which opens the opinions of my contemporaries to my examination. This could not happen in a oral discussion I opin. We all strive to be civilized, and well mannered, and treat each opinion with equal weight which does not happen in an oral forum. Thanks to all the participants for that.fr

    angelface555
    I want to add my thoughts as well for a wonderful group moderator and an interesting subject. I would have never have expected half of the concerns and tribulations and small triumphs I have read here. Thank you Annafair!

    robert b. iadeluca
    If I understand correctly, the two faces of Janus are meant to be of a positive nature -- being able to look backward as well as forward. Being able to see broadly. But the term "two-faced" has a negative connotation. I wonder why.

    Robby

    TigerTom
    All,

    Welcome to yur "Nutty" discussion. Happy you
    can join us. I thought that a little lighter subject
    might be in order this time around.



    I hope that in the course of these two weeks you
    will learn a few new things about Nuts and their
    uses.

    If you click on and read the the link I believe you it
    will give you a good start.

    The ancients believed that Nuts could reverse the
    Aging Process and give long life, since many
    Nuts are good for the skin and are very healthy
    perhaps they were on to something.

    BTW, if you like Peanut Butter you might be interested
    in commercialy produced Almond, Hazelnut, Cashew, Pistaschio,
    and Macadamia Nut Butters Creamy or Crunchy. look similar
    to Peanut butter and are good on Bread as sandwichs,
    on Toast, or in cookies and other recipes calling
    for Peanut Butter.

    Hope you will join in. Recipe's are very welcome.
    Also, any volunteers to try recipe's I may post?


    Tiger Tom

    GingerWright
    Tiger Tom, Gee I did not know that there were other Nuts that are Nut buter but then I live in the Sticks. I sure would like to try other Nut butters so will see if I can find some in the bigger city not to far away.

    Nutty, Ginger Here. ~~

    TigerTom
    Almonds

    The first Nut to be discussed is the Almond.
    click on the link to find out more about it

    http://www.botanical.com/botanical/mgmh/a/almon026.html



    It was believe at one time that Almonds prevented
    intoxication. So pass the Almonds and the Beer.

    Sweet Almonds sometimes give immediate relief of
    Heartburn: Peel and eat six or eight Almonds. Might
    be cheaper than those remedies advertised on T.V.

    If you cannot drink Cows Milk and don't care for Soy
    Bean Milk, try some Almond Milk

    Almond Oil can be used in cooking in place Of Olive
    or Peanut Oil.

    Almond Flour contains practically no Starch and is often
    used to make Cakes and Cookies for Patients suffering from
    Diabetes.

    Almond butter, Creamy or Crunchy: the Oil spearates so
    the Almond butter must be stirred to mix in the oil.

    If you are alergic to Peanuts perhaps Almonds would be
    a good substitute.


    Tiger Tom

    GingerWright
    Every thing in Curious Minds has had my interest and have enjoyed all of them. Thank You who ever thought of this discussion.

    Diane Church
    Good topic, Tiger Tom! This is more up my alley.

    Looking forward to participating more in this one.

    So, first off it's almonds, aye? Where we recently lived, there were lots and lots of almond orchards although vineyards were taking over rapidly in the last decade or so. I think almonds are the first tree to blossom in the spring and indeed, they were a spectacular sight.

    A friend, who owned an almond orchard, and I used to "debate" over the relative healthfulness of walnuts vs. almonds. I usually came down in favor of walnuts but she accused me of reading only studies financed by the walnut industry!

    Be that as it may, I'm grateful that in recent years the "authorities" have decided that nuts are actually good for us and no longer to be considered no-no's. Works for me!

    We did find, thanks to the several almond trees on our property that there are several types, one of which had extremely hard meats. Another was much softer and, therefore, easier to eat.

    Our first year living in our old home, we valiantly tried to harvest our own crop. What a laugh! We spread a large sheet under the best tree, knocked as many down as we could, then gathered them up to shell them. After that, we set the "naked" little nuts out to dry in the sun and promptly had the first rain for that time of year. I kid you not - we rushed them inside to protect from the remaining rain, carefully toted them out a few days later and it rained again!

    From that time on, we left them to the birds and only picked ours from the health food store. But I'll always have a soft spot in my heart for almonds. And, they ARE good for us!

    Faithr
    You would be nuts not to join in this discussion eh!!!! Faith

    Prancer
    Tiger Tom

    Well, I'm a bit of a NUT, myself.

    Oh, this is going to be an excellent discussion! I'm glued!

    I must tell you I have already tried the advice about Almonds for Heartburn - and IT WORKED! Wish I had known that for years.

    I have a cookie recipe to post later. I have tried it and like it very much.

    Ta Ta for now.

    TigerTom
    Prancer,

    You say the Almonds stopped your Heartburn!

    I guess this disucssion will be worth it after
    all.

    Now, if someone could test to see if Almonds
    prevent intoxication. Any Volunteers?


    Tiger Tom

    annafair
    Having trouble staying on line and I find today my last post failed to make it before I was disconnected.

    So before I praise Tiger Tom for what I can see is going to be a VAIRYYYYYY INTERESTING DISCUSSION ..let me try to remember what I said in the missing post.

    First I wanted to thank everyone for thier participation. A discussion is only as good as the people who paricipate and WE HAVE GREAT PARTICIPATORS HERE...Each one added a voice and shared their opinions and expierence. Thank you so much ...anna

    annafair
    OH my Tiger Tom you have chosen a wonderful subject to discuss. While I love almonds and know how good they are for you I know prefer them ground in recipes or sliced thin. While eating ice cream with whole almonds I lost a tooth when I bit down on what must have been one those hard almonds so I am wary of munching on whole ones now.

    I must try the health store and see if they have almond butter for that sounds really good. I have tried a number of the other nut butters and pronounce them all GREAT.

    So glad we are now told eating nuts are good for us...I ate them anyway but it is good to know I was doing the right thing.

    AND yes I will be happy to try any nut recipes. I use them in everything all ready. I dont add sugar to my cereal but do add a tablespoon of chopped nuts. And every recipe that seems to be enhanced by nuts I use them...of course that means most recipes!

    Now if my computer will work I shall return...anna

    angelface555
    I also have tried and use several of the nut butters. I was surprised about disliking some of the more general and preferring some of the more exotic. I use nuts as a filler and will have to see if they will work for indigestion. Thanks, Tiger Tom for the info.

    TigerTom
    Annafair, Angelface,

    Ever since reading about the various Nut
    Butters I have been dying to try them. I know
    I can buy them over the Net from a few companies
    but I am reluctant to give out my Credit Card
    number or use the Pay Pal. So, I am going to try
    the Health stores.


    Since you two have said that they are good
    I will rely on your testimonials.


    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    All,

    Click on link for some interesting Recipes
    using Almonds

    http://www.pastrywiz.com/archive/category/almonds.htm
    Try one, You will Like It


    Tiger Tom

    Faithr
    I love all nuts but the almond is a particular favorite. I use them in cooking and just eating. When I was a kid one of my favorite candy things was candy coated almonds. They had them all year but mom bought them at easter and they were all pretty pastel colors. I remember her putting them in little muffin papers and setting them beside our Easter dinner plate with a toothpick with a little sticker on it that had our names which dressed up our festive dinner. Those almonds will always be a part of my memories. Like candy canes for christmas. Other people remember chocolate easter eggs or rabbits or something but I remember Candy covered almonds.

    Prancer
    Baby Easter Eggs

    I remember the children calling those candy coated almonds "Baby Easter Eggs".

    I hadn't thought of that in years. Thanks for the memories, Faithr!

    O'Sharny
    I love all kinds of nuts and was munching on dry roasted peanuts when I came to this discussion.

    Candy coated almonds do bring back some nice memories.

    Have known for sometime that they are healthy for us.

    Diane Church
    What is that candy-like thing, is it Marzapan, that's made out of ground-up almonds? I used to love that as a kid - they made these candies to look like fruits - bananas, pears, etc. - all made out of almonds and then delicately painted. I don't think I've seen those in years and they would probably taste too sweet to me now but oh, what fine memories!

    O'Sharny
    Yes, Diane, that is marzipan. Gave some to a friwend a few years ago and then bought some for myself as I never had them before. Sorry, I didn't like them. They are available in the candy stores.

    Diane Church
    Thanks, O'Sharny - yes, marzipan is what it was. Not really like anything else I've tasted and, as I said, it would probably be too sweet for me now but as a kid, well, the sweeter the better, I guess.

    Now there's something else gnawing at the back of my mind - a cold cream, was it Pacquins? And it had an almondy scent or something and I remember liking it a lot back then. For the scent.

    losalbern
    I tuned in just a little bit ago and read all the preamble about nuts that Tiger presented and that created such an urge that I stopped what I was doing and got a small supply of mixed nuts and chewed happily on while reading all the postings. I am so glad to read that nuts are good for me! I love 'em! Losalbern

    TigerTom
    Diane,

    Many Soaps and Lotions have Almond in them.

    Almond is good for the Skin, I am not sure exactly what it does, but something.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Recipe,

    Here is a recipe for a dish.

    http://www.almondsarein.com/recipes/grahamkerr/recipe6.cfm

    Hope you like it.

    Tiger Tom

    tigerliley
    What a fun discussion....I all ways have nuts for snacks...all most every day....pecans , walnuts, and almonds being my favorites,,,black walnut ice cream.....ummmmm...and the little candy coated almonds were my mom's favorite thing.....I believe they are called "Jordan Almonds".... I am also fortunate enough to live close to a health food store which carries various nut butters and oils.......

    TigerTom
    More Recipes

    Here are a few more you might try.

    http://www.oakleychamber.com/festival/recipe.html

    I do hope someone tries one of these or any of the others I have posted.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Tigerlily,

    Welcome. Maybe you can add to our lore and perhaps a recipe or two.

    Lucky you, living near a Health store that
    carries Nut Butters.

    Health store in my area is closed on Sunday
    so I will have to wait until monday or tuesday
    to see if it carries any of the Nut Butters.


    BTW, Nice Name.
    Tiger Tom

    Sasha 5113
    The almond scented hand cream was/is Jergens Lotion. Jergens anything, I think! And marzipan is an unholy waste of almond paste, which you can buy in nearly any grocery, I think. Makes tremendous macaroons, the kind without coconut. (So speaks another almond freak. I once worked for a guy who was convinced that almonds were a cancer preventive, and he may have been right.)

    Faithr
    In the late 40's and early 50's I lived in our house in Fair-oaks which had almost 1/2 acre yard. We had olive trees on the back lot line and almond trees down the side of the lot. There was only one almond that produced and we were so use to cheap almonds in this area from all the orchards that we just let the animals have them. There was a big packing house devoted to almonds right here. My but almonds are very bitter when they first fall off the tree and are in that hard green skin. It is like the Pit of fruit, sort of like the inside of a peach or apricot isn't it. Did anyone ever read Art Linkletters book about the people in the Tibetan village that ate the pits of apricots? He said they were careful to just eat one or two in any one day as they contain some-kind of poison in larger amounts. And they ate apricots constantly (dried mostly to preserve them). He thought it keep them alive longer than average. Don't remember the actual name of the valley but it was interesting. fr

    TigerTom
    Recipes,

    Anyone looked at the recipes I have posted?

    If NOT, I am going to throw a Tantrum.

    I will run back and forth, throw myself on the
    ground, beat my hands and feet on the groung<br. Scream loudly, jump up, do it all over again,
    I'll show you. I throw some Classic Tantrums.
    You want to see a grown man cry?

    Please read the recipes and tell me what you think of them>

    Tiger Tom

    Faithr
    Tiger Tom stop growling and dont oh please dont have a tantrum..it is awful to see a grown man cry so I went yes I did. I read the recipe of Graham Kerr for the chicken with almonds and it sounded so good I clicked on favorites to save the site and will definetly try that one. As to the ones from Oakley I believe I have made cheese balls just like that one.I learned how to blanch my own almonds to use in cooking. I make a pesto with blanched almonds instead of pinole(pine) nuts though both are very good. faith

    patwest
    I do my own Chicken with almonds... but that was a good recipe...

    We like almond slivers in greenbeans in a mushroomsauce.

    Kathy Hill
    Ah almonds! I was teaching in southern Siberia in 2001 for a few months. At the corner market I could purchase about a pint of almonds for about 40 cents. Such bliss.

    Interesting discussion this is. Who would have thought about nuts for a topic? Good one.

    Kathy

    Borealis
    TigerTom: You would never have a tantrum....no way..... not even if I say I am too lazy to follow recipes like that?

    I have looked at the recipes.

    so........

    I expect you have looked at the recipes also. But have you tried them?

    That is a lot of ingredients, and a lot of elaborate cooking - at least for the second link cited.

    I use nuts a lot. I can make a delicious meal so easy with healthful ingredients as follows:

    one green apple chopped

    one handful of walnuts or almonds or cashews

    one handful of yellow raisins

    cut up a little sweet red onion

    other vegetables, mushrooms, fruits as desired.

    sprinkle with currie powder, chile powder,fresh ginger, spices or herbs

    cook lightly in olive oil

    Add a little cheese or tofu

    Enjoy

    Many variations are possible

    I eat like this most evenings

    I also drink some nut milks like almond milk. I do not have osteoporosis. At least not yet.

    Thanks for inviting us here - this is indeed a change of pace

    Cheers

    Edith

    GingerWright
    OH The Loveably Eatable Nut.

    Wow I am glad you all answered Tiger Toms message as I could just that Tiger getting upset and then What. Yikes.

    Prancer
    Ah Ha!

    Never try to tame a Tiger Tantrum; always give him his own way.

    SOOO... Here you go, Tiger. One lovely Chocolate Sparkle Cookie.

    MM-MMM- G-R-R E A T !

    (Recipe to be shared in a later post)

    TigerTom
    Recipes,

    Thank you ladies.

    Thank you, Borealis, for the Recipe.

    Prancer will look forward to the Cookie
    Recipe.

    Reason I asked you to look at the Recipes
    is that I intended that part of this discussion
    be devoted to recipes using the various NUTS.
    However, I need to have an idea of what KIND of
    recipes. I know there are many desserts using
    Nuts but I have found that there recipes for
    Soups, Salads, Sauces, dips, Meat Coatings,
    PIzza's and the like. So, what kind would you
    like to see?

    Do any of you have a favorite recipe that
    uses one kind of Nut or another in it? If so,
    please share it with us.


    Tiger Tom

    tigerliley
    TigerTom....oh yes I read your recipes.....I like recipes for salads with nuts in them and have two that I will be sharing.....I think they are exceptional and never tire of them....it is early morning here and have some unpacking I must do but will get them on later today.......great discussion....hey Tiger...I do better in these type of discussions than the political ones!!! lol.......I remember your thoughtful posts in some of those....I canceled all of them.....to contentious and I all ways left them feeling badly......

    Coyote
    First, I always think about my first experience trying to crack a walnut. My mother was busy when I wanted one, so gave me a hammer and a nut along with the instructions to put one crack down on the cement and tap the other crack with the hammer. I hollered back in, "Which other crack?" Of course, she said there was only one, so I argued and she got more impatient. But I was right. She had given me a three-sided walnut. (Since that time, I have always managed to latch onto strange nuts, but that is another topic altogether.)

    Well, more seriously, my curious mind long ago realized something about food. Two kinds of food are the most concentrated form of nutrition out there, seeds or eggs, which contain nutrition for a new life at the start, and foods which are made to feed a new life just after birth. Nuts certainly fall right in there. The idea is to recognize them as concentrated sources of nutrients, like eggs or dairy products. All these foods aren't good or bad foods, just concentrated, so shouldn't be bolted down in huge quantities, but rather treasured and enjoyed in smaller quantities. Of course, nuts are great for storing away for winter treats - squirrels have been doing it for years.

    Well, I like all nuts, those from shells and those two-legged ones, too, so I will stick it out here a while longer.

    Ann Alden
    One of our favorite salads with nuts is Waldorf Salad which just goes with everything but we seem to serve it with pork or a vegetarian meal mostly. In it are equal amounts of:

    Waldorf Salad

    Apples, chopped in small chunks and with peeling left on

    Nuts that you like(we prefer walnuts)

    Seedless Red grapes(my mom sliced these in half, me I am too lazy) or drained, canned pineapple chunks

    Chopped celery

    Mix(to taste) with a salad dressing such as Miracle Whip or any mayonaise.

    Hawaiian Red Pear Salad

    4 cups of lettuce(Romaine)

    Two red pears, pared but not peeled, chopped into chunks

    I cup of chopped(not ground) nuts(again we prefer, walnuts)

    About one cup of either Feta cheese or Blue Cheese

    Toss lightly(very lightly) with a French salad dressing of any kind, starting with about 1/3rd cup.

    To comment on almonds, they are so good for you. There is a claim that they prevent illnesses but I forget which ones. I keep a small jar of almond butter in the fridge but really love peanut butter the best. Any good nut butter is good to eat. You can put it on sliced apples or in celery. Great for snacks! My nutritionest in California, back in the 80's, preferred that I use any nut butter except peanut. Why? I don't know!

    Tom, I forgot to mention that I have had a bowl similar to your's in the header(refilled many times) of mixed nuts sitting on a table next to my husband's chair, all through the holidays. He and I have consumed three pounds of nuts since the holiday started. The mess we made was awful but worth every shell on the floor. We do try to be neat but hey, those nuts are just too good to pass up. I am just glad that they aren't peanut shells.

    Coyote
    We always made the Waldorf salad so it was almost a desert, usually served with turkey dinners. We used apples, nuts, celery and raisins, then used whipped cream for the dressing. Served in our big black salad bowl, the colors were so festive. The kids consumed great quantities for days after the holiday and, frankly, I prefered it to left-over pie the next day myself.

    MaryZ
    Ben - I'm like you! The nuts with shells are good, but the two-legged ones are terrific! and definitely my favorites!

    Mary

    Prancer
    I'd better put this in

    as it is the last day for Almonds...

    Chocolate Sparkle Cookies

    1/2 pound semisweet chocolate

    3 tablespoons butter, room temperature

    2 eggs

    1/3 cup Sugar plus more for rolling

    3/4 cup ground almonds

    powdered sugar for garnish

    Put the Chocolate in the top of double boiler and set over, but not touching, simmering water. After it melts, remove from heat. Cut up the butter and mix into the chocolate until melted.

    Beat the eggs, adding sugar until ribbons form. Fold in the chololate/butter mixture. Add the ground almonds.

    Refrigerate dough overnight.

    Line cookie sheet with parchment paper and scoop cookies on leaving room between each cookie.

    Bake at 325 deg. for 9 to 12 minutes.

    Dust with powdered sugar.

    BaBi
    YIKES! I miss one day and there are 831 messages here!

    Thanks for the red pear salad recipe, Ann. I know about the Waldorf salad, but not the red pear.

    I LOVE NUTS. Almonds are my favorite, or no, maybe cashews are my favorite. Of course I love peanuts, too. Oh, well,..those three are definitely my favorites. Then there's pecans, which are an abundant crop here in Texas. Pecan pies, pecan cookies, pralines, pecans out of the bowl, in fudge, etc., etc. Walnuts are good, but really high in fat, as are brazil nuts. By the way, someone (Ben?)was peeling the almonds? Why was that? ...Babi

    BaBi
    PS</BS> Ann, what is the difference between 'pared' and 'peeled'? All these years I've thought it was the same thing. ...Babi

    annafair
    YES I checked those recipes and printed out some I wanted to try. Since I like ricotta there was one the called Almond Ricotta Custard I intend to try.

    Marzipan ...ah I love that although it is high in calories...And I like it plain ..with no chocolate covering. And of course green beans would be naked if it werent for sliced almonds.

    Years ago I had a fantastic chicken recipe that called for almonds and my bread machine makes a wonderful loaf of bread with sliced almonds in it. Every time I serve it people rave about it.

    Who mentioned black walnut ice cream? Oh my goodness that is the best ice cream ...and from a cook book I have a recipe that is OLD OLD ..a pound cake with black walnuts ....

    Tiger did you mention hickory nuts? Black walnuts and hickory nuts came every year when I was young from relatives who lived in the country and sent us a box. Required a steady hand to whack those nuts so we could eat the insides..oooops I am getting ahead ...

    This is a great discussion...Lots of people are allergic to peanuts and most cans of nuts or anything with nuts has a warning sign that peanuts are processed on the same machine so beware.

    I have to stop I am sitting here drooling ...thinking of how much I love all kinds of nuts and recipes with them...anna

    TigerTom
    Anna and Prancer,

    Thanks bunches for the recipes.

    Maryz and Benjamin, welome to the disucssion.

    BTW don't worry about getting ahead. Schedule is just an outline nothing rigid. So if you have a comment on a favorite nut or a recipe containing another nut that the one being discussed, by all means let us see it.

    Tiger Tom

    Ann Alden
    Babi, I have always thought that pared means core removal and peeled means peeled. Am I wrong? Oh never, never! hahahaha! Well, yes, I am! In looking it up, I found that pared does mean removing the peeling. See, we are never too old to learn------that we are wrong! Tee hee!

    By the bye, in any salad where you use almonds, its best to use the slivered as the flavor is nicer.

    TigerTom
    Nut Butters,

    If you would care to buy Some Nut Butters
    online click on the link below.
    http://www.thebetterhealthstore.com/GroupSubgroupItemList.asp?subgroupid=NUTBUT
    Tiger Tom

    MarkS214
    Some of my best camping days were at "Almond Grove R.V.Campground. Off hiway #5 mid Calif. We parked on designated areas amongst the rows of trees. I use almonds and peanuts in my cookies. Rusty likes nuts too (you and him would get along great) We buy our nuts from "Trader Joes" and Walgreens..

    Tiger Tom, I am sure nuts gave you all that energy you had in your TORRID past. Now in this folder, you can reveal to us, your fans and cyber family just how many nuts it took to become one. How many nuts to become a tiger? I believe I was always border line.. ...Rusty's Paw..

    Ginny
    Is there something wrong with a person who hates nuts? I hate nuts. HATE them. I like peanut butter but hate nuts. There is NOTHING I would put a nut in, I wonder why? Is that normal?

    hahaha, now DON'T have a Tiger Tantrum, our Tom! ahahah

    Love the heading,

    no nut recipes from me, I hate them.

    ginny

    Borealis
    wow - we need some traffic lights here - such a trail of peanut shells coming to the nuthouse - em er.. site for nuts.

    TigerTom: I think a nice long milkshake is in order using nut milks, strawberries, and just a teeny hint of chocolate shavings on the top.

    Congratulations on making this such a fun place

    Edith

    MaryZ
    Ginny, you and I are mirror images - I love peanuts, but can barely stand to be in the same room with an open jar of peanut butter. Sometimes I think our taste buds have their own sense of humor.

    And I like cashews, pistachios, and almonds; will put up with pecans, walnuts, and macadamias when they're chopped up in cookies or cakes (will pick them out when they're whole); and would pass entirely on hazelnuts.

    It's fun reading about everybody's varied like and dislikes.

    Mary

    TigerTom
    Rusty Paws,

    Torrid Past? Me, you mistake me for some other Cad.

    As for how many Nuts taken to become one: Just came by my Nuttiness naturally no help needed.

    As for being a Tiger, I am the Pussy Cat variety very Harmless. Didn't take any Nuts at all.

    Ginny, can't all like the same things. Pity you don't like the edible kind of Nuts. Hope you have a soft spot for the Human kind.

    MaryZ You should try some of the Other Nut Butters. You might like one of them.

    I LOVE Peanut Butter, like legions of other kids in North America I was raised on Peanut Butter Sandwich's. Not PB&J's, just plain Peanut Butter. In the old days when one had to stir the Oil back into the Peanut Butter and one got impatient as I did, the Sandwhich would stick to the roof of the mouth an awful lot. I loved to eat them, still do.

    Tiger Tom

    Ginny
    In Edit: WHOOPS! Sory, today is not Peanut Day!!! I will move this post here on January 29, in the Peanut Section Day!

    Mary, you are funny, if you like peanuts why don't you like an open jar of peanut butter? I am the same way about...hold on...chicken noodle soup! Yes! An open can of chicken noodle soup will send me out into the snow hahahaah Did Tiger Tom ask about Human Nuts?

    I don't know anything at all about almonds, are they as long a growing tree as the olive? I thought so, for some reason.

    Peanut butter and banana sandwich. Peanut butter and jelly. Peanut butter and brown sugar! Peanut butter and pineapple! Make your own peanut butter (have any of you ever done that? I have).

    My InLaws live on a farm near Claxton, Georgia, and it's there that this city girl saw her first peanut on the hoof so to speak, 35 years ago.

    You go out in a truck and you dig up the whole plant? They are all over the roots of the plant. You pick them off, , being careful of some which are ...something...can't remember...green? Those will kill you or something, anyway you put the right ones in huge pot and boil them.

    Boiled peanuts, a big treat here in the South, nothing like it, you can buy bags of them at football games and supermarket parking lots. I LOVE boiled peanuts!

    ginny

    geetoo
    Out of them at the moment, but just had a snack of english walnuts. I love almonds, especially in caramel corn, the purple box at Walmart. I buy them slivered too at our local grocery, they are plain and very crunchy. I believe they are a good source of calcium.

    MaryZ
    TT, I don't know why I dislike peanut butter - but I always have. It was truly a labor of love when I made PB/J sandwiches for my kids' lunches.

    I have a story about growing peanuts, too, but I'll be good and save it for the "peanut days" - if I remember.

    TigerTom
    Health Store,

    To the Health Store, the Health Store,

    "With the Black Strap Molasses and the Wheat Germ Bread
    Add a little Yogurt and you feel well fed"

    Ah Health.


    Bought some Almond Milk, good.
    A Jar of Cashew Nut Butter, good but had to
    be stirred which was a Bear; and some Almond
    Nut Butter, which I didn't care for at all.
    It may be that the Almond Nut Butter was produced
    by the little, Local< Health Store that sold it.
    If I can find a Jar of Commercialy Produced Almond
    Nut Butter I will give it another try.

    Have to wait until next week to buy the Hazelnut
    Butter. Store was out of it today.

    The Almond Milk I bought was commericaly produced
    and quite good. Looked Like "Milk" so that was
    one hurdle I didn't have to get over: Odd looking
    Milk. Taste was very good considering it was warm.
    I am wondering what it will be like cold. Also,
    if it will be any good on Cereal. Will encourage
    my wife to try it as Cows Milk really bloats her
    and doesn't agree with her all that much. The
    Almond Milk I bought was Low Fat.

    Anyone want a tub of Almond Nut Butter?

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    More Recipes

    Here are a few more recipes: Main dishes,
    Desserts, Cookies


    http://www.nutsforalmonds.com/recipes/recipes.htm

    Enjoy,

    Tiger Tom

    tigerliley
    This is a classic and well worth the effort to fix....I could eat tubs of it.......

    1/4 cup sliced almonds

    4 tsp. sugar

    1/4 head iceberg lettuce, torn into bite size pieces

    1/4 head romaine lettuce torn into bite size pieces

    1 cup chopped celery

    2 green onions chopped

    1 11 oz. can mandarin oranges, drained

    DRESSING:

    2 tbsp. vinegar

    2 tbsp.sugar

    1 tbsp.chopped fresh parsley, if you have it...

    1/2 tsp salt

    dash of pepper

    1/2 cup vegetable oil

    Heat almonds with sugar over low heat in a heavy skillet, stirring constantly, until sugar is just melted and almonds are coated. Cool and break apart. Store at toom temperature. Combine all dressing ingredients in a screw top jar. Shake will to mix and refrigerate at least 3 hours or overnite...Combine lettuces, celery, green onions and oranges; toss with dressing. Add almonds and toss gently.........serves 4

    When I first read this recipe I thought"no to much trouble".....then friend served it and I thought I had gone to heaven.......... The other salad recipe I was going to post has pecans in it so will wait until pecan time.........

    Faithr
    Tiger Tom I love the Nutfarm site. I just spent about 30 minutes reading everything- practically, including the price lists. It seems worth while to buy there (online) if you are a person who buys online stuff. I live right in the heart of almond country so I know what the Arbuckle farm is like. faith

    TigerTom
    Faithr,

    I had only looked at the Recipes. After I read your post I went back and read much of the site.

    The Almond seems like the Mighty Mouse of the Nut world. Didn't know so much was packed into such a small package. Amazing.

    Tiger Tom

    Lorrie
    Ann:

    In your recipe for Hawaiian Red Pear Salad, you say: "Two red pears, pared but not peeled." I don't understand what you mean by "pared" if not peeled.

    Lorrie

    TigerTom
    End of Almonds,

    So we come to the end of the Almond Discussion.

    Tomorrow we start on Cashews.

    Hope you all are enjoying the discussion so far. Join us for the Cashews.

    Tiger Tom

    Kathy Hill
    I bought some cashews today just to be with the program tomorrow!

    Kathy

    TigerTom
    The Cashew



    The shell of the Cashew Nut is so toxic that to touch it
    willl Blister the Skin. This is why you never see
    the Cashew Nut in its shell

    http://www.thenutfactory.com/kitchen/facts/facts-cashews.html

    Click on the link to read about the Cashew and its
    history.



    Tiger Tom

    GingerWright
    Tiger Tom

    I did get thru part of the History of the Cashew but it is Early mornin here and I must go to sleep. Just Posting so You Know I have been here.

    Prancer
    Pare vs. Peel

    I always thought that "pare" meant to "scrape", holding the paring knife a little sideways, whereas, peel meant to actually cut away the outer covering. (An example would be new potatoes.)

    I recall (young days) being told not to "waste" too much by peeling too deeply. "Just pare", I was told!

    A difference in meaning, depending on the era?

    CASHEWS.

    I'm looking forward to this new segment of the discussions. Cashew was a name I had for a little cat (she was a NUT) some years ago. A very fond memory, reading that word!

    tigerliley
    Lorrie.....I think pare means to cut away the seeds and blossom end etc., and then to cut up in pieces leaving the pretty red skin on....

    patwest
    I just can't leave them alone... If there are any in the house, I do believe I can smell them .. and then I'm not satisfied until they are all gone.

    TigerTom
    Cashews,

    Sorry, I meant to say that the Seed of
    the Cashew was Caustic, not Toxic. Difference.
    Anyway, if touched it will blister the skin.

    Harvesting the Cashew Nut has to be done very
    Carefully, not only to avoid the caustic oil in
    the seed from blistering the skin but keepting
    it from getting on the Nut itself. At one time
    the Cashew Nut was known as the Blister Nut because
    the caustic oil was getting on to the Nut before
    it was eaten.

    If you click on the link you will read of the
    Grading of Cashews. Interesting. I am not sure I
    have ever had the top grade of Cashews and suspect
    that the top graded Nuts would be vey expensive,
    but good.

    Tiger Tom

    Ann Alden
    Lorrie, yes, pared does mean peeled! Sorry about that! Cored is what I meant. Cored but not peeled! Silly me!

    Went to the store and tried to buy another 2 pound bag of mixed nuts in the shell and the salesgirl told me that they only have them for the holidays and were all sold out! Bummer! So, I bought shelled almonds and cashews! Here come da' fat girl! I love nut!

    One of my favorite Chinese dishes is Cashew Chicken. I can eat it any time!

    Bill H
    Tiger Tom

    May I say a word here on just plain old peanuts. I love to munch on them while watching a football game. However, I darned near chocked on some when, in the NFL divisional play off game, the referee called a roughing the kicker call on the innocent, innocent Steelers, thereby giving the Tennessee Titans field goal kicker a second chance and subsequently winning the game ( Now back to those great receipes

    Bill H

    TigerTom
    Cashew Recipe,

    Here is a stir fry Recipe,

    http://www.barricksinsurance.com/5022.html

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Golden Cashew Chicken,

    Here is another recipe,

    http://www.thenutfactory.com/kitchen/main-dish/golden-cashew-chicken.html


    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Waffles anyone,

    Oat and Cashew waffles and many more.

    http://www.mrbreakfast.com/superdisplay.asp?recipeid=616


    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Bill H,

    You got to have Beer with those Nuts while watching the Super Bowl.

    Tiger Tom

    kiwi lady
    I love nuts. They are good for you but to be a glutton on them they are fattening! I can not be trusted with a bag of nuts. I have to eat them until they are all gone! You can see by this I am lacking in will power! I treat myself about once a month to a bag of nuts.

    Carolyn

    TigerTom
    Waffles,

    In the link to the Oat and Cashew Waffle
    is a sidebar that lists 57 different recipes
    for all kinds of Waffles.

    Tiger Tom

    Faithr
    I absolutly love that NUTFarm site. The recipes are spectacular and the site is so well done I could spend hours there. Every nut in the world must be there. Well, I dont want to start an argument or anything but I read someplace that some nuts we call nuts are really legumes. Like peanuts. or cashews. Now that I have read about the cashew I cant see where anyone would call it a legume since it is part of the fruit/nut of the tree. That is the way all nuts come on a tree though not outside the fruit usually. They are inside the fruit which on most nuts is not edible and dries up and is knocked off before the nut is processed. Peanuts I understand not being real nuts. Some of us are nuts and some of us are peanuts hahahah faith

    TigerTom
    Quiet,

    Kind of quiet in here today. Perhaps tomorrow
    things will liven up. Or, maybe, Cashews aren't
    that exciting.

    Tiger Tom

    tigerliley
    Oh yes they are exciting enough that my husband digs them all out of a can of mixed nuts!!!!! lol. Tiger..... there are no nuts that I don't like......I was trying to think of one and I cannot.....

    TigerTom
    Tigerlily,

    Buy him a can of Cashews and a can of Mixed
    for yourself. If you hurry you can finish your
    can before he finishes his.

    I too love Cashews. My problem is that I
    have a false upper plate and a false partial
    plate on the bottom (teeth) Not the best for
    eating Nuts. Gumming the Nuts is out as it
    would take forever to finish a Can of Cashews.

    Tiger Tom

    tigerliley
    It would take me less than an hour to finish a can of cashews......good suggestion for the husband.....

    TigerTom
    Tigerlily,

    Not by Gumming them.

    Tiger Tom

    Prancer
    Oatmeal & Cashew Waffles

    I just ate 2 of those waffles with a wee bit of butter and maple syrup.

    What a great taste! You would have to try it to believe how good they are.

    There is no leavening at all, so they don't become "light and fluffy"; just real down-to-earth tasty!

    What a way to get kids to eat oatmeal - (some think porridge is old fashioned).

    I did let the mixture set (after mixing) so that it wasn't runny and all was absorbed. I did let the bottom half cook before I closed the waffle iron. No mess. I was thinking it may run without eggs or flour to "set" the waffles.

    Thumbs up from me!

    TigerTom
    Prancer,

    Thanks loads for testing the recipe. Glad
    that they turned out all right.

    BTW, is there anyone Out there? Sure it quiet
    in here.

    Tiger Tom

    Faithr
    Here I am. I have a whole can of cashews in fridg. and a bag of whole almonds but only about 1/2 cup left of my walnuts so will need more. I bought some more nutella today (hazelnut spread with cocoa ripples) Now Tom you could gum that to death. I dont like much the cashew butter I get at health food store but since reading the history etc of the cashew I think it is because I buy the cheap cashews, broken bits and not much roasting evident, and the butter is made right there in a machine but it seems too tasteless. Maybe if I found some made from prime cashews it would be sweeter like eating them from the can Oh that is heaven. I am making a chinese stir fry this week with shrimp and cashews for protein and lots of fresh spinich and peapods, pepper strips (when they are cheap I buy red and yellow and put in freezer bags all prepared with onion and garlic.) I use a prepared ginger stirfry sauce. I have a friend over because I hate to cook and eat alone when I have something good. faith

    Diane Church
    I'm here, enjoying the posts and links. Will get to the recipes later.

    By the way, that link on cashews was fascinating - and timely as a group at lunch last week got onto the subject of cashews and we were all wondering where they came from. Can you believe it - I volunteered to research the subject and then, magic of the internet, here was a whole link on the subject. Many thanks and nice job!

    I remember years ago just loving the cashews that Planters put out in those big jars. Oh, so good. Then the price started going way up and then they weren't even available anymore. I don't think I've seen the jars of cashews only for years. And I miss them. Sounds as if you guys are finding them in cans. I'll have to look.

    Oh, on the nut butters - I've tried several from the health food stores and must admit to being disappointed. Health nut that I am (no pun intended!) I must confess that it might be the "bad" stuff that I miss tasting in the healthier, fresher versions. I'll keep trying, though.

    Bill H
    Tom, good little rhyme, and I will have that bottle of beer ready watching the Super Bowel. I have to make sure I have something to wash those peanuts down. )

    Kiwi Lady, I'm much like you when it comes to eating peanuts. I, too, eat them til they are all gone. I only buy a small bag of peanuts and when they are gone that's it. I think it may be due to the salt that our systems like

    Bill H

    TigerTom
    Diane,

    Welcome to our discussion. Anything you can
    add will be welcome.


    As to the Health stores: I too have been>br> disappointed with some of their products.
    The Nut Butters I bought have been less than
    great. One I had to toss out. The Cashew Nut
    Butter is edible but a bit tasteless. I was
    looing forward to trying other Nut Butters but
    I believe I may stick to Peanut Butter.

    I was surprised to read about the Grades of
    Cashews. I would love to get some of the top
    Grade Cashews. BTW, I read that the largest
    Cashews come from Brazil. It may be that
    different countries put out a different grade
    and size of Cashew.

    Tiger Tom

    Coyote
    Health food nut butter may not have any salt or sugar added. You might try adding a little salt and maybe some corn syrup, then warming it enough to mix it well.

    TigerTom
    Bill H,

    Rhyme?

    Tom

    Diane Church
    Tom, wouldn't it be great if we could have a cashew-tasting party? You know, a big bowl from each area that produces them. I'm not suggesting this as a cyper party, just that it would be fun to have a chance to taste each one and observe the differences.

    Benjamin, I believe you have a point there. The stuff can be pretty hard to stir, though. Although, as you say, heating it a little would probably help. Then again, by that time you might as well buy the regular store stuff.

    tigerliley
    Not only am I enjoying all the discussion regarding nuts but am finding great recipe sites to puruse later....I think Ben is right about the nut butters from the health food stores....I buy sugarless peanut butter and then add splenda to my taste......

    Bill H
    Tom, sorry about the rhyme. I read the post wrong.

    Bill H

    TigerTom
    Bill H,

    No problem. I haven't a poet's soul so I am not much good a rhyming.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    All,

    Sorry I haven't done more for the discussion today. Been a little tied up:

    I live near a small city of Aberdeen which is where just about all of the medical facilities in the neighborhood are. There is one way in from the West, one way from the North and one way from the South. Can't get to the North or South entrance to the city from the West except by a long circuitous, backroad drive. There is maintence on one of the small bridges leading in to town from the West. That has bolixed up traffic in all directions. Naturally, NO Police to direct traffic or to hurry it along. They are too busy out harassing drivers. Anyway, I have tried three different routes to get into town and failed each time as traffic was backed up for miles. I must get a blood test done so I can get a tube shoved down my Nose into my Lung. Must have the test done and to the Doctor by next Monday. So, that is why I have been remiss today. Will try to do better tomorrow.

    I have to catch up at home what I missed doing today by being tied up in traffic. So, I cannot add much more to the conversation today.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Hazelnuts,

    Tomorrow, Hazelnuts. I hope they get a better response than Cashews did.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Hazelnuts,

    Hazelnuts or Filberts, same thing. Click on
    link to learn more about them.


    http://www.wholehealthmd.com/refshelf/foods_view/1,1523,307,00.html

    Tiger Tom

    Diane Church
    Hey, Tom, as much fun as this discussion is your health is more important. Do what you must do and we'll be here waiting for you. Really we will!

    Gosh, I think I didn't know that Hazelnuts and Filberts were the same. On the other hand, maybe I did!

    Looking forward to your return, Tom, and hearing that everything is OK. Doesn't sound like much fun but if your doctor is experienced, it won't be that bad. We'll be thinking of you. Betcha I'm not the only one sending prayers up for you!

    GingerWright
    Diane No Your are not the only sending prayers up for Tom and waiting for a Good news Report.

    Tom do we care, Ginger

    Ann Alden
    Thank you, Ben, for the hint on the nut butters. My thoughts exactly! Sugar and salt are missing! That's why I love peanut butter. Even though I buy the natural, its available with or without the good stuff! And, remember, that using these butters for snacking by putting them on celery or apples is so good for you and helps the flavor.

    Tiger, get those tests and we will be offering our good thoughts for you. Should I do the shaman dance for health? Tee hee!

    Prancer
    Tiger Tom

    I hope that the tests show nothing serious. Have been there with tubes (nose and mouth) for stomach and don't particularly envy you that part.

    Lots of good wishes.

    TigerTom
    All,

    Thannks, but the first thing is just to see the Vampire and get some Blood drawn, then NEXT WEEK I have the tube shoved down into my Lung, so I will be around for the discussions. Hopefully the process will just take an hour or so in the morning.

    Menawhile, Hazelnuts. Anyone have a good recipe for Hazelnut Ice Cream? My wife loves that flavor of Ice Cream.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Hazelnut Recipes,

    To start your morning off, here are some
    interesting Recipes using Hazelnuts:

    http://www.nwhazelnut.com/recipes.html
    <br< Tiger Tom

    TigerTom

    Faithr
    Tigar Tom do take care of yourself We are all pulling for you. Hazelnuts are a wonderful food. I also love something called Nutella which is hazelnut butter whipped with cocoa. I teaspoon or so spread on a hot muffing will make me feel like I have had the most scrumptious chocolate dessert in the world. I buy it right in the jelly jam deparment of my supermarket. The plain haselnut butter I have had came from a specialty store and was pretty good but as Ben suggested it needed some salt, and maybe a small amount of sweetner. The recipes for hazelnut macaroons are what I will copy and try. Love macaroons with almost any nut including coconut. Faith

    TigerTom
    Faithr,

    First ran into Nutella in Germany. Very populat
    There. My Daughter and Wife likes it, I am not so wild about it. Of course, I never got a taste for Wine after all of the years I lived in Germany (11) so it just may be me.

    Tiger Tom

    Faithr
    Tom How about Beer?hehehe When my son came home from a tour of duty in Germany he brought a taste for beer but after being home a few months he said it just wasnt the same here so he didnt stop for a beer with the fella'a anymore. That was many years ago and he still says he only likes certain beer. fr

    TigerTom
    Faithr,

    German Beer contains only Malt, Hops, Yeast, Grains, Water. No prerservatives or additives of any kind. American Beer is just a glass of chemicals. German Beer is wonderful. There are something like 2000 brewereis in Getmany. Just about every small town has its own Brewery. There are a number of larger ones too. I would love to be back in Germany having a cold Flensburger Pilsner and a meal of Schniztel and Brat Kartoffeln (Veal Cutlet and Fried Potatos) Heaven.

    Tiger Tom

    Ann Alden
    Hey, Tiger, how do you feel about Irish brews? I love Harp's myself but also go in for the heavier brews which many times have grain floating around the bottom. One big glass and I can't eat! Its like a meal!

    GingerWright
    Ann as you Know I like my Beer but have not had any grain floating in it as maybe I drink the Wrong kind do you suppose? Beer taste but no Champane salary.Nuts go good with Beer I think.

    MaryZ
    Doesn't one of the liqueurs have hazelnut flavor? Fra Angelica?

    TigerTom
    Ann,

    Drank Harp in England as it was one of only two (2) Lagers I could find in London. Never could get used to English Beers. Too flat for my taste. I have been told that they taste like a meal, heavy.

    The English used to drink Lager and Lime. So, one day I got a Larger and order a glass of Tomao Juice, poured the juice into the Glass of Lager and drank it. Cleaned out the Pub. Beer and Tomato Juice was/is the State drink of Alaska.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Mary Z,

    You got me, I never drank Liqueurs. Strictly a Beer Man.

    Tiger Tom

    Diane Church
    Mary - you're right - Fra Angelica IS a hazelnut-flavored liqueur. Friends served it one night and I was enchanted but never bothered to buy any. I also notice that several coffee shop/restaurants are serving hazelnut-flavored coffees. My feeling is that the first sip is wonderful - after that I prefer the regular stuff. Actually, I feel that way about some of the flavored iced teas, too - like raspberry, cinammon, etc.

    Hazelnut in cookies and other pastries, for me, have more staying power.

    TigerTom

    TigerTom

    BaBi
    And isn't Amaretto(?) a almond liqueur? I'm not up on liqueurs, but I have eaten things with the amaretto flavoring and I'm almost certain it's almonds. (If someone has already mentioned this, my apologies. When I find 27+ messages left in a 24-hour period I tend to skip by a few.) ...Babi

    GingerWright
    Babi Yes Amaretto is a almond liqueur made with almonds as it was one my Mother favorites.

    Faithr
    I love the hazelnut flavored coffee's. I also occasionally get the mocha mix hazelnut cremer for the coffee when my kids are coming. Tiger Tom my son would love to have that meal with you in Germany. My husbands mother was first generation German immigrant to US. She taught me to cook many German meals some I loved and some I can take or leave. I do love some of the sausage dishes. There was a hazelnut tree on the ranch my husband and I had for a few years up in Trinity county. It was sort of wild up on a hill and I dont know who planted it there. fr

    LouiseJEvans
    Tiger Tome, the two days allowed for each nut go by so fast that it's hard to keep up. I use almonds all the time. Lately I am finding bags of slivered ones i various flavours. Since I like to stir fry vegetables they are handy to add to the stir fry.

    Cashews are good in oriental cooking but I haven't ever used them much. Actually I like all kinds of nuts. I have seen a hazel nut butter in the grocery store. I have never gotten it because it costs too much.

    TigerTom
    Louise,

    Welcome, No need to adhere to the schedule.
    If you have something on any of the Nuts
    we have already discussed please post it.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Faithr,

    Being Irish I love the Potato in almost any form bar scalloped. Fried being my Favorite. So, when I arrived in Germany and found all of that Wonderful Beer and the Fried Potatos I thought I had gone to my reward. One place, named the Traum Hoff (Dream House) had a chef who would boil potatos, dice them, and pour melted butter over them, let the potatos soak in the Butter over night and fry them the next day. Pure Sin. Unfortunately, my system couldn't handle the beer much less those Potatos soaked in butter these days. SIGH. Hope your son can make it back to Germany for a vacation and some good food.

    Tiger Tom

    isak2002
    Tom; This is a greatdiscussion!!!! I love amaretto in coffee - to be exact, my favorite order at CCs is super grande extra hot almond latte! Does that ring anyone's chime??? isak

    GingerWright
    Tom I have Irish Blood also and Love potatoes in any form but perferable the Irish way so Much better than French Fries.

    Faithr
    isak that rings my chimes. I love to go to a coffee house and get an extra large latte, now I am going to look at the flavorings and see what I want to add. I know ours nearby has lots of those flavored syrups. In the summer I use to get the super large latte with vanilla over crushed ice, now I will try the almond and the hazelnut of course. faith

    TigerTom
    Isak, Faithr,

    I live in the State of Washington, birth place of Starbucks and a few other Coffee outlets. I have NEVER had a Latte, ever. There must be an Espresso stand on every corner in this state and I still have not had a Latte. Too expensive for me. I have my home brewed coffe in the morning and that is good enough for me.

    Tiger Tom

    GingerWright
    Tom

    Coffee If I want Chocolate coffee I just put a Hershesy kiss in it with the coffee before brewing and would do so with any other flavoring I chose. Nuts must be ground or smashed to get the flavor so I would Hit the nut with a hammer or use my garlic press, whatever worked.

    isak2002
    re coffee in shops - that has become my latest sensible economy - going back to grinding, brewing and mixing my own coffee and coffee drinks...like just adding coffee to hot milk and adding the syrups. nothing to it!

    TigerTom
    Ginger, Isak,

    I like good old fashioned Coffee, plain, Black, with a little Sugar. Not sure I could go Coffee with all of the additives. Certainly not for what is being charged for one those things these days.

    Isak, you might be on to something making your own at home. Save a bundle.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    All right,

    Kind of quiet in here.

    Fall in and sound off. Give your name and say present.

    Subject is Hazelnuts.

    Look lively, lets hear from you.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Coffee Trivia

    Since you people are on Coffee, here is some Coffee Trivia
    for you.

    http://www.discountcoffee.com/CoffeeTriviaFun.htm

    Tiger Tom

    Prancer
    I'm present, Tiger Tom

    Coffee in hand! Chocolate Sparkle Cookie in other hand!!

    TigerTom
    Oregon,

    Some Oregon Trivia: What does Oregon have to
    with Hazelnuts> It leads the U.S. in Hazelnut
    production.

    Tiger Tom

    Sasha 5113
    I was going to sound off, but I fell in too deep.

    TigerTom
    Oregon Trivia,

    Here is that Oregon Trivia. Linke didn't
    take last time.

    http://www.50states.com/facts/oregon.htm

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Trivia,

    Since I don't seem to be able to interest you
    in Hazelnuts, how about some Trivia. There are
    24 pages of it in the link

    http://www.triviaweb.co.uk/factgroup.asp?groups=Food&pg=24

    Tiger Tom

    BaBi
    Too bad I'm not a coffee drinker; all that sounds so good. But tho' I love the smell of roasting coffee, I've never liked the taste. HOWEVER, hot cocoa/hot chocolate is also available in almond, hazelnut, etc. flavors. Heavenly! ...Babi

    TigerTom
    BaBi,

    I usually have a cup of Sugar Free Hot Chocolate
    in the evening along with the 5:00 P.M. News.
    Makes me mellow enough to get through the News
    without throwing the cup at the T.V. Set.

    Tiger Tom

    BaBi
    Tiger Tom, chocolate is a well documented stress reducer; ask any chocolate lover. I don't throw cups at the TV (I watch very little of the news), but I have been known to make rude noises. ~~ ...Babi

    Faithr
    Babi and Tom it is a good thing we are not all in the same room as the evening news goes on..I do get loud and use profane language too sometimes I laugh at myself. I think "I am an old lady sitting here yelling at an inantimate object." If we were all cursing or making rude noises we might get sent away somewhere. I only drink coffee,tea or chocolate in the morning otherwise I dont sleep. In the afternoon it is just plain water for me. And when it comes to nibbling while watching tv I do like nuts or nuts in cookies so that is what I choose. Sometimes nut butter in a piece of celery when I remember I have to leave the white flour and sugar alone.

    I wonder why my grandmother call some nuts filberts, these were elongated and at least a 1/2, in a smooth,reddish shell and she called hazelnuts some that were sort of round about as big as the end of my finger with a light brown smooth shell. I remember having those kind of nuts but wonder what I have mixed up. I buy so many of the things that are shelled now. Maybe I will go look for them in a book somewhere. Faith

    isak2002
    Faith, etc - I recall when my father sold nuts by the pound - I got to do the sacking and sealing, using neat little plastic bags and then stapling the label on. The nuts had come in "bulk" boxes, and also at that time of the year I would get to sack up pound and 2# bags of what we called haystacks - they were chocolate covered white mint "haystacks" and we sold them by the box to one relatve, whose husband got a whole 20# box for Christmas. Dad also had various other nuts covered in chocolate...as well as many bags of peanuts that were not wound long...so a lot of people liked nuts! We always got a box of candy at Church, too - not from Santa, but just from the church...and there would be several pieces of ribbon candy as well as quite a few peanuts and also a good selection of nuts. There would always be a nut bowl out at home - with a good set of picks so we could crack and eat them, especially when there was a hot game of Canasta going on, which could happen almost any time. Fun times.....hence my love of nuts. isak

    TigerTom
    Faithr<

    Hazelnuts and Filberts are the same but different. The Filbert is larger than the Hazelnut but still is a Hazelnut. Come from different areas.

    I too use very rude language at the evening news. I get very tired of hearing about a crime that had been seen by number of people and there will be NO description given of the person who did it. All that will be said is that the police are looking for a man. Sure, but what did he look like? So, the police never find him, and then whine that they are not getting any cooperation out of the public. That is when I am ready to throw something at the T.V. set other than rude words.

    Tiger Tom

    Faithr
    Hi Isak: We had a gunnysack full of almonds given to us most years and sometimes a gunnysack full of black walnuts too. We had a little shed on the back of the house and I remember once the boys put all the black walnuts up there to dry. one by one they laid them out up there to dry that green and nasty black oozing shell. Well every morning there were fewer nuts up there as the squirrels or chipmunks came over and got them. My mom finally sweep them all into the bag again and then she took a stick and beat the bag. When she got tired we kids took turns. Finally we rolled them all out into a big laundry tub and pulled most of the nuts loose from the skin and ooze. Our hands were dyed brown like shoe-polish. The nuts went into the oven on trays for an hour or so and then were put in paper sacks in our cupboard. The almonds were much easier to do. Of course they didn't have much of the outer skin left on them and we could clean them and roast them ok. We certainly didn't sort or grade them ..we just used them up. My mother was raising six kids alone and food was food. We were always blessed by friends in the valley giving us fruit and stuff to bring back to Tahoe.

    The time we got pecans and or filberts and hazelnuts was christmas and the most expensive of all were the English walnuts and Brazil nuts. My grandparents would buy a 5 gallon bucket full of mixed nuts in the shell and we kids would crack them and I remember my grandma yelling at us because we ate as many as we put in the dish for her to cook with. Sometimes she just laughed at us if there were plenty of nuts left for her cooking. Faith

    MaryZ
    In our area, there are lots of walnut trees in residential areas. Folks would get to the good stuff by laying the nuts with their green hulls out on their driveways, and after a week or so, the cars going in and out would have done all the work.

    GingerWright
    Mary That is the way we hulled our Nuts also.

    Borealis
    TigerTom: You sent out an appeal because it was quiet in here? No way, ... it took me an hour to read and study all the posts you had received since I was here a couple days ago. Congratulations... your forum rocks!

    You know I am inherently lazy when it comes to cooking so I have not tried any of the recipes. But, you didnt answer me the last time I asked. Have YOU tried any of the recipes????

    Ahhhhh hazelnuts. Nothing like Cadbury's hazelnut chocolate - tickles the palate.

    Seriously, TigerTom - don't give all your blood away on that test --- You Know You Are An Endangered Species.

    Hope all goes well on the test and that you have your wind at your back when you are dealing with the traffic.

    All the best

    Edith

    ps maybe I will put a link on M/V to this site? Don't think Pat Scott will mind if I do that. I will check it out later.

    TigerTom
    Pecans,

    Tomorrow we start on Pecans. I hope that we get
    more interest that what has been shown for Hazelnuts.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Pecans,


    For more info on Pecans, click on link.

    http://www.ilovepecans.org/

    Tiger Tom

    Ann Alden
    Pecans, I love pecans. We used to live in Texas and had pecan trees all over the yard. I sent them to my relatives living up north every year. And, made lots of different sweets containing pecans. I order Mrs Prindable's apples with carmel and pecans on them every year to give as unusual gifts.

    But, I wanted to ask a question when we were in the filberts/hazelnut section. Does anyone remember buying(back in the olden days) what looked like a white ball of sugar, had a special flavor and was so smooth melting in your mouth plus it contained a hazelnut? in the center. I loved those things and haven't seen them for years. Wonder where they went?

    The best thing to do when the news comes on, it to turn off the TV and listen to calm soothing music or read a good book. You can't believe half of what they say anyway.

    TigerTom
    Ann,

    Never heard of those sweets. Must have been
    a regional thing.

    If you believe half of what you hear on the news
    you may be in trouble.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Pecans

    Here are some recipes to start the morning off.

    http://www.texaspecan.com/Recipes.htm

    Tiger Tom

    Prancer
    Good Morning

    Well, maybe not good here in Canada. Winter, big time! From browsing the forecasts, I read that Newfoundland is particularly dumped upon this morning.

    Enough growling. Not too much chance of growing any nuts in this part of the world, though. Have to rely on the Bulk Barn.

    I sure like some of the recipes. Two favorites I've mentioned already and I think I am on the way to more. I've read them all and saved the addresses of the sites so that when this discussion is history, I will still be trying out the recipes.

    Thanks, Tiger Tom for those sites.

    I made the Almond Waffles for some Grandkids this morning and they've named them "Grandma's Granola" . (Psst. I didn't tell them that they were basically eating Porridge.) That wouldn't be COOL!

    Looking forward to this section on Pecans - another very good nut.

    I think this is a great discussion.

    Lorrie
    Are we on pecans yet? Isn't anybody going to mention one of my favorites: pecan pie! Yummy. Does anyone have a good recipe for that? Mine needs improving somewhere.

    Lorrie

    Kathy Hill
    Just went in on the pecan site and found an interesting tip. One recipe was for a cookie type bar and said to cut it with a plastic knife because it will make a smooth cut. Live and learn!

    Kathy

    TigerTom
    Okay, Lorrie,

    Here is the link to the ultimate Peacan Pie Page

    http://www.ghg.net/coyej/pecanpie.htm

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Lorrie,

    Two more Pecan Pie recipes.

    http://www.gumbopages.com/food/dessert/pecan-pie.html

    Tiger Tom

    Lorrie
    Oh, Boy! I can see me now appearing suddenly with "chipmunk cheeks" and a new spare tire around the middle, after trying all these recipes. Hahaha!

    Lorrie

    TigerTom
    Lorrie,

    I hope you find a few great ones to make for
    yourself and your family.

    Tiger Tom

    LouiseJEvans
    One of my stories about Pecans has to do with the pronunciation of the word. He along with my sister and I were natives of Massachusetts. After his second wife died he started writing to women through a lovelorn paper. One of the women who he ended up marrying had a son and was from Louisiana. They came to Mass for the summer. Arrangements were made to move all of us to La. Us 3 teenagers occcupied the backseat where we spent alot of time arguing. One of them was the pronunciation of pecan. In Mass. we said pe-can (like a can of soup). In Louisiana they say Pe cahn. (This chart would look better if I could remember where the chart for the alternate keys with the symbols was.)

    LouiseJEvans
    I like coffee. I just love going down the coffee row in the grocery store. It smells so good. I remember a store called Kennedy's in Mass. They sold things like coffee and eggs. That too had a wonderful scent. Some of you have some good ideas for flavoring it without buyng the expensive special coffees. I do have a coffee grinder. I wonder what would if one would grind nuts along with the beans.

    TigerTom
    Louis,

    Interesting Idea, why don't you try it and let
    us know.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Kathy,

    Welcome to our discussion. Hope you like the
    recipes. More NUTS coming up in a few days. so,
    if Pecans are not your favorite maybe one of them
    or some of the past one's are or will be.

    Never found Plastic Knifes good for cutting anything.
    They would usually tear rather than cut.

    Tiger Tom

    GingerWright
    Louise, I would say that nuts and coffe ground at the same time is how they make the the kind they sell. Please let us know how it turns out.

    Faithr
    I never had any pecan pie before I moved to Texas for a few months during WW-ll to visit air-force husband. In my boarding house it was sort of a staple. She even put it on the sideboard a t breakfast time the months I was there. At first I ate a piece whenever it was offered then after awhile I became surfeit with pecan pie. And I was gaining weight rapidly. Little did I realize that weight gain wouldn't stop till my son was born the next spring hahahah I blamed it on the pecans. I was so interested then in the pecan that when I wrote to my grandmother Victoria (born in Texas) she sent me two recipes for pecan pie. Both of them were just like the recipes in the link post 947 Tom put up. However one of them had dark karo syrup and white sugar and the other was with light karo and brown sugar. I made it both ways and it was always good. Then I found the one with molasses and added that to my pie recipes and it was the best one. I also had this recipe for Shoo Fly Pie...and we can argue about the name sometime if you like.

    3/4 cup white sugar 1 cup dark karo 1/2 cup molasses 4 eggs 2 tbsp. flour 2 tbsp melted butter 1/2 cup of chopped pecans 1/2 cup whole pecans 2 tbsp. cider vinegar 1 tsp vanilla

    Have 1 nine inch deep dish glass pie plate with crust ready. Beat all ingredients together until a smooth batter. Put chopped pecans on bottom of large nine inch pie crust pour in half the mixture, put remaining pecans over mixture and pour in remaining mixture. Bake at 400 degrees until a knife inserted in filling comes out clean. approx. check at 45 minutes, if not done turn oven to 375 and continue cooking 15 or 20 minutes. faith

    BaBi
    LOUISE, Texas agrees with Louisiana on the pronunciation of 'pecan'. Last syllable pronounced as in Madeline Kahn. Using dark or light Karo is just a matter of individual preference, FAITH. If I have both but not enough of either, I combine the two. Works just fine.

    One suggestion if you're buying unshelled pecans. Get the soft-shelled variety; much easier to shell. ..Babi

    Diane Church
    I remember a driving trip along the old Route 66, back in the mid-50's and one of the many "discoveries" was pralines. They are made of pecans, right? Oh, they were so outstandingly good. I've rarely had one since but in my memory they remain tops. Truthfully, I can barely even remember what they looked like but I sure did love the taste and was sorry when we drove past praline country.

    TigerTom
    Faithr.

    Remember the song sung by Dinah Shore:

    "shoo Fly Pie and Apple Pan Dowdy"
    Makes your eyes light up and your tummy say howdy"

    Tiger Tom

    GingerWright
    Tiger Tom

    Sure do Remember Shoo Fly Pie and here are the Lyrics.

    Ginger

    TigerTom
    Ginger,

    It had been so long since I heard the song
    that I had forgotten most of the lyrics.
    It was popular for a fair amount of time. On the
    Hit Parade for a while. Nonsense song but fun.

    Did you every have any of that? I wonder if any
    one in this discussion had any of it.

    Tiger Tom

    GingerWright
    Please turn down your speakers as here comes Shoo Fly Pie Enjoy Ginger

    TigerTom
    More Recipes,

    Here are some more recipes including more
    Pecan Pie recipes.

    http://aggie-horticulture.tamu.edu/plantanswers/recipes/pecanrecipes/recindex.html

    Tiger Tom

    Faithr
    Loved reading the words again for Shoo Fly Pie . That is the first time I have heard the jazz version though ...and of course there are several recipes for the pie in circulation. (When we get to walnuts I will have an Apple Pan Dowdy ready for you.) Someone else fix the coffee. I suggest Tiger Tom as he is a plain and simple black coffee drinker and eschews the flavors and fussyness of foams etc. We all can add what we want. faith

    GingerWright
    Faithr I could not find the music that we all know but done my Best.

    TigerTom
    Ginger,

    Thanks for what you did find. Unfortunately, I do not have a media player on my machine so I could not listen to it.

    Faithr. Okay, I will make the coffee and you bring the Apple Pan Dowdy. I was looking at some recipes for Apple Pan Dowdy on the net. Seems like a fairly simply thing to make. but what do I know?

    Tiger Tom

    tigerliley
    Missouri agrees with Louisiana and Texas on the pronunciation of pecan......Pecan and pumpkin pie all ways for Thanksgiving and most usually for Christmas too our family gatherings......Pumkin has an affinity for pecans and walnuts too..... A big dollop of whipped cream (please, not cool whip) is also most agreeable......Not long ago I came through Georgia and the pecans were abundunt.....being sold all along the roads and at every little corner store.....wonderful.......

    TigerTom
    Hi there, Tigerlily,

    Hope you like the rest of the NUTS too.

    Still like the name.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Pecans,

    Quiet in here.

    Are all of you making Pecan Pies for after the big Game today?

    Tiger Tom

    LouiseJEvans
    As I was reading the Miami Herald, I went to one of my favorite sections: the coupons. One of them just happens to be for Nutella, the original Hazelnut Spread. I clipped it. I remember the song called Applepan Dowdy, but I've never had any. I also remember Pralines. I haven't seen them for years. No peanut brittle either. As one moves to different parts of this country it is interesting that not everyting can be found every where.

    Faithr
    True Louise and I first found pralines in Texas then when I moved to Alabama they were practically a national icon. We ate them constantly but my husband had to stop as he was in Air Corp and they watched his weight like a hawk. When the war was over and we moved back to Colorado and then California, we brought many new tastes with us from the south. And the hot stuff from Texas was my cooking secret for a long time till my other California relatives caught on to the chili peppers in everything ..faith

    TigerTom
    Louise, Faithr,

    Pralines? The only ones I have ever seen
    are the Candy ones: a Chocolate wafer with
    some colored thingys sprinkled on it.

    I take it that is NOT what you are talking about.
    Enlighten me.

    Tiger Tom

    MaryZ
    Tiger, a praline is sort of like a pecan brittle - a thin irregular circle of brown sugar/butter candy full of pecan pieces (pronounced "puh-kahn' "). Here's a link that has a pretty good picture.

    http://www.auntsallys.com/

    patwest
    Mary Z, I gained 5 lbs. just reading that page...<grin>

    TigerTom
    Mary Z,

    Thank you. Now I know.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Walnuts,

    Tomorrow we start Walnuts. I sure hope we get
    more of a response than we have had with Cashews
    and Pecans.

    Tier Tom

    TigerTom
    Walnuts,

    I am going to start early with Walnuts, I am
    tired of battling with my ISP. Bad during the day
    but really Tanks after 7 P.M. my time:

    http://www.wholehealthmd.com/refshelf/foods_view/1,1523,100,00.html

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Walnut Recipe,

    Diced Poultry with Walnuts in Lettuce Cups.

    http://www.globalgourmet.com/destinations/china/mincpoul.html

    Tiger Tom

    patwest
    We plant walnut trees every year... usually about 25... in a wood lot not far from the house... It is an investment for the grandchildren, since the trees will not to ready to cut as lumber for about 40 years... but in the meantime, we can harvest the nuts.

    Black walnuts are really good in baking and have a much different flavor that the English walnuts for sale in he stores.

    TigerTom

    TigerTom
    Soup

    Acorn Squash Soup W/Corned Beef and Walnuts>br>
    http://www.recipesource.com/soups/soups/acorn-squash2.html

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Black Walnut Recipes

    Here are some Black Walnut Recipes

    http://www.black-walnuts.com/homerecipes.asp

    Tiger Tom

    MaryZ
    Once more for pecans....I found this recipe for pralines on one of the web sites posted. It sounds exceptionally decadent (and easy, which makes it even worse).

    MICROWAVE PECAN PRALINES

    INGREDIENTS:
    One box of brown sugar
    One-half pint of heavy whipping cream
    Microwave for 13 minutes on HIGH in a 5 quart container.

    ADD:
    Two Tablespoons of Butter
    Two Cups of Pecan Halves
    One teaspoon of Vanilla
    Mix and drop by spoonfuls onto aluminum foil. Let cool and start eating!

    MaryZ
    This was in our paper's food section this week.

    "The Walnut Marketing Board is offering a free 2 1/2x5 1/2"magnetic shopping-list pad, '100 Ideas,' with 100 ideas for including walnuts in the family diet. Around the margins of each shopping-list page are printed a couple of decorative phrases, with tips such as 'Layer chopped walnuts in Parfaits to give each spoonful crunch.' The pad is available by calling (800)758-2100 or writing to the Walnut Marketing Board: 100 Ideas, 847 Sansome St., Suite 100, San Francisco, CA 94111." Or check out http://www.walnuts.org .

    GingerWright
    We are a Lovely Bunch of CocoNuts in here so if you had to be A Nut which one would You like to be? Just wondering.

    Ginger

    MarkS214
    We got our walnuts,pecans,mixed nuts, sunflower seeds (nuts to me) almonds and finally PEANUTS, (Virginias and in the shell. We munched on the peanuts as we watched one football team and a bunch of has-beens. I did notice, Tampa Bay played like the Raiders used too..Now I got to figure what to do with the leftover nuts. Cookies is good...

    I remember cracking black walnuts far away when I was an urgent urchin..Used to bang my fingers up "good and plenty". Say now Tiger Tom, wouldn't banging on black walnuts be good for arthur's-itis,specially on the missed shots?...Rusty's Paw..

    GingerWright
    Rusty Dog

    Hi there So good to see You again. Aw the special meal in Az I will never forget as I did so enjoy you and Terri.

    What are Virginias and in the shell as I never heard of them. I remember hitting my knuckes with the hammer also but then came the Nut Cracker are'nt we lucky.

    Thanks for reminding me about the game a good one I thought. What is your take one it? You reminded me I was going to put the score in my Prefernces so Here I go. Smile.

    Ginger

    TigerTom
    Rusty Dog and Tails,

    Glad to see you back.

    I only watched part of the game. I am a Raider Fan (the old Raiders) and I couldn't stand to see the meltdown.

    Ginger, now that is a Good question. Haven't given it any thought. What one would you be?

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Another Recipe,

    Here is one more:

    http://www.mycustompak.com/healthNotes/Recipe/Cran_Chicken.htm

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Where is Annafair?

    When this discussion first started she volunteered
    to test one of the recipes posted. Anna are you there?

    Have posted a large number of Recipes. Waiting for
    a report. I know Prancer says she tried one of the
    Almond Waffle recipes and said it was good.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Monday morning Blah's?

    Not much disucssion. Monday Morning Blah's
    keeping everyone away?

    Tiger Tom

    MaryZ
    Please permit a digression back to pecans. I remember the nutcracker we had when I was a kid - for pecans. It was iron, mounted on a board - sort of a cup on each end, with a turn-screw-handle. I would put one pointy end of the pecan in one cup, and turn the screw handle, pushing the other cup onto the other end of the pecan. If I turned it JUST right, the shell would pop open, and the nut meats could be taken out in two nice pieces...too hard, and the whole thing would shatter, and then I had to pick the small pieces out with a nut pick.

    GingerWright
    Mary Z I remember a nut cracker like that now that you mentioned it. Thanks for the Memories.

    Tiger Tom I will take a run around the block to check on our Annafair.

    Tiger Tom Annafair was having problems staying on line Friday but she shall return as soon as she can stay online.

    TigerTom
    Ginger,

    thank you. If Anna cannot, try one, can you?

    Tiger Tom

    losalbern
    Tiger, its a good thing we finally got past the Cashew discussion because early on I purchased a 16 oz can and was imbibing freely, possibly too freely, while listening to urgent discourses about calories from Mrs Losalbern. In the meantime, I have noticed that her purchases of almonds and English Walnut pieces are suddenly much harder to locate. I have to admit that after looking at one or two of your recipies I regrettably decided to pass over the newest ones because of their sugar content. Not good for diabetics who have long since learned that diabetes is natures way of making sure that a person doen't enjoy life toooo much. Other than that, I am nuts about this discussion. And so on to walnuts. Pat, my grandparents had a walnut tree where I learned how easily a little boy can get stained all over when picking up the ripened outer shell. Losalbern

    BaBi
    Natch, Losalbern. Walnut shells are one of the things used by early settlers to dye their homespun cloth.

    If anyone wants to try it, a walnut pie can be made just like a pecan pie. Personally, I prefer the pecan. What we get here are usually English walnuts; does anyone know where black walnuts can be had? ..Babi

    Diane Church
    Health "nut" that I am, when I learned that walnuts are the only nuts to have the optimal ratio of omega 3 fatty acids to omega 6's, they immediately became my favorite.

    Since we're not having a discussion on Brazil nuts may I throw in here that they have a lot of the trace mineral Selenium although, alas, too many omega 6's to compete with walnuts on that score.

    OK, back to the fun stuff on walnuts.

    GingerWright

    Tiger Tom Not to worry about our Annafair as soon she will return and tell all about the what she has fixed and eaten. Anna is excellent with Nuts as I have eaten some that she brought to the DC gathering, and they we Yummy. I am sorry to inform you that as for me I am not much of a baker etc. any more so buy pies etc. all ready cooked. Boo on Ginger.

    Diane Church
    Me too, Ginger. I consider myself a world class eater, but not much of a baker.

    GingerWright

    Diane, Thank You for now I know that I am not alone in the way I do things now.

    Lorrie
    I know we are past the pecans, but I wanted to tell you ,Tom, that the recipe someone sent in for pecan pie made with molasses, was great!. I have made peca pie before, but never with molasses, and it works fine. Just to let you know.

    Lorrie

    TigerTom
    Losalbern,

    I am Diabetic also. Looking on the net for some tasty recipes causes my Blood Sugar Count to go up. I would love to eat any of the goodies but cannot. I was done in and pushed into Type II after being boreline for some years by Chocolate Covered Marshmallow. So, I am like you, I look and yearn but cannot touch. Seems to be the story of our life, No Booze, No Goodies, Nothing, just look. Of course, you have to be careful of what you are looking at when the wife is around.

    Babi is right, I remember reading about "butternut" dyed clothes in colonial times.

    Ginger, I am in mourning for the Raiders, Lousy game on their part.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Article,

    Don't be offended but I thought this was interesting:

    http://www.abc.net.au/hobart/stories/s740766.htm

    Tiger Tom

    GingerWright

    Tom LOL I think I like the ordinary way to crack nuts. I did read your clickable and have heard or seen it at some time.

    Lorrie
    Tom:

    In regard to your link to the article about Van Damme, I say this:

    We all have our claim to fame. That's his.

    Lorrie

    LouiseJEvans
    I don't watch football games but since I am a Floridian and since the Dolphins weren't playing I was quite happy that Tampa won. It's about time a Florida team won something.

    I copied that recipe for Microwave Pralines. It looks as though it would be fun to try. I like to eat nuts of all kinds but I am not sure WHICH one I am.

    TigerTom
    Ginger, Lorrie,

    I guess you do what you have to do to keep
    your name in print.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Louis,

    About TIME a Florida team won something? How about the National Championship for the U of Miami? Florida and Florida State have won that themselves a few times over the last decade or two. The Dolphins were terrorizing the NFL under Don Shula. The Florida Marlins won the World Series. What do you want?

    Tiger Tom

    LouiseJEvans
    We-e-el!! The Hurricanes are good aren't they and I'll never forget the night the Marlins won that World Series. I still have all the T-Shirts. I guess that makes me a real nut. I guess I like our Panthers too. I hope someday they win the Stanley Cup. The year every one was throwing rats onto the ice was such fun. One of the grocery stores made the best cake in the shape of a rat to celebrate. (rats are rodents and squirrels are too. Squirrels like nuts. There is a squirrel in that tree out side of my apartment. There are also 2 palm trees there. They are not coconut palms. My previous did have coconut palms but I never tried to eat any of the coconuts. Did you know that coconuts float? That's so that when they reach a new shore a new tree can grow.

    Faithr
    I am definitely a cashew sort of soft and buttery and sweet. hahahah you ask for it. Had black walnut tree right in my yard here for 10 years when it began losing huge branch's so the park management took it out. In doing so they poked more holes in my roof and nearly destroyed my carport but mostly I miss the fall crop of black walnuts.

    I had some screen baskets and I would pick them up when they fell every day and put in the baskets on saw horses in the back patio. When I had enough drying I would put them in boxes or bags and set by my steps for the neighbors who wanted them. And of course the squirrels stayed busy Burying them out in the flower beds where they sprout still ten years later. When they were all shriveled and black then you have to beat them in a sack till that outer shell comes off just like English walnuts. And dry them some more. Finally they can be put away in baskets each layer separated by straw and kept in a cool dry place. Around holidays they would be some ready to start cracking for cooking. Black walnuts have a very strong flavor and totally different from English. I like them. Many people do not. I even had a meatloaf that I put them in but children did not like it. I tried walnuts in my poultry dressing and again was talked out of that by the kids. Waldorf salad was about all they wanted to have nuts in or of course, ice-cream sundaes. But they loved to crack them for me when I cooked.( and eat them.) Just like all kids they ate more than went into the measuring cup. I cooked many dishes with walnuts in for my family and they learned to like them as they grew up.

    Here is my Apple Pan DowdyPrepare 1 recipe of bis-quick drop biscuit's and set aside Peel and pare cooking apples into a glass casserole dish I suggest an 8 inch square Pyrex. Fill about half full with apples and pour juice of 1 lemon over and stir. Add 1 cup chopped walnuts- 1/2 to 3/4 cup sugar(depending on type of apples)-4 tablespoons butter broken into small pieces and Cinnamon and allspice to taste (use about 2 teaspoons Cinnamon and 1/4 tsp. allspice if your not sure) toss all together with 2 tbls flour.-. Drop spoon-fulls of batter over the apples leaving space in between drops and bake in 375 degree oven for about 45 minutes. If topping browns before apples are cooked cover with a piece of parchment paper to finish. faith

    GingerWright

    Faith That sounds So Good.

    isak2002
    Could not help thinking of "Charlie's Aunt" when the fellow disquised as the Aunt says "How do you do?? I'm from Brazil, where the nuts come from!" - I love that movie and that saying....tho I'm not sure which category the Brazil nut is in. isak

    GingerWright
    isak2002 I am truly LOL on that one, Thanks I needed that.

    TigerTom
    Izak,

    Sorry I didn't include the Brazil Nut. Had only so much time and thought I would take the more popular and well known nuts. Had I known that we would lag in the Cashew and Hazelnut portions I would have put in Brazil and Coconuts. Ah well, Feel free to discuss them if you want.

    Faithr, do a google search of Black Walnuts you will find some intersting sites, facts, and recipes.

    Tiger Tom

    Prancer
    Tiger Tom

    I found a recipe in an old cookbook - thought it was for walnuts - however, now see it is for Chesnuts.

    I didn't think you would mind is I sneak it in this discussion. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    MONT BLANC OF CHESNUTS

    Score 1 lb. chesnuts across rounded side with a sharp knife. Place in boiling water and simmer for 15 minutes. Drain, but keep warm. Slip off both skins. Return to pan, cover with boiling water and simmer for about 45 minutes, or until perfectly tender. Drain and mash with a little salt and a little sugar. Over a large serving dish, force chesnuts through a coarse sieve, a potato ricer, or a food mill with fairly large holes, into the shape of a mound. The chesnuts must be very light and fluffy.

    Whip some cream and flavour with a little sugar and vanilla. Smooth cream over chesnut mound. Do not press down, or the Mont Blanc will lose it's fluffiness. Chill for a short time and serve.

    BaBi
    On my one trip overseas, I tried the legendary roasted chestnuts. Terribly disappointing. They tasted like half-cooked, unseasoned beans. I bought them from a vendor in the park, so maybe they just weren't done right. Blah! Threw them away. ...Babi

    Faithr
    Babi chestnuts do not taste like nuts. They are bland and more like a sweet potato or maybe a certain kind of squash but you are right if you expect the flavor of nuts you will be disappointed. My family always used them cooked, mashed or chopped in other recipes. Just plain they were OK if you peeled them, put on a tray with melted butter (salted), brown sugar, and spices then roasted them for a few minutes.

    Walnuts are the best tasting nuts to me but I do have a problem with getting a sore mouth from them. English walnuts and black walnuts both.If I take the time to blanch them and rub off the thin brown peeling I don't have a problem with English walnuts. I have never tried that with black walnuts. I just eat them. Remember Walnutos the candy. Wow did I love those things. I have never eaten a butternut though my grandfather often told us of them. They also are another rather bland nut so he said. But they are healthy and have a nutritional quality that made the Native Americans just about able to live on them in the winter. He said it was one source of their "fat" and now of course we know that is true. Today I ate peanut butter on apple I sliced up, for my lunch. Velly good. fr

    Prancer
    Walnuts

    I can't tolerate Walnuts, either. Same thing with the sore mouth.

    MOST things, I need to have well cooked, or I suffer.

    TigerTom
    Hello,

    So, while the Cat is away, not much going on in here. I was hoping that Walnuts might perk this disucssion up a bit, I guess I was wrong. Tomorrow, of course, we start on Peanuts. I hope that subject might get a little more participation.

    Tiger Tom

    Bobbiecee
    Walnuts give me a sore mouth as well. I don't eat many nuts per se, but do sprinkle LSA on my cereal each morning, and almond slivers in some vegies. The only nut I eat, just as a nut, are macadamias. I also have macadamia plunger coffee which I buy at locally. I do eat lots of avocados...put it on my bread as a spread instead of marg. The results of my latest blood tests showed that my bad cholesterol was very low and my good cholesterol was high, so I must be doing something right. I eat lots of fresh fruit and mushrooms in salads, and rarely eat sweets (desserts) except on special occasions. I'm not really a sweets eater...or nut eater either, I guess.

    Bobbie

    patwest
    If you have a problem eating nuts ... then peanuts should not be problem..

    Peanuts are technically a bean and are classified as a fruit/legume, NOT A NUT!

    Diane Church
    Tom, you apologize too much! I think this has been a wonderful discussion and have enjoyed it thoroughly. It moves right along from one nut to another (!) and already I am sorry that it will be ending soon. And I know I will need to go back and print up some of the recipes. You're doing a great job and I thank you for bringing us all together on this novel subject!

    P.S. And I have to at least mention pine nuts at some point - a personal favorite!

    TigerTom
    Here come the Peanuts.

    How do you like them? Roasted, in the Shell, with
    a Ball game in front of them? Roasted, out of a can?
    Raw, unsalted? Boiled? In Peanut Butter? Or just
    Salted, out of a celophane bag?

    The Peanut may be the most popular Nut in the U.S.
    certainly the one with the most uses thanks to
    Dr. G. W. Carver.

    Can you eat only one?

    They are great with a cold Beer.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Something on the Peanut,

    http://www.peanut-institute.org/

    Tiger Tom

    MaryZ
    Back during WW II, we had a victory garden (surely we all remember those). My parents had been born in NE Texas, but we were living in St. Louis at that time. My father decided that we (his daughters) should know where peanuts came from, so we planted peanuts in our victory garden. I'm sure we were the only household growing such things - but it was fun.

    MaryZ
    Roasted chestnuts were mentioned as tasting like poorly seasoned beans. Has anybody here every tried the boiled peanuts that are sold along the back roads in the South? I haven't had those, but have been told they are REALLY nasty. I have had some at a friend's house, and they tasted just like the legumes they are - only you had to get them out of the then-soft shells. Must be an acquired taste.

    TigerTom
    Some Peanut Recipes,

    Here are some recipes for all sorts of dishes
    containing Peanuts. Main Dishes and others.

    http://www.peanut-institute.org/recipes.html

    Tiger Tom

    Prancer
    Sesame Lemon Chicken

    Now, THAT looks good. (just read it).

    Peanut butter is a favorite of mine (not chunky) and I don't have a problem with digestion. Needless to say, it is a big hit with Grandchildren. I'm NEVER without peanut butter.

    Sounds like I'll be off to the market for some peanut oil, though. Don't have that for the Chicken recipe.

    Tonight's dinner - coming up!

    Another good recipe site to keep. So much to try - so little time!

    BaBi
    TOM, what are you complaining about? I find more postings on this 'nutty' topic than in any other forum I regularly visit. Not much going on? Whew! ..Babi

    DorisA
    Peanut Butter Cookies

    1 cup peanut butter

    1 cup sugar

    1 egg

    1teaspoon vanilla

    Combine all ingredients and mix well. Drop by level teaspoon on cookie sheet sprayed with Pam. Bake in 375° oven for 8-10 minutes just until they start to brown. Do not over bake.

    NO there is no flour.

    TigerTom
    Doris A,

    I have a number of Peanut Butter recipes.

    Best one came out of a cookie book that I bought in the early 70, which my wife gave away. I miss that recipe although I can no longer eat the Cookies due to Diabetes.

    This one looks easy.

    Tiger Tom

    DorisA
    Not only are they simple but they are like a peanut butter cup. Delicious.

    TigerTom
    Prancer,

    Just looked at that recipe, You had better start on that meal early because it looks a little labor intensive.

    Doris A, Like a Reeces Peanut Butter Cup?

    I like Peanut Butter on bread or in a cookie.

    Tiger Tom

    DorisA
    Yes, something like that only without the chocolate. I wonder if Splenda would work instead of sugar?

    Faithr
    Doris try the splenda I have made cookies (oatmeal) with it that came out good. Use equal amount of splenda as sugar called for in your recipe.

    I love peanuts but when the MD took me off salt I thought, there go my nut snacks. Ah contraire`! I found unsalted roasted peanuts in the shell at my regular grocery-store. So, I can still have my ten peanuts for a snack with my apple or I have peanut butter with celery . I can maintain a fairly low calorie diet if I can have some nuts every day. Peanuts are best. Then cashews. I have heard that cashews are also a legume. Saw nothing about that in the literature TT posted.

    I use to go to the health food store for peanut butter but find Laura Scudder natural smooth is really good and so I use that mostly. Some times I make a mistake and get the crunchy and so then I have a little problem with teeth for that length of time but it is ok...just have to be near a place to wash my mouth out...I Think, though I could be mistaken, that my diabetic grandson and niece (Juvenile Diabetes) both have nuts in their diet. And cookies etc. It is total carbs they watch and of course the white sugar must be carefully watched. I notice that most nuts have a natural sweetness in the mouth as they are chewed. It makes for a pleasant snack. I could live on olives, nuts, avocado's, and grapes. Sounds like a Mediterranean diet to me. fr

    LouiseJEvans
    I like the chunky peanut butter. Every morning I put a dolop of it along with some raisins or dried friut in my oatmeal. I like peanut butter and banana sandwiches. Peanut butter can be used as a thickening agent. I have seen peanuts used similar to any other legume. I can't find it right now, but I have a diet book suggesting peanut butter to help with weight loss.

    TigerTom
    Doris, Faithr,

    I use something called Diabitesweet. It is very good
    has none of the Aspartame in it. The claim on
    the Can is that it can be used in baking and cooking. I haven't
    tried to use it in either, but it very good in my morning
    Coffee and on Cereal. NO aftertaste that one gets in
    Sweet and Low and some of the other Sugar Substitutes.

    I buy it at Walmart.

    Tiger Tom

    Ginny
    Bringing up the rear but have so enjoyed all your stories on the peanut!!

    Mary, growing peanuts is something else, huh? Hahahaha I was a grown woman when I first saw my first peanut off the plant, could hardly take it in!

    Faith, I copied down your Apple Pan Dowdy recipe a long time back and it looks super, when you put on the biscuit stuff on top, you said to leave spaces? So you have really kind of globs on top?

    I've got to try that Sunday, have always wanted to make it!

    I love boiled peanuts and and peanut butter, even the low fat kind, but I could eat myself sick with peanut butter and jelly. Or sugar. Or bananas like Louise. I have not tried raisins, why ever not?

    Doris, those peanut butter cookies look scrumptuous, I must try them, too, Tiger, you have unleashed the COOK in some of us.

    We used to buy peanuts as children to feed the elephants in the zoo, I bet they don't let you do that now.

    Reece's Pieces are super. My kids love them, they’re like little M&Ms but with peanut butter.

    Wasn’t it peanuts that George Washington Carver did his famous work on?

    My husband (whose family grows them) says the peanut plant makes the best hay ever. Of course you don’t see it any more.

    My husband was telling me something really interesting, or so this city girl found it (I grew up in Philadelphia and was just telling him about I had no memory of peanuts save buying bags to feed the elephants in the zoo) and he, however grew up on a farm in Georgia and has been telling me about something that’s no longer done: shocking peanuts.

    Apparently more than 50 years ago, to harvest a peanut on a large or commercial scale for a farmer (versus home use) was a labor intensive process! The farmer first plowed up the peanuts and then dug deep holes and set in tall posts, right in the field.

    Then he put cross boards near the bottom to keep the peanuts off the ground and they pitched the peanut plants around these tall poles and on them until they reached in a huge mound like an Indian hut higher than a ceiling and my husband says (the nuts would be on there, and green) these mounds all over the fields were the prettiest things you’d ever see.

    THEN when they had dried, they’d bring in a combine, and pull off the peanut plants and manually feed them in the combine.

    THEN they’d bring in a hay baler and get up the hay which the combine had spit out.

    My husband says that the old World Books, if you have one, show the old peanut shocks, as that was what they called them, and that, until the modern way of doing it, was the way you’d do it, and he’s 59 and recalls by the time he got big enough to help they had discontinued that labor intensive practice, so it was a pretty good while ago, but he says it sure was pretty standing in the fields, looked like an Indian village.

    And that’s my peanut story for today!

    ginny

    TigerTom
    Ginny,

    Thanks a bunch for your post. Interesting how little we know of something that is so familiar to us.

    I too fed Elephants Peanuts. The Elephant would hold it's Trunk out and one would put a peanut in each nostril (I guess that is what they are called) and the Elephant would push the end of it's Trunk into it's mouth and blow the peanuts down it's Throat. I hated to give up the Peanuts but it was too much fun feeding them to the Elephants.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Pat W,

    forgive me for being such a Clod. I had not noticed that you put the Nut of the Day Graphic by the Schedule. I noticed the graphic but thought it was just a Nut. Wasn't until today when I saw the Peanut that I realized what you had been doing. Talk about looking but not seeing. THANKS very much it has added to the disucssion even if I wasn't aware of it. Don't you just hate it when your creativity goes unnoticed.

    Tiger Tom

    patwest
    Thanks, Tom... But the fun was mine... Looking for a different nut each time... Now I'm off to search for pistachios and/or macadamias.

    Bill H
    Pat, we were posting at the same time.

    Tom, I think this is a good discussion. I've been lurking and LOL at some of the posts I've read.

    I would like to see someone feeding elephants peanuts. I never knew one was put into each nostril. The reason I say I would like to see someone else do it is because you never know when the elephant would give the hand that feeds it yank and blow that hand down its throat.

    But seriously, did any of you hear on the news or read in the paper about the elephant at the Pittsburgh zoo fatally crushing her trainer? The elephant had been quite docile all her zoo life and the trainer had been with her for quite a number of years. Every morning before the zoo opened to the public the trainer would walk sthe same elephant on various paths around the zoo. On one morning walk and without warning the elephant knocked him to the ground and crushed his chest with her head. The other zoo attendants and trainers reported that the victim was never known to have mistreated the animal. It was reported that perhaps captivity may have crazed the poor beast. You know, these creatures of the wild were never meant to be held in captivity.

    Bill H

    Faithr
    Ginny yes globs hahahah or dots, or spoonsful. And my sis said to cook the apples in the pan without the biscuits for awhile then put the biscuits on after the apples are soft and cook another 12 to 15 minutes when topping is done...sounds good to me. My topping is always very brown and well cooked so she could be right. One friend said "Well what makes a pan downdy different from a cobbler?" and I do not know. Isnt a cobbler a one crust pie?

    I have eaten Peanut butter soup!!!I do not have a recipe but an acquainance served it and it was very good. She had sour creme dabbed on top and little oyster crackers and toasted croutons on the bread and butter plate to use as you desired. When I put one of the croutons in and then tasted it I got a swell surprise. She had buttered the bread then put garlic powder and chili powder on it then toasted it and cut into cubes.they were delicious in the soup. I think the soup had a chicken and vegetable broth base but it was like a creamed soup( no thing in it). fr

    TigerTom
    Peanut Butter Soup with Pepper Jelly,

    Here is an interesting recipe for Peanut Butter Soup

    http://www.peanutbutterlovers.com/recipes/soup_jelly.html

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Sate,

    Here is a recipe for Sate with Peanut Sauce.

    http://www.lascruces.com/~greywall/foodfolder/chicken_3/ChiInd.html

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Peanut Sauce,

    On this site is a recipe for authentic Peanut Sauce
    using Real Peanuts, not Peanut Butter. Number of other
    interesting sauces too.

    http://www.asiarecipe.com/indosauce.html

    Tiger Tom

    tigerliley
    Southerners posting here know how to delectable the "boiled and salted Peanut" is to them......Not everyone acquires a taste for them....I did....I quit eating them as I could not seem to quit!! I was amazed when working in the Master Gardener garden to find that after peanuts bloom they then "bury" their heads and the legume is formed under ground......A ground cover called "perennial peanut" has been developed and is quite pretty with a little yellow blossom....hardy too.....no peanuts though.........

    Ann Alden
    Being a huge fan of peanut butter, I will give you my favorite peanut butter sandwiche recipes

    . Using raisin bread, spread peanut butter on one piece of bread and mayonaise on the other. Then top with lettuce. OOOOOHHHHH! Its so good. Another way to make it, is to use:

    Plain brown bread covered with the peanut butter and mayonaise. Sprinkle with raisins, top with lettuce. These are two of my favorite sandwiches.

    Eating peanuts in the shells is a passion for my husband. I have threatened to buy him his own personal vacuum for around his chair. What a mess! But he's happy so that's fine with me!

    TigerTom
    Ann,

    I understand that Charlton Heston is a Huge fan of Peanut Butter too. He slathers it on anything and just about everything he eats. He might like your Sandwich.

    Tiger Tom

    BaBi
    FAITH, I always thought cobbler had only a top crust, usually laid out it strips. Couldn't say about a Pan Dowdy;never actually saw one.

    Does anybody want a recipe for a peanut butter pie that's so rich you can only eat one small slice of it anyway? ...Babi

    Faithr
    Yes Babi we want the rich peanut butter pie.!!! Today I am making TT peanut butter soup recipe he put a link to. It is a wonderful sounding recipe and much like what I thought it must be. I already have all the ingredients in my pantry so will go to town. However, I will have to cut ingredients in half as I don't want to eat it two days in a row. Don't know how it would save but wont try this time.

    I do love peanuts and raisins together and use to make a candy with both. Also I put peanuts in my chocolate chip cookies recipe. My children were the original nut eaters. I could put candy in a dish on the coffee table and even the baby would pass it up but if I put nuts out watch out those three kids would have them scarfed down in just a minute. So I never put party nuts out until I had at least the baby in bed, and the older ones had a share of their own and were told to keep out of the adult party fixins. Which they did. They loved salty food not sweet. In fact that was one reason they didn't like some recipes...to sweet. I rarely made desert for them as they were happy with a piece of melon or nothing at all, maybe a lemon or lime sorbet in the summer. I have a sweet tooth that can be satisfied with a handful of peanuts and raisins or maybe two chocolate kiss' and six or seven cashews. But watch out if I make Babi's pie. I might have to give half or more to my bachelor neighbors to save my "figure" hahahaha (well I had one somewhere).fr

    ps did you see on good morning america where she put peanut butter on some peanut brittle her nephew sent her and ate it last night and now she said"I am operating this morning on a sugar high" I thought it was really funny. fr

    Diane Church
    Babi, don't dare me! I probably could, and WOULD, eat more than one small slice - believe me.

    I do have to share MY version of the ultimate peanut butter sandwich. Interestingly, I thought it was invented one summer at the Jersey shore when a friend was spending a weekend with us. Shortly thereafter me stepfather said that oh no - he had invented it years before. And then many, many years later my own husband claimed HE had invented it.

    Anyway, it's any kind of bread, spread with peanut butter, then topped with sliced or chopped onions, and finally a generous layer of ketchup. I just betcha several of you already know about this one. And, it IS good!

    Bill H
    I love peanut butter especially with saltine crackers or with just about everything else. A friend loved peanut butter and banana sandwiches, however, when I tried this I found it not at all to my liking. Have any of you tried peanut butter and banana sandwiches?

    Bill H

    Diane Church
    Yup, Bill, peanut butter and banana makes a wonderful combination. The banana has to be nicely ripe and you mash it with a fork over the peanut butter, right?

    TigerTom
    Chocolate Covered Peanut Butter Pie

    Here is a recipe for Chocolate Covered Peanut Butter Pie
    Might be a bit rich.

    http://www.wchstv.com/gmarecipes/peanutbutterpie.html

    Tiger Tom

    Prancer
    Tiger Tom

    I'm looking at that recipe --Going to lose my mind for sure!!

    Ohhhh! that looks good.....

    LouiseJEvans
    Peanut butter and banana sandwishes were the favorites of Elvis Presley. He fried his bananas. I learned about the banana and peanut butter sandwiches from some Hawaiian friends of mine when I was in colege. I never fried the bananas. The only fried bananas I know about are the plantains that are popular here in Miami. These are usually green and considered a starch. I have fried them just like potatoes.

    TigerTom
    Peanut Butter Cake,

    Here is a Peanut Butter Cake (with Mashed Banana in it)

    http://www.scdrecipe.com/r_007_00204.html

    Tiger Tom

    GingerWright
    I Love Peanut Buter pie, Peanut Buter with Banana's But then I do have strange taste as I also like scrambled eggs with Chile on them betcha peanuts on that would be good also a must try for me.

    GingerWright
    Just thought that those boiled peanuts might be good in Chile instead of beans.

    LouiseJEvans
    Ginger, I like salsa on my scrambled eggs. Your idea of using peanuts in Chili sounds most interesting and worth a try. There is a chili cook off here in south Florida this weekend. I bet none of those participants ever thought of that. It could be the "secret ingredient."

    GingerWright
    Louise I have never heard of it either as it just came to my mind while reading here. Will you have an entree in the chili cook off?

    isak2002
    Tom This peanut portion of the topic is my fvorite - I think my middle name should be peanut butter...I have two kinds in my fridge, and love a peanut butter and raspberry jam sandwich - tho any flavor of jam or jelly will satisfy - orange marmalade is especially good. Also, I have enjoyed an occasional peanut butter and sweet pickle sandwich....no kidding! To really be a health nut, you can enjoy peanut butter on Health Nut (Orowheat) Bread. It does not get much better than that...unless I take the time to toast the bread and then let the p.b. melt before eating. Yum! Again - I think having this discussioj on nuts has been excellent. Thanks, everyone - I have learned a lot. isak

    TigerTom
    Soup,

    A Peanut-Chili Soup,

    http://recipe-appetizer.com/26/141752.shtml

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Peanut Chili,

    Here is a recipe for Peanut Chili

    http://www.graht.com/recipes/peanut_chili.htm

    Tiger Tom

    Ginny
    Isn't this fun?! Isak I agree, I've learned a lot, too, Diane!@ You don't mean that sandwich!

    Are you serious?

    hahaha I think we need a MOST UNUSUAL SANDWICH contest, I love ketchup on everything that does not move but that's a new one!

    My father had one he thought he invented and I did too till I had a Monte Cristo once at Bennigans, you take two pieces of bread or toast, put jelly on one piece and mustard on the other, put bologna or ham against the mustard and cheese against the jelly and VOILA! You can toast it like a croque monsieur or put powdered sugar on it like a monte cristo.

    Anyway NO peanut or peanut butter on that one@

    Faith I loved your story about your children preferring fruit to sweets, boy with our first son we were perfect parents, the child ate fruit and natural things, and literally did not know what a cookie was, the Kindergarten teacher irritatedly (this was a long time ago) asked me what I thought he should be eating for snack time as he didn't seem to know what their snacks were hahahahaha

    By the time the second one came along 5 years later, unfortunately, ol mom had slipped a little and the poor kid had mom's eating habits, no calls from the kindergarten teacher!

    My oldest makes a super pecan (not peanut) brittle, too.

    PS: in reading your ealier posts I had no idea black walnuts were edible, we have plenty of black walnut and hickory trees here, I think the black walnuts are poisonous to horses (Pat isn't that true?) and you can run a car over them to crack them, but the hickory is the prettiest tree ever made, like a golden sugar maple in the fall, just very distinctive and HUGE.

    Let's have a most unusual sandwich contest, Tiger!! hahahaha

    (I think Diane would win) Who will be first to try her peanut butter/ onion/ ketchup sandwich!??(

    ginny

    GingerWright
    Tiger Tom Thanks for the Peanut Chille reciepe. I wonder how it would be with out smashing the nuts but have those boiled peanuts instead of Beans?

    tigerliley
    actually when I first tasted a boiled peanut it reminded me very much of beans......I 'll just bet they would be very good in a chili.....

    GingerWright
    tigerliley Thanks glad you agree.

    Bill H
    Peanut Butter sandwiches

    Well, I didn't mash the bananas into the peanut butter; I just sliced the banana over the peanut butter that was already spread on the one piece of bread and then put the other slice of bread on top. Maybe that's why I didn't like it. I must try it again some day.

    Bill H

    TigerTom
    Ginny,

    Most unusual Sandwich Contest. You would just be
    encouraging them. You have no idea of some of the Gawd Awful concotions out there. I mean really gross. But, there are those who eat them happily while other around them are gagging.

    It would be intersting if only to find out what some people are willing to eat and what they think is "Good" Hmmmmm. Perhaps that might be a subject for the Curious Minds?

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Chili,

    I had a bowl of Wendy's Chili for dinner. It is about the only Chili I have these days as my wife has not made a pot of Chili in some years. Hers is great. However, I can only eat a mild Chili these days so Wendy's is it.

    Tiger Tom

    Diane Church
    Oh Ginny, I kid you not. Try it! - peanut butter, onions, and ketchup.

    TigerTom
    Boiled Peanuts

    I did a Google search on Boiled Peanuts.

    Seems simple to make: A bag of unroasted Peanuts in the shell, salt and water. Fill pot with water, dump in Peanuts, add salt and boil Hell out of them for several hours.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Pistachio's and Macadamia's Next.

    Leave Peanuts and on to the exotic ones.

    Tiger Tom

    GingerWright
    Tiger Tom After boiling them there peanuts then Make Chille with no beans.

    TigerTom
    Pistachio's

    Some info on Pistachio's

    http://www.mycustompak.com/healthNotes/Food_Guide/Pistachios.htm

    Tiger Tom

    MarkS214
    I am going down stairs and drown my self in peanuts and peanut butter...Rusty's Paw..

    TigerTom
    Macadamia Nut

    More that you ever wanted to know about the Macadamia

    http://www.coopersnuthouse.com/maclib/themacadamiastory.html

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Rusty Dog,

    You can post what you want about Peanuts, I am just setting up for tomorrow.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Muffins

    Some Pineapple, Macadamia Nut Muffins

    http://www.lanierbb.com/recipes/data/bk719.html

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Good Night,

    It is late (for me) and I am tired of fighting with my ISP. So, good night. More tomorrow on these nuts.

    Tiger Tom

    Ann Alden
    Before we leave the peanuts and peanut butter, I have always enjoyed slathering a banana with peanut butter for breakfast. Along with a glass of orange juice, its the perfect health food. After all, if you look at the contents of the many sandwiches and other concoctions here, they are really very healthy. My son had a stomach problem while very young so he had to be sure and have a decent and filling breakfast before leaving the house. Unfortuneately, he became tired of eating bacon and eggs so I started offering him the peanut butter on a banana plus orange juice often. It was certainly easy to fix. :<) And, he still eats it when he is in a hurry in the morning because there's no cooking involved and not many dishes to wash either.

    When we lived in Georgia, I tried the boiled peanuts that are sold along the backroads every weekend and just couldn't get used to them but the suggestion of trying them in chili sounds good so maybe I will try that. They are, after all is said and done, just another legume or bean!

    We used to buy the most delicious cookies at an Italian food store in Torrance,CA which contained macedamia nuts and choclate chunks. Makes my mouth water just to type this! They were so good!

    I have been looking for the substitute ingredient amounts on the Splenda and Fructose packages. According to the Fructose, you use about 2/3 or 3/4 of the amount of sugar but with Splenda its much less. How much less I haven't discovered. We have a dear friend living here in Columbus(from Georgia) who is a diabetic and I am going to give his wife the name of TT's sweetner from Walmart. Diabitesweet, is that right? She used Fructose for a long time but I think he had to even stop using that and go to the artificial sweetner.

    Ann Alden
    I was perusing another site for peanuts when "google" brought up this recipe and thought that those who watch their sugar intake but like cookies and peanut butter might want to have this recipe. Its for a cookie, "Peanutbutterapple"! Sounds good to me. Peabutapp

    And here's the Splenda site with recipes and substitution amounts. "http://www.splenda.com/"

    I have tried(many times) to put the site's link here but it won't track so am just putting up the URL for anyone who might want to look at it. Also, here's a link to a site that warns against using Splenda(sucralose). SucraloseSafety

    TigerTom
    Ann,

    Diabetisweet, right.

    Tell your friend that I am Diabetic and this product is Sugar free, and does not have any Saccrine or Aspatame, none of that stuff.

    My Blood Sugar count is way down using this product. Only time it is up much is when I eat something that has a fairly large amount of Sugar in it. Ask your friend to give it a try for a while. As I say, NO aftertaste at all. Sweetens but not overly sweet like saccrine. One cup of Diabetisweet is equal to one cup of Sugar so you can see that it is not one of those overbearing sweetners.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Ann,

    Here is some info on Diabetisweet:

    http://www.diabeticproducts.com/press_detail.cfm?prid=7

    To find out more do a Google search

    Tiger Tom

    Faithr
    I appreciate the information on diabetisweet which I take it is spleda by another name. My grandson has juvinile diabetis and was very happy to use spleda as part of his diet adjustment. He has been taking care of his own health since he was 10 years old and came home from diabetic kids camp. He went every year and became a counsler . He is in his thirties now and doing well for a brittle diabetic. He has to test test test. The thing I learned that he is not the same every day or even morning to afternoon depending on lots of things like activity, diet, his medication, and even how much water he drinks when he is active can be a factor in a change in blood sugar. He makes little or no comment about his condition and when he comes to dinner he just takes care of his own servings.

    I have never eaten a pistachio nut but have had the ice cream. Macadamiums I love but find them a little more oily than I like. My favorite of the exotic nuts is the brazil nut. I really should try pistachio's. faith

    TigerTom
    Faithr,

    Diabetisweet is NOT Spleda by another name. Different product entirely.

    Tiger Tom

    TigerTom
    Recipe,

    Here is a Recipe that includes Pistachio Nuts
    Check out the sidebar on the left, lots of recipes
    there.

    http://www.channel3000.com/recipes/1239930/detail.html

    Tiger Tom

    Katie Sturtz
    I've been lurking today in this whole long and wonderful nut discussion and would like to add a note or two...

    ANN...those round white candies with the hazelnut inside are called Moth Balls where I come from, and they are still being sold. Try a good candy store.

    If you are diabetic, I suggest only fresh ground or Smucker's peanut butter. All the other brands have sugar added. Why is a mystery to me. Yeah, I know...Smucker's has to be stirred and then refrigerated, but a little exercise is good for you!

    The best, and only, peanut butter sandwich is made with white bread, peanut butter, and sliced Kosher dill pickles. Period. Nothing worse than something sweet with peanut butter. Oh...I have used sliced olives in a peanut butter sandwich and that is very tasty, too. Also bacon!

    The trouble with Pistachios around here is that I tend to make a meal of them. They're worse than eating peanuts, I think...I can never eat just one!

    This has been a super discussion, TIGER TOM! You wouldn't believe how many things I've added to my Bookmarks! Thanks!

    Love...Katie

    BaBi
    So many posts just since yesterday!

    Okay, here's my Peanut Butter Pie, but I'm following it with a recipe for a coconut pound cake that my aunt used to make for her diabetic husband. It's scrumptious.

    Peanut Butter Pie

    Make a graham cracker crust; bake @ 425 for 9 min.

    Filling:3oz. cream cheese, softened       2 t. vanilla 
    1 c. confectioners sugar, sifted          1&1/2c. chilled heavy cream 
    1/4 c. milk                               3T chopped unsalted peanuts 
    1 c. smooth peanut butter


    Beat cheese c/ sugar 'til light & fluffy. Beat in milk, peanut butter & vanilla. Beat the cream. Stir in 1/3; fold in the remainder. Turn into shell. Sprinkle w/ peanuts. Chill, covered, at least 4 hours.


    COCONUT POUND CAKE

    6 eggs, separated        1/2 t. almond ext. & 1/2 t. coconut ext. 
    1 c. shortening (Crisco)      3 c. cake flour 
    1/2 c. oleo                   1 c. milk 
    3c sugar substitute           2 c. grated coconut


    Preheat oven to 300 deg. Grease 10" tube pan. Separate eggs; put whites in large bowl until of room temp. At hi-speed, mix yolks c/shortening and oleo 'til well blended. Gradually add sugar until light & fluffy. Add extracts and beat 'til blended. At low speed beat in flour alternately with milk. Add coconut, beat 'til well blended. Beat egg whites 'til stiff; fold into batter. Bake two hours or until toothpick comes out clean. Let cool in pan 15 min. 12-16 servings.


    Enjoy ...Babi

    TigerTom
    Katie,

    Nice of you to post today. Hope you have bookmarked all of the Recipe Links so that you can go over them later. Many of the links have sidebars with other recipes and Links to other sites.

    Tiger Tom

    Borealis
    Tiger Tom: you thought it was quiet in here? It has taken me quite a while to catch up on back posts right from a few days ago when Claude van Damme was trying to beat the Guiness records - will he be remembered for such an accomplishment?

    Then I walked on by and found discussion on chestnuts but there was no open fire to roast them. But I did want to suggest that anyone who ever has chestnuts available around Thanksgiving should give some thought to using them in stuffing in the turkey - absolutely delicious if you have the patience to cut the hard outer skin and boil till soft and then peel the outer skin off. Then chop them and add them to the stuffing mix.

    FaithR: you mentioned butternuts - seem to remember eating them one time and they were delicious. I did a quick search to find where they could be bought online but "butter nuts" are words used for all nut butters. I think it is something like shea butter used in some other countries.

    Walnuts went right by me - missed out on that all together and those are my most favorite for walnut bread - very good for you and you can make it with very low amounts of sugar.

    Thanks Tiger Tom - this has been a very pleasant site to visit

    Edith

    MaryZ
    Great job! Tom. Thanks for this interesting and different session.

    Faithr
    Edith if I am right butternuts are sort of like English walnuts, though not as tasty and I think native to the east coast USA. That is where Hickory nuts are too I think.

    I have had chestnut stuffing at holidays in the long time ago. I remember when we read about all the chestnut trees dying and being pulled out. That was 60 years ago. Now they are making a comeback.

    The lore of the nut is endlessly fascinating. I spend a lot of time in the links TT has put up and my notepad has really come into use. By the way Tom thanks for the sugar substitute tips ..I have it straight now. I dont use them but some in the family do. faith

    TigerTom
    Mary Z, Faithr,

    We are rounding the turn comin up to the wire Still we have a bit of time left to discuss whatever we want on the various Nuts.

    Tiger Tom

    Ginny
    Babi, a fabulous peanut butter pie recipe and intriguing cocoanut cake also, have printed them both out, many thanks!

    Can't believe the shuttle is in trouble!!

    Gosh!!

    Wonderful job, Tiger, very proud of you all,

    ginny

    MaryZ
    Sorry, Tom - I had it in my head yesterday (Friday) that today (Saturday) was going to be Sunday. Y'all understand that, don't you. Please tell me that you do.

    Mary

    Prancer
    Mary Z (zwyram)

    Don't feel badly. I have no idea WHAT day it is! LOL

    I guess it doesn't matter with a great discussion going on.

    TigerTom
    All,

    Thank you for your participation in this discussion.

    I hope that you have learned a bit about the health and nutrititonal values of edible Nuts.

    I also hope that you have bookmarked all of the links I have posted. Many of them contain more than just one recipe or bit of information. Lots of them have sidebars and links that contain recipes or information.

    Again, Thank you for making this discussion so enjoyable.

    Contine, if you want with whatever you may wish to add.

    I think that with the events of the Day that there probably will not be much interest in posting here.

    I hope you join tomorrows new subject on Curious Minds.

    Tiger Tom

    Prancer
    Tiger Tom

    Thank you very much for a most interesting and informative discussion.

    I certainly have saved all of the information and am acting on a lot of it.

    Today's events are indeed very sad. I am watching. Cannot believe my eyes.

    jeber
    Just found this discussion this evening, most interesting, and I look forward to trying the recipe sites. Just want to add that in this country, a butter nut isn't a nut at all, but a type of squash!

    DorisA
    My grandfather used to have a nut that he called a butternut. It looked like an elongated black walnut. It was hard to crack and pick similar to a walnut but had a different taste. Is that like the nuts you refer to as butternuts?

    Bill H
    Mary Z, I know the feeling– what day is it?

    Tom, I enjoyed your discussion and reading the many posts from the readers. The two weeks seem to fly past when something good is happening.

    Bill H

    LouiseJEvans
    Yesteday when I went to the grocery store, I passed l by the soy nuts and brought soeme home. Soy beans are legumes but some one has figured out how to roast them and even flavor them and they become nuts. I got acquainted with them when I stayed in the hospital with a sick friend. As I left for the hospital I grabbed the bag of soynuts. That and whatever I could find to drink was all I had for a couple of days. The ones I have now are apple flavored.

    TigerTom
    Louise,

    You can find a commercialy made Soy Nut Butter (Looks like Peanut Butter) on Supermarket shelves in the Peanut Butter and Jelly Section.

    Tiger Tom

    patwest
    This Nutty Discussion is filled to overflowing. It is now Read Only

    We need to open a new one ..

    Click here. Curious Minds ~ The Valentine That Got Away!